I dated this girl when I was kind of younger around 19-20 years while we were still dating she travelled out of Nigeria (to Libya) without informing me, infact without informing any of her family members according to what I found out. After like Three years I, got her message on Facebook requesting for my number (I was in the University then) I gave her the number and we started chatting.
She pleaded that I should forgive her that she still loved me and all. We got along real good because she really changed, more matured and fresh. The girl I was dating in school then got to know and we had issues. The girl picked her number and called her to leave me alone but instead of living me alone she blasted the girl and even involved one of her friends then they insulted the girl and told her that she met me first and the girl should leave me alone. She was working and was always sending me money then and promised to come home soon.
She also confessed to me that she had a baby for one guy there but they were not married. To cut it short she came to Nigeria around 2018 and brought many things for me and we continue our bleeping spree. (I got an STD through her then). Then I had to go for service (NYSC) in 2019 we were apart again, unfortunately while I was serving I got to know from her close friend that that she was cheating (the friend wanted me too) Infact I was told that she was constantly sleeping in the guy's house.
I told her on phone that I knew about how she was cheating, she begged and ask me to forgive her (that was 2019).
Fast forward after service I stayed back in Abuja because I got a job. To cut it short I got to know that she was pregnant for another guy in Nigeria, she hid it for me, she wouldn't send me her full pictures but she later told me when it was obvious she couldn't hide it no more, infact the guy wanted to marry her, she told me she wasn't going to marry the guy that the pregnancy was just a mistake, I personally convinced her to stay with the guy since she told me herself that the guy liked her so much and was taking care of her and her first baby. Then this girl said she would stay with him on the condition that I would still be dating her. I was shocked and surprised I refused and told her that I will never be involved in such an illicit affair.
While this girl was heavily pregnant she was sending nude pictures and was constantly begging me that we should continue having sex, it continued till early 2021 even after the guy engaged her, I refused I blocked her on Facebook where she was sending the nudes to, she started sending it to my WhatsApp and I blocked her there too.
Now she has given birth and I am presently In the state where she resides with her husband, (that's where I am from too) I don't know how she found out that I am around and she has been calling me still begging for sex.
I wanted to report her to her brother and sister who were aware of our relationship back then but a friend asked me not to report her, infact some of them are telling me to give her what she wants (the bad guys that I have) Lol I have warned her to desist from making such request but she is still requesting to just see my face, as at 2 days ago she was still begging to see me, I told her I was going back to my base yesterday maybe that's why she hasn't called me yet.
I am a young man of 28 years and one of the vow I have vowed is never to sleep with another man's wife except I am not aware that she is married.
I can snatch careless men girlfriends but not to sleep with another man's wife or fiancee.
I fear karma.
I am sharing this to tell men to be very careful with the kind of women they call wife. Her attitude makes me have phobia for marriage I swear.
A married young lady with a loving husband still begging an ex for sex is too bad and I feel sad for her husband who might be beating his chest that his wife will never cheat on him.
James4358: Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.
Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..
Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.
He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..
How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.
Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.
Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!
hahahahaha very funny ...that ur papa self no well.. so instead of him to help his poor son out financially na debit him wan put you through. Chai yeye spirit. My dear stand ur ground joooor..person way don die don die period.
Doctors in the house, abeg make una educate me more..
When it comes to your health or diet, doctors and researchers advise/encourage us to drink lot and lot of water because of the health benefit it gives, rather than in take of coke and sugary substance...
I tried putting this advice into practice so many times. First thing in the morning after devotion or before stepping out for work, I make sure I drink at least 2 glass cup of water..
But one thing I have come to notice is that, after drinking enough water before stepping out, the rate at which I use the gent (urinate) is quiet higher than when I don't even drink water in the morning.. Within 1hr, I would have make use of the gent like 3-4 times, till like 12pm before I return back to norm..
So I began to wonder, is something wrong with my system or do I need to go for any check up or that's how it suppose to be
I tried making some findings on google, but I could not lay my hands on something convincing enough.
So Please doctors in the house, educate me more, Am I in good shape or I still need a medical check up??
I know se some fellaz go still yab me, it is allow..
ebukajay184: Nigerian Instagram comedian, Obotuke Timothy, popularly known as Sirbalo Comedy has taken to the platform to show off an 8-bedroomm apartment he built for his mother, IgbereTV reports.
The comedian narrated how his mother will always come to where he was working as a bar man between 2014-2015 to pray with him.
Sirbalo who noted that his mother will always end the prayer with "one day I know you will make me proud", stated that her prayer is now working.
ezenwaez: All Npower Batch C applicants are to check their NASIMS portal for their deployment status, on clicking on the deployment tab, an Npower Batch C applicant should be able to see his or her place of primary assignment, entitled monthly stipend and his or her PPA letter for immediate download (see attached screenshot).
Please after downloading the PPA/deployment letter, you are to take it to your assigned supervisor at your place of primary assignment not exceeding three days from the date of printout.
Your assigned supervisor will screen your documents and tick the accepted or rejected box, if you are accepted, you are to reupload the acceptance letter to your NASIMS portal again, this is the process, please when going to your PPA please go with all the documents you uploaded on the Npower NASIMS portal. Please note, if the Npower programme is not available in your local government area, then choose another program and exercise patience and keep checking your NASIMS portal for updates on your deployment status.
Mine keep saying, something went wrong. I don refresh the page tire and nothing is coming up..
Hassan88: Hello Family, please a friend needs your help with DCSL/ ICPC recruitment exercise. He received a message from the above body scheduling an online test but was referred to his mail for details about the test. According to him, this is a re- scheduling test. But he hasn't received any mail as regard the details of the test. Did anyone receive this message too and yet to receive the mail?
Please, he needs your take on this. And any possible solution?
dre11: Kano Islamic Police Arrested Us In Our Hostels, Conducted HIV, Pregnancy Tests On Us—Bayero University Student Narrates Ordeal With Hisbah I laff in greek...
I have a 2015 ford ranger truck and discovered yesterday that after taking it to the mechanic to fix it(little,intermittent rough idle),it has been consuming a lot of fuel.
Like I just jeep seeing the range on the screen go down so fast without actually covering an inch close to that distance it displays.
He losed the nozzle,claim he took it for "servicing" and this is what I get.
And funny enough the intermittent rough idle is still there. Please advise me how I can fix this.
Ekomatrix1: I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.
she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.
Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?
Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness but no improvement .
Rozcol: Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him
There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.
I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.
Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?
yes you are very selfish ,petty infact stupid and foolish..
southniyikaye: On this note, I give it up for the ibos.. Go to ladipo, then you will see things like this. Those girls even come to help their brothers in the shop during weekends.. Na that broda o, broda o, the way they call it, na hin dey sweet me pass
Easyincome24: My Husband paid N580K for my Bride price and refused to help my family members ~ Nigerian Lady
A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family members after paying almost N580k bride Price.
The story was shared by a twitter user identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.
She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”
“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”
“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”
“Ever since then we have been living like strangers in the house, he doesn’t talk to me, he has just been keeping to himself, and I have never seen him this way before not even in our 2 years of courting.
“Please our mummies and daddies, kindly advise me on what to do to save the situation, I am in between my husband and my family”.
Basalt: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening to all my fellow Nigerians. It's me Basalt, the guy that doesn't mince words, and today I will be talking about the ways foreign students who study in Europe (especially in Germany) can still save millions of naira even before finishing their studies. Believe me it is not really easy but most of our lifestyles are making it even more difficult.
1. Stay in the student hostel. The number one thing eating deep in our pocket is accommodation. I know of a friend that pays over €500 every month in accommodation alone. Student hostels are usually subsidized for students, and you save more money when you pay less for rent.
2. Stay away from public health insurance if you are above 30yrs and you are not working a full-time job unless you have medical issues. If you are working full-time in Germany, public health insurance is compulsory. Your firm pays half and you will pay half, that is understandable but in a situation where you are not working full-time, you will pay almost €200 alone as insurance for someone who is above 30yrs old. If you minus such a big amount, minus your rent. Wetin Remain?
3. Avoid girls that are too demanding, if you were single before coming to Germany, then date only girls that are here with you in Germany, most girls in Germany work and make their own money. So they will never be a pest to you and you will have a physical companion, not a phone companion that always calls to demand money. What most girls will do is this. First of all, they try to establish a relationship with you for months by chatting and asking you how you are and showing concern, then they move into the phase of milking you dry with numerous financial problems. Avoid such girls like plagues. Once they start demanding, start ignoring.
4. Stop sending money home unless for an important project or for an emergency. You can always use the excuse of being a student or Corona virus to prevent some unnecessary begging. Don't give shishi unless saving of life is involved or you are sending money to buy land , build a house etc. If you keep sending money to everyone that demands, you will always go broke.
5. Never stay too long without working. Europe is not a place to live without working. If the semester is on, you will probably be too busy with studies to work full time, get a part-time job or a mini job to support yourself, and pay bills otherwise you will have no option than to spend the ones you saved before.
6. Stop buying expensive gadgets on loan. Buying properties on loan gives you a false illusion that you have arrived when you don't have anything. You buy the latest iPhone on credit, you buy E-bicycle on credit, you buy big plasma TV on credit, you buy Macbook on credit, you buy a screen touch laptop on credit, some even buy a car on credit as a foreign student (though mostly not Nigerian students) . When you buy all these things on credit, you will live a life of debt, and hardly will you make savings because you are practically working for your debts.
7. Avoid unnecessary parties and celebrations. When you organize parties for almost everything, you spend money you should have saved. Remember you are just a student, you don't have a professional job yet, you can still be kicked back to Nigeria when you fail to get a job within 18 months of graduation (God forbid).
8. Stop posting exortic pictures on facebook. People in Nigeria have that mindset that whoever goes on vacation is rich, they have the mindset that whoever enter aeroplane or even eat chicken is rich. So when you post such mouth watery pictures on facebook with nice environment coupled with your abroad induced freshness, you will create an illusion that you have arrived and you will only attract known and strange people begging in your dm. So you can avoid such disturbance by staying on a low key online.
please in the part of accommodation, I heard that students accommodation is more expensive in uk. How true is this ?
CatANDratTHEORY: Swears!!! Our mothers deserve the very best of what we've got. Raising a child is no mean feat. It grieves my spirit that my mum isn't alive to witness what the son has grown to be. Cherish your mum if you still have one.
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but not to sleep with another man's wife or fiancee.