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Some Old fashioned Boys are here busy Claiming Class giving attention to irrelevant issues

ModelX:
Wait, what work do you do that you still feel the need to demand? Filling Station attendant?
Did your parents not teach you that it is wrong to beg and harass people for money? Why are you not content this girl?

At least na work, which 1 is ur gf doing? All u ppl kno how to do is attack ladies, don't go and work. If I don't work u will call me lazy, now that I am working u say na filling station attendant. Smh so ppl that do it are not human beings, May God help you. First of all, before u attack me, Go and ask your Mom if she never demanded anything from your father before he married her. Then if she says no, you can come back and attack me! That's why marriages don't last these days because u ppl make small problems big, and big problems small.

oglalasioux:
Where do you think your 94% parasitic Nigerian ladies are working? Has it occurred to you that ladies hold better jobs in Nigeria than guys? So you think ladies from wealthy homes don't demand? Your replys are beginning to sound plastic. I'm beginning to doubt your claims.

Leave this Oga oo, he will soon enter one chance... see what he sed, look for ladies that are working in multinationals, really? Are you trying to run Away from responsibilities? I pity you, I don tell you, marry first then you will know . The transmission u will receive ehn, u will need transfusion

modernWays:
I detest guys who usually complains of spending on girls or being taking for maga. A sensible guy will cut his coat according to his size, there should be a retracement point while dealing with women because all of them do demands in one way or the other.

For that guy shouting "28yrs old upward, independent working class bla bla" just pray you find the one that is desperate for marriage. By the time she drop atomic bomb of bill like 300k at once, you will know they can consume what a broke young lady can demand for two years at once.

Do you know how much these working class independent ladies spent on Aso ebi, their hairs, shoes, bags, makeup etc alone? They might not be asking you for anything until it is time to pay their rent, send money to their mums, pay school fees of their sibblings etc. This is one of the reason you hardly see working class rich women dating or marry broke guys.

Just be smart and spend what will not ruin you down financially, that is all.

I'm telling you, he is just making mouth... maybe the said lady is just pretending until he marries her and then she will reveal her true colors. Abi he want to tell me he knows when she's pretending? Dem nor dey brag for woman issues Cs we can pretend for Africa. Me I work but I still need my man to give me sometimes when i ask. It's when it becomes excessive that's when it's bad

Elder001:
Yes.. you're right to a very large degree but there are still ladies out there that aren't parasitic.

Especially ladies in state capitals..

I used to have this same perspective of yours till I upgraded to matured 28+ ladies and finally my fiancé.

Ladies above 28years are more focused and more responsible.
they've many things to offer in relationships.. only few demand unnecessarily.

No be fiancé you call am, Oga Marry first and see the change in her... Marry her first, I hope you don't come here and cry foul

Elder001:
you lie. try dating working class ladies that are above 27/28 years old.
They won't make unnecessary demands from you.

the problem with you guys is; the preference for young girls"
you guys should note that these young girls are still dependent and many are from poor homes.

Brother try not to be too smart, working class ladies that are 28 and above that do not demand are desperate and they just don't want to lose their man and that's y they pretend not to be dependent. Even you as a man, it gets to a point if she doesn't ask, you will be bothered... let's be honest with ourselves, it's when it becomes excessive that's when it's a problem.

xreal:
Handsome and Beautiful.

My problem here is how on earth can a man wear such a lovely and fitting suit and find it hard to wear socks?

Wishing them a Happy Home.

He wore... ever heard of invisible low cut ankle socks It is the new trend for men

Youcharia:
Seen what you looking for yet??

Are you still in search if roomates??

No dear, got an apartment already

Am I the only one that saw " I didn't not" ? They will blame it on Typo error, pls lemme comman be going as I am not feeling fine.... see am, dem never touch am, e Don dey change mouth, Mr I didn't not

Josh44s:
80% of Nigerians both Educated and Illiterate are Naturally senseless. He asked a question and I can’t believe Nigerians sees it as his opinion. Am tired of this country, it’s citizens and everything, even the air breathe in Nigeria tire me. I am just tired abeg.

I tire too sef

Worth the Read but enough of the talking, it's time to take actions because complaining will not help us. More Job opportunities should be created in order to encourage the young ones and prove to them that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Youths struggle to go to school and then graduate with second class upper only for you to be searching for jobs up and down. Our leaders are also not helping matters, they are making life too difficult for the average Nigerian. Most of our Young Ones are traveling abroad because the system is encouraging over there but here in Nigeria, it's a different scenario.
The reason why all the youths have probably not gone into yahoo yet is due to our knowledge of the fact that it is wrong but there are some times where life beats values out of you that you are left with no choice than to do the unbearable.

Let me ask y'all condemning yahoo boys, have u walked up to any of them, asking them how they got there? Or have you ever preached to them or procured solution to them? Have you given them Job and they did not take? So please let's pause and think, it's not about criticism but now we have to find solutions to this problem. It's just like you finding out that your son is doing drugs and all you do is condemn him, you are not helping him but rather you are giving him more reasons to do drugs more.

What am I saying in essence? If they decide to do yahoo today, let's put the blame on ourselves, let's not shift blames now, you contributed, I contributed, the government, our leaders contributed to all of this. So instead of shifting blames, let's devise a means to provide jobs for as many people we can. I thank God for some Entrepreneurs that are making it possible to see that businesses are established in order to employ people that are unemployed and frustrated. Change Starts From You and I, Never Forget That. If you know any yahoo yahoo person around you, suggest ideas to them on how they can make money, assist them with start ups if you can. Then we can kno the unserious ones that wants to spend their lives in club 24/7 popping bottles without working and it's left for them to decide if they want to end up in evil all their lives.

Show Love, Enough of this Hate Speeches, let's Spread Love. Let's try our best to Make Nigeria Great Again. It's not by violence, it's not about circulating hate Speeches, it's not about cursing or swearing at each other but it's all about Showing Love. Nigeria will be Great Again!

Abeg these people should take several seats, he asked a question, he wasn't justifying anything or u people didn't do English in school? He was asking questions, and he is not allowed to ask questions? Why are Nigerians hypocrites? u people are just looking for where to pour your frustrations, u didn't vote him, God used you to vote him in and he has won and he is living his life and he is entitled to his opinions. Nowadays all we see on social media is one hate speech or the other. Y'all shld take a chill pill Abeg, the dude is living his life, u shld live yours as well

Which kain Yama Yama nonsense is this? Wat will she na do if she sees Davido? Miracle to me is not a Celeb so I won't even mention his name

Which 1 is "they was pulling on it" again na... na wa for Nigerians oo, our forming no be hear oo, we even speak English pass people wey bring am

kolawoleibukun1:
I agree with you on some points until the insults got in the way. you do not cry a victim while attacking. If you are different from what I stated above, then speak for yourself only. because with a defensive attitude like yours you sounded like a slay mama and you must check your own life and evaluate your standard. I will say it again, Nigerian girls are bad. they are not good expecially to nigerians who come from yanky. they are gold diggers.

if u read my comment you would have noticed that I said the average nigerian girl. I am not attracting the wrong company because I have seen it all. if this ur comment is your level of intelligence, you are below average. you are worse than the people i called the average nigerian girl.

i would have appreciated your comment but mixing saliva with words gets no appreciation from me. enjoy ur day

You never said Average, stop lying, you sed "All"... you can go back and re read your post.

Nigerian Girls are Bad, there u go again, generalizing and later you will say u referred to the average Nigerian Girl. Do u have a problem using the word "Some"? You talked about 9ja girls running after yankee Nigerian guys, what is yahoo yahoo? Are Nigerian guys not running after white ladies overseas, so does that make all Nigerian Men Useless? Just Say u Want to bash 9ja Girls for no just reason and then I'd understand, not trying to defend your self.

You have seen it all Hehe I laugh in Spanish, this shows how proud you are. Please come down from your high horse, nobody has seen it all, so quit being puffy and arrogant

Well, I see you are pained by some of my statements and you are just trying to be defensive and

lastly, you accused me of mixing saliva with words (whatever that meant) , if you look at your responses, you'd observe you ended up doing same to me

let him that think he stand be careful lest he fall. Before you accuse someone of doing something, you have to ensure that you are not guilty of the same act. Bye Mr!

kolawoleibukun1:
better for him oh. all these nigerian girls na pack of liabilities dem be. you go buy fake hair, fake nails, fake eyeliner fake lipstick and fake make up. high shoes etc still dey lack confidence. grown up woman go day nothing day her head. u cannot sit and have intelligent conversation with an nigerian babe if no be gossip or pouring out of frustration or talking silly. ashawo for abroad are more conversational and intelligent than the average 9ja babe.

someone who is consumed in ghosted beauty that exist in her mind only. competitive spirit in fashion and nonsense. when u carry 9ja babe go house go phork, after phork wetin day the head, naaatin. she go day look you day calculate your move. express yourself na waya. express ur feelings. fuen. e no day. some just like natural sexdoll way day eat food instead to recharge am.

if u day abroad better marry oyinbo live ur life go o. myny of my guys don go marry problem for 9ja. the babes still day phork their old guys theyir eyes na just to use u achieve their goals. once dem come abroad dem don change skin. dem won behave like oyinbo.

na dem go first insult u say na chinko. say na old woman u marry. say the oyibo girl no get character. say u day wash undies. na dem oh. but if u carry dem go abroad u go still do all those things for them before them kill you finally oh.

nigerian girl go marry person but she day find wetin she go thief from her husband go give her brothers. and her brothers day find wetin dem go thief from her go give their girlfriends. very useless.

na tinubu brown teeth i blame for all these

All the Nigerian girls With all due respect sir, speak for your wife/gf and your friends as well... possibly with this kind of mindset, u cldnt have kept a good lady, that was the reason you were always attracting slay mamas to yourself since that's what you are describing up der.

Secondly, for you to attract such ladies that cannot imitate a convo after sex or anywhere, you should check yourself because you attract what you are. So mayb you are attracting the wrong company to yourself if not u ought to know that there are still some reputable ladies out there and reputable men are getting married to them on a regular.

Thirdly, you need to Check your life and evaluate your standards. You can't plant corn and expect banana? It's not possible. In other words, u can't expect a good or interesting lady when you have a lot of mind renewal to do. So let's start with you renewing your mindset about ladies, and let's see if you'd still stick to this myopic conclusion of yours.


There are girls that do such things you mentioned, quite alright but you got my attention when you generalized. How would you feel if I wrote "All Men Are Dogs" ?? If you were a "dog", U'd probably not be offended Cs u are, but if you are not, you will be hurt and that's what I just did. Hope u get my point at the end of the day and have a lovely night rest!

Tobyarab:
This your observation no follow. how are these two events related?

Only lagosians can relate and if u are in Lagos and still can't relate, it means you were not on the island on Friday evening. It's simple!

U needed to see how Lagos was very quiet yesterday and peaceful. There was no traffic on my way back from work and I was amazed. Does it mean that most of the peeps in Lagos are into one shady stuff or the other? Only God will help us all!

themanderon:
It's sad that we have now developed into a nation of criminals. Just look at the way people are condemning the guy for saying the truth.

Nobody is condemning him, we are only concerned about his safety. I hope you remember what happened to Tuface These yahoo boys can go to any lengths to secure their investments, so he shld have done it in secret

Proverbs 10:14 and I quote " A wise man holds his tongue. Only a fool blurts out everything he knows; that only leads to sorrow and trouble" ... I have nothing else to say! What stopped him from giving the info to them privately Or those of you supporting him, will you do such or will u even let any of your loved one do such?

Nigeria is a brutal country, and u have to understand that not everything u see u talk especially this our new generation of twitter users, be careful what you say and how you say it because if you get hurt tomorrow, all these ppl supporting you will be nowhere to be found.

Our politicians are stealing money but go and dare open your mouth if they won't deal with you and dat was why whistleblowing was introduced. Snitching is normally done privately and not in public or were you doing "Eye Service" Patriotic Nigerian, I'm not supporting anything oo but like someone said, u that u are exposing ppl, be sure that you have clean hands because the internet never forgets. Y'all be Wise!!!

Sound Sultan sang " I want to be like Moses, show my people them to the promise land but then I notice something, people wey try am don dey underground"

Be Wise!!!!

Brains1990:
Learn how to read correctly pls. If you have problems with English, I can be of help.

Please help analyze your response in relation to the post English Teacher

Barzinime:
But who are you talking to?
You think the guy in question is on NL ....lol

I tire ooo... all these NL users can make person laugh... chai!!!

Some people above me are taking it Personal
Is it ur moni?
Ur moni is it?
It is ur moni?
Moni is it ur?

comrChris:
you too where did you see nude photos? Or you want to add your own too

There you go, just incase u cldnt find it... remember the part she sed small dick!?? Since she has not seen it physically it has to be via pictures and then the man sed it too ( Exchanged pictures)

comrChris:
you too where did you see nude photos? Or you want to add your own too

Re read again... This time slowly and make sure you read the man's part too

princfred:
Come back go do wetin?

My post was only made for Matured Minds... so I'm deeply sorry if you can't relate

franchasng:
lol...divorce is the best thing to do o....if u fight some men, they will run and leave the house for you forever, men now have become nomads like Fulani herdsmen...some ran away from their home for over 10 years and haven't returned and not planning to, so better handle them wisely o....especially the ones that have small money in their bank akant

Na me nor come get money Hian!! I nor dey fear oo, just like omotola can never be scared if her husband leaves her because men dey queue...

if not we just want to do it God's way and say for the sake of kids and God, let's just stay through thick and thin, if not, I'm not afraid! Make him run na, dem no go tell am before him come back.

franchasng:
No need to query him na, divorce him, makes it simple and short

Divorce ke I won't oo but the thing I wee do to him ehn, before he will buy Porsche to comman beg he will not know

Brains1990:
The nigga didn't marry you cus apparently u ain't fucking good in bed, as compared to the lady who ran to the altar with ur boo.

Oh, so u just realized that he is ugly? When u were speaking in tongues under the patronage of moaning during raw sex, u never knew he had a small dick?

Women are shameless motherfuvkas.

Oga where did you see that they slept together or you just want to add your own they have never seen each other before. They've just been texting and sending nude photos to each other

Girls stop presenting yourself as sex objects... even by her profile pic u will know she loves Sex, u can't win a man with sex, it's beyond that! Men will use you as Sex slaves and they will still go back to the woman they truly love because sex is not the only thing she can offer, she has the full package

Then the stupid Man, you don marry, you are still texting another girl and u are claiming innocence... innocence fire you der! I nor blame una, na the people wey dey talk say "Men Are allowed to cheat" na them I blame. Fake deep Oshi! If I was his wife, he for tell me what he was doing in another lady's inbox when he ought to be working or doing something productive pervert

Some Greedy Men Above Me, See them, them no wan use ear hear say their wife cheat, but they want to cheat... who did this to some of our men How can you do to others what you don't want to be done to you?

It's just like Evans the kidnapper asking what he has done when obviously he knows but just don't want to pass through the sufferings he inflicted on others. Stop playing Smart, What Goes Around, Comes Around (Some People call it Karma)

Yankiss:
On the contrary, I believe it was needful to have created the counter thread. Nobody is washing any dirty linen in public here because these people concerned are not posting in their offline identity. It is all anonymous. The OP just wanted a balanced view, had no original intention of making the thread. I read his comment and the advice that prompted the thread.

I will advice him to call his babe and sit her down and have a serious chat. Avoid involvement of parents, friends or other third parties. Make a decision of whether to go forward or to call it quits. Forget the advice here on Nairaland. What works for A might not work for B. You might end up in a blissful union with the said lady. Thank you!

Someone give this Guy a Medal!!!

joeeee240:
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THE QUESTION I ASKED YOU. NEGATIVE ADVICE OR WHATEVER YOU CALL IT CAN BE GOTTEN BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE. IT IS THE INDIVIDUALS INVOLVED THAT TAKE THE BAD ADVICE THAT SHOULD BE BLAMED. YOU GUYS ARE JUST BEING SHALLOW WHEN YOU SAY SOCIAL MEDIA SPOILS RELATIONSHIPS.

I tire for all this NL people oo... see many of them forming James Bond as if they have never done such before. When love do u strong thing, it takes the grace of God for you not to Talk to a Mad Man
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