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You can have a good chat with him that can help you unravel what is driving him into drinking, some drink out of unhappiness. There may be something worrying him. Does he know that his daughter got mocked and cried because of him, they should let him know the effects on his family ,it may touch him enough to want to stop because of that.

You can also search online for how to get a hold on such things as drinking etc

What is the Tonto girl feeling like? She doesn't act as natural as Ini Edo.
Check out one of the Ini edo's movies where she was a maid that got married off by a prince(Andy) and you will trip for Ini Edo's act.

Tonto does not act natural, she does not bring in feelings nor act out her part good----most times she overdoes it with some fr*aking body language and fails to get the message home to the viewer. She needs to get a grip on her acting moves before daring to look down on Ini Edo much more call a girl that is just 4 years older than her "old" as if she will be young forever.

fellis: Why do you mix different colours in your posts?

Spice Baby, Spice. Spice up your life!

Singing

You got your boyfriend feeling like a groupieeee
You know, you know you -- that.

Yes dearie, you will get married for sure---some men even prefer women that already have a kid or two.

PrettyCindy: My dear please stop being negative. Why won't you get married? The only reason you are not married is because you haven't met your husband. Don't let anyone make you feel its because you have a child that you are not married. You will get married sooner than you think! ............and please its high time you start seeing your daughter as a plus rather than a hindrance.

Thanks for enlightening her.

The first picture is a bit hot I must say, the 4th picture is nice too but the fashion house that styled her did not do a good public image of themselves as they didn't do a good job there. Her hair is so carelessly done and did not do her justice at all, showing off her skull and having her look terrible.

This tuface woman is a fine girl but what is it about the way she throws things on these days that does not make her look very stylish? She can look better than that, I have seen a picture of her with a jacket and she looked very cute in that pic. They should have given her a sophisticated hairdo even if she must do gel, there are very sophisticated gel styles with sweet designs that would have given her a great look. They better redo the photo shoot for her and make her look lovely because they didn't work hard on that.

MisterMan: I just coudn't go through some of the useless things people post. It is so absurd. From scanning through some of the things some people write, it shows they have used it before or they have read something about it and they understand it.

Honestly, I don't think this should make the front page. I tried it and it worked flawlessly, and this was about 2 MONTHS ago. It is not as if it was RECENTLY released. For any message you send, the recipient receives 2 messages, the first one is about the message you sent. The second message is automatically sent by Google, explaining how you can reply. All these CIA and FBIs stuffs just don't get it. It is from immature and uninformed minds.

By the way, I used to have high opinion of Nairaland (Really I still do) but most commentaries these days do come from immature toddlers


I still feel bulk SMS has its place. There is a service that I will soon be launching. Google SMS will not do. In this case, I need to write a code that will do this messaging. There was a time I was considering sending mass mail to all those people that registered applicants for the last JAMB exam. That is a perfect example of where Google SMS would have been ideal.

Thank you. I have even written my take on it before I saw your post. This is OLD NEWS

Mister what are you on about and acting up about. You know to write codes and programming and how come you don't know that info in the internet is not as hidden as many people think.If people are saying CIA,FBI blah blah blah they are not totally wrong because we all know the extent these orgs go to get their info so they are not wrong, not that one should not use these techs because of fear of that just for one to be careful what one throws out there.

Did you say that you are going to write us a code that can be doing this messaging? Hurry up and get on with it, your kind are people we need to save our face from the shame of companies like google cashing in on us while we sit and look.

Did you say that this is old news? You don't have to hang your shoulder up on it sweetie, why didn't you inform others like the poster is doing. Some of us get busy with the hustle of life and do not know when beautiful techs are around the corner so be a gent and chill and let others inform all about it. You don't have to act up and swag up like-----Whew, this is old news, you guys are so 20-behind". Now smile for me and be a good boy . I await that great code of yours that you are writing for us. Go Mister!

Its either something intimate has gone on between your husband and your friend(and he is feeling guilty and fighting to stay faithful to you) or that your girlfriend is giving him the come-on (which he doesn't want to fall for, does not want to tell u about and wishes to steer clear of her) or that your girlfriend has exhibited some characters that gave him the fear that she may lead you into straying her way.

We are merely saying what is in our minds here and are not asking you to accost your husband and accuse him of these things. In order to find out the truth/reason behind it you have to work it out yourself girlie. It is not fair for a man to ask that a wife cut off ties from friends if his reasons aren't good enough or if the friends do not pose any danger to the wife or to their union. It's just like a woman asking her hubby to cut off ties with the boys or something. One shouldn't be made to feel like one has been imprisoned on getting married, I mean a wife should be allowed to relate in a healthy way with others unless in a situation the relationship with the said friend is no more healthy for example if she has slept wt your husband or was making a go at him then you should cut such a friend off.

@Shakomende
Thanks for enlightening us brother.


While we are getting excited about it, let us not forget that nothing is hidden in the internet. All these stuffs we do in the net are open to smart alecs out there so we must be careful about the extent of usage and the info we throw out in the open. I am sure that when the internet came into existence and everybody got on the bandwagon of the internet that while people like the yahoo yahoo boys were happily saying "Thank God for the internet" that the innovators especially the US smart alecs(internet wizard and internet security experts) were happily smilng and saying "Now we've got the world in our pocket pc".


Google wan make us hide our faces in shame in bringing down all these techs to our country and making sweet money out of us. They sure know that "Ain't no market like the Nigerian market". I mean they realized our financial potential and are cashing in on us. Where is Oga Seun and his fellow programmers/computer gurus make una follow teach me programming and coding/website designing etc, wetin! I overheard una talking about females and coding/programming the other day & quietly waka my way. I keep postponing putting good interest in them things and starting some and not going to great lengths with it----how google go dey shame us like this? Jeez!

I'm cool with it, thank you.

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What am I doing in discussing that sweet part of me in a thread that says bad habit? Shouldn't let anybody walk all over my sweet lil habit biko.

casket: You are wrong. Ovulation occurs on 14th day from the first day she sees her menstration. It lasts 24 to 48 hours. @ OP,It's unlikely she is pregnant provided you didn't have sex with her around her ovulation period. There are other reasons why she could miss her menstration aside pregnancy. Try to consult a gynaecologist for an expert review and care. Cheers

Thank you-o-o Ojare, we seem to be emphasizing on the same point that ovulation does not linger for two weeks,I read that it lasts 24 hours, I dont' know about 48 hours(will check on that). I don't even understand what Skannas was trying to prove to me by quoting me and giving that lecture on hormones and the shedding of the uterine lining as if I said anything wrong. The only part I don't agree with your post is that you said that it occurs from the 14th day after menstruation. It doesn't always occur on the 14th day, it revolves around the mid cycle---it can be on the 11th,12th,13th,14th day after menstruation and after ovulation, the next menstruation takes place 14 days later like Kitty Kat pointed out too. I have been thru that mathematics enough to know that menstruation occurring 14 days after ovulation is the only constant thing in all this calculations. Worries and depression affect the cycle and can lengthen it.

A woman's body definitely goes through a cycle yet different body processes occur on different days, menstruation occurs on its days and ovulation occurs on its own day. The fact that they are all part of a cycle does not mean that one should conclude and say that Ovulation or menstruation or even fertilization takes two weeks or 28 days. The important issue is for a woman to understand her body and be able to calculate well.

sosoluv: It can happen if she has a hormonal imbalance

You are so right, it sure can----hormonal imbalance can get a woman's cycle so muddled up that some women that have that do not realize when they are pregnant or safe yet the poster is better off discussing with his lady and a gynaecologist instead of seeking opinions here, some of which may make him take a rash decision.
Why is he even asking us? Abi he wan use style dump the woman? Poster take it easy -o-o, i also understand that you are also trying to play detective so as not to be given a child that isn't yours. Whatever you do be careful dearie.

fluid26: You are a weakling! Men like you are of no use to humanity.

Hang yourself! You are better off dead! Isn't that better than being tormented by an unrepentant jezeebel?

Pathetic.

Fluid26 do you have to tell an abused person to go hang himself? There's no need for such killing words dearie----take it easy biko. We should be very careful with the things we say to depressed persons typing away on their keyboard and trying to reach out for help.

I too got a bit a angry the way you did while reading poster's ordeal so much that the first thing that came to my mind was to say for him to leave her quickly yet there may be more to the story than met the eye though nothing justifies a woman tormenting her husband like that.
Gosh! This is real huge poster even if you haven't made up your mind to leave that marriage, you need to distance yourself a bit from it before you get killed. You and your wife need to talk very well to know which way forward, whatever you do be careful with a person that volatile. I have a feeling that you may be needing restraining order too because she may need to be helped to control the feeling that she will get on hearing that you are leaving. What else is remaining for her to do? What else. God have mercy!

You mean that people are subjected to the indignity of DNA test all for Visa. Jeez, bad economy wey dey make everybody waka leave Naija don insult us Nigerians Finish.

Two days to her period?
She may have counted wrongly. You can talk to a gynaecologist, some women sometimes ovulate twice etc

Skanas: Bros am 99% sure its not fishy...o.She is pregnant if u actually made luv to her 2days to her period without protection...let me explain it to u in a simple way...2weeks after her last period,she starts ovulating(egg production).This will continue for the next two weeks of which if it doesn't see any s.perm cell to fertilize it,it ruptures,turns to blood and flows out(menstration)....but then in ur case,u made your s.perm available,fertilized the eggs and prevented her menstral flow... NOTE:@all thats from my secondarian biology knowledge. Medical pratitioners indahouse pls correct me if am wrong

Yes dear you have a good knowledge of ovulation but you complicated issue along the line. I am not a medical practitioner but the stuffs I have read about ovulation stated that the egg only stays for 24 hours and not two weeks as you said.

How did this thread get to this extent? The only good I am seeing that came out of it is the person (Walexyll) that was made to realize (by Felliss)that what he thought was a bad habit was actually a health problem. Some other habits here sounds like they have some medical connections.
We shouldn't mock down on people for their habits but we should be one another's keeper and be truthful enough to tell a person that needs help with their unhealthy habit to seek help.
Akereconfi that said that he likes to wear his sister's bra and panties, sweetheart find a friend in the medical field and confide in. You need to be helped to straighten that out so that it doesn't get complicated in the future and make you do something crazy that you may regret. I have read about mature adults that go about stealing women's pants and bra and it sounds like it boils down to this same issue. Try and work that out and get it out of your system sweetie.

airbender: As old as i am i still shout "UP NEPA" wheneva nepa brings light. Am lazy to the extent that if am 2 win an award for laziness,i wld send sum1 to colete it 4 me. No mata how impotant an exam maybe (waec,neco,jamb) i dont read for it.I do find it difficult to greet.

Ol boy you dey funny-o-o.

kulyie: @ ivywna lol washin plates is nt a big deal 4 me.even if dey r carton size,my prblem is washin dem wen its nt convenient 4 me.lol,as 4 keepin mumys change.lolz,when she says change mi da and i will b like emi na jeun iya ni.i.e where is my change,am eating d change of my mother.lol

Yeah, because i don't want to start the day with smell of soured food---I am quick to wash out but when I am too damn tired to handle it---It sleeps in the fridge and still smells good in the morning. Lol.

It's good that you and momsie have a special understanding on her "change issue" and she tolerates that, isn't that one of things that make mothers inestimable?

fellis: Good for you!

Bye Babes, gotta get some sleep, see what my bad habit has caused me. I have to spend a greater part of this morning sleeping first before doing my weekend runs.

freecocoa: Ya mewa gi akpa amu there,ewu gambia.

Let me ever catch you insult any of my person on here again,onye iberibe .

Cocoanwa you had to spend your precious time to finish off the boy for me, thanks Ojare abeg pay him no mind.E be like say na somebody else im dey talk to as e no fit even spell my name. Haha!

@Question?
Answer: They think so because we made them think so through the searches we run most in their website, Oam4j, Kitty Katty and Mandelag already explained that good. It's garbage in, garbage out.

fellis: I like being cold.
Even in extremely cold weather I would rather go under the covers and leave the fan on than to turn it off.

I like climbing. Climbing things like a fence or protector;females are not supposed to like climbing.

My idea of a perfect date is one where me and my date argue over our different opinions and then resolve everything amicably. No mushy stuff involved.

I hate wearing clothes when I am alone at home.

Girl I like challenging myself to do some of those things that are considered masculine stuff like doing hard work or climbing stuffs at work to prove to my male colleagues that I am energetic and can do stuffs that they can do as they like to give me the "You are a lady, wait--let's do it" treatment and that I don't like one bit.

kulyie: I love eating meat frm d pot @ random,i love eating without packing d plates to d zinc because d movie is so captivatin dat i cannot afford to miss a scene,i love with holding d change when my mom sends me on errand to buy drinks 4 d visitor

Hehe! Kulyie you like to steal change from your mama? Just joking.
Talking about Plate, I don't like the smell of soured food in the morning either from a dustbin or from an unwashed plate. If I have no time to quickly wash off plates after dinner, I will organise them and pack/hide them somewhere in the fridge till morning---that way it won't smell bad in the morning. A bin with food particles that can smell bad in the morning I distance away from myself by taking it outside in the night for bin collectors.

Staying awake all night long and even till the wee hours of the morning. If I ain't working the next day---it thrills me much that I can get to have my "Me time" night. I will stay awake doing all the stuffs I love to do while watching CNN, It's actually as joyous as if I am having a party. Right now it's day light, the birds are singing and u won't believe that I have been awake all night long. It was my "me-time" night. Make some noiseeeee! Haha!. Any day I feel like eating swallow (eba,fufu,corn meal,wheat flour, pounded yam) in the morning, it feels good like I'm getting a special treat and it tastes differently sweet. I once worked for a lagos business mogul lady years ago who my colleagues then told me that she likes to eat swallow in the morning, I decided to check that out and it has stuck on me. Any day I feel like having Eba in the morning & have the time to handle that---it's a special treat for me. Lol

I am not obsessive with cleaning and wiping but when I want to use the ladies in my work place or at a public place. I will use tissue paper to bolt the door as well as press the t*ilet knob/flushing handle. Will use tissue paper again to unlock the door when I am done and how on earth did I develop the habit of never sitting on a pubilc/workplace toilet and hanging on it "butt in the air". These are places I know others handle with unclean hands before washing their hands and I do that so as not to be part of all that "nasty-touching-by-all". I don't smoke, can't ever take down smoke down my throat but why does the look of men or women smoking look very sophisticated to me even when the odour from the mouth of some smokers is disgusting? If I am out liming and clubbing, the sight of people dancing away and feeling happy brings me great joy and why again does the sight of affection being expressed by lovers to themselves or families to themselves make me specially happy? I also love sophisticated looking tattoos, terribly -done tattoos are disgusting to me as it cheapens the body of the wearer to me. Guess I am that lady that likes all the things some women/ladies,mothers and grandmas will frown at.

I came across this in facebook and was marvelled at the comments of the fans who are mostly Ghanaians and a few other Africans. I decided to post it in this forum to see how Nigerians will react to it.

It is not a movie, It's a picture of Yvonne Nelson eating with other actresses and an actor in her New York apartment---So what do you think?

I came across this in facebook and marvelled at the comments of the fans who are mostly Ghanaians and a few other Africans. I decided to post it in this forum to see how Nigerians will react to it.

It is not a movie, It's a picture of Yvonne Nelson eating with other actresses and an actor in her New York apartment---So what do you think?

OMG! some months ago I read about how their mother was cheering them on, giving them standing ovation in one of their shows and I was very happy for her. It's sad that she died, she was looking so full of life----it's such a pity. Sending condolence/sympathy to the family. May she rest in peace.

Odinaka00: ADIU MAMA
Wizkid be warned......international fame doesn't come like dat, something has τ̲̅ȍ be sacrificed

Kindly shut your ignoramus mouth if you have nothing good to say to a bereaved person.

The world seems not to have realized yet that the religious wars that reared its head in the middle East is threatening to erupt in full force in Nigeria. They are sitting arms akimbo watching and even laughing at us while we make fools of ourselves. Are they waiting to see kwashiokored children (as it was in the case of the Biafran secession war) or thousands/millions dead (as it was in the case of the Rwandan Genocide) before realizing that religious genocide is taking place in Nigeria? We don't want any sob/pity stories of "we should have acted in time enough to save them" in the future, isn't that the line that was used to explain away Rwandan Genocide and console the affected Rwandans after the world watched on while they got slaughtered off?

Hundreds of bodies strewn all over the land in Plateau state, mothers & wives weeping for their slaughtered children & husbands yet nobody/no world organisation is giving Nigeria attention. Are these wasted lives worthless? In Nigeria it's now a case of "if you are unlucky to have any of your family become a victim of this foolishness----sorry, go and bury your dead". Are all these victims being slaughtered weekly in these bombings/religious &tribal feuds not siblings, mothers and fathers of human beings. If the US govt know for real that they stand for human rights as they have been carrying themselves, what prevents them and the United Nations from seriously wading into this matter as we don't seem to be able to help ourselves with the way we are condoning, talking, chit chatting, quarrelling and even tribal-hating on top of this evil like it's nothing. The US govt attributing these bombings and killings to frustrations and poor government sounds like the reasons they are giving why they should turn their back on Nigeria and its wahala.

Peeping into the thread
Oga Richvunt that woman wey come shop gratuity money still dey there? She never pack her bag waka? okay-o-o make she wait-o-o. Na she fit get the next beating from those no-nonsense children. No be gratuity moni she wan shop? Make she foolishly dey there until she gets bathed up in acid or even lose her life to an old man's gratuity moni. Hahaha

Why the heck can't your father live his life and allow his children to live their lives? Is he the one getting married? He is overbearing and imposing his wishes on his children? What difference and happiness does it bring to him for him to be depriving his children the joys of life? He has married and enjoyed his time, he should back off and let you guys be abeg. It's not as if after the wedding these children will start attending his church/religion, he just doesn't want to see any of his children wed in church, same children that have already chosen the religion they want to follow. You had to be deprived enjoying your wedding the way you want it and you went on to try and convince another poor girl to agree to be imposed on too just to make him happy.
Pls quit getting sobby and let your brother's fiancee enjoy her wedding day. How about her father/mother/family that will be looking forward to having a nice time in church on their daughter's wedding? Nobody is considering them. People won't stop living their lives or uncomfortably make their lives over because of others who want to impose their wishes around without caring about the happiness of the people it is affecting.

@Kourtneyk
I like your blog but I'm surprised at this one---
What the heck is the meaning of "Dbanj pumping gas for Kanye West instead of Kim Kardashian". You don't have to level-place the poor boy(Dbanj) because he is a new friend of Kanye west----is he a servant boy that should pump gas while Kim acts out the princess/superstar? It almost sound like an affront on us Naijas, I'm sorry to say that but that coming from you does not sound good at all.

I was thinking that this may be a case of someone that returned from the barber with a mohawk that is disgusting the poster.

I don't think that you should keep quiet on that, the teacher that did that should be made to understand that that is an abuse and that he/she should not continue doing that to children in this age. They use to do that in schools in the Nineties/eighties, use scissors and roughly cut off hairs off the heads of student just to give their parents/wards a message that the hair is overgrown and that the child should get a haircut.
Decent adults should be able to pass on that information in a decent way, what are they teaching children with that aggressive behavior? They are indirectly telling a child to get aggressive and tear the clothes of others or even cut their shoes if it isn't satisfactory enough. Tell that teacher that that behavior is no more acceptable in this age and time, some human beings take out their frustrations on children in school. A teacher recently spat on a student and as a form of punishment banged her car door on the hands of another student. Very beastly!

Who is accusing Mac (who is a moslem) of sanctioning polygamy when his religion accepts that?

It is clear that the whole issue affected the woman mentally, someone once narrated to me how the same thing happened to their mother when their father took a second wife and they had to be treating her in a psychiatric hospital. What even gives some men the audacity to turn around and consider their wives "unbefitting" after getting old with them? The children should get medical help for their mother and stop patronizing the native doctors-prophets-and-prophetess that only help in breaking families apart with their crazy divinations and finger pointing.

As per the man the right proverb for him should be "Onye kpatara nku ahuhu si ngwere biara ya ugwo/ He who fetched an ant-ridden firewood invited lizards". What is that other woman still doing in that place? She better find her way and allow this unfortunate family to pull themselves together.