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@Ikamefa

Why do u think that she is afraid of Russel Simmons? She mentioned that her opponents made effort to pay her for her not to release the official statement but she declined.

Ikamefa please be careful before you start cursing out like her.

I do admire her in a way, she speaks against the subjugation/maltreatment of women in Africa---girl I was thinking that I am the only one that detest that to the point of inspiration. I admire her hardwork that made her speak through some of her books and the world listened. I don't have the same ideals as she does, I just like this woman that travailed and triumphed.
Examples of the positives she is standing for are things like this v-agina infibulation she went thru should never be done to any human, whoever thought of subdueing the womenfolk in such a gruesome way as to "s-e-w up the v*gina" till the wedding day? The woman went through all the hell fires women all over the world have gone through. Her Parents killed in front of her at six, v*ginally infibulated, rejected by her family because of her blackness, r-aped/s-xually subdued etc. I mean she is every woman and in a good position to fight for the dignity of womanhood as she is doing.

Talking about Russel Simmons, why is Kimora still bearing Russel's surname while married to Djimon? Maybe she is not really married to him as Kola was saying. I mean which woman remarries and still tags along her ex-husband's name or is it about the money and fame attached to that name? If she is really married to Djimon and bearing another man's surname, that is making a joke of Djimon.

sophy09: She seems like an attention seeker. Even if she sleeps with him she is looking for cheap publicity. I never heard about her until now. According to the story I read she was bin laden's gf.

The woman is smarter than that, right now her book must be selling like hot cake off the shelf cause the saga has people intrigued and everybody is reading her books.

ikamefa: chei that kola=boof thingy get warapa, ogidi warapa!

kola oh, djimon oh, kimora oh alla dem dey craze wella

dem form sexual triangle sharing spit,cum and clamydia

her rants on lindas blog , made an interesting read ,i don't believe her for a sec

[/b]maybe if she posts a video of djimon throat-phorking her ,like she claims she is good at, then i might just change my mind.[b]

awon were gbogbo! * long hiss*

Loling at the clamydia,spit ---
She said that she has proof that can shock America but that decided to make her statement mild so as to leave some things for the court. I believe her girl, I know a real story when I see one.

Whoops I ended up opening a thread for the Kola/Djimon Saga! Whoops, whoops! https://www.nairaland.com/965582/what-think-ongoing-kola-boof

It seems like it's gonna be a fun/entertainment filled weekend after all. Gotta run now.

Moderator please if this should be in the romance section and not family section, do move the thread. I only posted this thread for wives to know that things like this can come close to one's marriage and be working on their marriages and for husbands to be careful equally---that ordinary fling may one day no longer be secret and may even cost you your reputation etc.

What do you think of this eclectic African woman? She is so many things yet some amazing things.
Yeah, yeah I read the ongoing saga first in Linda ikeji's blog and the rest on twitter. I was amazed to see a human as honest and real as Miss Boof and even admire her strength, a woman that survived the gruesome act of watching her parents killed in front of her and went on to become a reknown novelist/writer/a controversial sex bimbo/bad*ss girl hehe! (No be me talk am -o-o before she go finish me with mouth sef the way she finished Lindaikeji). Linda Ikeji misquoted her and she gave her some e-whooping though they made up later, Mukina already ran a thread on her misunderstanding with Linda Ikeji in this thread.https://www.nairaland.com/961246/kola-boof-replies-linda-ikeji

Kola recently released an official statement detailing how and why she broke up the marriage of Kimora and Djimon by sexually captivating Djimon till he left his wife in this weblink http://sexypartofthebible.webs.com/kolagoestobed.htm

Jeez! Nobody curses like Kola, check out some of her tweets below

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof
RT @pamelakinsey65: Kola ur a d*ck-s*cking w-hore <<---ABSOLUTELY, oh absolutely...Men know me as one of the best. Worldwide.


KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof
Listen...I don't have a problem with "W-hores".....the whole MALE species are w-hores. Shut the f*ck up @bigtatafo

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof
Are you 42?? Who told you women stop f*cking and dry up just bec. they hit 42? F*CK YOU Erma. @BongumuSyrup

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof

My children know I s*ck d*c-k....they know EVERYTHING about me....they know EVERYTHING about their Daddy. @gaonewateng

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof AGE is nothing but a f*cking number.....I plan to be s*cking d*cks at 65!

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof
WOW...the White men are romancing me on Facebook......and the Black men s-exing me on Twitter. WHAAA happen-ED? Im popular tonight. lol

KOLA BOOF (Official)‏@KolaBoof
Girl, please. He was my man first. And in a few years from now...we gone f*ck some more. @RellieRell85

If una wan see everybody make somebody post a new thread screaming "Ijeoma Mgbeke-Ajikpako leave my husband alone for me" or even one that says "The sexcapades(pictures) of Kola Boof and Djimon Hounsou at Eko hotel" and the whole Nlders will arrive in no time, as Kola and Djimon's sexcapades are the juicest news right now with everybody wanting to hear every detail. Ain't seen a human being as honest and real as that Kola Babes, many are hating on her but I admire that lady for what she has been through and has achieved against all odds. Yeah, yeah if you want juicy news read it up here http://sexypartofthebible.webs.com/kolagoestobed.htm.

Why don't two persons here even start a mock e-fight, I am sure that many will run peeping through their laptops in 5 minutes time to know who and who e dey shele for. I mean that is when some go begin dey tell their spouse "Sweetie, please just 2 minutes---give me two minutes to check out the fight for nairaland and I will come back and love you up real good" , we fit see persons wey go fit keep/ignore crying pikin angrily by the side sef follow enjoy NL fun. Anyway sha tomorrow na saturday (weekend), we fit get lucky get given some serious weekend entertainment. E be like say na only weekend the section dey heat up with bickerings and e-fights Jeez!,

Hahaha!
Girl Rihanna must be feeling on top of the world over this fight.
They sure gave her great kicks + o-r-gasm, just the type of hullabaloo that the ego of a bad*ss girl like her needs.Her videos these days shows that this will make her day.
They completed the picture of the bad*ss bi*ch that she is painting without knowing it.
Girl must be over the moon.

I am just reading your angry words where you were saying-----
"Someone you removed 4 kids for"
"The blood of your kids will fight for you"

I felt more angry reading that, I refuse to judge you or begin to make it all weigh you down but please don't even use curse words like that on him because you may not be exonerated. Just never do that again, if you must have s-e-x----get your acts together, don't go getting impregnated and begin to fidget with your wombs and body for the umpteenth time. How do you do that? Gosh man! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

[size=14pt]4 Abortions??[/size]
I feel like beating somebody!
How could you do that to your body girl?
How can you put yourself through that for a fr*aking boy?
How did he make you do all that?
I don't even have words of consolation for you right now cause I am very unhappy with you, yeah others can go ahead and rub your heart when I simmer down I may pass by here to see how you are doing.

Gosh! we must teach the young girls around us the things they need to know about man and woman relationship. Teaching them stuffs like abstinence(yet equipping them with the knowledge of stuffs like safe period, ovulation, postinor, birth control) isn't giving them the go-ahead to "go into the world and have s-ex". They are better off with the knowledge of these things, how can a young girl of 22 (seems she started having s-ex at 16) know how to have s-e-x with a man but does not know about ovulations, safe period and birth control issues?

Girl I am mad at you! Better never let any man make you abort a child again in your life! Concentrate on your studies and graduate well, where did you get the courage to let people meddle and fidget with your womb like that? Do you expect us to clap for you, look the other way and tell you that it is alright. I am writing this to make you realize the gravity of what you are doing to yourself. If they spoil your womb for you and you are unable to have a child, that fr*aking boy you were endangering your life for will leave you for another woman. Oh am I forgetting that the thread is a lamentation that he is gone! How could you? Better stop girl.

@Vanstanzy
I feel as angry and as unhappy as you and every other person are feeling over this.
My anger stemmed from the fact that shortage of water affected the rescue operation. Ordinary water, Nigeria could not provide well to quench a burning plane and save our brothers and sisters from an inferno!

How won't they have shortage of water when the poor masses can't see water to drink? Water is almost luxury in Nigeria, you have to spend much to drag some home for yourself in whatever way nobody cares about.Only the rich can afford borehole and see water running from their taps. A good running tap water is hard to come by in Nigeria, I don't even have words to say it as it is in my heart.

Okay the firemen fought the fire to some extent and all stood arms akimbo watching these victims die off until they found some other lucky firetruck somewhere and continued. The rescue operation was so inept that media houses of other countries mocked our country why narrating the incident. How can't a country (that pay millions of dollars to foreign companies drilling it's oil) not afford to have fire stations dotted around properly in a big city like Lagos? Abeg make I follow thank God sef say we were able to search out 2 or 3 firetruck because the way things are with us I didn't expect us to have a good working one. We are so terribly disorganized, high time they began to use money meant to better the life of people for what it is meant for. We all need to pray seriously over this type of air mishap because it can't continue happening and shaming us all, above all wasting the lives of people. God please deliver our country from this painful and heartrending air mishap in Jesus name, Amen-o-o-o.

@Vanstanzy
I feel as angry and as unhappy as you and every other person are feeling over this.
My anger stemmed from the fact that shortage of water affected the rescue operation. Ordinary water, Nigeria could not provide well to quench a burning plane and save our brothers and sisters from an inferno!

How won't they have shortage of water when the poor masses can't see water to drink? Water is almost luxury in Nigeria, you have to spend much to drag some home for yourself in whatever way nobody cares about.Only the rich can afford borehole and see water running from their taps. A good running tap water is hard to come by in Nigeria, I don't even have words to exclaim over us.

Okay the firemen fought the fire to some extent and all stood arms akimbo watching these victims die off until they found some other lucky firetruck somewhere and continued. How can't a country (that pay millions of dollars to foreign companies drilling it's oil not) not afford to have fire stations dotted around properly in a big city like Lagos? Abeg make I follow thank God sef say we were able to search out 2 or 3 firetruck because the way things are with us I didn't expect us to have a good working one. We are so terribly disorganized, high time they began to use money meant to better the life of people for what it is meant for. We all need to pray seriously over this type of air mishap because it can't continue happening and shaming us all, above all wasting the lives of people. God please deliver our country from this painful and heartrending air mishap in Jesus name, Amen-o-o-o.

Oh my God, I can't help tripping for this song all over again with the fact that it has Rick Ross one of my favorite rappers rapping on this version.
My babies P-square killed me with their voice and gosh! who mixed those beats? [size=18pt]I LOVE IT!!![/size]


Wombodo wombodo ye
Wombodo wombodo ye
Wombodo wombodo ye
Iyee
Iyee Iyeeeeeee

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The picture in which Ayomide was getting a bath is shocking. I never knew (from her former pictures)that she is that lean, Jesus christ!
The poor child is going through a lot---thank goodness that God laid it in the heart of Queenafric and the girl's state captured her attention. Oh my God she needs plenty milk, good food, medications, adequate care. Let us all spare and sacrifice whatever we can that can help her situation.

Mr r231 pls send me the account details at ivorybt@yahoo.com.

kandiikane: Personally, being brought up by a teen mum is not as bad as people think. Obviously for me, in the early years it was hard but it got better. My mum managed to finish her education and make something for herself. if -God forbid I become pregnant at this age(you still have people that think I would follow suit), however badly I detest the idea of an abortion. I won't keep the foetus. I have too many plans and future ambitions that I need to established for myself and future generation before having a child or even thinking about starting a family. For my own child, she won't even dare!! [s]Even if I have to take coat hanger carry that zygote out of her uterus I will.[/s]
I just think teenagers these days have become to spoilt and rampart. Even with the abundance of free condoms and contraception and morning after pills(UK)they are too lazy to use them.

Parents, doctors, government and media in Africa should teach teenagers to protect themselves from an early age because if they are going to do it, with or without your knowledge they will do. By talking to your child about s£x and advicing them they can come to you one day and say "I have become sexually active." You as a parent cannot stop your teenager once they start but you can stop them from getting pregnant and catching STDs by helping them to access the facilities which can provide family planning. By doing so you can avoid that heartache of having to kick your child out because of the pregnancy and embarrassment.

I have nothing against teen parents as you can see above, if you are one well done and have a good life.

Just my two cents.

I pray nobody ever puts the bolded into practice, I nearly fainted/vomitted reading that part. No offense meant.

sexkillz: [color=#000030] After reading your post, i agree with her![/color]

Una no go kill me with laughter here.
Poster don't you want her to be petting you? she is only being affectionate.
Enjoy it Sweetheart (Oh no, I hope you won't get funny ideas now that I called you that )

shymmex: Ivwnwa, why are you laughing?

No vex -o-o brother mi,
I was amused by browngirl's sense of humour .
She said for someone to get the man a mirror so that he can see the greenish dirt/tartar on his teeth very well. I no fit laugh-o-o.

Mayflowa: hhhhhaaahaahhaa. Very funny. You are one funny girl. gosh!

Whew! Mayflowa we just posted that at the same time,
I thought that I am the only one that noticed that sweet and sassy sense of humour.

brownusagirl: just because the plane didn't kill him doesn't mean I won't. He will wish he was riding the front of that plane when I get started on him.

Don't I like your swankie sense of humour girl? One of your retorts had me laughing in another thread minutes ago.

You mean that he will be better off as the pilot.
Hahaha!

Another Okija: Thats how you no good puussie.. When a man is ready to give up his freedom and civil liberties in exchange for some..

Dude that babe have you wishing and wanting and tripping.
Get a grip!

2buff: She's pretty hawt.

That aside, I don't think women should work in male prisons.
All those fellas do is work-out, strut and throw around lots of testosterone, it's easy for any woman to get biological about it.

Your post reminded me of a day we were chatting away at work and a colleague was describing the many ways prisoners hide things like cigarette,phone etc away from the eyes of prison officers----As he was detailing the technicalities with which prisoners light their cigarette, another colleague simply said "You have been to prison" and at that moment he couldn't but shamefully say the truth.

Sweetheart 2buff now don't be mad at me, we're just talking and I am only pulling your leg! Hahaha!

She should get some Akpobi/bouncer men to beat up the man's girlfriend for making her lose 16 million naira.

Damn!

brownusagirl: hold up. He looks bad and he he has a bad attitude? Child please. She needs to bring him a mirror asap and remind him that when you marry someone half of there stuff is yours.

She should get some Akpobi men to beat up the man's girlfriend for making her lose 16 million naira.

Damn!

Burrito: Davidylan, -----------It's almost as if you live in a bubble. And it is actually possible to argue without the arrogant, condescending and insulting words you use. Sooooo unattractive.

----to think that he openly confessed in one of his posts here that he dated a single mother and later broke up with her. Ask him why he broke up with her and he will tell you that "she wasn't good enough for his saintly self". Some men have already broken the girl's heart, given her children and left her alone to rear them and on came Davidylan for his own turn-----sleeping and satisfying his s-e-xual urges with the girl to his satisfaction and dumping her again.Isn't that the same thing Miss Durobraham was referring to in the last sentence of her last post?----the men that take advantage of the vulnerability of single mums only to discard them as "no-good" and here he is seated on his women-preying b*ttom typing rubbish to show the world himself as super intelligent. Hide your face a bit, shame! You are no match to the maturity displayed here by Durobraham, however much you tried to bring yourself across as smart, her composure is astounding. You did not come close to her class and you think that you are a better person than her because she had a son out of wedlock.

"Teenage pregnancy", "damn the single mums!","damn and kill off their babies", insults on a single mother---blah blah blah----whatever happened to the men that impregnate these girls? Nobody is talking down on them.

Damn! even our own Nigerian Timothy Iyegbe follow shop clean mouth!
How on earth did they not have the good sense not to have a young girl that appealing close to prisoners? They served her on a plate to the prisoners and they are jailing her, don't they have other positions there that will not bring her close to prisoners that they had to position her there? Thank goodness that it wasn't a case of "she was r-a-ped by 50 prisoners etc"

Another Okija: LIke I am ready to stab someone in the neck just to fh*ck this babe in prison!! Wassup!

Chei!!

freecocoa: See lie.

Cocoa Babes!
You no follow see as Babes dey mekasi millions here.
Abeg graduate quickly make my brother come marry you make you dey buy jeeps and lands for us. Who no like better thing?

durobraham: This will be my last post on this thread.I answered these questions to the best of my ability because i feel strongly that so many Nigerian young girls who get pregnant are compelled to abort because of the kinds of sentiments people were expressing.
If u or any member of ur family is faced with an unplanned pregnancy, pls consider all options , pls dont think an abortion is the only way.
There are more options than u realize, pls talk 2 sum1 who is informed b4 u make any decision.
A forced abortion is a terrible thing...

Secondly, i want to encourage all of us to have frank discussions with the teenagers in our lives esp boys, our goal should be to raise sexually responsible teenagers...

Finally, pls dont forget that it takes a village to raise a child, so in any way u can help a young woman who is raising a child by herself, pls do it! Remember that white ogi comes out of a black pot.(yoruba adage) A smile, a prayer, a hug, all these will go a long way in the life of a child
And all u dudes who r specialists in taking advantage of vulnerable single moms, God is watching U.#Peace!

Hugs Ojare!
Pay him no mind.



@Coogar
that your attachment just made this thread so hilarious that I couldn't help laughing.
Babe Durobraham said it so right, keep your head up girl like Tupac sang. Don't let anybody bring you down.

davidylan: @ durobrahams



huh? I'd rather be an "obstinate mule" than be a complete failure. Yeah your sons father "is in his life"... the silly meaningless phrase single mothers use to console themselves. Go get married to the dude and give your son some sense of stability instead of jumping around like a deranged cow.

Miss Durobraham
This is how I treat people like him who come to the forum to pour acid on people with their mouth. I tell them things as it is and cut them off without bothering to read their ensuing quarrel and verbal bombs. Such persons are not good for your health so quit reading the sickening things that will be coming out of their mouth once they start hurling their weapons of mass destruction. I have said what I have for him and I ain't reading no other rant from him again, trust me. In other words his weapons can't get to me.

Pay him no mind dearie. Let him rant some. I won't be caught exchanging words with him and better not be girl.

@Davidylan
Good that you just read that, somebody needed to put you in your bastard mother-f*cking position and now that you are properly seated there, you can go ahead and enjoy the evening lime and show some respect to single mothers like Durobraham while you are at it. Now run along Sweetie!


Whew! Ivynwa fans herself
I can't remember ever talking to anybody like this here in the forum before but you deserve it. It did make me feel good, who said that one shouldn't get out of the grain sometimes. Hahaha! Abegi----

Fhemmmy: Yes, as a matter of fact, we should not count out a single mother as a good partner , , , ,

davidylan: Should i start listing the disadvantages?

You seem to embody most of the wrong notions that our society have towards this issue which are causing more problems.

In your view a single mother is a "No No" and you have to tell others the disadvantages, all-saintly-you. I am sure that when the single mother you dated was giving you s-e-xual healing that you did not remember these disadvantages or was she just good enough as a booty call and bad market as a partner? The mentality of some men in our country is something else.

davidylan: ---------------
a woman has a child outside wedlock, her chances of marrying a decent, hardworking, responsible dude automatically drops by more than 90% while mr. bobo can go on with his life as if nothing happened. My daughter should not be another man's used spare part abeg.

See the acid he is pouring here, telling single mothers that they can't be what they want to be because they had kids out of marriage, it is people like him that were telling a pregnant unmarried young girl (that opened a thread seeking help here some weeks ago) that her life is ruined. Can you guys make away with these mentalities that is causing untold sufferings on young girls making them throw away children, commit abortion and feel downtrodden all because they had children?

I am neither a single mother nor born outside wedlock but I can't stand holy nweje hypocrites like the great and righteous Davidylan.