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Family / Re: My Wife Has Changed Negatively, Please Advice Me. by jadelyn007(f): 10:28pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Arsenate:lol |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 8:11pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
Shymm3x:that's where you get it all wrong, you think being nice equates being a walkover. Anyone with a healthy dose of self esteem won't let you ride all over them. For example, I come across as a docile lady until you get to know me and then you realize I am actually very firm and willfull. Which brings me to ask the question; what is your definition of mr nice/sweet guy and bad boy image |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 2:42pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
Shymm3x:I won't get "there". Why will I want to hang around someone who thinks I am disposable? That's why I say I prefer nice guys to bad guys. Nice guys treat you special. As long as I move with the right crowd and I keep been the right person then I am continually safe. Bad guys treat girls as disposables. Its a turn off for me. I can admire hyper-testosterone filled macho guys from afar but I'd never date them. I'd pick a classy, sophisticated, smooth, sapiosexual gentleman over any of the bad guys you mentioned earlier. |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 7:51am On Aug 28, 2015 |
Shymm3x:seriously, I've not done much dating so do not be surprised when I say I've not had any of those experiences. Distance happened to my first relationship. I'm on my second. I've always thought relationships are a huge job. Getting to know someone new, liking them, trusting them, loving them and all is a long process, I don't have the energy to jump from one relationship to the other and luckily the kind of guys I've dated are the kind you would typically term boring guys. |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 3:34pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
AAinEqGuinea:if someone won't take no for an answer and he keeps stalking me I'll get a restraining order against that person. I wouldn't want my man going physical with someone like Dwayne Johnson or Floyd Mayweather. Offering protection in a relationship is more than knocking out people |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 3:24pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Shymm3x:lol, fortunately I am very picky when it comes to making male friends so believe me when I say I have never been treated as a disposable rather I've made myself indispensable. I always wish to add value of some sort to every friends life no matter how little. |
Family / Re: Female Problems - Why Sweet/nice Guys Seldom Win by jadelyn007(f): 6:07am On Aug 27, 2015 |
Ladies prefering to date bad guys over nice guys has to do with the kind of upbringing and kind of guys they grew up with. To them if u are not bad guy, you are a weakling. I, on the other hand have never had anything to do with bad guys because growing up, my dad, brothers and cousins were nice guys so I came to see nice guys as the ideal. Infact I have never dated a guy who drinks, smokes or clubs steadily, neither will I even consider dating a guy who treats ladies like disposables. For me it's nice guys over bad guys anytime anyday. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 9:40pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
macof:sorry bro, he's a christian, nt a pagan.n obviously believes those vows if nt he wouldnt have to come to nairaland, he would have married her a longtime ago. By the way, how forefathers didn't commit adultery, it was polygamy. So he should married the secretary directly instead of impregnating her without following the traditional customary law. So he's wrong on all counts. Not that I support polygamy for him 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 6:24pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
macof:excuse me How dare you talk about what african culture dictates African culture taught us to be true to our words and Op wasn't true to his words/vows. He swore to be faithful to her that was why she married him in the first place. So don't you dare bring african culture into this. He swore for better,for worse in church!!! Not in a shrine. Kumuyi's church for that matter. |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 6:06pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
ProphetUdeme:thanks for the birthday wish. If I don't blame/judge him who should I blame/judge, his innocent wife who has spent 14yrs of her life trusting God with him, or the secretary who siezed the opportunity the op gave her. This man has successfully ruined 14yrs of his happiness. He foolishly thought that not having a biological child is the worst thing that can happen to him, No. Falling into the trap of a jezebel/delilah is just the beginning of his woes. Let him divorce his wife, he deserves his secretary. I repeat, any girl who can have an affair with you, knowing fully well that you are married can kill you without even baiting an eyelid. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 5:41pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Truckpusher:dats true, its unfortunate that by the time he discovers the secretary's child isn't his he'll start yapping how all women are evil. Just like some nairaland boys who go around spewing trash about how girls n all this and that when they have only been messing with the wrong kind of girls. When u advice them, they think u hate dem till they get hurt and dumped. You see a girl all made up with brazilian weaves n all that, u go asking her out ignoring the plain girl in natural hair, later u come complaining how all girls are materialistic. Seriously I'm fed up with nairaland boys and they useless threads, more reason many of them are broke and will remain broke aSses blaming the government for their every misfortunes. Truckpusher, you should talk to your brothers more often, should make better use of themselves. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 4:38pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Truckpusher:sorry, misfired arrow meant for the op, yes, I'm generalizing but I am very sure that the scenario I just painted fits the Op's situation. |
Family / Re: Is It Right To Marry A Second Wife Since The First Couldn't Bear Me A Child? by jadelyn007(f): 4:02pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Truckpusher:the Op is an IDIOT!!! How is he sure he isn't the one with problems when most men Nigerian men won't go with their wives to the hospital to get checked for infertility. It may be that even the secretarys pregnancy isn't his, she might have decided to bring another man's baby. Some idiot guys will come to blame nigerian woman for giving another man's kids to their husbands, how won't they with this kind of fucccked up mentality Nigerian men have. What happened to adoption Giving an orphaned child an opportunity to experience the love a parent can offer? Selfish Nigerians, only thinking of their selfish self and interests. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: 600 Men Slept With Me In One Year, Says 24-year-old Student by jadelyn007(f): 11:19am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Of course she will get a man to marry her, one of the 600men deserves her. Simple! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have A Word For Many Young And Mature Girls This Morning With This Pic. by jadelyn007(f): 11:46am On Jul 26, 2015 |
favourmic:op abeg make we here word, obama's daughter is not yet 15yrs old yet look at the length of her gown. Which Nigerian daughter will wear a dress that short to an official outing with her parents. Again do you know how much that simple gown is worth? Do you know how much the shoe cost? Secondly, my cousins who were her age didn't wear skimpy dresses and they didn't use makeup so what are you talking about? Homebased Nigerian guys will do anything to kiss the ass of anything american, only our brothers in diaspora know the value of our own Nigerian girls that is why they keep coming home to get married. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Beautiful Pictures Of A Nairalander And His Family by jadelyn007(f): 6:11am On Jul 20, 2015 |
Truckpusher:not true! As far as I do agree that Op is handsome, his wife is also pretty just that you are so used to seeing heavily madeup girls, so that has been your standard. How many girls can look half as pretty as Op's wife without makeup n weaves/wigs Infact truckpusher you need to bring your eyes to me, I want to wash it with sanitizer. Op, your family is cool and there is nothing wrong with having your pics on the internet. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jadelyn007(f): 5:32pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
GodblessNig247:you have the I.Q of a mosquito, what is your business with my post, if you are not comfortable with it why quote me? I don't have time to waste on 'all brawn no brain' fellows like you anyway, so SHOO! |
Family / Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jadelyn007(f): 8:50am On Jul 16, 2015 |
GodblessNig247:shut the fucccck up if you are too dumb to comprehend or give your advise and move the hell on. Do I look like I am the Op? Why are you quoting me to talk trash? |
Family / Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jadelyn007(f): 7:44pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
oseod:God bless you dearie. I pity girls who think blowjobs and all sorts will keep a man from cheating and I wonder how high they are willing to jump to keep a mans roving eye and wandering dickkkkkk. Just pray you don't find a man who's really into crazy fantasy bullshit(S&M), all these keep a man talk will fly out of the window. Madam Op if you r not comfortable with it, don't do it, do not let anybody coerce you with that hackneyed "before he goes looking for it outside" line. If your husband will cheat he will cheat, there is nothing you can do about it. Do not delude ourself into thinking you can do anything to stop a man who wants to cheat especially one who is neckdeep in pornography. He wants blow*jobs today, tomorrow he gets bored n wants to take it a step further forgetting that you are not a IndecentStar. Infact prepare for it, cos he will soon cheat wether you eventually give him the Mouth Gig or not. The main problem is not the blow*job request even, the major problem is in the pornography addiction. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Sistas, Why Are Some Of Us Too Angry Even In The Public? by jadelyn007(f): 9:02pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Shymm3x:very true! Tho its often very tempting to just bunch everyone up in one category. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Photo: Mysterious Snake Killed In Ajegunle Lagos. by jadelyn007(f): 8:40am On Jul 10, 2015 |
With that kind of dirty drainage in front of a human beings business place what do you expect to see? |
Family / Re: Sistas, Why Are Some Of Us Too Angry Even In The Public? by jadelyn007(f): 11:32am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Shymm3x: I couldn't watch the second video hard as I tried, seems its been moved or deleted. I can tell you not every black woman behaves the way she did in the first video, she should have waited till the interview asked her opinion before going off like a parrot. I don't come across women like her very often. I am also sure she isn't like that every other day. She must have been very upset. |
Family / Re: Sistas, Why Are Some Of Us Too Angry Even In The Public? by jadelyn007(f): 4:35pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Shymm3x:most of the ones I know are not aggressive. As for those that are aggressive I take it as their temperament. But it is wrong to say the average black woman is passively or covertly aggressive, can we also say the average nigerian man is also aggressive? About 2 weeks back, I was with a deputy vice chancellor of one of these federal institutions in Nigeria, I was really ashamed of walking/working with him when he displayed his lack of anger management skills. One would expect that with his pedigree and exposure he would put up a better attitude in face of pressure. My point is, anybody can lack anger management skills wether male or female, black or white. Its basically about your temperament. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Sistas, Why Are Some Of Us Too Angry Even In The Public? by jadelyn007(f): 3:50pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Op its not a nigerian woman thing, its the inability to control temper for some people(both men and women). I've seen men belittle their wives in public places, like shut her down like she's some dumb bimbo! People should generally learn how to address their spouses not only in public but also in private. 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Toke And Maje: Celebrity Tales Of A Trophy Husband And His Trophy Wife by jadelyn007(f): 3:27pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Op you are wrong, Maje has the gold, Toke has silver, Anita takes bronze. Anita is the all round loser. for chrissakes how do you keep opening your legs for someone who didn't consider you wife material after 12yrs of dating. She is just a tool all round. Fuccckbuddy and babymama, nothing more. So in all those 12yrs she didn't find any other man who considered her worthy of being wife, that means she got no value apart from her privates. |
Family / Re: My Whole Body Aches After............... by jadelyn007(f): 6:52pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
5minsmadness:you should work for the red lingerie industry or probably victoria secret, especially in their marketing department :-P |
Family / Re: My Whole Body Aches After............... by jadelyn007(f): 6:29pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
5minsmadness:one of the reasons why I don't believe the red pant and bra school of tought and all that dress sexy bullshiiiiit. A man that has no control, has no damn control irrespective of how perfect the wife is. |
Family / Re: My Whole Body Aches After............... by jadelyn007(f): 6:26pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Madam op stop making a big deal out of nothing, if he doesn't want to help then fine. You should look for a way to reduce the stress for yourself. Nobody gives best wife award. Do your best and leave the rest. For example on the issue of fetching water, get a bigger storage and pay one of these hausa men to come fill the house for you. Reduce the mopping of the house to only weekends. Save money to buy a washing machine even if its the small size. Cook large quantity of food during the weekend e.g soup, stew, moi-moi and store in the fridge. Wash up dishes immediately after use. What else did u say your stress was again? You are a full time housewife, find a way to manage your time judiciously. What if you had a job plus the kids? |
Family / Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by jadelyn007(f): 1:09pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Lmao at people who say forget about sex, focus on kids, work blahblahblah. Truth is, nothing can replace the urge for sex. I don't know how long you can stay without it but when u reach your threshold I know u'll find a way to satisfy yourself. Again I think your husband has some form of sexually transmitted disease he is hiding from you. Probe him a lot more or ask that you both go to the hospital to check for the cause of his sudden zero libido. If he refuses then something is fishy, that's how they all are when they know something is wrong with them. They refuse to go with you to the hospital for checkup. Insisting they are perfectly fine. They would even turn it against you for suggesting such. Forget all this bullshiiiiit about dressing sexy, not nagging, been clean, cooking and all that. Its men who patronise prostitutes not ghosts. A man that want to have to have sex with you will do that irrespective. |
Family / Re: Should She Tell Her Fiancee Or Not by jadelyn007(f): 1:05pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
patrickdarlins:there is almost nothing in life is 100% certain, there is a 50% chance that we'll see tomorrow, their is also a 50% chance we won't live to see tomorrow. Do we then focus on d 50% negative? 25% is different from no chance at all. |
Family / Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by jadelyn007(f): 8:56am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Op you are a very lazy fellow!!! So you want to run away from marriage so that you can be as dirty as you want to be 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Should She Tell Her Fiancee Or Not by jadelyn007(f): 8:43am On Jun 12, 2015 |
The doctor said 75% not 100%. The doctor didn't say you are totally barren. What's your problem that you just can't shut your mouth? You want to dig your grave before you are killed? Think of the 25% chance that you are going to have a baby, stay positive! 4 Likes |
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