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Family / Re: My Wife Says She Is A Victim Of Nigerian Man by jadelyn007(f): 9:39am On Jan 24, 2015 |
Op tell us what you and your family did to her that makes her cuss you out. Unless you are telling us you married a mad woman which will make it your fault. After frustrating the hell out of the poor woman you come here to form saint! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 9:11am On Jan 24, 2015 |
Timbuktou:you are even worse than the women you are here condemning. What makes you think you are better than me, I badmouth, you badmouth. So u had to bring my husband into this? Hope you don't choke on your saliva anyway. |
Family / Re: Opinion Poll: Cooking In A Host's House by jadelyn007(f): 7:22pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
If everyone on this thread won't enter a hosts' kitchen without permission then who are those who 'jump' according to bukatyne into host kitchen, abi them no dey nairaland ni? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 7:16pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Timbuktou:and you think you don't frustrate you wife enough for her to bad mouth you like you bad mouth your president? Have you ever heard the phrase respect for elders in you culture, what ever grouse you have with the president can't you point it out without calling him a dunce or clueless ass because you pay him. So its ok, to insult your elderly gateman too because you pay him and he doesn't meet up with you expectation? And you still wonder why you wife will cuss you out when you frustrate her and under perform? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 7:10pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Mr mannerless, I made a comment which didn't go down well with your ideology, its either you point out your opinion politely or you look past my comment rather than call mine silly. What makes you better than the women you are here condemning if my comment warranted you calling me silly? By the way, its your type that people bad mouth because you lack manner of approach. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 6:53pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
5minsmadness:hahahaha, Goodluck is someones husband and probably someones father yet we cuss him out without any sort of respect, why? Probably the president would be justified to throw anyone who insults him in jail, right? |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 6:47pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
craziebone:LOL, you are comparing apples to oranges. Let's me use this logic again, you have at one point or the other insulted your president but he didn't throw you in jail because there is something called freedom of speech. The punishment of beating your spouse is not commensurate with the offense. One involves the use of force which leaves the other party totally helpless. While in verbal abuse you are not totally helpless, you can easily stop yourself from listening to those words that you find offensive. Am sure if someone like hulk hogan verbally abuses you, you would rather walk away than flex you muscles at him 1 Like |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 6:39pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Timbuktou:mr hypocrite if you know you can't make an argument without being insulting then you have no business on this thread criticizing other people. Mtcheeeewww! And we wonder why some women badmouth some men. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 6:27pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
SirShymex:let me give an example of what I mean, I have lived with guys all my life as brothers, cousins n even during nysc I was the only girl in the entire community of about 9 other guys. There are some guys that I tell you have to do this, they procastinate till thy kingdom come, until you start nagging them that's when they will do what they r supposed to do so that they can have peace of mind from my nagging. There are others I tell please, this thing needs to be done, they say I can't do it today but I'll do it tomorrow, and when its tomorrow they stick to their words. This isn't about ego, its about doing what you are supposed to do when you are supposed to do it without me having to chase you around or nag you. as for guys with massive egos, If you keep annoying me then I'll ask you to chose between me annoying you right back or just nagging you. By the way, isn't it hypocritical that we all badmouth our president, call him clueless, dumb, drunk and all sorts of unmentionable without being sent to jail yet we don't want our spouses to bad mouth us when we misbehave or under-perform? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Would Be [2015] Brides; Come In, Let's Plan Together! by jadelyn007(f): 1:59pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
rosety:imagine, starting planning in feb for a nov wedding, meanwhile my bestie here is getting married in april and she has not done anything. she doesn't even knw whr to start from. The only thing she's done is introduction, fixing a date and marriage class. Lol |
Family / Re: Women Try And Control Your Tongues! by jadelyn007(f): 1:39pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Sorry to say this, there are some men who don't understand any language but bad mouth. Until you bad mouth them they won't do the right thing. There are also some that just need u to point things out to them logically and clearly and that's all. I have learnt to differentiate between the 2 of categories of men. I know those I nag and I know those that don't need me to nag or badmouth them before they do the right thing. |
Family / Re: Opinion Poll: Cooking In A Host's House by jadelyn007(f): 12:40pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
1. No, I don't enter other people's kitchen unless they invite me to. 2. I would not mind if I woke up to find my guest in my kitchen. I would only ask if she/he needs my assistance with anything. The only sanctuary I have is my bedroom. I don't allow anyone in unless you are family. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Have Allowed Her? by jadelyn007(f): 11:29am On Jan 21, 2015 |
mutter:lol, its not only a nairaland issue, its a national issue 1 Like |
Family / Re: Should I Have Allowed Her? by jadelyn007(f): 1:46am On Jan 21, 2015 |
mutter:mutter, I showed my elder brothers some of your comments and they swore that you are a man disguising as a woman. Is that true? 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: A Northern Muslim Girl's Letter To Christians by jadelyn007(f): 8:28am On Jan 20, 2015 |
A good start will be TV and radio adverts by all your nasfat organisations like the one on child trafficking, prostitution, vaccination, driving safely. Have a TV advert dissociating your religion from boko haram stating islamic verses that support peace. Advice them against joining boko haram in the hopes that they will get aljana or what you call it. Post security phones numbers to report to incase they have any information as regards boko haram activities. Let this also be in hausa language on the bbc hausa station. Hausas listen to news too, I see them everywhr with the small transistors radio. This single act will change the mindset of not only christians and southerners towards the religion and it will serve as a deterrent to all the uneducated who might be decieved by boko haram into joining their unholy activities. Do you agree with me?? 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: A Northern Muslim Girl's Letter To Christians by jadelyn007(f): 8:18am On Jan 20, 2015 |
Sameera025 I like the way you are very calm in answering the questions. Like you said, when you first came into nigeria both the christians and southerners welcomed you with both arms, you felt comfortable practicing your religion Until boko haram started committing crimes in the name of Islam. Now the christians don't want to have anything to do with you, same with southerners. Would you blame them? No! Will you succeed in your attempt to make them not see you in the light of your islamic brothers who have turned terrorists? I think not. My advice to you; It is easier to attack a problem from the root cause and not from the result. The root cause of this problem is violence in the name of your religion and the result is hatred against the rest of you. These groups are springing up in leaps n bounds everyday because the majority are not condemning it openly. Killing of muslims in another country sparked a riot from muslims here in nigeria. Why do these same muslims who were protesting not protest when boko haram started killing christians early 2007 before they turned on every other person? Even now why do these islamic nations not stage something like a crusade, a rally worldwide to condemn all these terrorist groups? Why the dead silence from them. In some countries a muslim that converts to another religion faces a death sentence as is seen in the sudanese woman who was eventually rescued by international organisations. Does this act signify peace? |
Family / Re: 6 Sure Ways To Save Your Marriage by jadelyn007(f): 7:04pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
lilmaxfidel:. You will grow old. Unless you are bashing nigerian female folks or advising the female folk to be subservient your thread ain't going to smell frontpage. But just incase it gets to frontpage lemme drop my own comment; Nice piece especially when both spouses are committed to doing all these, if its just one party doing all these, you are on a long thing cos it won't take long for the sacrificing one to feel frustrated and resentful, before you know the marriage comes crashing down like a pack of badly arranged cards |
Romance / Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by jadelyn007(f): 7:39am On Jan 18, 2015 |
Abeg op na which african men u dey talk about. Is it not the one we read on nairaland who patronize prostitutes, turn their wives to punching bag, do not take full responsibility for their family, expecting their wives to share bills with dem 50:50, take care of domestic chores 100percent n still treat them like a god. Which ones r open to learning? These one with overbloated egos who want their asss kissed all the time. Op all these lies you are telling, chai!!!! Diaris godoooo!!! 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by jadelyn007(f): 1:12pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Finally I can see some reasonable nairaland guys. Let me return to my default setting. By the way, cheating is never a mistake, u don't just go walking on the road then u slip and fall into a diick or a pussssy. Its a choice, a decision you made. Once a cheat may not always be a cheat, but 99.9% of the time once a cheat, always a cheat! 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Changed Negatively, Please Advice Me. by jadelyn007(f): 9:24pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Back in the days when most nairaland men had sense. Now the majority is high on horseshiit. Only a minority got sense 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Addiction To Sleeping With Prostitutes !!!! by jadelyn007(f): 9:49am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Some nairaland guys are foolish sha!!! The Op has no self control yet you blame his girlfriend. When will you guys start taking responsibility for you stupid actions and inactions? When?? Always looking for a female to blame. SMH 1 Like |
Family / Re: Appreciation With Sex. Men Why? by jadelyn007(f): 7:28am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Edigrows:mr man don't quote me, and I believe those questions are for your brothers on the first and second page who were advising her to sleep with the man and even blaming her for not giving the man what he wanted. I only resonated their ideas. Thank you! |
Family / Re: Appreciation With Sex. Men Why? by jadelyn007(f): 6:31am On Jan 11, 2015 |
You see the bloody nairaland men advising you to sleep with the man, mark them! Its the same men who will whine about how no good girls in nigerian, how every naija girl is a runs girl, how you could get any girl in ur bed with a plate of indomie n all that shiit! My advice to you, meet him in an open place and try to make him see reasons why you can't sleep with him. If he refuses and threatens your job, my dear be smart and sleep with him. You won't get any trophy for losing your job rather its this same naija men that will insult you. In the end they will still be the ones to marry the recycled runsgirl. Take care and have a good life!!! |
Family / Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by jadelyn007(f): 5:33pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
Guys please chill! What do you expect me to tell her? To divorce him? She's the one who will lose, To talk to him? like she hasn't been talking all these years, to pray for him? Like we know how many sleepless praying nights she has had, to manage him like that? Like you know how frustrating an unsatisfying sex life can be. Madam, the easiest and safest option is to cheat discreetly, that way you can still keep your marriage and your sanity. Mind you, be very discreet and careful. You'll find a few women around who can refer a gigolo to you. N.B: I know most of you that are forming sanctimonious on her case are the ones on the married men patronizing prostitutes thread supporting it so please, spare me!!! This is 2015. Many of you men would do worse if it were you going through this. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by jadelyn007(f): 10:48am On Jan 09, 2015 |
my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it and still give attention to your marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best. MODIFIED For those of you who felt the righteous indignation to call me out with insults while foaming in the mouth, your brothers are on the "married men patronize prostitutes thread" waiting for you. Go and join them in celebrating their uncouth perversion or better still channel your grieve in setting them straight not me. Bloody hypocritical fooooooools forming saints on nigerian girls 13 Likes |
Family / Re: It's Beginning To Tell On Me, Not Happy About It by jadelyn007(f): 8:13am On Jan 06, 2015 |
This is how women train liabilities for other people's daughters to marry, thk God myself and my brothers are not kitchen lazy and every one cleans up his or her own mess. Even my man's 70-something year old father cooks and takes care of himself when is wife goes for omuguo, how much more his own sons. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Will Conception Be Possible Without Women In Any Way? by jadelyn007(f): 7:27am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Cococandy I agree with you. I am so looking forward to the day when this will become reality not just an idea |
Education / Re: The Notorious Ekosodin Village Uniben by jadelyn007(f): 1:16pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
lrguru:I don't use fake weaves and I hate the pouted lips and bent neck pose, call me old fashioned. |
Education / Re: The Notorious Ekosodin Village Uniben by jadelyn007(f): 10:38am On Dec 27, 2014 |
lrguru:I actually laughed out loud at this!!! 1 Like |
Education / Re: The Notorious Ekosodin Village Uniben by jadelyn007(f): 10:33am On Dec 27, 2014 |
lrguru:2010/2011 |
Education / Re: The Notorious Ekosodin Village Uniben by jadelyn007(f): 10:13am On Dec 27, 2014 |
lrguru:lol, I knw u r nt as old as my mum, am just saying. |
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