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Pero and tuface can't get enough of each other. Annie should take a chill pill, you knew what you were getting into but you went ahead.

Pero doesn't plan on leaving tuface for you alone after having 3kids for him, twin boys and a girl for that matter. She owns the house, you own the title, Better get used to it

Seems like the babes honeypot is made of diamonds that's why tuface keeps going back for more.

By the way I noticed that in most of tuface and annie's pic, tuface never smiles. But look at the way he is shining his 32 in this pic with pero, yeye man!

wtf!!! Is that the said husband

It must be d 'D'.

Truckpusher go show mama what you got, I swear this guy 'll be history .

three things that'll make an educated woman tolerate cheating 300times;

1. The money
2. The 'D'
3. She got her own game

Truckpusher:
Where are those nairalanders that were hailing her for dumping her cheating husband - Nigerian girls dumping their cheating husbands and boyfriends only on NL since 1950.

I guess they've all gone mute now.
I have said it that our women are not ready for any form of equality and liberation from mental slavery imposed on them by the patriarchal African cultural system which has held family as one close knit entity.Yet some wannabe feminists exists here online and I have gone all through the breadth and width of this country and I'm yet to come across one true Nigerian feminist that isn't allured and fooled by a man's wealth and diick .

If Dangote should put up an advert and labelled it ''strictly for NAIRALAND ladies'' I'm very sure that 99% of our ladies in this nairaland won't mind being a baby mama and a 56th wife.

cc: jadelyn007 come and speak for your fellow women oh one of them(the victim) seem to have disagreed with your stand on the previous thread.

*spreads mat and wait for her epistle*

dude!!! forget this toyin woman, if dangote dared blink in her direction she would dump this her husband without looking back twice.

I guess, she has not found a suitable replacement so why not continue using him to kill konji and get some more cash pending when someone with a better CV drops by

My humble opinion!

ccnation:
Some people mumu na Legendary!

You won enter pishure, yet you cover your face. How we won take sabi say na you dey inside the pishure?
Abi dem force dem enter the pishure?

Abeg make somebody helep me comot those Ninja from the pishure joor!

epic!!!

Please relax and don't let impatience make you take rash decisions.

The baby might truly be yours, maybe they want to punish you for a little while because you not only abandoned her but you also denied the baby when she needed you most(during the pregnancy).

You are on a journey to self redemption, take it in its stride while you find a way to get into the family's good book. If she's actually your daughter and they've been taking care of her despite the fact that you absconded, I don't see why you are panicking all of a sudden.

This should serve as a lesson to other guys who will want to deny a pregnancy when they know they were actually screwing the girl without protection. Next time the girl you've been screwing tells you she's pregnant for you, do not deny outrightly rather wait till the baby is born then go for a dna test.
Simple

bukatyne:
This sentence is sooooooooooooo funny!

Forgive me

lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

Notyourb1tch:
has anyone told you that you are hilarious?

my sister! The things one sees on nairaland, very funny really

Truckpusher please I need you to come check this out you see the trend am talking about?

Rich men acquiring all the pretty girls while the young single guys are hugging their vaseline so tightly pending when they hit a gold mine?

Chai, but men are very selfish which one will you leave for nairaland guys

CSTR:
Hyperventilating over your comments?
Only in your highly under-developed mind.
What i did was to set you straight.
And secondly,the sarcasm of foolish girls don't interest me.
Btw, i would be too busy to reply you from now on.
knock yourself out.

set me straight!!!! nigga pleasssssse! You are bent out of shape already, Channel that energy on straightening your worthless self.

Next time you see a post that you find difficult to decode or comprehend, just walk past quietly and don't make your stupidity so obvious as you have done today.

rexkexmilan:
I would have laughed but your case of mediocrity, {made evidence by your harsh & rude reply} calls for pity rather than laughter.
I insulted you, and you replied with an insult.... That makes you not only silly, but stewpid!

lmao!!! Alright monkey, you insulted me on a post that obviously wasn't thrown at you, I've noticed you since that's what you wanted all along.

Now get the hell out of my face so I can see posts from humans

rexkexmilan:
Shut up your foul smelling mouth!
Silly being!

oh gosh!!! Here we go again. Another dunce on the lose. Don't you guys have a psychiatric hospital where you are

Ooopsss! Sorry, guess you can't afford it.

Do I have to tell you how stupid you are? I guess not. You already know by now.

CSTR:
Spineless gutless senseless mofo?
haha.
That is the exact description of the
man you want to take back his wife after being absolutely cuckolded before the world.
You obviously don't know me ,which is why you can make such wild far-fetched insults.
If you had the privilege of meeting me in real life, you'd realize the gulf in class between the both of us.
You mad worthless skank.

No, you are the only mad worthless skunk on this thread.
Talking about class, what do you know about class when you are totally classless
So you are hyperventilating over my comment?

You are an immbeciiile, I should have known.
You can't even recognize sarcasm when its sitting in your face.

CSTR:
You are an idiott.
Don't bother giving birth to children so as not to pass your retardedd genes to the next generation.

You are a big goat for quoting me. How dare you spineless, brainless, gutless, senseless mofo quote me

Remind me who the Bleep you are again and tell me why you baboon think I care about your opinion.

Next time you wanna open that gutter you call a mouth go clean it up with a bleaching agent.

Big fooooooooool!!!

ileobatojo:
Yes o, he must keep his home. Afterall, she chose to marry him not any other man out there. As long as she is performing her duties of cooking and cleaning at home then he should just endure. It shows she loves him. If he leaves her, how does he know the next woman won't do the same thing? He should continue to be prayerful. Prayers work, she will eventually stop.

my sister, you just said the whole truth. The man should better go learn how to please a woman both in and out of bed because even if he choses to divorce dis woman and bring in another, the next one might just end up sleeping with the gateman or driver even. Let him just stick with this one, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. That's my humble advice.

cococandy:
sharrap.

I thought you guys hate divorce. He should just stay for the sake of his kids. Single parenthood is bad and affects the kids negatively.

So let him forgive and move on to protect the african family structure

abi o my sister. Divorce will affect the kids. They need both their mother figure and father figure together in one house.

cococandy:
sharrap.

I thought you guys hate divorce. He should just stay for the sake of his kids. Single parenthood is bad and affects the kids negatively.

So let him forgive and move on to protect the african family structure

abi o my sister. Divorce will affect the kids. They need both their mother figure and father figure together in one house.

armyofone:
I'm very sure he neglected himself too. He must have left his beard unruly, unwashed boxers, untidy home etc. Imagine coming back from her double shifts nurse job anyway he made her do it. He pushed her into the janitor's waiting arms.

you guys beat me to it! Lmao!!!

Eyah, poor man, maybe the man was not satisfying her enough or he was not taking care of himself. He probably started have a potbelly. I am sure he stopped being romantic to his wife. Anyway since this has happened let him try and forgive his wife because of the kids. Divorce has a negative efffect on kids and he won't be able to rbing them up without their mother figure to show them love.

He should start praying so that the evil janitor doesn't destroy his home. He should start pleasing his wife so that she will not look outside again. This marriage of a thing requires so much patience and endurance.

N.B: the woman is a mugu, so of all the men to cheat with you only saw janitor? :-/ see how you fall hand. If you want to eat a frog next time you better look for mature frog with lots of fat.

Truckpusher:
......you do really have mouth, don't you?

no, its not about mouth. All my life I've been surrounded by guys, from home majority of my relatives are guys, in school 90percent of my neighbors from year 1 to final year where guys, nysc same thing I was the only girl in the entire community, even at my working place there is only one other female the others are men.

So I really know how men operate

Truckpusher:
What's my business if you've decided to make your puccy a public toilet for any mofo that shows up with a smooth tongue and plenty green back to spend?

Na your body go tell you.

the usual male hypocrisy comes to play again so when the men were whoring around, they were tagging them real men and all that shiit, now the women are following suit and you hear men giving them derogatory names.

Public toilet or whatever you call it, the trend is not stopping anytime soon, rather it will get worse until you men stop leading women astray and start setting a good example for them to follow.

Until then, get used to it bro
Bye!!

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Truckpusher:
Hmmmm.....I see that you all have decided to become hos and baby manufacturing factories. issorite and I bet you speak for yourself alone.

lol, the usual male tactics
Men have be whoring and sowing their wild oats before and after marriage since the days of adam without anyone bating an eyelid, the women are just following you men's footsteps, it shouldn't bother you guys that much should it??

After all men are the head like you all chant, technically a leader leads by example. The women are following the examples men have set my dear, you guys should just keep up with the hoeing around.
Even the rate of domestic violence from women has increased. These days you find women who stab their husbands to death, set him on fire, cut off his D. Lately it was a girl who killed a married oil worker in portharcout and those street workers in one of those eastern states who cut off men's D when they are about to climax :-P (that shiit is funny as hell)

You guys started whoring, messing up girls after girls after girls, now you turn around and say you can't find virgins to marry, did you keep any before? :-P

Domestic violence was a way of instilling fear and discipline in women, now you try that this 21st century at your own peril. You might just wake up one morning and find your D is missing

I just love the new trend between men and women

Truckpusher:
You're right and even with the above it is not yet Uhuru as you would perpetually remain at the receiving end, ending up as baby mamas for absentee fathers,valued like a commodity and many of you would end up running around as concubines for men that are too eager to service other women with zero respect for women.

The women would still come out of it worse as the scale of economic equality has not and is not yet tilted towards being treated as equal - I hope you're getting the bigger picture

lol, that's how you guys see but, how I see it is that since nothing like love in the picture women would hunt down men with much money to spend. So in the end, its only going to be the rich who will have access to women, the poor guys will be too broke to afford women.

Women will go after the highest spender.

Look around you, many men are looking for wives yet some wealthy men are having as much as 10wives.

Women don't mind being baby mamas as long as the guy is a celeb and has money to spend. You see it as a punishment and you pity the women, hell no, they want to be baby mamas. They plan to be so they can continue getting the cash from the man.

I have met many girls who don't want to be married, they just want to have kids for rich men, they want fame and money.

Look at the likes of shade okoya and caroline ekanem danjuma, please tell me these girls did not find single guys to marry? No, they would rather go after the rich ones with 20wives already. They figure men are going to cheat anyway so what's the point being with a broke nigga who is going to cheat anyway. So better to sight your husband cheating from your limousine than from an okada.

A time will come broke guys will not find anyone to marry them except some really ugly girls or retired highway prostitute.ss.

The rich men are going after the young and pretty babes. The men even marry them before they are born.

In a time to come many nairaland guys will have no woman except their vaseline and whoore houses.

While the rich, celebs, oil block owners, gold dealers will have as many as 30wives each.

Mind you, this will also increase corruption in the society since most men will want to acquire wealth by any means so that they can have any woman at their disposal.

Do you still feel the women are at the receiving end?
I have seen women who have kids for as many as 4men. They marry one man, as soon as he goes broke, they dump him and the kids and go unto the next rich man, serially. I even have one close to my house right now. The kids are begging the woman to come back to their dad. They live with their dad afterall they bear his name not her name.

Women are beating men to their game in cheating.

Some married women have husbands who are not so wealthy yet they have many houses to their name secretly built for them by their secret sugar daddies.

You men said Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world, many men have unknowingly trained kids that don't belong to them. The women have learnt very fast from their men and are fast overtaking no time to say no time.

N.B: the next generation of women will be like kanwilia; wild and free, married yet with a trail of rich sugar daddies behind her. No worries, no commitment. She's having the best of both her worlds

Truckpusher:
Every average man out there is aware of the challenges that comes with marriage , this is the 21st century and more women are becoming educated as well as being self dependence and self sufficient but the unfortunate thing here is that most women if not all sees this there new found status as a front to challenge the norms and value systems of a society that has existed for thousands of years and is embedded in the people's way of life and belief system and this is where the clash is always happening.

You have a society where men are getting four wives and some even more ,how do you think that the man with just a wife will begin to see it as being morally wrong if he decides to keep for himself a concubine? This is not a kind of support for any form of adultery or infidelity - This is what is obtainable in our society today.

This issue is a complex one and until the Government comes in and make it a civil offence with some sort of punishment women would always be at the receiving end because the society itself which is the very fabric of our foundation is tainted with that culture.So, if you continuously divorce because your men are cheating on you down here in the South what will the woman in Kano,Zamfara,and Sokoto do because their husbands are marrying and keeping them in hoards?..The system is flawed and whoever forces it or adopts any strategy to make a point will end up causing more chaos and the ensuing negative proceeds from such chaos will always come back to bite the same society.

I do not support any form of cheat - My spirit hates it with passion.

well then, we all should get used to seeing divorce as norm. I don't see the divorce rates going down anytime soon, rather I foresee a future where women will have as many as 4husbands in their entire life time.

More women will start getting married just for kids or for money, once the money stops pouring in their coffers they move onto the next.

Since you men can't do anything to forestall the trend, Its going to be a mad fun kind of future, I can't wait!

Truckpusher:
My point is that divorce shouldn't be encouraged as the negative influence of divorce in any society outweighs any gain of it.
Divorce shouldn't be used as an excuse for people that are looking for the easy way out without trying to work things out.

Na only blokos dey wander? .....how about all those plenty women wey one peniis no dey do dem?

ok, divorce should not be encouraged but wondering blokoses should be encouraged.

Please that divorce is not the problem, divorce is a result of a dysfunctional marriage. If we all keep shying away from the main problem breaking marriages (adultery and domestic violence) the rates of divorce will keep soaring.

Its the 21st century, women no longer turn a blind eye to ill treatment in marriage that's why.

Since these women have wised up and are no longer as tolerating as in past times, what do you men intend to do to reduce the rates of divorce?

I want to hear your opinion on what you men can do to savage the situation.

rosety:
Lol? Naa. That should be COL (crying out loud)!

The major advantage of early planning is the reduced headache for the bride on that day, making it possible for her to just relax and enjoy herself. Has she made her budget? Decided on venue and vendors? Has she picked her colours? Does she know where her gown is coming from? Her bouquet? It's a long asśed list she has to go through.

If she thinks people will laugh at her for "initial gra gra" she should know that same people will laugh at her red eyes on that day.

lol, she's picked colors, she is doing a custom made gown but she is yet to pick out the fabrics she wants. Last time I heard from her she was still deciding who will do what, as in the photographer, DJ, caterer, venue decorator e.t.c. She hasn't even bought a thing.

I keep telling her to start early she thinks there's still time. I did chief brides maid for a friend and she was panicking so much she started crying. Took so much effort to calm her down.

Anyway lemme represent her on this thread

loveonfire:
I did not marry a mad woman nor me a saint , I married her as a wife and she is the mother of my children. My family loves her but she is always of the belive that they are planning against her and that they want her out of my life. she accused me that I am going out with my friends to meet a secret woman that I have.
I come back she starts smelling my dick and checking me out to see if there is anything she can pick out.
I am here for advice and not insults.

could be she has caught you cheating before that's why she finds it difficult to trust you again. Either way, you either work on making her trust and love you again or you divorce her.

You must have given her a reason to change her attitude if she wasn't like this when you married her.
Tell us the complete story, at what point did she start acting this way, what happened?

bukatyne:
The opinions are divided

please let us know the result of the poll

Timbuktou:
Half of a diaper soiler? No, I'll pass. Enjoy your full diaper-soiler-husband. I don't care if you cuss out my line of sight. I really don't care. You really are silly, caplock you to death? Pfft, this converstaion is over. Ciao.

Dunce, what's your obsession with diapers? You still in them?

Timbuktou:
You brought my wife into this first.

Maybe after your husband chokes on his saliva. . Now go clean his diapers

u r just senseless, maybe you should go back and read the post slowly so that you can assimilate. I wasn't insulting your wife. Anyway if you we're half the man my husband is, you would know how to counter someone's opinion without calling it silly, dumbo!!!

Look around, you are not the only one who mentioned my comment but you are the only one am cussing out

Thank God I can cuss you all I want, you can't caplock me to death over the internet

Aisha2 please lend that man money to get a divorce lawyer, I guess he's too broke to afford one. Seriously!!! He had better park his stuff and get out of that house immediately

You shouldn't feel guilty, at least you told her the plain truth. Its left for her to make out the meaning of that statement and know where she stands with you and decide if she wants to walk or stay.

It shouldn't give you sleepless night.