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Our perception of ourselves is very complex. Ironically, much like we cannot see our own nose, we are often blinded to the things that we are best at. It can be really hard to identify our brightest talents and they are often in the places we least expect. We may even be very good at things that we perceive ourselves as being bad at. There are many good reasons to want to explore your talents but it's going to take a little work.

1. Open your mind to all paths:
Because you are likely blind to what some of your talents really are, a good place to start when evaluating your talents is to just open your mind to the possibilities. Keep in mind that talents extend beyond just playing the guitar or dancing like a pro. Talents come in all shapes and sizes and extend into many areas of life. For example, being able to read emotions very accurately is a very useful talent.

2. Think About What You Enjoy:
The things that make you happy can also reveal your talents. Think about the things that you love to do. Do people ever give you compliments on it? Do they ever ask for your help with it? You might not think of it as a talent but it probably is. Do you ever completely lose track of time? You start doing something and you just don't even notice time passing? This might hint at your talent.

For example, maybe you get lost when you're modding your favourite video game. This might be one of your talents. Listen to how you talk. Do you ever find yourself rambling to your family or your best friend about this subject that means so much to you? This might be another hint at a talent you have.


3. Evaluate What You're Good At:
Now, there's a big difference between what you enjoy and what you're good at. You might think of your talents only being things that you love doing, but it's important to remember that our talents are often things we don't enjoy or things we don't even think about. This is why it's important to take a long hard look at what you're actually good at. Think about things that come naturally to you. Things you don't struggle with. Do you ever find yourself telling someone, "Never mind, it's easier if I do it" or "Here, let me help you with that"? Do you find yourself correcting people? These behaviours usually indicate something that you're good at and know a lot about.


4. Look Back On Your Past:
As you reflect on yourself in search of your talents, start by looking at your past. Look at the things that you've done. Look at the things you've enjoyed. Look at the times when you really excelled. Ask yourself questions like "What am I most proud of that I've done?" or "When was I so proud that I didn't care what anyone thought?"

One good thing to think about was what your childhood was like. What did you do a lot as a kid? What did you enjoy? What were you known for? Sometimes this can reveal some of our deepest talents and certainly will reveal interests that can be probed further. Think about your hobbies as your personality is made by them they are the things you do regularly and your hidden talent is that which you can do better than everyone so focus on your hobbies and how you do them every single step. Another thing you can think about are the times in your life that you've been challenged. Think about the tough situations that you've had to deal with. Times of trial can often reveal our hidden skills.


5. Think about times you were successful:
Look back on your life and think about times where you really succeeded, times where you felt about to burst with the pride of your success. This can indicate a talent you possess. For example, maybe you helped your boss rearrange and reorganize his office and helped things at your work run so much more smoothly. Organization is a very useful talent.

6. Ask around:
Having an outside perspective, other people may find it easier to see what you're good at. Ask around and people will usually be happy to tell you what they see as your strengths. Be sure to talk to people that know you well but also people that barely know you. Both will see you in different ways and the differences that they see can tell you even more about yourself.

1. Adjust Your Diet:
“A healthy diet that incorporates a mix of protein and nutrients can improve the condition of your hair,” balanced eating keeps follicles strong and prevents the hair from breaking easily. It is advised to incorporate Omega-3 oils. I recommend salmon or supplements. Nuts are a good source, too, especially almonds.”

2. But Don’t Overdo It:
It’s important to keep weight stable and not avoid yo-yo dieting, as hair can be affected by extreme regimen changes in addition to stress and hormone levels.

3. Get Smart About Styling:
It’s a fact well-acknowledged that heat can be wildly damaging to hair, especially when it’s already compromised, so limiting the use of a flat iron or curling wand to three times a week is best. limit exposure to sunlight, as it can strip the hair, and blow drying, adding. A weekly deep conditioner masque is a good idea to keep hair as healthy as possible. Many hair care products include the same stripping ingredients as detergents, so it’s vital to choose wisely.

4. Try Vitamins and Conditioning Ingredients:
Phytantriol, arginine and fish oil, and biotin aid in the production of enzymes and hormones, which can help stimulate hair growth. The cleanse/treat/condition routine is designed to push regenerating anti-aging ingredients, like hyaluronic acid, deeper into the follicle, scalp and hair, which helps prolong the hair’s growth phase.

In addition the use of supplements like Viviscal, which includes biotin, vitamin C, and a special complex of shark powder known as AminoMar, to help aid hair growth and scalp stimulation.

5. Take it Easy:
Because stress can affect hair, it is recommends to have weekly have a deep-tissue massages to relax body and mind. The adrenals pump out extra cortisol when we are stressed, which leads to acne, skin inflammation, and possible hair disorders.

6. Prevention Is Key:
It’s much easier to prevent damage than fix it when growing out your hair. After a while of wear and tear on the hair, it really gets broken down. Moisturize, trim and keep heat styling to a minimum. Moisturize it and protect it to prevent future damage.


Your hair is a reflection of how you feel. If you are healthy your hair looks great and shiny.


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While there’s no real wrong way to apply makeup, every woman makeup has her own method for creating the ultimate effect. Prepare to be amazed.

1. Apply Mascara First:
“I’ve always been a big believer in applying mascara first— and last. After you’ve primed your skin, apply a coat of mascara to open your eyes, create that important definition, and map the rest of your makeup look. Once you’ve finished your eye makeup, then apply a second coat of mascara. When you’re completely finished, do one final assessment to see if you need another coat for a finishing touch.”

2. Line Your Lips After Applying Lipstick:
When it comes to lipstick, I always advise lining the lips last to help contain the colour and perfect the shape of the lips without creating a harsh, unnatural line.

3. Fill In Brows From The Outside In:
When filling in the brows, I recommend working from the outside in to create the most natural shape. Brows typically need more definition on the ends so by using this method you’re applying stronger colour where you really need it. When
you’re finished working your way in, brush the brows back into place for a natural finish.

4. Use Concealer Before Foundation:
Before applying your base, use concealer to cover any areas of discolouration (e.g. under the eyes, around the nose and mouth, and any blemishes). Then apply foundation only where you really need it and blend it out to nothing for the most natural look.

5. Line Your Eyes Starting At The Outer Corner:
To create the perfect angle for your eyeliner, line the outer corner of the lower lash line first and extend slightly beyond the corner of the eye. Then come back in toward the upper lash line. Using this line as your guide will give you a beautiful line that enhances the natural shape of your eyes.



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Newbieeee:
Talking tom cat ..

You are so quick to forget what the job of a counsellor is.. Just as a doctor heals wounds, a counsellor heals hearts, there are people out there, who all they need is somebody to talk to and share their pains with. Studies have shown that most suicide cases would have been averted if only the victims confined in someone. I remember even as a teenager there was a time I got stuck, wondering what career choice to make. Which is a severe case among Nigerian male youths today, they all want to become professional footballers and musicians even those who don't have the talent.

Football or music might be your hobby and not your career. I know of a thousand-and-one Nigerian youth who have tirelessly chased a career in football because they feel they love football so much, but to no avail. If only these wasted time had been channelled into something profitable. So many Nigerian youths get stuck in career choices like these. Some even go to the extent of neglecting school for a career that is clearly uncertain. Most time the eyes of these youths are shut from the truth and reality. They are willing to go extra miles for these.


Please don't get me wrong am not saying it is wrong for a person to chase his or her career or ambition. But for the fact that you love music or football doesn't mean you should jump into it as a career. It might just be an hobby and not your profession. It is our job to counsel them on issues like and also help them make right choices

hbpeze:
Bro try getting a marketing job with gnld cus you are joblesd

You are so quick to forget what the job of a counsellor is.. Just as a doctor heals wounds, a counsellor heals hearts, there are people out there, who all they need is somebody to talk to and share their pains with. Studies have shown that most suicide cases would have been averted if only the victims confined in someone. I remember even as a teenager there was a time I got stuck, wondering what career choice to make. Which is a severe case among Nigerian male youths today, they all want to become professional footballers and musicians even those who don't have the talent.

Football or music might be your hobby and not your career choice. I know of a thousand-and-one Nigerian youth who have tirelessly chased a career in football, because they feel they love football so much, but to no avail. If only these wasted time had been channelled into something profitable. So many Nigerian youths get stuck in career choices like these. Some even go to the extent of neglecting school for a career that is clearly uncertain. Most at time the eyes of these youths are shut from the truth and reality. They are willing to go extra miles for these.


Please don't get me wrong am not saying it is wrong for a person to chase his or her career or ambition. But for the fact that you love music or football doesn't mean you should jump into it as a career. It might just be an hobby and not your profession. It is our job to counsel them on issues like and also help them make right choices

With the growing rate of marriage failures as a result of infidelity in Nigeria and beyond, Job Trends Nigeria decided to look into the epidemic from our own perspective and we realised that there are careers that makes couple more prone
to having their marriages hit the rock.


Some couples are having a blistering career and are earning an enviable pay package, but they are still not happy because their marital life is at the receiving end of it. Don’t be deceived by the range rover vogue your friend drives, she really wished she could be like you and have her marriage intact. Don’t be deceived by the fact that some of this couples works in to church clinging to each other like they have it all perfect, it’s just a make-believe. Marriages are hitting the
rocks every day in this country.

Below are a list of the top 5 careers (jobs) that can put your marriage on the brinks.

Note: I am not in any way advocating that these careers are bad, or that everybody in the career mentioned here is a victim. No. not at all.

1. Offshore Oil Jobs:
Yes, the oil big boys are first on my list. Taking up a career in the oil industry as an offshore dude makes your marriage very porous. Some of my friends in that industry confided in me and they all have same problem. What is the problem? They earn an enviable some with benefits but they have just six months in a year to utilize anything they have acquired, including their wives. Imagine when a guy works two weeks on, two weeks off. That makes it a cumulative six months on, six months off by the end of a year. God help you, your wife is the type that is promiscuous, and she knows she has six months of uninterrupted sexual escapades with the guy next door. Sorry bro.

One of my friend even complained to me that after paying for DSTV full bouquet for 12 months, he gets to watch it for only six months. It’s funny but, it’s that bad. Also, do I need to mention that some companies deploy s*x workers to their rigs on the high sea to reduce work hazards? In fact, this service I learnt has a good budget and it is outsourced to some core ‘HR Companies. Ladies beware.


2. Aviation Jobs (Pilots/Air Hostesses):
In addition to the usual “pilot’s wife syndrome” that is common amongst women married to pilots, some of them are also battling with the fact that her husband has a side chick in every state capital and country his plane touches. Not empirically proved though, but pilots are hot preys of eagle-eyed girls searching for fun and funds. ‘I don’t know about you, but I can’t marry an air hostess,’ a guy once told me. If your wife happens not to have her virtues intact, then she is the first dumping pot for the promiscuous pilots. To make matters worse, if she happens to be the bread winner of the family, you won’t just be battling with the fact that you are now the house-husband, but also the fact that you can’t even complain when she goes on numerous self-imposed trips with the high profile contacts she met on board. Not all of them sha o!


3. Hospital (Doctors/Nurses):
A ‘quickie session’ is part of the job. Not their faults really. It takes a special hand of God to shield a young doctor from the advances of female patients that feel they owe their lives to them. The nurses too. Their attire does not help matters at all. It could even pass for a s*xual harassment case.


4. SHOW BIZ ( Actors, Models, Music Artist, TV
Personalities):
It’s not as if that marriage failure is high in this industry alone. We only get to hear about the rate of the divorce and separation in this industry because they are public figures. When you are deciding to pursue a career in this industry, be tactful and prayerful not to blossom in the industry at the expense of your marital life.

5. LECTURING JOB:
The fact that lecturers are vulnerable to cheating on their spouses is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf. I know some university dons that live in the university community alone without their families. Some only get to see their family during weekends. Common, there is a pool of girls of easy virtue in our university communities today (I mean no disrespect to the female folks), but the number of girls in our higher institutions who are not ready to study is
alarming, but at the end they come out in flying colors. Don’t ask me how. Ask your husband.

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Having convinced themselves that African people were
incapable of nationhood both historically and developmentally however large, the colonial masters
proceeded to form mixtures of these tribes into alleged pre-
state bands or tribes into units which they called "federations" and other fancy titles. They did this simply by
drawing straight lines on maps. In fact, the post-colonial
history of Africa and the world is replete with the carcasses
of these false federations which have collapsed one after the other like a pack of cards.


1. The Central African Federation:
This was also known as the federation of Rhodesia and
Nyassaland. It was created by the British in 1953 after a so-
called referendum. It comprised of the protectorates of Nyassaland, Northern Rhodesia and the self governing colony of Southern Rhodesia. The unworkable contraption
collapsed in 1963, paving the way for the present day modern states of Malawi, Zambia and Zimbabwe.


2. The East African Federation:
A supposed federation of Kenya, Tanganyika, Uganda and
Zanzibar, this British contraption was created in 1848. All the usual trappings of the state joint high commission etc. were set up. The silly set up however started to fall apart in 1961 following the independence of Tanzania. Today the so-called East African Federation has been consigned to the dustbin of history and its place are the states of Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda. That was yet another requiem for a pseudo-African Federation, the product of the colonial ideology in Africa.


3. The Sahel-Benin Union:
The British were not alone in setting up worthless federations, the French also set up unworkable unions in
Africa. One of such federations purported to amalgamate
the state of Dahomey (now Benin), Ivory Coast, Niger and
Upper Volta (present day Burkina Faso) in 1959. Also known
as Conseil de L'Etente, the unworkable union has since been
consigned to the dustbin of history. Elsewhere in the area,
the French created union of Central African republics formed in french Equatorial Africa also bit the dustbin, another testimony to the bankruptcy of colonially-inspired
union of opposites.




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Women who are uncertain of a man's feelings toward them end up reporting more attraction to those men.

Laziness is just a natural part of being a teenager and doesn't reflect bad behaviour, a study!

A mother in Sydney, Australia, gave birth to twins 56 days apart.

Abraham Lincoln created the Secret Service just hours before he was assassinated.

The word "tip" dates back to the old London coffee houses. It's an acronym turned a byword.. "To Insure Promptness".

In Indonesian, the onomatopoeia for a heartbeat is "Dig dag dug"


Wearing a perfume can make you feel more confidence.

Belgium is the only country that has never imposed censorship for adult films.



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adonbilivit:
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nah!! Not everybody posts fake links bro!! If only it where possible, the video would have been uploaded on Nairaland.

You can do that your private thing and keep it. It is private so you must keep it as private. Protect it and let it stay private. If you let it come out, then it means you don’t want it as private again. It then becomes public.


The point of sharing this?
This should serve as a lesson to everyone especially the female reader, your past can hunt you this should preach, never use your today to kill your future

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We often use benchmarks as measures of progress. ‘How is your favourite football team doing at the beginning of this season?’

‘How many words does your one-year-old son say in a minute?’ And, of course, there’s the time-honoured measure of how well a new president is doing after 100 days in office. In case you hadn’t heard, that benchmark is here for President Buhari. You may feel it’s a little impertinent for me to issue a report card for President Buhari on his performance during his first 100 days in office. Yes, I’m not his teacher, and he’s not my student. But what the heck? It’s a free country and everyone else is doing it. So here it goes:

1. CONFIDENCE:
Buhari has brought back confidence in governance. Especially in tough times, the confident presence of a leader begets confidence in those that he or she leads. With his steady demeanour, optimistic outlook and command, Buhari embodies confidence. The number of incompetent heads of parastatals he has sacked so far reflects that sentiment. The percentage of Nigerians who think the country is on the right track is up.
GRADE: A1


2. PACE OF GOVERNANCE:
When the pressure is high, leaders need perspective. They need swift action. Buhari is working on so many things all by himself that it’s sometimes hard to keep track of all of them. He has too much on his plate. He should get into perspective and allow others do the job where he can’t. It won’t be a surprise to discover that the
president is in charge of his travel itinerary, meeting schedule and other range of issues on his plate. He runs the risk of edging toward a burn out. Well, some argue that the president is keeping a pace that works for him.
GRADE: F9


3. COMMUNICATIONS:
Effective leadership communication is outcome oriented and audience specific. President Buhari is clearly not an articulate communicator and he doesn’t do enough to shape his message to the audience. Hearing Mr. President pronounce APC leaves you lost and wondering if you heard him correctly. Maybe his media aides should have used this as an excuse to exonerate him from the hundred things he promised to have achieved before his first 100 days in office that has now capped him as a liar. Buhari’s tone of voice usually stays within a fairly narrow range. He could do better here.
GRADE: F9


4. TEAM PLAYER:
There are two major factors on this distinction. The first is to get a great team in place. The second is to get your ego out of the way and allow the team to do their job. Buhari has stumbled here and most people will agree that his failure to appoint ministers in his first 100 days in office has been a setback to governance. Whether you agree with me or not, Buhari can’t be president and ministers all by himself. We need competent hands to man the various ministries. You cannot achieve a lot in three and half months without the support of a team. Good leaders are the keepers of the what, not the masters of the how. Assembling a strong team also helps in establishing an agenda. Buhari needs to realise that he’ll likely never have more momentum than he has now if he doesn’t put a team on the ground. GRADE: F9


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Sexual intercourse is no doubt one of the key obligations in marriage. It is a pleasurable act that both men and women enjoy. Apart from the enjoyment, excitement and mind-blowing ecstasy that come with it, sex has also been said to be of
great benefits to the body, as earlier discussed on this page. Some people, under the guise of the pleasure and benefits, have made it a daily affair; turning it to ‘food’ that must be taken every day and anytime opportunity presents itself.

But, despite the numerous benefits of sex, especially in marriage, a study has shown that having too much of it could make people miserable. It does appear that the common saying that too much of everything is bad is also applicable to sex, regardless of how exciting it
could be. The study explained that too much $ex could lead to a reduced sexual drive and pleasure derived from it and that any attempt to continue with it could make such person(s) miserable.


The researchers from Carnegie Mellon University in the United States found that the connection between sex and happiness is not as direct as it seems. In the course of the study, reviewed by Mail Online, 128 married persons between the age of 35 and 65 were divided into two groups. The first group was instructed to have more sex and double the number of times they have sexual intercourse weekly, while the second group received no instruction on how much sex they should have. Thus, they were allowed to initiate it on their own.

While the observation lasted, the participants in the two groups were also questioned on their happiness levels, the frequency of their intercourse, their health behaviours and how much they enjoyed sex. At the end of the study, it was found that those who were told to double their sexual activity reported lower sexual drive and a reduction in their sexual enjoyment while those who were allowed to have it at their own will sustained their sexual drive and they enjoyed it better. The researchers explained that having more sex could lead to a decreased sexual drive and happiness, noting that sex is more of quality than quantity. In other words, those who were under instruction kept doing it until they got tired of it and even lost the pleasure or enjoyment that comes with sex.



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Hazardd:
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1. Notice your tendencies:
You and I, we both have our
unique tendencies that distract us from the present
moment. I’m a worrier, so I tend to think about the future
and try to solve problems before they even happen. What
are your tendencies? What kind of thoughts tend to rob you
of the now? These questions will help you become more
mindful about what is going on in your head, which in turn
leads to mindful. A few examples of tendencies that are
very common are: anxiety worry regret guilt fear pleasure
seeking. A great tip is to write down your tendencies and
how they tease you out of the now. Grab a piece of pen and
paper, and just do it.

2. Practice acceptance:
Once you start
becoming mindful of your tendencies, it’s crucial that you
don’t judge yourself. Practice acceptance and embrace who
you are. The tendencies you have are there for a reason.
They are signposts pointing to the areas of your life that
need attention. If you’re a chronic worrier, you need to start
noticing whenever you begin drifting to the future. Become
mindful, observe your thoughts, and breathe. We believe
our thoughts to be the authority on life, but that couldn’t be
further from the truth. Our thoughts are just thoughts.

3.
Focus on your breath:
Your breath is a powerful and simple
way to anchor yourself in the present moment. Whenever
you are having a hard time staying in the now, take deep
breaths, and focus on your breathing. You could even count
your breaths. Something I like to do is count to four on the
inhale and four on the exhale. It focuses the logical part of
my brain on counting and allows me to focus on my breath.
After a while I can release the crutch of counting and just be.

4. Question your thoughts:
Your thoughts aren’t always right.
In fact, they are rarely right, especially if they make you feel
bad. Question your thoughts constantly. When you start to
feel negative emotions, use it as a reminder to examine
what thoughts are causing the commotion . Most people
walk around all day letting negative thoughts cause negative
feelings. We both know that nothing good can come out of
this. It takes discipline to be mindful, but the rewards are
peace and happiness. Even researchers are discovering the
power of emotions. Negative emotions not only have the
power to make you feel bad, but can affect your physical
health as well. Whenever a negative thought arises, take a
step back, and look at if the thought is true.

5. Use
reminders:
Another great way to stay anchored in the now is
to use reminders . It can be as simple as tying a white string
around your wrist. Each time you look at the white string,
you are reminded of the present moment. Are you in the
now, or are you somewhere else? There are no limits to
what you can use as a reminder. If you want to take this
even further, you can add a new reminder each week. Start
using external reminders such as red cars, billboards, and
so on. If you keep doing this, you will be astonished at the
results.

6. Be determined:
Increasing the time you spend in
the present moment can be a lot of work. If you’re serious
about becoming more mindful, you have to be determined.
There will be times when you feel like you want to throw in
the towel. You will face challenges, obstacles, and problems.
But if you’re determined, you will get through them. They
are nothing but teachers on your path. When you make
becoming more mindful one of your main goals, you simply
cannot fail.

7. Follow your passion:
I have noticed that the
more I follow my passion and my hearts deepest desire, the
more I am able to stay in the now. I enjoy every second of
every minute when I’m working on something I love. My
heart buzzes with joy and I feel amazing. Writing is one of
my passions. I love helping people improve their life. It
makes me come alive, and it keeps me in the present
moment. Inspiration flows effortlessly, and it’s almost like I am channeling someone else as I am writing. Find your
passion and go after it. Becoming more mindful is done
step-by-step . You do not have to go all-in. You only have to
increase the amount of time you spend in the present
moment each and every day. If you do that, it’s impossible
for you not to become a mindful master.

"To get the best out of life, realise your past without regret, handle your present with confidence, prepare for your future without fear".

You can change anything and everything about yourself by changing the way we think about them even your body physique, in the presence of evidence that contradicts. For instance, if you look at the mirror and say to yourself, "Oh I am fat, am a failure, I can't make it in life", mentally you are sending messages that automatically affects your body in just that way. This is a strong case for the mind power to change the body physically, mentally and psychologically. We have generally been thought that there is a little connection between our thoughts and our physical bodies, whether this is true or not.

Certainly there is no harm having a positive outlook towards yourself. Every cell in our body is bubbling with life and possess its own intelligence. We send messages or commands to our cells and those commands are carried out efficiently. In the same manner, we can consciously direct cells to do what we want them to do. The body will bring about whatever result the conscious mind desires. The mind continues to access the body condition and making it to be true. So if you if you have had negative thoughts or images about yourself, you can right now begin to reverse this trend. If due to habit you say something negative about yourself mere acknowledge it, but do not reinforce it, instead simply suggest that the remedy be carried out positively.

Remember!!!!!! "If you truly believe you can do something, you can" and "Someone out there Is happy with less than u have".


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There have been various reasons why lots of married
women cheat. Here are a few reasons….

1. Complacency:
Most married couples get tired of each other few months
after marriage. Being always in each other’s faces and more
can push many women to welcome attention from other places other than their husbands. This gradually get even the very innocent of them into what they do not want before they could realize it.

2. Lacking:
The Fear of God (Very Dangerous) The fear of God has its
place in every relationship. A prayer-less woman who is not
so conscious of God can do anything just to satisfy her inner
canal desires.

3. Not Satisfied With Sex:
A woman who has been around the block will find nothing
spectacular about the next in line cock. She has seen her fair share and has realised that their is nothing left to explore. It however takes an understanding husband who does not mind going all the way to satisfy the sexual desires of his woman. Ask some women why they engage in extra marital affairs and they will tell you it is because of the need for them to explore more ‘grounds’.

4. Financial Situations:
Women just don’t know how to survive without money and
they find it difficult if they are unable to buy some basic
things such as panties, bra, make-up kit, dresses etc. Usually
with marriage, some of these things come to a halt or are
reduced. She doesn’t get the opportunity to go shopping and
all that and before you know it, she’s cheating with a man
who can satisfy those needs.

5. Limited Expectations:
Quite a lot of women have this high expectation of marriage. The fantasize about how rosy and fairy tale-like marriage will be. When reality comes knocking, their disappointment might push them off the cliff. The look for satisfaction and fulfilment and get into the wrong places.

6. Intimacy With time:
Couples become distant due to children, jobs and economic
pressure, meanwhile, women love the intimacy and privacy
shared together. When it’s not forthcoming, she’s likely to
get someone who will provide her with that.

7. Low self-esteem:
This is the most dangerous. Run if you see this trait in a
woman. When a woman is insecure about herself, she has a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don’t love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don’t love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love.