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Capillary88:
You're Bad boy. You're a very Bad boy.

Thanks sir! This is a compliment! Last time I heard this was decades ago...then it was an insult!!
Thank you again!

Capillary88:
His size cannot allow him to play football, so I wonder the skills you're talking about

Not body shaming o, but mr Guvnor looks like a triangle!

Salisu "Toronto" Buhari

Homeboiy:
They left their country to fight in another man’s land

They're called soldiers of fortune!

Magnetboss:
Chicken change that will be exhausted before they leave the school gate. This is a federal government institution for crying out loud. The FG is supposed to create a program where best graduating students are given good sums of money not this shit right here..

Even the individuals will long be forgotten before they reach their homes that very day!
This is why the brain drain can't stop!

HardBishop:
I likely how she hit the idiot for penis

The same p*nis she had been riding! Soon many other p*nises will sample her left and right before she comes to realize what wrong she has done!

i like the part that says he was left STUNNED!

Exceed15:
Hezbollah invited war that doesn't concern them in the name of supporting their Muslim terrorists brothers.

Funny that in reality, Hamas and Hezbollah dont see things in the same perspective as far the faith is concerned! Always at each others throats!

IGBOPROMISE1:
I'm not about to pity any woman that carries her own leg to walk to Libya of all places! I'm tired of feeling sorry for naive Nigerians!

they are not naive o, just stubborn! Let them go, kill and come back!
We dey here waiting for them!

opera1:
So who send them to Libya?
Most of these people are aware of what they are going to face before embarking on the journey

if they had never heard of the situation in Lybia i would have been sympathetic, but over the last 30 years i have been hearing, i have seen people go , die, or come back with tears of woe! Yet someone feels 'it cant and wont happen to me!' they go and start crying back for help and solicit pity and sympathy from us who are 'fearful' to go or have the common sense to know its not safe out there!!!

YouandiAllofus:
I may not fully be abreast with the severity of the misfortunes in your marriage right now. But going by the story you posted up there, I don't think that you have a problem in your marriage.

Actually, by not telling your wife before handing that financial assistance to your sister is enough to give your wife reasons to be concerned regardless whether you gave her money for clothing as well.
Your sincerity is put to question.
What you're trying to make her understand is that 1 + 1 is equal to 2 which is correct outside marriage but in marriage, 1 + 1 is equal to 1.
Aside emergency situations, every intentions and reactions are supposed to be shared at all times no matter how weighty or light they may be.
This is one way to build trust and shut the door to suspicions.

Sir, you're quite on point!
Unfortunately, following the story, the wife has insecurity issues and naturally feels it when anything is done in favor of one who's not herself or her family members!
Let me tell you, if your wife doesn't do so then you're very lucky and have a very rare case.
Mostly, women have this attitude they can't control, once you buy something for yourself, better buy hers too else....
Notice that the OP said he had given her 150k for clothing same day too. I can guarantee that had he told his wife he was helping his sister with cash she would have found means to discourage him. Imagine saying she's asked him for money and he'd not given her!
A huge percentage of husbands give to their relations without info to their spouses, it's not about trust but about discretion...

Jeferious:
It depends. Mine worked successfully. In fact everyone thought we'd marry each other. But I graduated and went back home...and the distance took its toll on the relationship.

The key thing here is maturity. I won't try such with someone who's clingy and too emotionally dependent.

My niece started dating her neighbor, her mum was furious! Today, through thick and thin, they're happily married, 4 kids, stupendous wealth, yet very modest!
It works once there's maturity!

Efuaye:
If you can not take good pictures of the car you want to sell, how do you expect to attract a prospect?

Prolly hiding something!

Kingzjayzee:
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Somtie24: Pay attention to how your mother-in-law treats her husband-it could be a preview of how your wife might treat you.

Dean: Never marry a woman who doesn't speak good about her Dad.
Chances are high that you won't be able to please her as a man.

single stitch clothing: never marry the woman who doesn't want you to look good.

Agree with sometie24

justtoodark:
this girls have been doing this thing for money since the 80s....

nothing new....

You took the words outta my mouth!!
Nothing new here, when economy boomed they said they just wanted to reap the benefits from those who could help afford it...now economy is down, they said they're trying to survive....
All these "my friend introduced me to it" tells us the kind of friends they keep!

My first son received a letter from a gal when they were in primary 1 with about the same content, she didn't include the "I love you" but she expressed her feelings by saying saying since their parents are close friends that's her parents and us, then he means a lot to her! She folded the letter and gave my son, he read it and maybe he didn't grasp the whole thing, but when I came to pick him up he just handed it to me and ran off to play! I read it and was initially shocked, so began to watch for a next one it didn't come, but I'll say soon we moved away, changed school now we're almost a third of the world away from them but they're still friends.... since 2006!
What I realized growing up and becoming a parent is, we tend to hide the true nature of situations and don't want to hear certain things happen to us or our siblings or our children...it has the potential to happen, but how we prep our children and ourselves for it matters.
At 17 I was already rolling in the hay, my son is 22, he cares not about that but a nerd and ICT is his passion...
Those saying world is coming to and end have yet to have any true experience about life and happenings!

MONEY247:
I see people listening events that they claim to have achieved in the year and they mention marriage....is marriage really an achievement

GETTING MARRIED IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT, MAINTAINING THE MARRIAGE TILL DEATH D US PART IS THE ACHIEVEMENT!
WHEN THE STORMS OF LIFE HIT, CAN BOTH OF YOU SAIL THROUGH? WHEN THE TEMPTATIONS ASSAIL YOU, CAN YOU ENDURE? WHEN THE PHYSICAL APPEARANES FALL, CAN YOU STILL HOLD ON TO HER/HISS HAND? WHEN CHILDREN OR FINANCES DONT COME AS EXPECTED, WHAT WILL BE YOUR ACTION OR BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS YOUR PARTNER?
AND MANY MORE

pointblank247:
Zeal without enough knowledge will only naked you in public at the end of the day. When VDM got himself the uniform, I knew that he goofed.

A critical look at the 'uniform' tells a different story, its only well tailored and fits him well. Its never an authentic police Uniform of nigeria

MrAnonymous911:
Funny enough, we've been married for 10yrs now but it just seems like i can't or just not allowed to get angry when she does something wrong, if i show any form of disappointment or correct her in a slightly rude manner, she'll throw up a tantrum, saying things like "it's fine o", "you've changed", or she'll just deny any form of responsibility to the error she made, this really pisses me off and most times i endup apologizing for being mad at her.
I think it's my fault sha, maybe i babied her too much right from the start, don't get me wrong,she's a good woman and amazing wife and mother to the kids but am not allowed to express anger in my own house.

Wait..... Or am i the bad guy?

very normal behaviour bro! A question wives never ask their husbands is if they are happy in the marriage!
Just find a way to keep cool and bear her out, it will never change bro

Biodun556:
Iran has been exiting long before Russia 1000s of years ago

Israel was formed in 1948 on the stolen land for Jewish refugees fleeing Adolf Hitler slaughtering

Be honest with yourself buddy, lose face honorably and no one will notice!
Question: are Arabs the original dwellers of Sudan, Algeria, Tunisia, Morocco, Libya and Egypt? Win a prize if you answer correctly!

TheTundeMuniru:
Like a commentor rightly said, pass the food to someone else who needs it. Receive the food, there are many hungry people on your street, gift them the food and attract heavenly blessings your way.

Wasting that food is evil. Their motive towards you might be pure after all.

good answer, i had a neighbour like that as well, and boy, they did spoil me with food even though i cooked daily, so usually i repackage and give out to the needy. Blessed is the hand that giveth, and the one that receieveth!! win win situation!!

GOFRONT:
This man started having canal Knowledge of the girl since 12??

my brother, i almost threw up when i read that statement! 12 year old fa!!! he has ruined her psyche on se.x and intercourse! he should be hung by the balls until sunset!

Richcreed:
How about 1948 Nakba of Palestinian by Israel?

The only terrorist in middle east is Israel

1. Haifa Massacre 1937
2.Jerusalem Massacre 1938
3. Haifa Massacre 1938
4.Balad Al sheikh Massacre 1939
5.Haifa Massacre 1939
6.Haifa Massacre 1947
7.Abbasiya Massacre 1947
8.al Khisas massacre 1947
9.Bab Al ahmud massacre 1947
10 jerusalem massacre 1947
11.Sheik bureik masscre 1947
12.Tantura massacre 1948
13.JAFFA massacre.1948
14.Khan Yunis massacre 1956
15.Jerusalem massacte 1957
16. Sabra and Shatila massacre 1982
17. Al aqsa massacre 1990
18.Ibrahimi mosque massacre 1994
19 .Jenni refugee camp April 2002
20.Gaza massacre 2008– 2009
21. Gaza massacre 2012
22.Gaza Massacre 2014
23 Gaza massacre 2018
24. Gaza massacre 2021 till date

Israel got a lil taste of what they have been serving Palestinian on Oct 7

Whataboutism! Humans!!

God1000:
the answer to your question is Yes


Some of you don't know what gave birth to Hezbollah and Hamas in the first place, check all the countries where there are resistance fighters, it's as a result of injustice and one party not honoring the agreement made


Are you happy with the gory and horrific images coming out of Gaza everyday since October last year? What kind of retaliation is that? Over 42,000 people already killed, the entire population displaced and all the infrastructure destroyed, this is not a war against Hamas, it is ethnic cleansing, a war of annihilation

We are not all stupid, I can't be cheering and hailing murderers, it's against my conscience

Had you spoken out against Hamas at the beginning maybe your comments about your conscience would have been noted.... who's murdering who? Is Hezbollah the army of Lebanon? Is Hamas the army of Palestine? Keep on hoping that France will halt Israel...we are watching.... conscience indeed...

Kobicove:
I can tell you for free that this contraption will never fly!

yep! it wont even make a vertical move! They failed completely to apply even the slightest atom in the science of lift! The only ingenuity there was the form of an helicopter not the science of it!

dkidd:
They only remember there's God when they have problems.. after dating all the rich niggaz Ur still here begging for funds Jennyclay this is the roadmap to ur journey if U no change

Lots of humans see God as spare tyre...only needed when there's a flat or a puncture!

bdon123:
this hunger is real...see wat tinubu has caused

Even if Tilumbu didn't cause it, the desire for iphone and wigs are a driving factor!

EvilMerodack:



See the kinda trauma they already subjected these kids to as this stage

Those guys should be put in a cage and submerged in the middle of India ocean

Even me, I'm traumatized just reading this!
I suggest the people should be put in a cage and submerged in the Pacific ocean!

Fineman2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VcDgiTBUQU?si=zEiHZDGDbhiQHnoc

The down side of it all is, she's soon claim nobody loves her and depression sets in....and....

naptu2:
https://news.sky.com/story/sven-goran-eriksson-former-england-manager-dies-aged-76-13121050

Photo 1) Sven-Goran Eriksson at the 2006 World Cup with England. Pic: PA

Photo 2) Eriksson waves to the crowd at the Liverpool Legends match in March. Pic: PA

Good bye Sven....
we all will stand on that brow and look back before the lights go out....

stano2:
Solution to every issue in Nigeria is rice

You're RICE sir!