Omugor for Granny be that oooo.

techWriter3:
Groin

You're right. Groin strings. Groin was a taboo word back then so it was shortened to G.

TheStakeHolder:
I'm speechless...

Speech became less in my mind and mouth! Hmmmmmmm....

PlayerMeji:
No real Nigerian will fall for this scam IPOB wants to play on Nigerians.

While IPOB is happy that the criminals perpetrating all manner of crimes including what it called “abominable act of beheading people”in the area are being dealt with by the Nigeria Army and other security agencies,

Do these people ever think at all?

You went about killing people even DORA AKUNYILI's husband in the quest for your yeye freedom now you are hear saying you liked how the Nigerian Army are dealing with people beheading people..

Do you think we will forget like that

Notice that the word ZOO was never mentioned .... Always Nigeria and Nigeria Army!

Sincerely I believe people watch Nollywood more for the sight of beauty, shape and sexy actresses and for the handsome guys and luxury houses and for the story...

greenie77:
See as Baba is digging it like a youngie!

Me self will not allow my daughter out dance me on her wedding o.... I'll practice for two weeks before the day!

PoliteActivist:
They should ABOLISH these nonsense beauty pageants. I hope Mr. Obi does just that when he becomes president.
Focusing on superficials instead of substance. Beauty pageant my ass

Visit Ghana and see how these pagents are done... The girls are made to research, act, write and talk about history, culture, attitude, work and diversity of Ghanian nation... Very interesting...

Alapojames:
Most guys will choose the ex, cause she is beautiful.. My brother marriage is more than beauty these days.. Marry who get sense..
Is better you marry granny that will make you live fulfilled life than to marry youngy that will be bringing new new cases(problems) for you like covid

You're talking sir... Great piece of advice. Everyone thinks beauty and showmanship or showmanship will make their marriage interesting... It's never so!! Marriage glitters from couples ability to stand the test of the boisterous winds of life!

Comedian2019:

Oh I garrit!

Corrrrrrect!!!

Comedian2019:

A lady with all these attributes would have been taken. She wouldn't agree to be side chick.

You're absolutely correct!! If you read between the lines, you will understand my point as well!

Hmmmm... At my age now suppose I want to cheat and have a side chick the "lucky" female must be over 40, not in any other relationship, must have a profession or business, must be well knowledgeable in general topics, science, arts, old school music able to converse intelligently, and love astronomy, able to cook a variety of foods, homely, devoid of excessive up, lovers of sports and games, especially soccer, and be ready to answer 500 questions daily....
I can't take anything less... U-20 self is a total turn off!!!!!!

blaquebelle:
Makes more sense. I wonder how rumours start. Like someone in their right senses just made up a story and spread it. For what reason?

Not only rumours start like this, wars too....

HONESTFACT101:
Correction Your Girlfriend And Your Deputies ^{......signing out✈}

Are you sure he's not rather one of the deputies?

TheSourcerer:
Race Organizers Attempt To Stop Kathrine Switzer From Competing In The Boston Marathon. She Became The First Woman To Finish The Race, 1967.,My kinda Woman, read she even brought a gun to the Run

This lady is still very much alive today... Ran last year's marathon on same venue(if I recall) saw the documentary on DStv

victooman:
Nairalanders, during service year l met a good and excellent woman,, someone l love with everything , l am 27yrs and she is 27 too, l was born on may and she was born in January, this thing just weak me o, looking at my appearance and the way l conduct myself most people assume l am 30 and above self, please nairalanders l dont want to lose this girl, what is the disadvantages of marrying a girl your senior? l cant cope with younger girls, their reasoning is what l cant cope with , l want to marry this girl immediately l hit 30 ,

Guy, no waste time doing simultaneous equation or pie chart or algebra... If she fits your taste in what you want and you fit her taste GO AND MARRY HER and stop looking for excuses... If not you will open another thread with a wailing title o!
Na experience I am speaking from... My wife and me are both same age... We dated 8 years... We are married for 20 now....

amdman:
So na here this thread die since no be Amdman sell rust bucket! What happened to all the calls to name and shame the dealer?

Person go just siddon for house dey wish make dem drag another person for mud.

I'm glad you're vindicated bro..
Keep up your good work and integrity!

LadyRosa:
" Breaking up is never easy I know but I have to go, knowing me , knowing you is the best I can do!"

"The winner takes it all,the loser has to fall.Its simple and it's plain,WHY SHOULD I COMPLAIN...The game is on again,a lover or a friend......"

"See that girl,watch that scene ,dig in the dancing queen"

" There were something in the air that night,the stars were bright Fernando,and there were shining there for me and you,for liberty Fernando."


"One of us is crying, one of us is lying
In a lonely bed
Staring at the ceiling
Wishing she was somewhere else instead..."

"Don't go wasting your emotions,lay all your love on me"


"Mama Mia,here I go again ,my my how can I resist you?"

"Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world
It's a rich man's world"

I surrender oOoOO!! I fit marry you when I grow up!!
You took me back... Thanks

efficiencie:


Train her well sir. Train her very well. Because these days it seems the spirit of stupidity has been unleashed on many ladies. I hear relationship issues that ladies are involved in and sometimes I wonder if their brains were surgically relocated to their butts. Train her to be wise. Train her to be chaste. Train her to be focused and purpose driven. Train her to be a solution to her world and not another addition to the community of bimbos.

Thank you sir. I will do my best possible! Thank you...

Zonefree:




Are you indirectly saying God is aware and in support of your action

I think he means that he knows there's a time for everything he's puzzled as to why God has given him so much room to repent! We just need to keep him in prayers...

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Haha.... I laugh small!
My case was that my own mother discouraged my younger bro and elder bro from attending my wedding and she herself had to be threatened to make her attend.... Few years later I'm the FATHER IN-LAW to the wife of the same younger bro of mine who didn't attend!!
Bro... Take life easy...

YoudeyVexme:
Someone who Just did youth service already got a high paying job in nppc, while me that have graduated Since 2010 still struggling to feed from hand to mouth, no properties no thing to call my own. Meanwhile a cousin of mine already own 2 houses this boy I used to dash him 20naira for busicuit early 2008 when I visit my aunty, now he's 22.

Once you asked them for help and they give you once, they won't want to give you again. My heart's boil so hot whenever I see them on wheels driving expensive cars, A boy who doesn't know anything about life is already married with kid on the way. It wasn't like This when I was in my 20s, back then, we had to labour hard...farming, fishing and the rest to make ends meet..

Imagine, I had to go for house hunting last week and we had to wait for the owner of the compound, he arrived a young man expecting me to greet him first. I just called the agent I wasn't interested.. somebody that can't drag age with my youngest brother.

Boss... Every dog has his day... Remember, some of your mates self don't have the "little" you have...

Corporate2020:
A father that comes to Nairaland to discuss his daughter's menstruation , is that one a father? So menstruation is now for the public. It's saddening that the spoilt and wayward children of yesteryears have become parents today. So, what do we expect in the society?

Oh yeah... And you took time to read through? Anyway... Your comments are also valuable!

GloriousGbola:
Congrats OP.

My daughter is 12 and she started like 2 months ago. So now in addition to all the other household items I am back to buying sanitiary pads.

And now there are days when my daughter cannot be all there

Life's full of crests and troughs! Just do your best!! Cheers

baby124:
12 is normal for a girl to see her menses. Congratulations OP. Ensure you educate her on STD’s and pregnancy prevention. Also let her know about Abstinence plus safe sex. Just be open and let her know she can come and discuss with you! It’s definitely more impactful actually if these conversations are father-daughter. You are the man she trusts most. So how she will deal or choose men depends on what she learned from you!

Thanks for your kind words! I'll do my best possible!

iyke648:
Funny enough it's a huge celebration in India by the girl's family

You're right!!

lavylilly:
I saw mine SS1, before then we have been reading "hints magazine" so coupled with the little our home mistress told us,I was comfortable with myself the day I saw mine. I menstruated for over a year before my mum got to know. She couldn't even educate me,I guarded myself all through. I promised my girl kids education about this and sex education at their 10th year. I can't hide it from them.

Wow.... Some experiences are really incomprehensible! Parents didn't know you were having periods for a whole year?? Thank God you were capable!!

Oyindamolah:
Mine: I started mine in school Jss 3 when I was , I already knew what it was so I went to the school canteen, bought a pad and cleaned myself up, when I told my mom, she said I should not allow men to touch me that I shouldn't even shake hands with them unless I will get pregnant and if I get pregnant that she will just carry her grand child and deny me, I used up to 5 pads that day not because it was heavy flow ooo, I just wanted to do big girl

Big girl!!! Funny too.... Thank you!

Lamanii22:
Wooow… I didn’t start mine til I was 16…. I like fathers that are very much present in the lives of their children… I have a daughter now and it gives me joy whenever she’s with her dad…..

Good to hear!

Pascopele:
ALL my daughter are given sex education from age 8
Sex education, I make sure they are still intact till eldest left for college. I monitor their periods like a hawk and any small thing na hospital straight. I personally teach them their cycles days, how to place the pad on their pants & make them understand if they wish to have sex it's their choice but condom is a MUST.

However, I kept some sex book in my room and would ask them to bring another book close to it for me. I know this would make them read the book since my adult kids are d curios type.

As for the boys, I know they already know something I give them a twenty leaf excercise book and tell them to write all they know about Hiv/Aids.

Once they are about to enter college we'd sit and talk and the subject might go into s.ex at some point and I'd tell my daughters not to sleep with any man and all that but if they wish to condom is a MUST.

As some grew older, I usually would ask if they'd a boyfriend. Once in a while I'd chip in the 'if you want to have sexx, make sure you use a condom. Don't let the man deceive you into not using a condom' advise.

I remember when went to visit my daughter one certain time in college. I told her I saw the por'n she'd been watching in my dvd and some more in my book rack. She was embarassed but I just laughed about it. All in all, I was okay.


Sex education lecture on SafeHavenJoint telegram channel

Don't miss it

I'm learning from you sir! Great work!!

HeyHey:
My experience was not pleasant.

When I started, it was on a Saturday. I was 11, I went to wee when I saw the stain.

I told my mum, she said I should get pieces cloth and use (in 2007-/08, when pad was every where). She said she didn’t have money for pad (which was a lie bc she owned 2 cars), later she gave me tissue paper to use. The tissue paper kept moving to the side and scattering on the floor while I was walking. Once she saw the tissue paper and started shouting for the whole house to hear that I was on period and scattering tissue round the house. After then, my male cousin will make remarks like “rotten egg is smelling “ etc. if I make any mistake that time, what I will hear is “you no be small pikin, no be breast Dey your chest so”, it was extremely embarrassing

I went to pay phone to call my sister, she came home from university. Gave me always and explained menstruation, ovulation, a cycle, hygiene and abstinence to me. She go me roll on, body sprays too. And encourage me to be very neat while it’s flows.

Sir, it’s good you are interested. Kindly let your daughter know (together with your madam), what is involved. How to take care of herself, wash up, hygiene generally. What the implications of menstruation are, the pain and how to deal with it ( a lot of people attribute bad behavior to menses, saying it’s mood swing etc. I believe people should be kind through their period instead of creating excuses) Though there is actually hormonal changes, lots of purging, pain, and sometimes stains. How to embrace her new changes and adapt to them

Thank you for this imput and I'm very sorry about how you were traumatized at the beginning. Hopeful that you have healed.
Yes... I'm always open to all my children. The boys are also informed to help her go through any situation...
We are on hand for our children's growing up years! God bless us all...

Nekky5:
Hahaha!!! every girl child deserves some love from her parents while growing up. It is in the course of teaching them to know their bodies, sex education and all that it entails, would makes us not lose them to the wrong people. They become our friends when you become theirs First.

This formular equals to successful parenting!!

Oh yes i did...though did not see it to the end but most of it from my location here in accra!!!