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asumo12:
KINI TIE NIBE? iwo ni se.un ni abi iwo ni lala


ogbeni erukumakanaki yapa ooooo...

What da heck are you saying dingbat

anonimi:
I dey hold you from directing to your own select few ni abi why are you wailing and gnashing your teeth

Who do you think will suffer the consequences of your selective questioning/uproar?

I'm sure your pea brain understands the fact that all these loans are being guaranteed by the FG and defaults will have multiplier effect across regions

What sort of nonsensical question is this?

Isn't it pretty obvious that majority usually do so for convenience IF they are regular visitor at their BF's abode

asumo12:
ORIETI GBALE MIORIAYE EJO KEJO JARE,,,

I need to whip some sense into your thick skull goat. Let me catch you posting incoherent gibberish again

Rubbish

anonimi:
Gbese (debt) upon gbese, chai

Shey na we plus our children go dey pay these gbeses till lailai for ever ni

You despicable toad...

Why are you so freaking bias when it's obvious your displeasure should be directed at all culprits rather than select few

asumo12:
che ogbadun sha?

Don't you think it's pretty obvious that you ought to have presented yourself at Aro or should we forcefully bundle you to the place?

Kimeto:
I just knew he had to be a Unilorin student...

Is that because they are known to reject determination spirit?

asumo12:
https://cdn.makeagif.com/media/3-15-2015/7XJFp9.gif


gbese re ooooooooooooooo

What's up with your relentless psychopathic gif that usually has no correlation whatsoever with the topic of discussion

I guess you forgot to throw your dummy out freak!

Who is guaranteeing these loans?

ECOTERRORS:
Nigerians have started to reject Gbaja and Lawan because of their lust for power.

Gbaja lost fair and square so he needs to stop acting stupid

How were you able to gauge the opinion of these Nigerians?

Don't tell me it's through their representatives at the NASS who have always gone about business for personal gains

Adufetohposh:
Lolz @ jara

Na dis kain topic we dey see you

mcheew

L alert!

I don show

What's on the menu?

Erukumakanaki:
This looks like an Occultic Gathering to me


and where's the shine the Op is talking about

How you take recognize am Mr Eruku?

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”

Bernard M. Baruch

I'm a professional bodyguard

We dey here

Wetin dey happen?

This doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

How come the government also funded Subsidy/Sure-p from the ECA account?

Did they spend the entire 3.3 TN on subsidy and Sure-P?

How come NNPC also deducted funds for subsidy before during their reconciliation for the same period?

She is wrong for introducing unhealthy competition between herself and the daughter

The only perfect way to reassure her is by using the obvious lines of: “I love you both differently”

Make them use crane na

Una go fear question... How can you even conclude that it was a rival that cooked the soup without any shred of evidence?

Just because an action suggests a possibility doesn't mean it's definitive.

You can't afford to be suffering in silence so you need to have a heart to heart conversation with your hubby since he doesn't seem to care about your feelings.

I will also echo the advice that has been given on this thread about the importance of saving regardless of your fear of potential impact on the family.

You have to stand your ground on this one and if it involves having to move the kids to less expensive schools then please go ahead.

Don't push yourself into financial ruin just because you want to stay in your marriage.

Prettyvhickie:
what is ogede agbagba?

Unripe hard as fvck banana

Prettyvhickie:
all of them

What's in it for me as in what's the incentive?

Can i offer you ogede agbagba?

Prettyvhickie:
he should be fast with it

What one you go like translate?

Teespice:
I had plenty bananas today.


guess what?


in d'prince's voice: I "yoooed".

Trust you to like banana

Na the unripe one you been chop abi?

I heard it's really FILLING

Aminat508:

Paranta
Agbagba
Omimi
E.t.c
.

Ogede agbagba
Ogede dudu
Ogede pupa
Ogede pipon
Ogede to gun
Ogede to fe

Aminat508:
@Op which type of banana ooo

Ekun

Sugardiva:
I am open minded. As a matter of fact there are some I wish I could develop feelings for. They are young, intelligent bla bla bla. If I were simply after money I would have said yes a long time ago cos they are a bit financially stable. But like I said the emotions are not just developing. I put in a lot of effort to spend time with them to try and trigger it but yet nothing. If they don't call me, it takes me 5 days to a week to notice they haven't called. Some of them are just plain boring to put it lightly.

The thing is I've had a great connection with the exes. It usually starts with a deep friendship and then evolves into something more often so quickly that I don't
even know when it happens.

I've known what it feels like to really connect with someone in both my previous relationships. Be the best of friends and companions and have feelings. I am over my exes and am not comparing or expecting anyone to be like them. The only thing that I am confused about is that can this connection and companionship grow with these 'suitors'. Is it right to say yes to someone who does not hold ur attention? And keep waiting to experience connectiin?

Could it be that having quite a few options is actually working negatively in the sense that you can’t seem to narrow your mind and concentration to one or two?

You mentioned some of them being boring, it’s also your responsibility to ensure you stimulate the friendship/relationship as at when it fully develops. Relationship is a two way thing hence the need to be open minded about the end result. It’s not like you are going to invest that much energy when all you had be giving is your free time.

I think you should get to know them more as I’m pretty sure there would be other things about them you had discover if and when you give them the opportunity

I know you have stressed that you aren’t comparing them but we are all human and it’s not unrealistic to expect us to sub cautiously default into comparative analysis. There is a reason why they are exes so let’s try and forget the past and embrace the future

Ifebazz:
I can almost bet, if you are 25 or above, that your mother didn't even know your father before she got married. Most of our African parents didn't court before they got married, but tell which 'Kadashian marriage' have lasted about half as much as theirs?
The key is humility and trust and obedience and steadfastness. Infatuation is generally mistaken for love. Or bouts of great sex for love. The main recipes for long lasting marriage is the real African way. Forget about all those soap opera love you see on TV, it ends there equally. Forget also about female equality and all that bullshit, it only bring you closer to broken home and teary eyes. Respect whoever is the man that God brings your way. You don't have to love him just yet (like we know how to love sef), just play your role by being the person he would love and see the good in him only. You'd be surprised you'll fall in love faster than you can imagine.

I'm sure they courted but that's irrelevant. Different times different approach to courtship and getting hitched. No perfect or foolproof way in achieving desired results. You need to understand your circumstances and mold it as you desire in order to achieve set results.

I do know we now live in a diverse world hence the need to embark on the journey with limited external interference. Yes you can use guides but the bottom line is desire and reality should always work in tandem

rahymat:
what some people are praying for is to find the right man.let me tell u d fact most handsome guys are proud and arrogant.continue to be picky nd wait till u reach menopause.mtshew

How is that a fact ma'am?

What you see as arrogance/proud could also be seen as impeccable confidence which isn't necessarily a turn off.

I don't believe anyone should lower their standards because they are afraid of menopause or whatever.

Yes you can compromise on standards but it's up to you to decide differentiate between minimum and luxury standards.

Leyqute:
Jaybee3 = Jaybee

of Rokiatu, Onila n co

He's currently being probed because of many NL babes

You got the wrong Jaybee then

Sugardiva:
I don't think that this is what the OP meant. I think she means should she agree to date a guy she has known for more than 2 years who is caring and shows her love but she doesn't feel anything for?

I understand her because sometimes i wonder the same thing. I have a number of 'suitors' who check all the right boxes according to ur list. Have potential, aligned faith, same values etc but no matter how much time I try to spend with them I don't get any feeling. No emotions at all beyond maybe friendship. And I'm not in a serious relationship.

The question is do u go ahead and date someone u have absolutely no feelings for just because he checks all the right boxes and treats u right? Will it work out?

I don't think you can allow emotions develop if you are close minded about something. Emotion gets triggered if only you let it

These suitors of yours, do you usually feel a need to hear from them or be around them at times?

Is it that you aren't attracted to them physically or you are just scared of being hurt hence the reason why you can't seem to allow them into your world.

You know you can go on dates with open mind without actually being physically involved with these dudes

Just be open minded about things and allow yourself see them in a different light