₦airaland Forum

temitemi1:
U of all pple sud know that u can't break that guy called barcanista.

Are you sniffing his boxers or what exactly is going on with una homo love?

enygmababe:
Lol, you guys seem to forget that the 250k is basic. With a basic of 250k, when the allowance are added, it is possible it runs into.... (400k? If not more)

It does not stop anonymous from moving back later with more of an experience. My only worry is abandoning the Ph. D. Can you do something about the Ph. D, I don't like leaving things half done. Can you commute to complete it?

Haven been to America and come back with a clean record, nothing stop you from going back. I have always believed in coming back to ones own country.

But then op, it is really your decision.

400K is barely $1.7K per month
That's peanut for someone with relevant engineering degrees in the oil and gas industry

An offer he can't refuse should be in the region of 1M+ per month

PassingShot:
If your leaving the States now does not mean a permanent shut at the possibility of your residency their, I'll say you should take up the offer in Nigeria. The job will fill the experience void in your career and it's also an opportunity to advance it in your field. Who says the comapny cannot later send you abroad at some point?

However, if leaving US now means you cannot later get your residency, you have to weigh how much you value it with the job offer.

He already has both paid and voluntary experience.

Research in engineering is also work experience since it's mostly practical

The remuneration package should be the only deciding factor in accepting or rejecting the offer.
The offer as described isn't enough to suspend your research program so i would almost certainly reject the offer.

You are already employable and attractive to potential recruiters so exercise a lil patience to get your research over and done with before hitting the job market.

Some companies aren't really bothered about getting your reference from your most recent employer so you might be able to rest easy if you are applying to such companies

Truckpusher:
Do we have a fair representation in the upper and lower house of the federation?

Are regions/ states being given the chance to become autonomous ?
Why do we have immunity for a thieving political office holder?
What's wrong with us having a state controlled police to enable community policing ? Because with a state police every man will police his own people that he knew too well and criminals can always be fished out easily.
A house with a faulty foundation has a date with destiny though we can deceive ourselves right now but it must surely stare us in the face.

Oga Truck, we both know there are too much vested interest to allow Nigeria breakup so the only viable solution to correct the anomalies is by demanding the legislooters perform what they were elected to do.

We still have the power to recall them if they underperform

Btw: I specifically used fair representation cos i'm aware of continuous attempt to skew the representation with regards to sharing of resources.

Revolution will never work in Nigeria as majority of Nigerians are programmed to always accept every injustice and misfortune as act of God

Truckpusher:
There can never be any form of unity under a structure of oppression and injustice.

But there is a fair representation within the legislative arm of government so why can't/won't they fight the injustice and oppression on behalf of their people they are meant to serve?

The problem isn't necessarily about Nigeria itself but more of her people and their selfish interests

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How do you even satisfy these folks for heaven's sake

This entity called Nigeria with various factions and varying interest don tire me abeg

Why can't we just be united?

TV01:
Two slightly different things. Earnings in marriage against pay in the workforce. Earnings in marriage is not what predicates the feminsit push for equality in marriage. It's an absolute, they do not beleive a man should lead.

A "gender" pay gap due to structural faults/bias is discriminatory. Equal work for equal pay. But any structural impediments have been removed a long-time ago, and any pay gap is now due to womens choices, not discrimination.


TV

Surely that must have been one of the drivers with the current rise of feminism.

Equal pay for equal work = Fairness of economic rights

naijababe:
Which outlier? If Yetunde bustline was a big girl pocketwise, Tunde woulda gone nowhere. Na dashed expectations make the man run jare

His response to her was all about how she is on benefits and whatever else

Nahhhhh

What if all tunde wanted from the onset was to get his stay even if she was as rich as dangote?

He would have still gone ahead to divorce her and get paid for the years they stayed together.

He probably never really loved her and used her to get whatever he was after and it doesn't help that his new chic is way more younger than the old one

TV01:
As for feminsits, their push for equality is not based on earnings. Otherwise you are saying that feminists only demand equality in marriage where the wife earns as much or more. Independent earnings by a wife help it though.

But that's usually the underlying reason for their fight. Didn't the fight actually start from the demand for "equal pay for similar work" ish?

milychocs:

It really is nice,
But you eat it with rice.....?iyan cannot hold the stew
Cheers

Offering to cook me some as well?

Today is my day mehn

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pickabeau1:
why do u think its irrelevant nowadays?

Perhaps there is the realization that couples are now expected to jointly contribute to the success of the union

softysparky:
Dirty mind! I mean the main "ofeakwu".

Seriously I can prepare that better than anything.

I'm at your service anytime you are in town, just holla.

Yes Boss!

Beremx:
oya give me address to your house. I will cook the delicacy for you,I will make it memorable for you.

Btw, a pot of the soup is N10,000.

Money ain't the problem so long as quality is guaranteed

We gats talk then

naijababe:
Personal survey

hehehehhehe

I don't believe you

talk jor

naijababe:
One last thing I forgot to mention, old women from naija to American have affairs with their drivers, pool boys and the likes...............I would hazard a guess that libido is much more than testorone, after all the best selling intimacy gadget is a 'rabbit'

How you take know?

softysparky:
Come to my house and taste my Ofe akwu, I swear your life will never be the same.

I hope you aren't inferring something entirely different?


Jaybee3, get ya mind outta the gutter

Oya let's go there....

Beremx:
if you want to eat Ofeakwu,I won't recommend you eat it in TFC or any big eatry. They don't cook it well.
Honestly,I dunno of any restaurant where ofe akwu is sold. I cook mine myself.

Oya cook it for moi then

onomeasike:
Since you don't understand, let me explain to you slowly.
There are traditional official channels to announce the death of an Oba,is it that Seen Saraki does not know this or he was outrightly dishing out a wrong information to the public(goofed)

What if the so called traditional chiefs are in the dark for obvious reasons (The anarchy that usually ensue as a direct result of vacuum created by the demise of a powerful oba)?

UjSizzle:

Why are you confused?

They are broke because they aren't sensible enough to start a family

It's very costly gyrating in the dating game so any sensible man should start a family where he had be able to have some sort of normality and stability that should be pocket friendly

Beremx:
I don't think it will taste good with pounded yam. Try it with rice first and you won't resist the taste.

Where i wan take get am? You fit recommend correct restaurant for lag

I seriously need to taste it mehn

It looks delicious

What are you saying?

Are you high on that cheap weed again?

The ofe akwu or whatever looks good mehn
I seriously need to balance with it with some pounded yam

vickerz:
sorry for quoting u guys oo, but when is the next scholarship be holding please?

The application will be open in the next few days

UjSizzle:
Lol didn't you read the OP?

She had a boify before going to school. Then acquired a school lover too (okay so maybe boify1 is the home boify and the OP is the away match).

I was only interested in what you had to say jor

How you take know all these permutations sef... I'm kinda shocked

UjSizzle:
Dude you funny


OP I don't see what's heartbreaking about this situation. You've always known she had an away-boify. Then there was you. Now she's going back to wherever boify1 is located and you're heartbroken? I'm lost-- perhaps I don't understand the meaning of heartbreak anymore.
If she says she won't be going back to the other guy then tell her to break up with him officially. Not the regular drifting apart thing; she has to say the words to him.
Then you keep in touch with her. Call, text, visit her once in a while and ask how she's doing. If you feel you can trust her then you should, unless she gives you a reason not to.

Best wishes.

Which one be away boify?

Please explain

porka:
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Doubting Thomas ko, unbelieving Peter ni.

How many months/years of 'noisemaking' are you preparing for really?[/size]

I expect them to start delivering after the first quarter of their administration

Sealeddeal:
it is on record that Buhari has not taken any concrete step in governace reposed on him.
Therefore,in Buhari's 100days of honeymoon, any achievement recorded should be credited to the GEJ's government.

Okay agreed, what about the failures?

porka:
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To deliver by noisemaking?

Just propaganda, and you are happy?

Things are getting out of hands with Nigerians.[/size]

They are barely 3 months into the administration so stop being a doubting thomas