demiawise: You guys should give good advice rather than being a critic. I love the topic because, I am in the same situation right. My story is just same as the topic. The difference is he is got 600k and me get more than. I really need the more. Even my girlfriend is on me right now. If I dont settle dus year she will be forced to leave the next year please I need matured advice no critics please. Thanks. [color=#990000][/color]
Is she threatening to leave because of uncertainties surrounding your commitment towards her or because of your current financial status?
If the former, nothing wrong with engaging her if she is the woman on your dream then set yourself a 6-12 month target for the wedding. If the later, dump her!
Amodsun: he who has find a wife,has found a beautiful thing.at 32 he ain't getting any younger...600k is not enough but it's a start...it's not about d start but d end...I pray d wife-to-be is patient nd very understanding. 70k a month salary is manageable for you nd Ur new wife..if u are a prudent spender though. God gave us the freewill to choose,we pray for wisdom to make d right choices in life....adios amigos
How did you manage to conclude that 70K per month is manageable without having information of his current location and monthly expenditure?
Jarus: Oga, I just threatened to arrest my Range Rover mechanic yesterday if he fails to fix the problem this time after spending like 700k in the last one month fixing gear only!
I have had too many bad experiences with these artisans.
Xtardom: You've been out of sch(graduate) nw 4 d past 4 - 5 yrs, no job, no money, u'r xtill xtayin wif ur parentz. d only tyn u do 2 earn sm chanqe z 2 d labourer 4 bricklayers nd 2 sell sachet water.. On diz fateful day u were about 2 qo out on ur daily routine, nd ur mum waz sobin n prayin 4 u dat 1 day u will b out of diz n qet a qud job, as d seen waz qoin on an indian man wu waz in niqeria abt wat he heard abt africanz n dier culture n respect, jst walk in frm d door n said "younq man i knw ur problems buh if only u cn jst slap ur mum 1ce diz 5billion dollars z urz"..n 2 verify dat he showed u d money in a briefcase..jst a slap he said aqain.... WAT WUD U DO. SLAP OR LET IT GO
Adufetohposh: From a lady's perspective it should be my best friend kissing my bobo..... I will definitely interrupt their Rendezvous shout @ my friend if I av d strength to and scold my bobo
I try and maintain a good work life balance by ensuring i take regular breaks as when due to refresh the body and mind. I also ensure i embedd intelligent planning into my work schedule I'm very good at negotiating delivery times for conflicting deadlines I understand the need to always analyse resource needs and seek for extra help when absolutely necessary
anonimi: I gave him credit on the ASSUMPTION that it is not an ordinary story that will be reversed when scrutinised like the STORY about selling the presidential jets some weeks ago that was then reversed.
Meanwhile, in case you missed it:
Good on you then
Yes they need to do more and i'm sure they will since we simply have no choice but to cut cost were possible
OrlandoOwoh: Once salaries are slashed allowances will also be slashed, because the various allowances gotten are arrived at by certain per centages of the salaries.
Stop wasting your time on dullards that have refused to open their brains