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adetunrayo:
Did you seek the face of God before getting this far? It is never to late to ask God before you tie the knot.

Let God direct your choice not your age. Marriage without seeking God's direction before proceeding is baba ijebu.

God is the foundation of marriage. Seek His face before it's too late.

So seeking the face of someone in "heaven" will help choose better horseband for her eekwa?

You religious folks will keep running in circles since you can't even read the book you parade and misquote everyday.

Your holy book says marry woman and then obtain favor, not seek anyone's favor before marrying woman. I tire for una biko.

Mr. Young man of early 40s, you can try IVF or surrogacy because baby mommaism has it's own stress oo. Why not get your wife fully involved in this your thought, she'll know a better route to take.

But If na outside knack you just want, then stop to dey beat around the bush and request for sidechick mek everybody rest. We no go beat you. Na knack you want, no be say you wan use person daughter for ritual naa.

Just make sure your wife no catch you. Food poisoning is real oo.😄

sisisioge:
Them no fit work....because of mental health
Them no fit wear cloth.....na mental health
Them no fit pay their Bills....na the same mental health.
Them no fit conduct themselves in public....na mental health.

They have redefined mental health for the rest of us

Lol. You know them too well.

Wetin remain na to go rob bank and claim na mental health cause am but e no go stop them from chopping the money.

The girl is displaying nudes on social media because of "mental health" but if someone calls her and pays for one night stand now, mental health no go stop her from using the money to buy latest iPhone.

Umuaka these days eeh.😄

It's never been this bad.

Ike gwuru.🤦‍♂️

I can't believe she was talking to her father that way, what a foolish girl.

Parents may be old fashioned and annoying sometimes but that should not bring them insults especially from their children.

Ignore their religious rants and at most, burst out in a respectful manner and that is if you must.

Imagine the silly girl going nudes on social media and still have the guts to abuse her father.

What a generation.😕

Me I will go there with her brideprice in my trouser pocket so if she is not serving me, I'll not taste anything.

With her as my wife, my stomach infrastructure is guaranteed for life.

None of the points make sense to me.

Your friend can turn to your enemy tomorrow so marriage with just a "friend" can still go south, no guarantee at all.

Marrying someone because you love her or because you think she loves you is the reason for numerous accounts of divorce today. Why didn't you marry all the girls you've dated abi you no love them? You don't even talk to some of them today because you don't know where they are but these are people you were dying in love with. Lol

The last one may be sensitive to church goers but it is wrong as well. There is nothing like the will of anybody in marriage. Marry a wife and get heavens blessings not the other way around. Your dad is the God you see and it will be wrong for his to exert his will on you. All you need is his blessings as a father after you find a wife, not him telling you it's his will or not.

Find out why her parents divorced and who knows, the answer you seek may lie just beneath it.

Before you beg that brother or uncle for money to solve your problems, please sit quietly and think about the problems he may also be facing?

I'm not trying to justify some actions but we all have problems. While you call that rich uncle for help, he may also be calling someone to help him solve his own problems.

The man in your story sent ambulance to take his dead brother to the village, do you know if he had money to pay for it or if someone just returned him a favor?

Don't lump everyone together and judge them because we are not in people's shoes.

Don't beat yourself too hard, you did the right thing.

Though you did it a little bit later but right is right no matter when it's done.

If she doesn't wanna come back because of that, do what you currently are doing, survive. They are playing games right now, don't give in at all. They will fight back but stand your ground and see them fumble.

I hate subtle manipulation. I'm of the opinion that If you wanna do shit, do it to my face and don't play games.

You didn't say what you currently do in Nigeria or the plans your mum has for you in UK so I can't say if you made the right decision or not.

However, never follow the band wagon. That's all I can tell you for now.

Momma knows best sometimes though.

ItisWell22:
While reciting and running to procure what he was sent, he ends up jumbling everything.

At the end, he either buys nonsense, or goes back home to ask again; either of which the child receives some good spanking…

Lord have mercy. 😄😄

sweetveek:
the boy is reciting what he was sent so as not to forget it

I'm dead.😄😄

Helgreenluv:
This one na mumu

Na the stage be that.

At his age, I was financing my "girlfriend" with money from my mom's purse while she was financing her side bobo.

I no cry when I found out shaa, I simply chyked her girlfriend and continued my simping.

At that age, wetin we do as boyfriend and girlfriend if not steal kisses and hugs. I was a virgin but if my girlfriend don dey do, I no know oo.

My own na to dey make noise up and down say I get girlfriend and trust me, I went for the most pretty around then.

I love this.

I don't understand, care to shed more light?

akinade28:
Here is the biblical standard for church leaders

1Tim.3.2 - Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

1Tim.3.12 - A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his children and his household well.

Titus.1.6 - An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.

Who wrote those verses in the bible? Did the mandate come directly from heaven?

Have you bothered to ask if Paul wrote those letters to specific people based on their standards at that time?

Why did God choose David as the man after his heart but didn't ask him to marry only one wife or was David not more in rank than church elders and deacons that Paul wrote to?

According to your bible, the kings of the old were annointed. They led children of Israel to battles and other things which would include worship so they could easily be regarded as overseers. How many wives did David marry or do you want us to discuss King Solomon, the king of sidechicks? He is my mentor by the way.

Black man, please start asking questions.

I'll be mad but seeing the innocence in their eyes, na laugh I go just laugh.

Their punishment will be to clean up by themselves no matter how shoddy they do it.

Also, the isiokpukpu that is cutting money like who dey do homework will follow me to the bank on the day I'll go to deposit the notes she destroyed.

If na adult cut my money like that, I go use am for ogwuego straight.

INTEGRITYA1:
Depositors are the main victims here. There is limit to what individual can get from NDIC for those who might have deposited beyond the maximum of claim to be paid by NDIC.

For instance for MFB depositors 200k is the maximum of claim that can be paid by NDIC per l customer, for those who have deposited, 250, 300k, 600k, 1m and so on, they will only get 200k and might never get the excess amount.

What about investors? I mean shareholders and directors who invested by contributing to the initial deposit required by the CBN?

How can they get their money back?

Heck, I don't even know if any dividends have so far been shared or not.

They will be charging her as an adult, Mississippi no dey smile at all.

In California, she would've probably done community service and the case will end there.

Do the crime, do the time.

I heard our community microfinance bank which I invested in is affected.

They warned me oo but I no hear word.

turmacs:
Later now if him enter the house and beat the hell out of the woman, shebi they'll start to call the man a wicked woman beater? some women just don't have sense.. I'll always treat my man with love no matter how stupid he gets, because I know they can get stupid at times and I know how to handle men like that. Marry who you can deal with when he gets crazy.

I hope you keep to your words when our stupidity appears to know no bounds.

Locking the man out in the rain was extreme though but some men deserve to be chased out of their homes aswear.

His wife might have been pursuing 5kids up and down the house, changing diapers, singing lullabies and forcing them to drink akamu while oga who was supposed to help out dey outside gate dey argue over Chelsea and Arsenal until rain catch am.

She can't just wake up and start denying you sex. Oga tell us the whole story.

But if you didn't do anything wrong to her and she is not going through some kind of stress right now, biko carry sidechick mek everybody rest.

Morphinne:
Why are you pained Okoro? Yes, you are a lowlife for trying to jeopardize an innocent man’s life. Why would anyone say Anambra is relatively peaceful? Relatively peaceful than where exactly? If you aren’t a lowlife, you wouldn’t be here defending arrant nonsense. Ooni gbadun

I knew I couldn't have missed it.

You don't live in Anambra, haven't been there before and can't even afford transport fare to the state, yet you know more than the locals.

Describe yourself by yourself because if I do, it can't be anything more a nincompoop.

musicwriter:
How about the men in that picture?

They are opposite of simps according to ndi alfamails.😄

immortalmortal:
It doesn't matter if you don't know

Exactly, until you know after 15years of marriage and come here to create thread about DNA tests on your children.😄

The importance of finding out who you are getting married to can not be overemphasized.

As for me, I deal on sidechicks and their pasts don't matter to me as long as they let me drink water and drop cup in peace.

You messed yourself up and by association messed your wife and your little boy up as well yet your wife supported and even helped paid the debts you accumulated through gambling I guess.

Now she wants to leave meaning she has seen you're not making reasonable effort to get back to normal and there's also a chance that you've not been completely healed of your iberibeism too. Everyone knows how it is with addictions.

If I were you, I'd not only let her leave me, I'd also leave myself too.😄

On a soft note though. I normally advise men to quit whenever ladies say "let's end this" but your case is different because na you be the only cause of the problem here.

I advise you humble yourself, be sincere and apologize for your misdeeds. Eventhough she seemed to have understood and helped you willingly, she still needs your unreserved apology.

Set a deadline to reverse your situation and work earnestly towards it.

All she needs is an 100% effort, not an 100% result except if she don find another man shaa.

I wish you good luck.

Just 2years into your marriage, you guys are already having all these issues.

Why the heck did you marry who wasn't into you or will you swear you didn't see the warning signs?

Oga when the kitchen becomes too hot, a wise person knows the best choice is to leave.

Leave the marriage or get a sidechick mek everybody rest.

Why would anybody bother a sidechick?

Sidechicks no dey give wahala naa, biko leave them alone for us.

I'm even looking for a new sidechick now but na only keke Napep I fit afford to buy for her.

sixtus3606:
Bros, base on your oversee experience, kindly advice the best country to relocate to this period.

Though difficult to get their visa, USA is still the best to migrate to and survive even without papers.

Sweden is good also.

Morphinne:
Ahh, Anambra relatively peaceful?
Relatively peaceful than where Biko?
Op if you cherish your life, stay away from the south east. Don’t mind this lowlife. As it is at the moment, Anambra is a far cry from peace.

You had to call someone you don't know a lowlife just to drive home your silly point made out of hate and tribalism.

Well this lowlife here has a life that may be low compared to a lot of people but I'm sure it's definitely way too high for you and your goons to get to even in generations to come.

I hope you find the peace you desperately need eventhough you are not aware of the need.

Selfish horseband, very wrong in all ramifications.

I hate when men run away from responsibilities and leave the task of caring for the kids only to their wives.

I bet he is running away from the stress associated with children on flights.

The wife will be singing, shouting and pursing the kids up and down the aisle like mad woman while he drinks champagnes and probably chykes woman in business class.