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 Politics › Re: Disturb Muslims & Face Arrest - Amaechi Warns Rivers Indigenes by jenny2007(f): 3:53pm On Aug 06, 2012 |
Johndoe100: I agree, provided the muzzies don't go blowing people up or shooting them in the street. If they start that shit in our state we will hand them their azzes, governor or no governor |
| Romance › Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by jenny2007(f): 7:43pm On Aug 05, 2012 |
val_dee: A nice piece. Another suitable title will be: 9 SIGNS THAT SAYS SHE WANTS YOU TO MARRY HERMy thoughts exactly! @op, and why should she introduce you to her family before you have introduced her to yours? One word comes to mind  she's)desperate (to hook u) |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Women Never Let Go Of Their Ex's by jenny2007(f): 6:04pm On Aug 05, 2012 |
[quote author=cog1]Point of correction,its not all ladies that would want to get All mushy with an ex! The fact that they don't forget them, because their brains are still Doing their God-given function of coordinating memory amongst Other functions, does not in any way say they'll be happy to Jump into the sack with their ex!!!!!! In fact,some ladies will not touch their ex with a '000m pole!!! Esp if he was the horrible type! Talkless of sleeping with him again!!! Unless he's willing to be decapitated from the rear!!![/quote Exactly.Most especially if he was the horrible type |
| Christianity Etc › Re: -_- by jenny2007(f): 3:39pm On Aug 05, 2012 |
@aifey, I respect your opinion but this is not the UK. The OP is in nigeria where religion is taking very seriously. @OP, I'm a christian and I believe that God speaks to us through dreams, visions, our intuition, through others etc. However, I don't believe that you should ask God before actually dating anybody. Dating is a process, you gain experience about relationships through this. You said that you always ask God's permission before going into a relationship. Is this to save you a heartbreak or what? I think you that one should only seek God's opinion on a relationship if he/seek is thinking of settling down. That's a life-time commitment and you need God's view on that. |
| Romance › Re: Romantic Names For Your Lover/Spouse? by jenny2007(f): 12:58pm On Aug 05, 2012 |
[color=#006600][/color] watchme: I call him "MyLord"Really? Lol...and I tot 'daddy, mummy' was bad. You can try honey, baby, sweetie, raspberry, pumpkin, or my love(my ex used to call me that and I loved it) |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Discovery, Jesus Christ Is An Ibo Man! by jenny2007(f): 11:06am On Aug 05, 2012 |
PAGAN 9JA:I guess that you're one of those that believe in the 'big bang' theory of evolution. However, I still find it hard to understand how some people believe that they and the universe just came into existence just in a flash. My dear, there are forces that control the universe and there is a higher force which if GOD. His son is Jesus. I do hope that the Lord saves your atheist soul before the day you die. |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Discovery, Jesus Christ Is An Ibo Man! by jenny2007(f): 10:58am On Aug 05, 2012 |
Billyonaire: I am confused. How is Jesus Christ an Ibo man ?Duh? |
| Food › Re: When You See A Man In The Market: by jenny2007(f): 9:22am On Aug 05, 2012 |
 @topic, I would assume that he is single. By the way, I don't like men that are brilliant cooks . Just buy the ingredients (if you must) and I'll do the cooking myself. If I'm at work then eat the stored food in the fridge. |
| Politics › Re: Accept Islam & Resign - Boko-Haram To GEJ by jenny2007(f): 8:57am On Aug 05, 2012 |
[color=#006600][/color] samkoro: GEJ should memorise and recite the following before joining Islam.You took the words right out of my head. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is It Wise To Have Your Ex On Your BB Messenger by jenny2007(op): 10:18am On May 26, 2012 |
Point is that it isn't 'officially over'. Just facing though times. But becos he's hurt me so deeply I want a closure from him. However don't wnt to show him how it hurts. |
| Romance › Is It Wise To Have Your Ex On Your BB Messenger by jenny2007(op): 9:41am On May 26, 2012 |
My bf and I are having serious issues recently. At this point I don't even know if there is still a relationship btw us. Personally I am trying to get over him anyway. He is on my bbm and status updates from him always get my mind racing back to the relationship. My friends have advised me not to delete him even though I really want to. They say that if I do then it'll be obvious that he's gettn to me. What do u people think? Would you still keep an ex's pin on your phone where he or she can check on you everyday? 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Pls I Need Your Advise Nairalanders. What Do I Do? by jenny2007(op): 10:19pm On May 10, 2012 |
Thanks for your replys. @dailynews, I appreciate your contribution. However I disagree with the fact that a single woman in a committed relatonship isn't supposed to travel alone without her partner. First of all, I'm an adult and can travel alone. Its like I even hid the trip from him cos he knew about it but maybe just didn't want me to go. I have my own career and life apart from my relationship and even though my leave allowance isn't that much, at least I could manage it on my trip by serious curtailing my expenses. I don't think that a woman should sit and wait for a man to 'help' her by spending money on her that's why I decided to pay for the trip myself despite my bf disappointing me about the air fare. I would never have even considered canceling my planned trip becos he didn't give me the money so I stepped up and paid my own bill. What I do not understand now is why he would be upset about it. God knows how hard I worked to get my office to approve the money for the trip and that I never cheated on him on the trip. |
| Romance › Pls I Need Your Advise Nairalanders. What Do I Do? by jenny2007(op): 6:02pm On May 10, 2012 |
My bf and I have been together for almost a year now. He is good man and very generous. I've never had to ask him for anything because he just gives me without me even asking. Its like he just picks up on things that I need and just gives them to me when I don't expect it. I'm not a materialistic person myself though. Recently I planned to travel abroad for a short break. I asked my bf to assist me with my ticket fare and, surprisingly, he refused. He didn't say actually no but he just kept ignoring my request though it was my first time of ever asking him for money. I decided not to ask him for the ticket fare and applied for my leave allowance which I used to pay for my trip. However, my initial plan was get my man to pay for the air fare while I use my leave allowance on hotel bills, shopping for family and friends, transport etc (my BTA). Anyway, I traveled and had to cut my trip short by a week because I had little money on me. I came back to nigeria and my man has been ignoring me ever since. When we do talk he does not speak much and gives me only one word answers. Few days ago he finally told me that 'I betrayed him'. Knowing him well, I know that he believes that I probably traveled out with a man or that I collected the air fare from someone else. He is a very jealous type. My question is how do I get him to open up to me on this issue and how do I prove to him that I sponsored my trip all by myself after he ignored my request. We are in a distance relationship but see each other twice every month. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is It A Good Thing To Double Date? by jenny2007(f): 10:22pm On Apr 01, 2012 |
[color=#006600][/color]My dear, this advice was given to me by men themselves and married women. To quote a guy "of course why you should you tell your girlfriend she should keep her options open because you are too, she should be smart enough not to keep her eggs in one basket". Is it not amazing how many people break up and in less than 6 months marry another? Do you think they just met that person? Besides when you focus on one guy, he will start to take you for granted and you will be emotionally invested in him and guys don't like that (let them be honest and tell you the nos of girls they've dumped because she was too emotional). Decide what you want. @onegal, you are soo correct. Some guys won't say it but they do not want a woman whose life is just all about the man in their life. That's why I always say put yourself when you are with a man. Trust me he'll love you more. |
| Romance › Re: She Dumped Him, Now She Wants Him Back by jenny2007(op): 2:29pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
guys, i get your point now o. @killz, you need to be a relationship therapist. you are just so brilliant at giving relationship advise. @agybabe, you are right too. i guess i am seeing your point now. initiallyt i was blaming my friend that she was putting too much pressure on him. knowing my friend and the guy i just thought that she was not being patient. now i see that i have been advising her wrongly. back to @killz, yes, my girl that valentine'S day serious. i also recall that two months back she came crying to me that he didnt call or text her on her birthday, despite, the both of them planning to spend time together on that day. he said that he had family issues. personally i have noticed that whenever she brings up an issue that they are having he buys her gifts and gives her money (i must say that i use to get jealous when i see all the gifts and money), he says sorry but still does not change. oh well, now i feel guilty that i have been making this girl believe that she is just paranoid instead of seeing the fact that she is in a one-sided relationship. and to think that my friend is very pretty, despite pressure from men here in lagos, she still keeps herself for this guy. hmmm.... |
| Romance › Re: She Dumped Him, Now She Wants Him Back by jenny2007(op): 4:27pm On Mar 11, 2012 |
@omega25red, sorry but I don't believe that if your spouse does not call you on valentine's day then it means that he's not into you. She called the guy and he was busy as usual and my friend said she knew this quite well. He apologised to her for not calling her before she called him but still my girl let her anger take control of her dues to past excuses of being busy and then she gave him the big ultimatum 'change or we break up'. I just seem to think that there is a lack of communication btwn them. By the way, I have heard it so many times that ultimatums are a no-no in relationships except you seriously want to end it for sure. |
| Romance › Re: She Dumped Him, Now She Wants Him Back by jenny2007(op): 12:15pm On Mar 11, 2012 |
Hello peeps, Thanks for the comments so far. Killz, I respect your inputs as usual, thanks. Initially I was blaming her for over-reacting over him not calling her on valentine's day. I told her that she gave him an ultimatum too early. Now I'm confused after reading some of your comments. Keep your opinions coming in guys. Thanks again |
| Romance › She Dumped Him, Now She Wants Him Back by jenny2007(op): 9:33am On Mar 11, 2012 |
Hi guys, Don't know how to go about advicing my friend that recently broke up with her guy about a month ago but now misses him and wants him back. They are both in a distance relationship -she's in lag and he's in bayelsa. She use to complain to me a lot that he does not give her as much attention as she would want, like not enough calls but text frequently, they only see each other once a month. He always puts work first before her. So many times her visits to him has been cut short because one or two things came up at work. Ironically, she says that he gives her more attention when he's out of the country on a trip. He calls her single day to check on her when he travels out on a trip abroad but the story changes when he's back to work and in nigeria. Meanwhile, the guy gets upset whenever my girl does not call him to check on him. My friend said that he didn't call on vals day too despite the distance until she called him. She said she got so upset and threathened him through a text that she will leave him if he does not change. They both haven't spoken to each other at all till today, as in he he didn't reply and she hasn't called him. This girl is one of my close friEnds and I don't feel happy seeing her so sad. The guy has been nice to her but just that he does not make enough effort in the relationship. My girl is faithful to him here in lag even though she's very pretty. I have told her to call him and they should have a heart to heary talk. I dun know if I gave her a good advice. Your thoughts pls? |
| Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because He's Not Ready For A Relationship. by jenny2007(f): 5:44pm On Mar 04, 2012 |
@ UNdine, its good to know that he's honest at least and is not just stringing you along. If you both talk then you can remain friends but I don't believe in waiting for him. What if you wait for him and later on he finally decides that you are not what he wants and are better off remaining friends. I don't advise putting any part of your life, I.e, your love life on hold because of him. You should remain friends till all signs show that he is over his ex-wife, meanwhile you date someone that you fancy for now. If he decides that he wants you he will come back - that is if you have not already moved on with someone that loves you. Goodluck |
| Politics › Re: Ojukwu To Be Buried In American Gold Casket –bianca by jenny2007(f): 3:32pm On Feb 25, 2012 |
Ojukwu is dead ho-ha! Even if he is buried in American Gold Casket o or Diamond Encrusted Casket the fact remains that he is dead and would face like judgement and God in heaven just like the poor man who died and wasnt buried without a casket becos his family could not afford one. I quite understand that bianca as his wife wants to give him the best burial but we should not make a huge topic out of the type of casket to be used. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Is Your Date Of Birth? See If U Have A Match by jenny2007(f): 3:14pm On Feb 17, 2012 |
8th JANUARY |
| Romance › Re: Describe Your Current Girlfriend/boyfriend In One Word. by jenny2007(f): 11:45am On Feb 02, 2012 |
My man is soooo sexy, generous, funny, and he's religios too. |
| Romance › Re: What Would You Want To Have As A Gift This Valentine? by jenny2007(f): 11:04pm On Feb 01, 2012 |
I'm in a distance relationship so the only thing that I want for Valentine is to get away - far away - with my boyfriend. Somewhere we could be alone. |
| Food › Re: Maggie E-book by jenny2007(f): 5:17pm On Jan 29, 2012 |
Pls kindly send to me on lizzy1500@yahoo.co.uk Thanks in advance |
| Romance › Re: Her 2 Weeks Fling Has Conceived A Baby. Should She Abort It Or Tell The Father? by jenny2007(f): 10:13pm On Jan 28, 2012 |
Abortion is a terrible experience. Why not hold on first and tell the supposed father of the baby. His response will tell her whether to go ahead with this decision or not. She will also see his true colors. YoUr friend too is to blame because she and her guy do not actually communicate properly. A healthy relationship is based hugely on communication. If they both knew where they stand in each other's lifes then there would not be confusion as to whether top keep the baby or not. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by jenny2007(op): 12:33pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Honestly I am so glad that you guys are giving me these feedbacks. It might sound harsh but I am trying to take in the messages in criticisim. Normally I do not tolerate bad behaviour from in a relationships but this man is making me feel paranoid - like all the signs I am seeing are just in my mind. These comments remind me of how I normally want to be treated in a relationship - with respect! |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by jenny2007(op): 9:34am On Jan 22, 2012 |
Even as I'm posting this my jealous but cheating bf is busy streching his neck now like giraffe to see if I'm chatting with a man.  Guys why do u behave in such a selfish way? |
| Romance › Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by jenny2007(op): 9:29am On Jan 22, 2012 |
Morning lovely people, Was @ my man's house last night from lagos for the weekend and (shockingly) walked into his room to find a woman's hair accessory, pink shaving- stick and eye-brow tweezers all littered around this room and house. Asked him how it all got there and he said ''they belong to my cousin. She's been here all week. U just hang on for a few hours and she'll be here and U can ask her''. My people o, I stayed up till 12pm waiting for this cousin but she didn't turn up. I awoke early this morning and asked my bf if she was still coming over and he said ''she came and left when you were asleep. Pls trust me''. Hmmm, na wa o. This is a man that cannot even stand me talking to another man for up to 10min on the phone yet he's obviously cheating. Now I want to know why women often forgive their cheating bf's and husbands and overlook 'danger signs'' meanwhile men take cheating much more personal. Let's hear your thought people. |
| Family › Re: First Rain Of The Season by jenny2007(f): 6:55am On Jan 22, 2012 |
It rained heavily in Port Harcourt last night. |
| Politics › Pictures Of Diezani Allison-madueke And Her Sons Our Spending Oil Money by jenny2007(op): 2:49pm On Jan 19, 2012 |
Pls clink this link and see for yourself. You'll be shocked. Everyone should post the link to as many site as possible. Let's get that greedy woman to account for all that money http://africanspotlight.com/2012/01/pictures-flamboyant-livestyle-of-allison-maduekes-son-in-the-u-s/http://africanspotlight.com/2012/01/pictures-flamboyant-livestyle-of-allison-maduekes-son-in-the-u-s/ |
| Travel › Re: Vicjustice, Omo_tier, Dis Guy: Have I Been Banned For Overstaying? Help! by jenny2007(op): 12:36am On Jan 05, 2012 |
Hello guys, Thanks for your response. @vicjustice, pls there is no need to be rude here at all. We are all addults and should behave likewise by respecting each other's opinion -whether you agree with them or not. You really don't have to call anyone names pls, that is just rude! @omo_tier, I applied for a short -term (6mnth) visit visa. My previous visa was a 2years student visa (2001-03). I do not have any conviction or debts in the UK though I know I have had a caution by the metro poli. over a fight at school with a white girl during my A'levels. I was 17 at the time. I think the embassy only discovered that I overstayed through the caution because they mentioned it. According to them, 'I was cautioned after my visa had expired which shows I was in uk up to six months after my visa expired'. |
| Travel › Re: 10 Years Ban For Overstaying In The UK. And Migrants Coming To The UK. by jenny2007(f): 8:15am On Dec 31, 2011 |
Abeg segzeybaba if you are still here I need you input too. Thanks |
