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dominique:
Try and pray five times a day, with time you'll get used to it. My husband also complains about my non praying regularly so I'm trying to adjust. It's not easy but achievable.

Shey Muslim dey bear Dominique?

VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION

I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex.

Masturbation is handling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especiallly non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling Hot for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at theseame time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturabation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great.

5.Avoid pornography and romantic movies.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. God bless you.

Nawao

The guy they chased must have watched Fast and furious too many times

Ever since IG and COP disagreed on the first result that was released in August, since then, no news about it again. Abi dem don scrap am ni?

Simplep:
what exactly are you saying oga?

Help me ask him

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

It's men's responsibility to take care of their families including their wives. What's women's responsibilities? would you have said the same to men that can't take care of their wives?


I know your Indomie knowledge would tell you that cooking it's not meant for wives alone, but also men. Now, if that is what your reply is, I want you to educate me; what are husbands and wife's responsibilities in their respective homes?

Amazon rainforest that produces 20% world's Oxygen is on fire

Nice one from them

The short video is superb. Good job

agarawu23:
grab that loan, he is doing you a favor.

You mean am?

agarawu23:
whats the duration and payment plan?

Thanks bro.

Please check me reply above

pocohantas:
What is the loan's tenor?

What is the repayment plan?

Are you paying back principal + interest at the end of the stipulated period?

While banks charge higher, I think soft loans should be easier on the individual involved. 20% is on the high side for me. Except you are using it as working capital for a very established high-returns business.

Thanks for your contribution.

About repayment plan; the duration is either 6 or 12months (He asked me choose between 6 and 12months). And I will pay both the capital and the interest at the end of the agreed period.

But I later talked to him this morning to slash the rate to 18% 'cause it's too high, and he agreed. Do you think it's advisable for me to take it at the 18% interest rate with the above repayment plan?

Thanks guys for your impute

I want to get a loan of 2m wih 20% interest from my cousin, but I want to know if the interest rate is not too high. And if it's too high, what rate is reasonable? I just want to use the loan for my business.

Your advice will be highly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

ednut1:
how many mods does nairaland have and how much are they paid Cant work. Only IP banning can work

IP banning won't work. We don't have dedicated IPs here In Nigeria. Did you know that if you're browsing with your mtn line and you put your phone on airplane mode, disable the airplane mode again, your IP address will change? Since the IP keeps changing, banning IPs won't solve the problem.

Ajaokuta: Gov. Yahaya Bello’s Scam Exposed �

Preamble ��:

On the 2nd of April 2019, President Buhari rejected the $1b Ajaokuta Steel Company’s completion bill stating amongst others that “the nation can not afford to commit such an amount in the midst of competing priorities “ .

As disappointed as many were... losing hope was a far cry.

Financing was indeed a major concern for such a revolutionary project which intends to operate in service for the benefit of the people and industrialize Nigeria. At the same time, privatization is off the option racks as that would mean the profit going into the pockets of a few individuals at the detriment of the host communities, state and country. We have witnessed the “investments” in the oil sector and learnt from the degraded Niger Delta environments which birthed : Rich “investors” ... poor exploited hosts.

But they say, where there is a will, there is a way.

A Ray of Hope �

From the 18th to 22nd of June 2019, the African Import-Export Bank (AfriEximBank) under the leadership of Nigeria’s own Prof. Oramah, held its 26th Annual General for the first time in Moscow, Russia.

There the Russia Export Center (REC) (which is a developmental institution established by the Russian government to export financial and technical support for foreign countries in need) expressed intentions to be a stakeholder in AfriEximBank committing $50billion towards African projects specifically in areas of mining, railway and major industrial development.

Thousands of delegates cutting across the bank’s shareholders, authorities from countries and business communities participated in this conference which redefined Africa- Russia relationship as it were in the 70s/80s.

Sadly I couldn’t attend because of our senatorial tribunal case.

However, it was a rewarding event as the Nigerian Government representatives engaged adequately and returned home to Nigeria to begin putting in place measures to have Ajaokuta receive its $1b funding from the Russian Export Center’s $50billion stake in AfriExImBank.

AfriExImBank is currently excited about the possibilities of financing Ajaokuta Steel Complex’s resuscitation for the greater good of Nigeria.

President Buhari in Russia ��

On 22nd and 23rd of October 2019, President Buhari is expected to attend the first ever Russian - African Economic Summit where leaders of 40 African countries have confirmed attendance.

The Nigerian presidency is currently working very hard to ensure that a direct Government to Government agreement is entered into by Presidents Buhari and Putin in October in Russia with regards to the revival of Ajaokuta especially now that the funding challenge has been sorted.

Deal is; to get the Russians to resuscitate, operate alongside Nigerians for a few years, transfer technology to Nigerians leaving Ajaokuta plant a wholly Nigerian People’s owned company transparently and efficiently administered under a restructured system for maximum benefit of the people and nation.

The Devils in Sheep Clothing �

As everything was going on smoothly, Gov. Yahaya Bello of Kogi state and his crony in the person of Alhaji Musa Bello have dug up their shell company Ajaokuta Kogi Nigeria Limited and want to acquire Ajaokuta steel while accessing the $1b financing from AfriExImBank.

Refresher �:

Who is Alhaji Musa Bello?

This is a “self-acclaimed business man” whose character oozes the impression that “corruptions is the way of life in Nigeria so you must join the corrupt to survive”.

Musa Bello manipulated the Ajaokuta’s Arbitration case in London with the help of some unpatriotic Nigerians and together with Gov Kayode Fayemi ended up deceiving Vice President Osibanjo into handing over Itakpe Iron Ore complex to him in lieu of the $550m which they say Nigeria is supposedly owing Global Infrastructure Nigeria Limited, a company now belonging to Musa Bello.

Global Infrastructure Nigeria Limited is the company which stripped assets off Ajaokuta, Itakpe and Delta steel.

Now, Itakpe Iron Ore was given to Musa Bello 3 years ago on the 1st of August 2016 yet no operational activity is going on there.

What is Ajaokuta Kogi Nigeria Limited?

By mid 2017, a shell-company was uncovered to be created by Musa Bello and Gov. Yahaya Bello of Kogi State to fraudulently acquire Ajaokuta steel company for their selfish interests. Remember Malabo Oil? This set up was similar.

Upon investigation, DSS recommend the deregistration of the company as it didn’t hold in trust the intent mentioned in the numerous letters sent to CAC by the Kogi State Government (letter’s from Folashade, the Sectertary to the Government House and Asiwaju the Commission for Finance ).

Surprisingly, the company has resurfaced to live up to its intended evil of shortchanging not only Kogi state but Nigeria at a large because Ajaokuta steel is a federal government asset.

Let the Corporate Affairs Commission know that for all that it may, CAC doesn’t have the constitutional powers to regularize an irregularity.

Now Back to the Devils ��:

As we speak, Gov Yahaya Bello is using the authority of his office to misrepresent Ajaokuta Kogi Nigeria Limited (AKNL) into partnership with a Russian private company named Metprom before Bureau of Public Enterprises (BPE) and even Russian Export Center that AKNL holds trust for Kogi State and Nigeria.

Last week Kogi State Commissioner of Finance Mr. Asiwaju accompanied Musa Bello to a meeting with the presidency to push for privatization and access to the $1b.

The presidency told them straight away that the Federal Government is not interested in privatizing Ajaokuta are desirous of a Government to Government agreement with the Russians.

This didn’t go too well with Asiwaju, Musa Bello and Yahaya Bello.

Immediately, Gov. Yahaya Bello by the seal of his office facilitated MetProm’s deception of Russian Export Center into having an agreement that every transaction with Nigeria with regards to Ajaokuta steel should be through them (Ajaokuta Kogi Nigeria Limited and MetProm).

As at today, the presidency is upset at the mutinous manner in which Gov Yahaya Bello manipulates BPE, the AfriEximBank and the Russian Export Center into deceptively privatizing a Federal Government asset to himself and cronies.

Let every Kogite and well meaning Nigerian stand with the presidency on this great move to resuscitate Ajaokuta steel company.

Ajaokuta steel company like many others have suffered greatly in the guise of privatization. Privatization is simply a excuse for a government’s inefficiency and if we find the federal government trying its best to streamline processes to eradicate corruption in corporate sectors, let’s support them.

AfriExImBank would release funds to revive Ajaokuta but would prefer so upon a direct Federal Government to Government agreement not through a Yahaya Bello’s Ajaokuta Kogi Nigeria Limited Shell.

God bless Nigeria .

Natasha H Akpoti
The People’s Senator
SDP

Good News For Rohr As West Ham Goalkeeper Is Set To Play For Nigeria

Good News For Rohr As West Ham Goalkeeper Is Set To Play For Nigeria
Nigeria’s goalkeeping problems may soon be a thing of the past after reports emerged that West Ham’s U-18 goalkeeper, Daniel Jinadu is set to pledge his international future to the Super Eagles.

The Super Eagles have lacked quality in the goalkeeping department since former number one, Vincent Enyeama retired from the team.

The goalkeeping trio of Francis Uzoho, Ikechukwu Ezenwa and Daniel Akpeyi have all failed to convince. Calls for a new number one intensified following the conclusion of the just concluded Africa Cup of Nations where Nigeria third position.

Although the third-place finish was seen as a success in many quarters, there was a feeling it could have been better if the team had a top goalkeeper.

South Africa based goalkeeper, Daniel Akpeyi was chosen by Rohr as the team’s number one at the tournament, but the Kaizer Chiefs shot-stopper came in for criticism over his lack of confidence.

The 32-year-old was criticised for his inability to instil confidence into the team and also his inability to deal with crosses. He was blamed for Nigeria’s semi-final loss to Algeria with many saying he should have done better for Mahrez’s last minuted freekick.

Following the tournament, the team’s manager, Gernot Rohr was implored to start looking for a goalkeeper that the team can trust. And it seems the German tactician wait search will soon be over with reports emerging that West Ham U-18 goalkeeper has had talks with the NFF and he is poised to commit his international future to Nigeria.

The 17-year-old has represented England at the U-15 and U-16 levels but is set to represent Nigeria at the international level.
https://soccernet.ng/2019/07/good-news-for-rohr-as-west-ham-goalkeeper-is-set-to-play-for-nigeria.html/amp

dominique:
Sensational journalism at its peak. How did unknown kidnappers automatically turn to herdsmen?

EventuARY, you dunno know what's going on

Princedapace:
Oh, Im sorry to answer this. U do not expect the host to bear the entire cost of the event. The host has already spent so much hosting the competition. The host has already bought all tickets for their matches. The host wont go about buying the tickets for other participating teams.

I want u to calm down and research how many Liver pool fans traveled from liver pool to watch their team play UEFA champions league final this year. I want u to find out how many Brazilians traveled to watch their team play in the world cup, the same goes to all other participating countries.

Participating nations in tournaments should have their citizens and well wishers buy their match tickets and not expecting the host to do so. That is where we get it all wrong. We expected Egyptians to come out en mass to buy match tickets for DRC, Benin, SA, Nigeria, Tunisia, etc. Does that make sense to u? Nigeria should at least for example, have over 30k fans travel down to Egypt to watch us play, same with DRC, Tunisia, Uganda, Senegal, etc. The participating teams should have their fans travel down to Egypt to watch their various teams, that is how it is done.

I pity the organizers becus they may not make much money. One of the benefits of hosting such competition is to attract foreigners to visit ur country and spend money in ur country. That is how it is done. Over 30 fans of the two English clubs traveled to spain to watch their teams play UEFA champions league final. They didnt wait for Spain to host and buy the entire tickets. That is not business.

How many Nigerians traveled to watch eagles? Oh, we are waiting for the Egyptians to host and buy entire tickets too? lol

My brother, what u are seeing in AFCON is an evidence of hunger across Africa, over 90% of the participating nations dont have many citizens who can afford to travel for such competition.

The average ticket goes for 10k naira, when u add flight fee, visa fee, booking hotels, feeding, transportation, womanizing, etc u should be spending over 2 million naira to travel and watch few super eagles match in Egypt. Now, how many Nigerians earn such in a year? Most football fans are broke in third world countries, they cant afford to travel.

Also, flight logistics in africa is poor. Africa is very large and lacks intra transportation system like we have in Europe. Normally, each participating nations should at least attract nothing less than 15k travelers to buy tickets and watch their matches, that way, the few Egyptians and tourists who may have interest in some of the matches beside their national team, will add up to the numbers.

Imagine 20k Nigerians buy tickets for our matches, our opponents also have 15k of their citizens traveled and bought tickets, stadium never full?

Abeg, i dont blame the Egyptians, African leaders have failed. Middle class citizens who form majority of the football fans cant afford 2 million for a competition.

You nailed it bro

omajali2003:
It's a terrible thing when your destiny is not in your hand. Poor Falcons, they will be feeling the heat now

Abeg, no take lafter kee me for here

Do we have any hope now?

PrinceOgun:
Where did you get the theme file ?

From the WordPress dashboard. I have fixed it. Thanks for your input bro

Hello, webmasters.

I've been having issues installing wordpress and plug-in on my new wordpress site. Whenever I try installing either theme or plug-in, it returns the error as it's shown on the screenshots below.

I, initially, thought the problem is because I used the latest version of wodpress which might be due to the fact some themes and plug-ins are not compatible with the latest version yet. I now decided to downgrade it to the oldest version (4.9.10) of WordPress, but I'm still experiencing the same error.
Please how can I resolve this?
I'v explored all the possible solutions I now, but now positive result yet.

Thanks

Modified: Please note that I was not installing the theme or plug-in as external files, I was trying to install them directly from my dashboard.

Update: I have fixed it. Thanks

How can I order for one?

I got to know onlinenaira.com 2 months ago and I decided to be using their platform. The first transaction I had with them wasn't as smooth as I expected.
I initiated withdrawals for the past six days now, but these guys refused to credit my account. Whenever I chatted them up, they would tell me they are experiencing some problems, and that my account will be credited ASAP. The first time I transacted with them, I had the same experience, but they told me it was simply because they were having issues with their banks, so I believed them.

This second time, I was supposed to be credited 3 days after the withdrawal is initiated, but now, today makes it 6 days and they are yet to credit my account. I've been contacting them since 3 days ago and they keep telling me the same thing, "we will credit your account ASAP". One of their supports even told me they are paying pending orders that are in the queue. I wonder how many customers they have that they can't pay their orders for the past six days. Even companies that have many employees don't take a long time to pay their employees.

I don't understand why they have to be lying to their customers.

Well, I'm waiting for them

samilo88:
Wetin come be Skrill matter for here. Someone might have hacked your email to access your Skrill funds. Skrill is still a very reliable payment gateway known worldwide. I have a verified Skrill account which I have been using for years. Still way better than the sleepless nights PayPal might give u. Every blogger wants to use Yahoo boys story gather traffic.

The same thing I wanted to say. I have been using skrill for some years and I have never experienced any scam related issues from them. I think saying skrill is a scam is like tarnishing the reputation of the company.

Amakavula:
Hopefully how I will met my Hubby.. good luck babe. God bless your marriage.

I'm here

Adbiz:
That's my home town, will confirm the authenticity of this GREAT and EXCITING news

If the news is true, please don't forget to take a bike from Ihima to Ogaminana to report back to me its authenticity.

Hello Webmasters,
I was running my website some months ago with a particular niche. over time, I decided to switch from the niche to another one. My concern now is that, since Google had already indexed the domain name for the niche, won't there some implications or penalties if I switch to a different niche?
I'm looking forward to hearing from you guys.
Thanks

iceboy4752:
Nairalanders, what's that creepy incident that left unforgettable scars in your memory?
Though I've had many bad incidents, but let me share the most recent one.
I was travelling to Jos together with my elder brother when a red Honda sped past us. In the car was a young man who waved at us with a very unusual and amiable smile across his face. My brother responded with a horn.
We got to a village close to Kaffanchan some minutes later. There was a heavy traffic because two cars had collided. It involved an Opel vehicle and that of the man who waved at us moments before that. We saw the moment his corpse was brought out of the car by some men. He was on a white attire that got totally soaked in blood.
We were really shocked that day. The incident leafed through my memory for many days.

The year I lost my 3 brothers, that was in 2016.

Justbeingreal:


Lol... OMA easy....humbleness went back to default settings..

Lol.... After a hard reset