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koastar: Shattap ya mouth there! If any black person commits a crime they quickly say he's a Nigerian. The other day in the news, some blacks referred to as Nigerians were to be deported from UK only to be discovered at the Nigerian embassy that they were Camerounians, Congolese, Gabonese, Ghanians etc but all media have reported it already to be Nigerians involved in fraud. These same media didn't apologise nor report the true story and people like you will go around saying 5 out of 10 Nigerians are bad. Nonsense!
if only about 1% of Nigerians are that bad and about 60% of SA are criminals and rapists, about 80% of Brazilians, Columbians are involved in drugs, 70% of Russians are mafians or internet fraudstars, what would you say about them? Park well jare!

I was going to address him but good thing you did.You know i'm still reading posts but yet to conclude.....wonder how i missed the news

[quote author=*Semuhle*Baby*][b]Crime is a big problem in South Africa and it is not only "Nigerians" who are getting affected by it, but by us South Africans too, even more so if i should say so. There is no conspiracy theory out to get only Nigerians as many people are victims of crime everyday. We should rather thank God that nobody got seriously hurt during this robbery. [/b]But why do some Nigerians love to hate? I thought it was only South Africans that they hated but i have seen that you hate Ghanaians and Kenyans and so on as well then you blame it on jealousy of being the giant of africa . Yes in South Africa you get people who hate Nigerians and foreigners in general as am sure there are some in every country all over the world who may also hate Nigerians and foreigners. There are good and bad Nigerians and some people based their experiences entirely on the bad which is why you will see certain people saying certain things but the same can be said about Nigerians. It seems its okay for you guys to go on and on and spread hatred about other nationalities you dislike but when others do the same you condemn it and get worked up about it but when you guys do it yourself then it is okay. Do unto others as you will want to be done unto you. If you show hatred towards others, do not get upset when hatred is shown towards you.[/quote]Now the bolded calms me down.The medias have been largely responsible for most of the incitements and "black labelling".And the comment sections where "the freedom of expression" is grossly abused with hateful comments,stokes the flames of hatred and aggression.Albeit,i do not completely blame some xenophobic individuals here with their tirade of insults and daring..,.......eish dont wanna start

[quote author=$25 million]a more respectable, rationale and objective south african[/quote]Surprisingly.yet I agree...didn't get to read this news until this morning....We definately gonna take this page to 100"s of it TODAY

, Wonderful piece. This are write ups that should be adorning our front pages.Respect

FlirtyKaren: Ini Edo & Philip Ehiagwina Bury Mum In Edo State (Photos)

The burial took place in Irrua over the weekend. Ini and husband are still going strong. Nice

http://www.lailasblog.com/2013/04/ini-edo-hubby-philip-ehiagwina-bury-mum.html

Omo nomose

rodeo0070: A 30-year-old woman, Abiodun Olajide, has pleaded guilty to removing her man
friend's teeth with slap while the duo engaged in fisticuffs.Olajide was also said to have inflicted
wounds on Augustine Olukukoyi at their residence at Oguntolu, Somolu, Lagos
State. charge of assault. The charge sheet reads, 'That you,
Abiodun Olajide, female, on April 18,
2013, at about 8.30 hours at Oguntolu
Street, Somolu, Lagos in the Lagos
Magisterial District did inflict wound on
one Augustine Olukukoyi, male, by
slapping him, as a result removed two
teeth and thereby committed an
offence punishable under section
244(a) of the Criminal Law of Lagos
State, Nigeria, 2011'
[b]When the charge was read, she pleaded
guilty.
The matter, which was adjourned until
April 29 [/b]for judgment at Court 4, Yaba,
could not hold because the magistrate
was said to be ill.

SOURCE: mobile.punchng.com/output.php?link=http://www.punchng.com/metro/woman-removes-mans-teeth-with-slap/

This is why any law or policy consituted and passed based on GENDER should not be encouraged and be abolished. In a scenerio like this,you would hardly or most probable never heard of FEMINIST or WOMEN (not HUMAN)RIGHTS CAMPAIGNERS coming out to voice such abuse against a fellow HUMAN. Gender based policies are nothing but mere cheap POLITICAL gimmicks.Just Imagine the daughter of such a man witness such.Will she not believe the mothers beastly act is the norm?

jackbauerspower: Good

Let them kill themselves

Awon were

eh hen now...so they could reduce themselves from our public.I concur

[quote author=Nuzo']The incident was caught on tape.

This woman has to be sentenced to 45 years in prison. We can't continue enduring voilence againt men everyday.

Thank god she didn't r.ape the man. [/quote]This is why any law or policy consituted and passed based on GENDER should not be encouraged and be abolished. In a scenerio like this,you would hardly or most probable never heard of FEMINIST or WOMEN (not HUMAN)RIGHTS CAMPAIGNERS coming out to voice such abuse against a fellow HUMAN. Gender based policies are nothing but mere cheap POLITICAL gimmicks.Just Imagine the daughter of such a man witness such.Will she not believe the mothers beastly act is the norm?

shymexx: All these MILF can get it and I'd smash their pum to smithereens - especially ol'coon negro, Oprah Winfrey and her massive ti.ts...

Damn!! Charlotte Casiraghi is fine as fvck for a white woman...

Now you are thinking like me ..

[quote author=Okija_juju][img]http://3.bp..com/-1Ihjdi_K3ck/UX4sjbn1gzI/AAAAAAABCDE/B0mSEZaHswY/s1600/photos_from_dr_sign_fireman_wedding4.JPG[/img][/quote]D man sabi act sha.See as e come Gentle like say e no sabi... Baaaad Nigga

payless: The guy is currently in U.K seeking asylum.

Abi o..so why bomb an empty house

The man is a Murderer and not a MAN at all. Let the full weight of the law be met out on his crime.Simple.Bloody idiot.

justwise: The asylum story did not do her any favour after coming in as a student, i really hope she recovers and allow to stay with her husband.

I concur with that line.Cmon she found a man she loves and he loves her too,why deny her stay with her man?WTF!

[quote author=ShyM-X]Naija's young Denzel Washington look-a-like, David Boyega, is the next big thing...

Naija brits are running circles around everyone's square - we're on this thing!!

David Boyega

[img]http://www.indiewire.com/static/dims4/INDIEWIRE/419ffab/2147483647/thumbnail/485x341%3E/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fd1oi7t5trwfj5d.cloudfront.net%2F45%2F3342807ab611e2922e22000a1d0930%2Ffile%2Fboyega.jpg[/img][/quote]Really? but i thought the boy is a JAMO?

R.I.P

No wonder Toto dikeh always makes front page...Ol boy...Your marketing strategy na GBAM!

Amelian: We love marriage but not all women are desperate to be married, especially when she lives well , she has a supportive guy, good family ties,, what'else does she need to crave for?... Most single couples are better and happier than married couples... Some girls might be unhappy they are single but not all single girls...
Does being married to a man, make him yours permanently and live happily thereafter ?
Do wives own their husbands?
Do all men want to be owned by their wives?
Then why is divorce rate so high?

Hi..as i said i would get back to your post in the bolded part...

1. Infidelity

Cheating seems like the most common reason for divorce, due largely in part to the media. Athletes, singers, politicians, and other “celebrities” are often in the spotlight because of their infidelity; in some cases, this cheating involves multiple people and is usually quite scandalous, garnering worldwide attention and often wrecking their personal and professional lives. But infidelity isn’t just reserved for those in the limelight – it’s a situation that arises in the marriages of normal people, too. Infidelity is different from the other reasons on this list primarily because it’s usually caused by other issues. As a matter of fact, it may occur because of…

2. Communication

Communication is often the glue that holds a marriage together. If two people are in-tune with each other’s feelings, opinions, and values, then it’s a great benefit to their relationship. Generally, this means that they actually have to speak honestly and openly with each other, and although it may seem difficult to do this amidst jobs, children, and other obligations, it’s an important component to any relationship. If two people don’t openly express their feelings or concerns, then there’s no way to work together to help or fix them. Talk about sex. Tell your partner if you feel emotionally or mentally unfulfilled. If you need attention, ask for it. Two people get married because they communicate that they love each other and want to make their love official…so this is a great place to start.


3. Money
of marriages. Money is nice to have, and it’s a great way to show how much you really care, but money (or lack thereof) often tears people apart. Lay-offs, medical bills, children and even basic household bills can be burdensome and can cause stress for couples. Poverty and the struggles that correspond with it can test marriages, but communication and mutual compromise can help a relationship survive amidst difficult financial times.

4. Priorities

With careers, social obligations, and families to care for, it can be hard to find quality time to spend with your spouse, yet the livelihood of your relationship depends on it. By taking time out of your busy lives to spend quality time together, marriage satisfaction can be greatly improved. Don’t hesitate to schedule date nights or plan events with your spouse to make sure they’re not missed.

Although marriage may have its ups and downs, it usually pays off in the long run. Understanding the primary concerns that often arise in marriage is the first step in preventing and overcoming them.

Catch y'all later

coogar:
uk prisons are like hotels, mate!
prison violence is at barest minimum - they pamper the prisoners to a fault. enough computer classes, pool table, playstation consoles and solid 3 square meals!



why was he arrested? immigration issue or drugs charge?

Coogar,please this is not the best of time to joke.This guy died as a result of what? Not made known yet and lets think of the his parents and family members. Imagine if he had finished his program and what an asset he could become.Kai...i feel for him and his family seriously.

Amelian: We love marriage but not all women are desperate to be married, especially when she lives well , she has a supportive guy, good family ties,, what'else does she need to crave for?... Most single couples are better and happier than married couples... Some girls might be unhappy they are single but not all single girls...
Does being married to a man, make him yours permanently and live happily thereafter ?
Do wives own their husbands?
Do all men want to be owned by their wives?
Then why is divorce rate so high?

Amelia,I shall take you on,with an open, un-biased mind tomorrow morning. Now its almost 10.00 p.m and I'm off to bed. You made some good points but your last 5 questions outline tomorrow requires straight answers. This are times I wish Pst Bimbo Odukoya (RIP)is very much alive. She handles issues like these very well. Nyt

Seriously,i blame those men who donate their God given "milkshake" for free.This nonsense wont be making wave at all.Let them feminist go be making their babies with aliens from mars to whom they shall owe no allegiance whatsoever.

SAGirl: WOW... this is one of teh most beautiful articles I have ever read. And so well-written at that (compared to some of teh stuff that we are subjected to on this forum)...

The fact is that women do not gain anything from marriage... IT DOES NOT BENEFIT US AT ALL. More and more women are starting to realise that and it scared the crap out of the male-species.

Dont generalise nor get yourself stained on nairaland.Afterall, you still working on your own CURRENT relationship (that guy with a kid whom you seriously love) .

Opari ...as Yoruba people go talk am.Finally Oshiomole put the old man where e belong for public.Igbinedion na true rascal walai.

invectives: Recently Photos of Wizkid drinking moet and lazing about,did find its way to the Frontpage.making way for a pic taken in SA by a nairalander to grace frontpage too.the hard working nigerians in this country say we need to Celebrate and be proud of what we have.

It Shouldnt always be Wizkids drank,Tonto dike's Hair,Jim Iyke's pants on FP.

Big boy..making some moneh....enjoy cos its your time my bruv.Shalom.

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Bitches be hussling brothers everyday for everything from; Recharge cards to Cellphones to cars, house rents, lands, open up boutiques for them, shopping in Dubai, Private jet lounging, Yatch cruises, expensive vacations, money in the bank, etc.. This has been the case since the beginning of time. We men complain, but we keep it on the down low..

A Man gets some help from a woman, she opens a website and tells the world...

Whats the ratio of Guys who hussle women to girls who hussle guys?! Prolly like 500,000 : 1 (in just Abuja o!!)[/quote] Feel you nigga, feel you. Two Can the play tha game

ekwah: You are such a... I wish I have time to really reply this very silly post....

The importance of the institution of marriage can't be overemphasized. I completely support the promotion of women's rights in a masculist society like Nigeria's, but this very horrid picture of a master-slave relationship that you've painted makes absolutely no sense. Marriage isn't supposed to be a smooth-sail journey in the first place. it is completely the responsibility of the parties involved to set whatever rules that work for themselves. We all claim that we need freedom but seek companionship/love over everything else at the end of the day. Men too have their own pressures so think well and not type such BS next time you want to attack marriage as an institution.

All these girls wey no dey analyze things critically before they jump to conclusions sef... allowing your self to be brainwashed by what you see in western media would be very disastrous. Our society functions differently from theirs...
don't type this nonsense next time please.


so pissed

Precisely,just ponder on Ops points and see her resentment for men.Classic Feminist .
1."Marriage hardly benefits women"
2."Kudos to the 2% of Nigerian MEN that still have respect for women and consider their feelings after marriage, "-Appalled where that came from.
3."Also, after marriage the husband clearly enjoys his life and freedom MORE than the woman"
4."The majority of Nigerian MEN are lazy ASSESS that think that helping their wives at home is an abomination. "
5."The worst part is that the children the women is taking care of, the children that she got so stressed for and losses her beauty after birthing are bearing the MAN's name. The children bear his name and not hers"
6."the MAN is very very likely to cheat on his wife and maybe infect her with some STD or another and he will more likely than not, turn her into his slave"
7."I'm sure many women will not get married, who in their right senses will want to marry an overbearing, unhelpful, slave driving no-good lazy Bottom; which majority of MEN are"

devour129: my dear everyday I come hear and all I hear is men men men ! So who sleeps with all these single girls ? Ghost ? But still men are these and that. Please go get married and train your boys to be a good husbands to there wives. Am tired jor and before I forget Jide,I don't drink cos I have a very light head maybe we can share a pack of fruit juice one day

No problem my sis.Its a promise and God willing,its a date i shall live to fulfill.Meanwhile keep spinning 'em on Nairaland. Following and applauding your feats and vybzzz online,closely.

Coldfeet: BIG OROBOLICIOUS LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Author borrow me ur ear lemme tell you about my husband! I will stand on the highest peek and shout it out for the whole world to hear MY HUSBAND IS EVERYTHING!! You just wrote there. As for number 5 not really clear to me but then why would I want to leave a man (borrowing the words of Princess) who took away my shame? A man who saw beyond the wayward and stubborn young girl I use to be and made me his Oriaku? A man who God used to liberate me? A man who makes my toes wriggle uncontrollable each time{u know na } A man who can't go an hour without hearing from me? Abeg pack well joor if your husband na agbero no come console your self here saying no woman can have it this good welder soda that hand weh u use type this lubbish.

hehehehe fantastique (in french)

debrief08: I agree with with her, I don't think she is refering to all married women but those but those who love to harass single women.
There are some married women who are fond of making singles feel bad and specialise in harrasing them to "go and marry". Really happily married folks know that a good marriage is not rushed.
Also she was in my oppinion speaking to the people who will advice you to stay and rot even in unpleasant marriages, who will never be real on what really goes on and always want to show how marriage defines them.
I tell my friends being single is not a crime or disease, don't pretend, don't out of desperation marry and swallow all misery.
Be real, when you face challenges that overwhelm you say so, if not you will die in silence.
So many of them in church wearing asoebi yet covered in bruises.
Why do you think Nairaland has so much traffic? So many people who pretend to their friends and family in real life find solace here.
A bad broken down marriage is not a thing to be ashmaed of, being single or divorced is not a crime, be honest and open and you won't die prematuredly from heart attack, HIV or beatings.

My sister,where have you been?.I have been following your posts closely on Nairaland and i'm impressed with the maturity displayed in your write ups.Keep it up and endeavour to share some with many of the single babes here please. nuff respect.

devour129: if you read my post you won't have to ask that question . I have never insulted any single lady before but these chicks are pushing it. Why do they always like to make out us married ones like we are living in bondage or only managing our lives cos we still live in the Stone Age ? I can begrudge anyone to think and feel whatever makes them sleep better at night but don't spoil the notion of marriage for our younger generation coming up. If your parents marriage ddnt work,try make yours work so your kids can learn from you not talking trash here. Am going to boast here YES SOME OF US HAVE IT ALL,some are still working on there's and some are almost there. If you not married its your choice but don't come here acting like you are all that ! Bee baby that was the point am trying to make,sorry it offended you.

If you are reading, a pat on the back,two thumbs up for saying it as it is and i wish we could have a chat over some chilled glasses of HENNESSY .

coogar: a man would actually pray every woman he meets is single to remove all complications. what's the business of any man pressuring a single woman other than scheming to take her to bed? you surely don't know how the mind of an average man works......



if women stigmatise as much as the men like you have admitted, why did your title not mention women?



how is it false? women want what their mates have? it can either be positive or negative. when it's negative then envy and jealousy are born. when it's positive then it's just a healthy competition.



if you don't dispute women also pressurise single women how come that bit was mysteriously left out in the title of your thread? are you a feminist?

Buddy you should have seen that in most of her post.They call themselves...MORDERN WOMEN."I DON'T NEED TO MARRY A MAN, BUT I NEED HIS SPERM TO MAKE BABIES,REGARDLESS OF WHO AND FROM WHERE., sies! "

FXKing2012: Waooooo....what a [b]lorry-load of trash.[/b]

hahahah FXKING are you sure?

[quote author=Sheriff©]It is very save to call you a 'daily mail economist'....Though, the Nigerian situation is unfortunate and not somewhat shameful, distorting facts to make it gravelling is fraud in itself.

You said "As we speak 112million people in Naija live below $1 a day." That is very incorrect as the source you got your information from had long reviewed it facts. How much is a dollar in Nigeria? Check the facts again bro.
You also said "Over 80 million or half of Nigerias population live in RURAL AREAS/VILLAGE ". I think it would have been sensible to quote a source instead of making flat statements. 80million Nigerians in the rural areas? I doubt that data!...[/quote]Bruv,why reply him,just ignore and let him enjoy his posting while he reads it all over by himself or haven't you noticed all his posts on nairaland?