₦airaland Forum

@C-blow
U said u'lld rather go for a girl that is free, if u were still searching? duh!

But for me, if i were a guy, i'ld rather prefer a lady that is in a relationship, if i like her that much, i'll make my intension known, do everything to make her see reasons why i should be the one. But one thing dat should never be done is running the other guy down.

We've seen guys do this stuffs, she's not married & if her guy is not treating her right. i see no reason why she can't have the one she truly deserves.

I know guys & i have brothers, they always prefer ladies that are hooked up, after all how many girls u find so attractive/cultured is single? If u meet a single girl good, but if i were a guy stil, if her reason for being single is not reasonable enough. I'll question.

guys wake up, b4 u start singing Joe's "good girls". _{why are ll the good girls taken}

@Poster Go for her if u like her that much, u feel she truly deserves u & u can give her the very best.

@Poster

For a guy to face u & tell u all dat, he is so o o thru with u, i believe he thought about it well b4 he told u. I think u should credit him for telling u. Not many guys would.

Its hard to get over stuffs like that especially when it comes with a blow. But u've got to be strong. & i can bet u dat after some time, u would wonder how u made him fit in ur life. Yes u'll surely move on & u'll be glad u did.

chuckdee4:
Can i phone a friend?

Nah! Try the audience.


@Topic no comment till i'm sure this is true, no one is a saint though.

Descent virgin talk again?

Why on earth should 'descent' be tagged along with 'virgin'

A descent girl is descent, virgin or no virgin

While i'ld rather use the word 'pure' for a virgin.

For virgins that may look hot, dazzling & appealing, this should not be mistaken for indecency but enlightenment, or some environmental influence.

@Poster, it aint lack of opportunity but a matter of choice.

Na wah o!

Maybe they want the kids to become pastors, to save Nigeria. I think we need it.

This totally depends on individual "Go for what u want" not what u think will be appreciated by other people, or someone u think suits u better.

No wonder many celebrities are crying

@ Frankies

I totally believe in what u said, Not only dat they are human, they are not the most intelligent people on earth, as u may know, they could have stereotyped questions that may seem they've got the whole knowledge in the world.

True like bolaoni said, u must not allow fear to set in, once fear rules, u might not even have anwers to the simplest questions, even if u've read the whole "preparing to attend an interview" books this world has to offer.

When i'm going for any interview, or any place where i think i might feel intimidated. i remember to put on the cloth named "we are all human" dat way i'm sure of winning something.

In essence if u can overcome, fear, intimidation, inferiority complex, anxiety, then u can think of taking the next step, which is answering ur questions perfectly.

Thanks 2 u all though learnt a lot

ayoeze11:
The Devil is knocking at your door, please do not open

Nah! He has opened, he's just waiting for the consequences.

grow fast:
l don't need that respect plssssssssssss. slap as a respect can people hear her.

_{*shakes head & leaves thread*}

Relationships has different challenges, Maybe that's ur own cross to carry.

Its true, ur guy might have called u countlessly in the beginning & dropped now, I can almost assure u dat, his feelings are still the same since he does not act it on u when u see eachother. Guys usually don't see a need to keep the chase when they'v held u tight, calls may reduce, unless there comes a tension dat sparks it up again.

U could test him, by making him feel he is almost loosing u, his reaction to this tell what he truly feels, this has always worked.

But there are also somethings to look into,

How long have u started?, Have u met his parents? Do u think he's seeing u other than a girlfriend? Is there some other things u'v suspected?

If u don't believe in love, it will never come to u.

The slapping thingy depends on the two people involved


For the lady: She must have said something to have deserved such a slap

For the Guy: What happened could have been too overwhelming for him have controlled the urge to slap.

But whatever, i think no matter what she said or did, walking away as a guy earns u much more respect than retaliating.
Mind u, the fact that u don't hit back, doesn't mean u are weak. That is some of the simple ways guys earn their respect.

tpia:
wonderful feeling.

Like sailing on air.

it could wear off eventually though. But good while it lasts.

true talk!

@all
is it dat, u all are not in a relationship presently or u are not in love with ur spouses.

zheroes:
dear nairalanders,
the truth is she is evrything i have always desired in awoman, initially i was treating her really bad that she cries sometimes, due to what my friend said, still that did not change her attitude towards me, infact when i met her family members i knew i was home because that was a replical of my family.

I REALLY LOVE HER AND I KNOW AM NOT BLIND

Whatever makes u happy, na u sabi

Nairalanders over to u

Nah! it aint doing me no giz-giz again like b4 , i'm passed that stage.

I know dat feeling, starts when the love is new, lasts for like a year or 1 &half at most then u cool down

Not like its ended but another phase.

iice:
solo relationship

Sure it is. One person believing, the other enjoying.

@ topic

real girls do,

Honesty is only difficult for people who have made lying a habit

Also very difficult to be believed by people who hardly trust.

If u are truly honest, keep making it a habit, i believe there's a reward for everything.

yimiton:
yimilet! That is what I be

yea girl, but "jklet"

Baby Mia

But when i'm annoid? whoa! i don't think twice b4 calling his name & his surname.

Yes o

I'm third, & i'm loving being in dat middle

@all first borns
I don't envy u guys at all, yes o, u may set exemplary characters, but think o, we watch u make mistakes, but u know what? we never make the mistakes y'all make, we tap from ur intelligence/bright ideas & add to ours, which makes double.

Descent Virgin ke?
Dat 1 dey again? Is virgin not virgin?

Oh! is there indecent Virgin? i tire 4 Nairaland

@ Poster
The guy is still very much in love wit the other girl, & i don't think ur presence in his life has made much/any difference. Perhaps he needs a companion in u.

Don't even think of having a relationship with him at this stage, 'cos believe me, he hasn't noticed u yet, although might be around u often. U have enough answers already, wit the ex's pix still all over the place & all. And mind u, u don't have to be the most beautiful girl in the world to be noticed, especially by this guy.(in answer to ur first two lines)

Be wise, or u'lld be surprised that the same person that swore never to get back his 'ex, will one day tell u, they are back together. 5 years is no joke.

Not all ladies though

Put make-up on a pig, a pig is still a pig, oink, oink, oink

@ Poster

I think u are mistaking 'pretty' for 'beautiful'. There's a lot to the word beautiful, its deeper & an all round thingy, while 'pretty' is outwards.

I don't think guys should come to the conclusion dat girls gifted with so much outward beauty r insensitive. And yes u can have the two (beauty & manners), it just depends on where u are searching, & how u carry her on. Study ur girl. if she's pretty & u know dat subsequent repetition of her beauty will make her go gaga! then reduce it, or don't even say it. Let her wonder if u see her, when actually u do & ur senses r awake. Mind u though its not all pretty ladies dat carry the thought in their head, this type of people, repetitive praises of their beauty, could piss them off.

Point: U don't have to go for a plain/ugly girl because u want to be guranteed of good manners, U can have a very pretty/beautiful girl & make the best out of her by studying her & knowing how to handle her. And who says a plain/ugly girl too can't leave