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Hmmmm!

@ onyeka _ng

thanx jare, u go fear crush now, wey we tink say na love.

Yes i had this one crush i could never forget, yes, his name is tosin

I went to a single sex secondary school _{some F.G.G.C}so it was initially hard for me to flow with guys,i was in s.s2, but thank God i had brothers with friends. This guy was my brother's friend, & he had finished from K.C. He's got brains to kill for & particularly cute. I would look at this guy, & would wish we were the only ones on earth, i would imagine so many things with this guy, even imagine some discussions in front of the mirror, I would smile & answer myself back. I would create imaginary conversations that i was thinking he'll one day ask & i would prepare answers. But He just always saw me then as his friend's little sister.

There was even a particular day, he came to my place, that my brother wasn't at home, "i came to see u" he said, and i thought that was it, when i opened the door, he said he wanted to collect a particular text book I guess he needed for jamb, i gave that txt book to him slowly praying & wishing hard he'ld say something else but he didn't & left.

I never told him how i felt, but he came back two years later tripping & falling flat for me. It was quite strange for the fact that my own feelings were then gone. He was then in Lag Medicine, but i simply could not bring my self back. It was either i was ahead of him sort of or my mirror was seeing somebody else.

Please tell them bolarge, it doesn't change the pain. People who avoid hurt eventually get it. I've never waisted my love, d two of them r on my neck right now. Hoping to get back & appreciate the fact that i loved them.

by the way, how have u been Long time bolarge

Now the thing is:

Whether u quickly jilt him b4 he jilts u or not, point stil boils down to d fact that u know deep down in ur heart, that it was stil from him. But truly, if u are in love, there's no pride there. I'll let him know i loved him even on that day he said good bye. There's is this way u feel ok wit ur self, and no matter what, he'll always remember this, even when he's wit someone else.

Hmmm, u want to know what she thought of u?

wow some of people r making sense here

@Havannah
word!

seriously, guys not only guys people have their peak & off peak periods, i'm going thru some phase now that i think he's not showing love like he used to. When i threathened a break up, he said "u are going no where, u are here to stay" while i was busy working on my break up with him and he still did somethings that made me say to myself "give urself a brain".

my point: Some times they are going thru somethings that makes the excitement in ur relationship slowdown, if u are really in love u need to watch & pray for the best.
if not u'll lose count of people u've dated.

@magneto
that is the trick, truly it works.

Jahbert:
A woman is like your shadow - follow her, she flies; fly from her, she follows,

Same for guys too--that's just the way it is

@poster
Do the things she does to u, & see if she won't start doing the things u used to do _{who said life was fair}

naijaborn:
Hmnn! Ladapo! Ladapo!! Ladapo!!!, incase yu've been chekin on yur girly like that;yu'll av 2giv yursef a rest of mind nd stop! being a watchdog over a girl is like diggin yur own grave, bsides i see no reason y a man shuld investigate a woman's unfaithfullness;it's head-aching

All a man need is to be close to his woman's heart by aving/sharing gudtimes,aving serious real life discussions 2geda,show love n b true 2it, most expecially prayin,because we're imperfect beings.so a woman or man indulging in a watchdog act over a partner will only b destroyin wot he/she has built wit time in no time

i might be wrong though, but that's dway i see it!

true talk, i believe in a relationship, u should do ur own side of the game, be sincere & be true but for ur partner--- future will tell.

mellow:

somebody can actually be crying outwardly but laughing at you inwardly.[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

that would actually be from a wicked mind, i'm sure the poster is not talking about deceit here. The topic is plain & simple.

"Women cry all d time" if u agree, state ur reasons, if u do not agree state ur reasons. Why should there be a twist in such a topic like this. Except that is ur own reason for crying, no hard feelings though.

Yes o, Meeeee i can cry o, if i cry for u hen---_{u will dove ur cap}

its ok to be emotional, how will i be strong hearted and marry another strong hearted person, what kind of kids do u expect huh?

If something is so funny i could laugh till i'm teary

When i saw a movie like "titanic" i cried my eyes out

When i'm extremely happy, ther's this swell on my head & tears just come.

When i'm sad God know i'm a mess.

Its good to cry though, u let out something inside, sometimes things heavy, sometimes things light, or just an expression.

Damn! the girl is so stupid to be using her silly mouth to cause problem & expecting the boyfriend to become superman

I'll rather keep my mouth shut where my guy is, should any case of insult arise, becos i can't bare anybody reigning abuses on him talk more of beating. Nahhhhh! i can't think it

hollandis:
why do girls lie to get a man------this is for the girls

Now that is the reason behind this topic, Its actually not directed to the guys only, girls do the same. Its just that particular guy's attitude to (poster) that made it look like a guy thing, ladies too are at fault with this. Reason behind this,

Insecurity comes to my mind the most.

Efuah u are something else, thank God these options are not for me, u should make a third option,

3. Witch

Ha ha Lol

I no fit shout abeg

@ iice & yimiton that was an appetizer

Every body is prone to gossip, i don't see anybody crossing out the fact that women gossip, to now make it absolutely a woman thing is what struck me, knowing that we have this people called 'men' as our brothers. Its fun to gossip, fyn, but that shouldn't be accrued to a particular sex. Ur Father, mother, brothers, sisters gossip, everybody does, its only the gravity & content that matters._{abeg make i relax, chew my bubble gum}

Sit him down for a good talk. I hope u can talk to him, cos some people in marriage have that problem.

Pray hard, that God should should break that relationship he is having & give u a fulfilled life with him.

I believe u should read the book "the power of a praying wife" too

chukz4real:
Once experienced same problem. the panacea was given to me by another lady (friend to the girl that did same to me). All u gat 2 do is, look for a very pretty girl, I man any girl that is like an angel and display before her. The person could be a relative or whoever, and she will be jealous and come back begging. Ask Efuah, they know it realy works

Alternativly, change where you worship and try by all means to avoid her as much as u can

It dosn't always work that way, a guy asked me out for like three years, while at school, we were good friends though but i told him i couldn't date him, stating my reasons, he thought some thing could still happen, becos i was still very good to him, more so, he hasn't ever gotten rejected by a girl, as i noticed, so it was hard for him to believe my reason for saying no. At some point he got a girl, that was really pretty & fitted so perfectly in his car, he drove around with her to where ever, until my friends came to me & started telling me his got someone else, since i was being stubborn. I felt very ok with it becos i had my reasons for saying NO. He came to tell me later that the girl was a cousin of his, we laughed over it & we r stil friends till date.

My point is don't look for things to still tie ur mind down, just forget about anything to catch attention. Make it a closed book. I'm sure u'll realize its not worth it soon.