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@Klemofem Yeah i have that in me, I find people telling me "How did we get here", "i dint plan for this", "how did u get me telling u this" and do u know what, i wonder myself because it not also my plan. I'm a curious type though & quite interrogative, but i don't have stereo type questions, the other person just flows. I guess that boils down to being able to talk people into doing things. but i'lld be a bad sales person, becos i'm really shy & i bet they won't be going for the product/services. I guess i'm a Gemini who's image is everything.

@Vindoheney

Talking about the kind of gemini that u know, (ur friend), i have some of them as friends too, one was my room mate in school, she actually wonders if i'm a Gemini herself, cos she's more like ur friend, while i'm more reserved. I finally come to terms that their are other kinds of gemini. We were six friends but the two of us were the most sort after, lets drop beauty in this one. It was just the interest. But she had more friends becos she was more playful, & she always tells me i'm too serious to be a Gemini, except for the fact that she knows i have other qualities which goes. I guess becos of my kind of Gemini, we could flow. Two Gemini's don't blend but we blended so well, she was a full gemini, we always have things to talk about (gist), even if it dint seem like gist to other people. So my friend i know i'm some other kind of Gemini.

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olanajim:
Great input. Thanks Jk.

Thanks Bro.

Ladies, are the ones being hunted, so that initially the feelings may not be there, but gradually it grows. And usually when the feeling from the lady gets stronger, it gets to some point where consciously or unconsciously the guy gets to perceive this & he relaxes. The lady takes over at this point.

Now, at that point it may seem the guy is not interested, but its a two way thing, i may say, it may actually be that the guy has lost interest & intends going a fishing again or he has has it in his mind that he already own's u, & believes its all clear to u. His changes then would be that he's trying to make ends meet. At this point if u are very sensitive as a lady u'll be able to tell, if this changes means he's actually tired or he wants more.

Women actually feel neglected at this point when it seems the guys has changed (if its for a good motive) because we crave for attention & re-assurance every now & then._{not all ladies though} It's ur duty at this point to do his initial duties (although not all).


Some ladies also, do get tired as well when the spark is no more there, for those kind of ladies its either they just realized they can't move on, or they were there for the fun of it, pardon me to say that some ladies too hunt for pleasure

Just assume its not true & set her up again,

If she fails again, U've got no girlfriend brother

I'm really touched

This is really heart aching, U really need time, & u'll certainly get over it. U've got to watch out, for a woman wit a heart to take care of a child that is not hers. Not many people have this heart, Its very rear. Don't just fall in love, fall in love wit the right person.

Scopium:
Wow, and ehm are you living the very life you believed in right now? Have you gotten all the things you believed you'll get at this age while growing up?
I believed a whole lot of things, some come true some don't.

I've got love, i got faithfulness too, but--- something shook the trust, but i'm going to work on it & rebuild it. to get the perfectness i want. _{God help me}

When u believe in something, & u get it or something close to it, u need to work on it, u don't relax, both good & bad things needs prayers.

@klemoflem on who's side r u on, why r u doing this to us

@Vindoheney
Yeah right u could know a bunch of things about gemini, but i hope u do agree that some of us do not possess all their qualities, funny enough i'm not a type to be taken unserious, i do not have that in me, i guess i appear quite serious to be a gemini, i show people my real me when they move closer, then they know i have some traits, but truly i could play, talk good gist, be creative, i could have a spirt that draws people. But i don't make this general, its just narrow to the people around. I guess i'm a shy gemini. But still got that magnet.

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Naira land will not kill me o

I'm loving it Zandra1 believe me, i'm loving it.

kastro9210:
I don't know why we always choose to play righteous man, most men if not all men cheat on their partners does that mean all men don't actually love their wives?The truth about it is that it is instinctive its just the animal in us playing itself out.We love what we possess thats why we acquired it in the first place.Then the animal instinct pushes us to do the unnecesary!

gboy24:
Guys,
I think love has nothing to do with having sex with someone else. just like Kanye West said, 'a privates has a mind of its own'. its always possible for the animal in us to be unleashed and u know,

Pardon me guys, but really it puzzles me, why do u have to do so, at least u have a mind that should tell u No!

Is it that at that point u meet dat mysterious girl, u don't remember the angel u have, or u actually remembe that angel but simply say to urself "Babygirl, just this once"

I'll still go for love, cos if u believe in something u'll alwys get it. I'll believe i'll get love that is faithful & true.

Joey82:
Bad mouthing is strictly a sign of weakness, gals who're worth their onions never get 2 appreciate badmouthed guys.

Yeah, Its a loser's tool, which is easily figured out

Smart girls can easily figure out such guys who bad mouth to get their desired interest, easily.

Its now up to the girl to make a firm decision of whom she wants.

I've often heard some guys say "Don't just think about listening to that guy he's got a girlfriend" some bad mouth could actually be to protect a lady's choice, while some is actually for selfish interest.

But whatever the case may be, some how u'lld be able to discern which is which

I'm gemini

@Zandra1 u actually know some stuffs

Also not into the Zodiac thing but, but do know that Gemini's are usually fun to be with, Mix wit people very easily, yes true known to be intelligent, because they could easily provide u with information which u might seek, but if u think they have deep knowledge of it u must be joking. They are naturally talkers, & hardly feel intimidated. They don't have to seek attention, they get it. They are usually friends wit everybody.

But these doesn't go with evry gemini though & I definately won't say the baddies.

@Omega 25 or so

U talked about Linda Talbot, did she have a younger sister called blessing talbot?
Did they both go 2 fggc Oyo. Blessing talbot was actually my own friend in Sec. school.

Joey82:
@adeyemi

if u're in same shoes like scopium, i wonder why u call it a cross u're carrying, if a girl coming back 2 love me was a cross, then i'd rather carry it gracefully.

That's when the love is still there, but if not, those coming backs sucks! but stil makes u feel very good wit urself.

I've laughed so hard i can't afford to crack my ribs again.

Its not a Bank Its a company, I'm at Alakia somewhere on ur way to Ife, Its a long way to my office though. People exclaim when i tell them that's where i'm coming from cos of the distance but its no distance to me cos i believe places in Ibadan are kind of interwoven & close, compared to my travelling from Festac to V.I when in Lagos. That is actually a relief.

This is not so difficult, its not full of probabilities, its just a matter of " She wasn't initially down wit u, but now she is" so its up to u.

I guess the guy doesn't want to feel the hurt of being ignored. But u gat to do it. Ignore him as much as u can. Draw that line & spell it out. "when its over its totally over"

I'm from Ibadan though, Lived in Lagos almost all my life except for Boarding secondary school out of town & University.

But my job brought me back to my roots, i was tranfered to Ibadan barely three months ago @ kudeti avenue, Onireke, from my V.I head office in Lagos. Its been boring. I'm beginning to have new friends though.

@Poster this happens to both sexes, when someone is all over u, u believe u've not achieved enough, some thing in u wants that other person, that hardly notices u. When u later realize, its not worth it hoping to turn around to see the person that has always been beside u, U don't find him/her anymore cos by then he/she's done, & tired of not being loved back, & then u go back doing the chasing again.

If u still have feelings for her, u could make it real. If not let her know, what she did to u & why u can't take her back.

lukmond:
the five year old girl everybody thinks is my niece is actually my daughter.only i and my sister knows this.

The mother of the child dosen't know she gave birth? Or ur sister's the mother?

@ poster

My secret or rather what lies heavy in me: "I want to fly"_{rather ambiguous, he he}

Happy birthday Girlfriend

I'm too blunt, i tell it to ur face wit out holding back

I'm also very interrogative, I ask u questions, That u don't know when u start telling a part of ur life that is sooo secret. _{i really get in trouble wit this one, because they always say "i've never told anybody, why u"}