This is why Nigeria can hardly change for good. Some senseless Nigerians would defend corrupt leaders on account of tribe, religion etc. Some also take bribes from such unscrupulous leaders and defend them just like this amorphous group is doing.


Nigeria is gone!!!

Raalsalghul:


Rather than being vengeful, why don't you just ignore her?

Revenge is sweet bro

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
Love, love, love, like mumu instead of facing facts. That's why we'll always be over you. We are REALISTS!

You're arguing with kids. Many of them won't understand your point because they are still at the fantasy stage of life. Time shall reset their brains!

That's how our ladies keep deceiving themselves and refuse to get married only to wake up when it's too late. That time they'll start looking for whom to vent their frustrations on.

The most annoying part is that they'll start blaming those guys they rejected for some playboys. Of course, the playboys are usually too hot for them to blame, so all the frustrations are directed at the innocent guys who professed genuine love to them but got rejected.

I have one of such 'hanties' on my case at the moment. All the years she was still young and fresh, she kept doing shakara for me. But now, na she dey form wife material for me. No wahala, I go follow am play the game. I go chop am well, but she no go ever see even my glorious 3rd leg. I go help am waist her time now just like the other guys did.

Proserpina:
Most marriage refusals aren't orchestrated by women but family that consists of father and mother where the father is the head.

Sometimes I laugh when people complain of inability to get married due to financial ability when these same people made the rules

Blame shifting as usual! If you as the lady insists on marrying a particular guy, your father and every other person will respect your choice.

Gerrard59:


Well, it is why I have this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women and this one:https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Hookup cannot be eradicated but can be reduced when there is prosperity. People will mention children of the rich who enter the industry, but that is an exception, not the norm. I cannot blame our women for selling their bodies amidst the economic crises in the country. That is how it has been globally ab initio. Then again, even in prosperous societies, hookup still exists. E get one website I saw where one could book babes. Starting rates were about $200 - $400. Even in the UK, I have seen our women charging rates ranging from £150 - £400 for short time. So, hookup will always exist. I have broken it down even to scientific publications.

The bold is not true. Nigerian women/ladies who japa'd to the UK will disagree. If Nigerian men don't want their women to do hookup, they should create a prosperous society for their women to thrive. I read on another thread where a woman got money from Keke hustle to cultivate soybeans only for Fulani herdsmen to raze her entire farmland. The first question I had in mind was: where are/were the men in that community? What are they doing to curtail the demonic antics of Fulani herdsmen? If tomorrow that woman goes into hookup, I cannot criticise her. If she were in Ghana, such would not happen.

The solution dey Nigerian men hand.

P.S. No developed/prosperous society had women at the forefront of development or prosperity.

Stop this rubbish you always spew here!

So, those women who are engaged in other profitable ventures and succeeding in them are not Nigerian women Why must you blame men for the failure of some women to do things right

So armed robbers, kidnappers, fraudsters etc are also justified in choosing such means of livelihood, because many of them have cited failure on the parts of politicians as reasons for engaging in such activities

Men like you are the reason women blame men for everything. Even when they have menstrual pains, they blame men for it.


Rubbish!!!!

Super woman! I like what she did.

The hunter became the hunted

I will never allow my daughter (s) to marry for "love" because that is usually the genesis of the marital problems most women have.

Instead, I'll encourage her to marry for REASONS

Go Naija!

Too bad!

Lays facedown on her man. I like having my woman lay on top of me while I hold her as she sleeps like a baby.

Some guys are just too emotional and I wouldn't blame them for that. That's how they're made by nature. We have a variety of humans with their uniqueness in this world.

So, I wouldn't blame the guy. It is left for the lady to consider what he did wrong and see if she can forgive him or not.

GVTAsiwaju:


What is your point?

My point is that you both (or maybe your ex wife) could have averted the divorce by forgiving and overlooking lots of errors, provided serious bodily harm wasn't getting into the mix.

Franzinni:
mogbe!!!! But not until you are faced with such, it is easy to say anything

A lady who's a good kisser will not fill your mouth with saliva, even if it is French kissing.

If you both (especially your ex wife) understood that marriage requires loads of forgiveness even without being apologized to, perhaps the marriage would have remained intact.


M

Franzinni:
but will you drink a spoon of spit from her ?? .... Let me help you... NO!

I will if I'm deeply into her.

I don't enjoy sex if there is slightest feeling of reluctance from my woman. I love it when she fvvks me wholeheartedly. So, I won't demand for sex under such condition as stated in the op

Franzinni:
Kissing is disgusting... Think of it, if your spouse spit in a spoon and ask you to drink it, would you ? I bet you won't .... But you will happily be sticking your tongue in another person's mouth... Well, nowadays it's acceptable practice to stick tongue people's asses so .... What do I know, maybe I am just old fashioned !

Nonsense talk.

Me I like kissing like kilode. That's where the passion lies during lovemaking. You use your mouth to show your partner how much of her you desire.

Sctests:
If you impregnate an Igbo girl without doing the marital rites and paying the bride price. That child DOES NOT belong to you. You are just a SPERM DONOR. The child belongs to the man who is responsible and values the woman enough to pay the bride price.

God save you if that lady dies during childbirth, then you will visit hell and back, because you must pay that price and 'marry' her corpse befittingly before she is lowered into earth. Else you won't sleep when the whole village send their deity after you. YOU KILLED HER. Who wants to go to the spirit world with shame? An Igbo daughter?

The Akure judge should concentrate on stopping Royal cannibalism that is customary to yoruba people.

It is common knowledge that when a king, Alaafin, Ooni, Oba or Baale dies in yorubaland, it is customary for the succeeding monarch to eat the heart (cardiac muscle) of the dead king uncooked. Ask any honest yoruba traditionalist. In fact type 'yoruba royal cannibalism" in Google and research it.

More so, after the death of a yoruba king, human sacrifices are made and head hunters are sent out in the dead of the night to hunt for human head as part of their Oro practice before the late king is buried.

Let the Akure Judge face these barbaric customs of his people and stop meddling in a foreign custom that is older than his 10th great-grandfather and ancestors.
He can't win. Let him remove the wool in his own people's eyes first..

He can't dare go to the muslim North and try to stop them from marrying 10-year old girls, without his head being cut off from his shoulder with matchetes, but he wants to flex judicial muscles here in the South.

The Igbos are not your plaything. Respect their customs and stop meddling in their traditional affairs.

Don't you know that once it is about Igbos, southern lawyers find their voices?? But they're all afraid to question the barbaric acts being perpetuated in the north!

God bless him.

We need more of his kind in Nigeria

HORLADY:
It might send a wrong signal to other professionals working in the State Civil Service Commission..
Even if the car is structured as a loan, what of the Nurses, Laboratory Scientists not to even mention professionals in other Sectors.
Other professionals might feel marginalized and will definitely impact their commitment to duty.
You don't need to pamper some at the expense of others as that is what led to different uprising/insurgency all over Nigeria.
He should have make it all inclusive and limit it to professionals at a specified cadre across board.

Honestly! The marginalization in the health sector is just too much!

Some people like Nwifuru don't understand that healthcare is a team work, and that all the professionals in sector must work in synergy to achieve a holistic healthcare.

The Nigerian medical doctors would rather constitute themselves as clogs in the wheels of progress of other health professionals and this is why our health sector is one of poorest in the world.

Christianity is dying today while paganism is becoming the order of the day, no thanks to pastors who have made themselves demigods to be worshipped by their members instead of worshipping the Almighty God.

Self-worship by those on the pulpits results in self-worship by the congregation, and consequence is that selfishness (satanism) becomes the order of the day thus paving the way for paganism.

Mtchhhheeeeeeww


Evening newspaper forming special adviser!

People married from scratch and achieved financial breakthrough afterwards! Most of the married men around me had nothing before marriage but boomed afterwards because they had goals backed with actions.

Your mind will either make or mar you in life!

Good job there.

Well-done guys!


Anything to rid the world off terrorists is okay by me

Lionessza6:


LMFAO,you cannot pick up a dumped item with no elasticity and brag that you've over-stretched it . Remember the previous users tossed it in that dumpster for a reason. What you'd be referred to as is a dumpster-diver looking for used items to recycle . You can only brag to your fellow recyclers about your newly found treasure not the people who like their items new and unused

My gut instinct tells me you're actually a Nigerian lady, else you wouldn't refer to fellow SA women in such derogatory terms.


Meanwhile, we know why we sometimes bash our women hoping they could actually change and become better for all of us. It's not really that we hate them nor could we pick foreigners over them. It's just like a typical Nigerian father would want his sons to be better by pointing them to their peers.

If you want to know if Nigerian men hate their ladies organize a contest for ladies from SA and Nigeria, requiring Nigerian men to pick a wife from the mix of ladies. Maybe then you'll realize it's just a cruise people are doing here

UnfairLife7:
Olodo

Omotola didn't got pregnant before marriage. She was married in proper way, pursued her education and career before childbirth. Only foolish men like you go about sleeping with teen girls without CD. Even if you don't have parents as a teen girl, getting married at that age should be the least of your worries. Even if at the end, marriage is the only means for you then the man you're getting married to should worth it. A man like Omotola husband. A man that would not have sex with you before marriage. A marriage that'd be so much engrossed in your career. A man that'd push you to your limelight. A man that'd support you. A man that love you deeply. Not a pervert looking for intimacy gadget

How many Nigerian men fit into that category biko? How many Nigerian men get sense like Omotola husband? You're just after teens girls getting married but not concerned about who they're getting married to

Illiterate!

Nor be only "didn't got"

I'm done with you because it is now obvious that I'm responding to an Illiterate.

UnfairLife7:
Olodo
If i don't have 16 yrs old teen girls in my payroll,then i should admonished or encourage them to consider marriage and get pregnant? To same calibre of Nigerian Men we have in this generation?

Omotola Ekehinde Jolade got married at 18 to a successful young pilot man, responsible and love her genuinely. If you're talking about these calibre of men with a written agreement before the marriage then it's a little bit fair. If otherwise, then you're a failure looking for company

Full!


And did an 1mbecile like you manage to the person responsible for the girl's pregnancy or even if she's already married to the man

If not that you're a fullllllll from a generation of fulllllls, you would have taken the possible circumstances surrounding the girl's pregnancy and why she's obviously happy with her reality into consideration before coming on here to type jargon.

Oh, so Omotola can be excused for marrying early while the girl in question should not, even when fulllllls like you do not know the circumstances around her pregnancy?

This how your type go about deceiving helpless young girls without providing any help to them until they end up in brothels for prost1tut1on.


How daft you are!!!

UnfairLife7:
old man writing rubbish. Tell your sisters and daughters to marry and get pregnant at 16

Ejieet...


Get your mumuish self out of my mention. You're too daft to comprehend my stance on the subject. If I ask you now, how many helpless 16yo girls are on your pay roll or you are sponsoring in school, you'll have nothing to say.

UnfairLife7:
how you confidently typed rubbish baffles me.

What I type is my opinion and is based on reality on ground.

If you don't like it, hug the nearest loaded high tension cable!

ceejay80s:
Make una allow the man rest, he didn't kill his wife,
It's normal for u to come home find ur wife hanging, cut the rope ,bring her down and be on top to see if u can revive her, shey na under her he for dey?
Pray no such thing happen to u, then everyone will become cid for ur matter

Exactly!

All the man's haters in that compound and beyond would ensure they give unfounded accounts in order to nail him.



Some Nigerians can be very devilish!

Iziquiel:

While reading your comment I suspected you were angry then I read your last paragraph which confirmed my suspicion.

That your last paragraph make me laugh.
I no know wetin make you dey vex but Just take am easy.

Lol

she is angry because no man wants to marry her and so she has grown old in her father's house.