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 Family › Re: Someone Earning 100k Naira, Should Not Consider Marriage by Jman06(m): 8:54pm On Nov 30, 2025 |
SimpleGuy001:Says who? People can marry on that salary and still be happy if they have the right mindset and approach life with wisdom 1 Like |
| Family › Re: RE: Someone Earning 100k Naira, Should Not Consider Marriage by Jman06(m): 6:33pm On Nov 30, 2025 |
This whole thing boils down to mindset. God made this life very simple but humans are the ones complicating it. I know an average family of nine children where the dad was a construction worker who operated caterpillars and other machineries for some expatriate construction companies especially in South South Nigeria while the wife was a petty trader cum subsistence farmer in the village. All the children attended public schools both in town and in the village. During holidays, they helped their mom with trading and farming and in the process, they gather enough foodstuffs and funds in readiness for school resumption. That was how they continued until the first child graduated from higher institution and started working. She was then rendering financial help to the family until the second child graduated as an engineer and also started working and contributing towards raising the rest of his siblings. That was how ALL of them managed to graduate from different universities in the country. Today, this family is doing very well financially and many of the children are now abroad making hard currencies. Though their dad is late, the mom is still very much alive and enjoying the fruits of her labour. What I'm saying in essence is that, with the right strategy and orientation, people can still start from the scratches and get to the top. That man who got married on a salary of 100k per month can still raise great children with the right approach. The soil is still one of the greatest resources God gave to mankind, but how many youths in this confused generation ever thinks of what they can make out of the soil? People just give themselves unnecessary pressure. Why waste funds on private schools when it is now obvious that those schools add little to no values to children? Yet, they make you pay huge amount of money which the proprietor enjoys with his or her family! Government schools are still the best in terms of quality of teachers! You must not use pampas for your babies! Instead, use napkin and save yourself the cost of buying pampas. Your baby will still grow up healthy and strong. Nowadays, healthcare has become more accessible than in the past and you don't have to pay through your nose to afford it. If you don't have money to visit big hospitals, make use of the pharmacies and take advantage of the improved pharmacy training by asking to see the pharmacist free of charge when you go to buy medications. Many of them are more knowledgeable than some doctors you may be seeing in the hospitals. In summary, stop trying to impress or to belong to a particular class because our races are different and the end justifies the means. Happiness is relative and depends on your mindset. Some of my happiest moments were the times I was growing up in the village because we had a lot fun activities then, unlike now that life is more about work, work and more work with little fun. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Someone Earning 100k Naira, Should Not Consider Marriage by Jman06(m): 11:09am On Nov 30, 2025*. Modified: 11:52am On Nov 30, 2025 |
SIRTee15:It is this generation that chooses to create problems for themselves by being greedy. Like I said, people have been surviving with their families even on a lower wage than 100k per month. You must not live in big houses in town and you'll still be happy. Many of us survived infancy without wearing pampas but our good old napkin, so you mustn't spend money on pampas and stuffs like that. Cut your clothes according to your size like the saying goes. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Someone Earning 100k Naira, Should Not Consider Marriage by Jman06(m): 10:03pm On Nov 29, 2025*. Modified: 11:54am On Nov 30, 2025 |
If the man and woman are good managers, they can survive with 100k salary especially if the woman also hustles and adds to the family's finances. People have been getting married on even lower salaries. Like the saying goes, two good heads are better than one. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: 'No Forgiveness Zone" - Rudeboy's Viral Post On 'feminist' Victoria Agboola by Jman06(m): 9:47pm On Nov 29, 2025 |
If the lady lady has shown remorse then Rudeboy should forgive her. I believe this one will teach her some lessons on how to always avoid cho cho cho. |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Learn To Discipline Your Man! by Jman06(m): 2:08pm On Nov 29, 2025 |
This must be a rage bait 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Love Is A Useless Emotion. by Jman06(m): 12:17pm On Nov 29, 2025 |
Exactly! The so called "love" is ephemeral and short-lived! Anybody who marries because of such nonsensical feeling would only have his or herself to blame for the consequences. People should learn to marry for good reasons and to someone with good heart and great character. |
| Education › Re: Medical Students: How Did You Get A High Jamb Score. by Jman06(m): 6:51pm On Nov 28, 2025 |
What course did you study in your first degree? If it is one of the biological sciences, then I'll advise you to try direct entry. You won't be required to write JAMB to gain direct entry admission into 200level. All you need to do is study smart and ace your university's post UDE exams. |
| Politics › Re: Enugu Government Nullifies Underage Marriage Between Man (33) And A Girl Of 15 by Jman06(m): 10:34am On Nov 28, 2025 |
pocohantas:The 'guilty' are afraid of who? Though I prefer marrying younger girls who are within the legal age of consent, I cannot go below 18years for personal reasons. Also, I'll rather remain unmarried than marry any EP from the age of 30 and above. Having said the above, I believe strongly that some of you feminists who are vocal in fighting younger girls getting married do that for some mischievous reasons. You want such girls to have same ill fate of being lonely and unmarried at old age just the way you are. Misery, they say, loves company! |
| Politics › Re: Enugu Government Nullifies Underage Marriage Between Man (33) And A Girl Of 15 by Jman06(m): 7:44am On Nov 28, 2025 |
My only issue here is the fact that the girl seen not physically matured given her smallish and fragile stature. Some girls at the age of 15 are already developed physically and ready for marriage. As far as I'm concerned, if a girl is physically grown at 15, has no one sponsoring her education and so on, she is very free to marry if a decent man comes for her. Though I wouldn't be the man, I think the whole idea of fighting against early marriage for girls is mostly driven by feminism and the "woke" mindset. In no distant past, women got married from the age of 15 especially if such women had attained physical maturity at that age. As for the alleged health risks like VVF and cervical cancer, VVF is more about body structure maturity and many girls at that age have attained maturity in that regard and would comfortably birth children without VVF. It should also be remembered that VVF can happen as a result of medical errors during child delivery by untrained persons and to women who might even be older. On the other hand, the claim about the risk of cervical cancer is unfounded and not based on solid evidence! This is me thinking out of the box and trying to separate facts from 'wokism' since I have many women who got married early and are doing fantastically well today health wise even after having many children. Some people here like pocohantas have accused me severally of having a fetish for small girls and all that but that wouldn't deter me from pursuing the fact rather than sheepishly following some unfounded and biased claims of feminists just to be seen as "woke". |
| Politics › Re: Nigerian Govt Bans Open Grazing To End Farmers-Herders Conflicts by Jman06(m): 8:37pm On Nov 25, 2025 |
It's not about banning open grazing, the problem is always with enforcement! |
| Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by Jman06(m): 12:57am On Nov 25, 2025 |
Omowale2023:Do you mind her? Many of them in their feminist movements have recently started the campaign to spread falsehoods about men's fertility. They can go to any length to turn the blames of marital infertility on the men; including sponsoring fake 'research' publications! They seriously want people to believe that men's fertility is affected by age! They forget that the consequences of spreading such falsehood might be dire to population control. We know the wars being waged in many homes by older children to stop their fathers from reproducing after certain number of children. It is not funny because I witnessed such wars in my own family. My dad was in his late 50s when our last born was given birth to and he was still ready to fire on but my elder siblings had to start intervening to advise him against birthing more. So, spreading such falsehoods might cause some men to start firing uncontrollably in their older ages and that would lead to population challenges. 4 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by Jman06(m): 12:37am On Nov 25, 2025 |
emmaodet:Exactly bro. Their problem is ingratitude which stems from entitlement mentality. Igbo ladies are the most spoilt ladies in Nigeria by Igbomen and that is why many of them now feel like men owe them anything. Many of them are not getting married because of their greediness which makes them set some unrealistic standards for themselves when they're still young. It is no coincidence that in Nigeria today, most of the unmarried women in their 40s are Igbo! 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by Jman06(m): 11:47pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
LegacyB:That mindset is gaining popularity in igboland and it represents failure in cultural values in the tribe, that is why I called out the tribe for it. We really need to get things right as regards our value system in igboland. Our so called traditional rulers, clergy and even our parents have woefully failed in instilling the right values to our youths! 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Health › Re: Agaezichi Oliver Joy: Physically Challenged Mother Of Two Dies In Anambra by Jman06(m): 10:28pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
It's a pity that she could not live to see her kids through life. May God rest her soul. However, this lady is far better than many able-bodied ladies because she reproduced her genes before passing while many physically fit ladies would die lonely and with no child to their names. She achieved something in life. And mind you, those kids might end up becoming great people in the future. Life is a mystery. Some people may think that those children would end up in poverty and lack but God has his way of rewriting people's destinies for good. Many examples of people who rose from grass to grace abound! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by Jman06(m): 9:36pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Igbo parents have really failed in this generation and that is why all these shameful things are happening in our tribe. Parents now watch as their daughters grow old in their houses and sometimes they do this for their selfish interests, especially if the daughter is doing well financially. Mothers for instance are failing in instilling marriage consciousness in their daughters. It's all about money, money and money! No values! No morals! Am I the only one who feels ashamed that all these ladies having and wishing to have children out of wedlock are Igbos? That represents a failure in cultural values and our people must rise to the challenge and nip such disgraceful practice in the buds. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: I Keep Giving You Away And They Keep Giving You Back: Dad's Comment At A Wedding by Jman06(m): 8:17pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Double0h7:But he was only being Frank here. The lady really needed to work on herself because it's clear she was the reason her previous marriages failed. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by Jman06(m): 8:09pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Igbo ladies have finally succeeded in breaking the family units apart in igboland! Women now normalise having children out of wedlock and it's quite unfortunate. The repercussions of this supposedly "woke" mindset will be felt in no distant time! 63 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 6:04pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
CrownOfClay724:Exactly! It's just to find someone who is good and ready to do marriage with you... simple! True love only exists between parents (especially mothers) and their children and between some siblings! Anybody who marries for what this generation of youths call "love" might end up having problems in the marriage because what they refer to as love is just mere ephemeral feeling that never lasts! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 6:02pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
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| Romance › Re: Igbo Men And Woman Don’t Marry For Love by Jman06(m): 10:38pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
Marrying for 'love' has always been a recipe for failed marriages! But if the marriage is by recommendations, it does last longer because good character mostly form the basis for recommendations. Also recommendations are sometimes based on a strong family ties which can hold the marriage. Since the youths of this generation started to marry for so called "love", marriage lost all the features that held marriages in the past! Tuface and Annie Idibia married for "love", Tonto and Churchill also did same but we all know how those marriages ended. The list goes on and on. 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: "Nigeria Will Never Become An Islamic State! - Bishop Oyedepo (Video) by Jman06(m): 10:27pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
trutharena:ISWAP and Boko Haram do want Islamic states and the majority of northerners subtly support them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: "Nigeria Will Never Become An Islamic State! - Bishop Oyedepo (Video) by Jman06(m): 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
It's not by chochochocho Bishop! Nigeria is tilted towards the direction of becoming an Islamic state! The more the southern Nigeria imbibe western education and lifestyle, the more the Christian population declines (especially with our poor healthcare system) while the Muslim population swells. Before now, people were thinking that a Muslim - Muslim presidency will not be possible in Nigeria but today it has become a reality. Muslims have already outnumbered Christians in Nigeria and I dare say that unless the northern Muslims decide to allow a Christian southerner to become president of this country, Muslim-Muslim tickets would always win should they decide to go by that. By the time Muslims dominate the leadership of Nigeria, it'll only take some policies to get every other Nigerian convert to Islam. The handwriting is clearly on the wall but our "I too know" southerners are not seeing it. All the Christian genocides and terrorism currently taking place in mostly Christian dominated parts of the north are all tending towards that agenda. ISWAP is fighting for the creation of a major Islamic state in West Africa and Nigeria is their main target due to the Nigerian population! With the increasing apathy towards marriage and reproduction by southern youths due to westernization and feminism, the agenda to islamize Nigeria would materialise in no distant time. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Sir/Ma, Stop Sleeping With A Man/ Woman That Is Neither Your Husband Or Wife by Jman06(m): 10:38am On Nov 23, 2025 |
How does sleeping with a married woman become a sin? Assuming there are no spare beds and I have to sleep with her on same bed, what sin have I committed in doing that  1 Like |
| Career › Re: Woman Shares Her Staff's Response After Receiving Salary From Her by Jman06(m): 6:56am On Nov 23, 2025 |
When a Nigerian unemployed graduate finally managed to land a job after years of joblessness and being insulted and name-calling! by family and neighbours. |
| Romance › Re: Real Talk: Is Mother's Love "Unconditional" Or An "Investment" For The Future? by Jman06(m): 2:39pm On Nov 22, 2025 |
A mother's love is not necessarily an investment for the future. It is rather a natural instinct to protect her own. Have you ever gone close to a hen in the company of her newly hatched chicks? If you have, you would have witnessed the aggressiveness with which such hen fights off anyone who as much as comes closer to her chicks. Same instinct is what leads mothers to love their children and look out for them. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Christian Genocide: Nigeria is a disgrace, the Government is ineffective - Trump by Jman06(m): 2:17pm On Nov 22, 2025 |
Thank God that Trump and the rest of the world can now see what many of us have been crying out about here and on other platforms! Christians are an endangered species in Nigeria! Everything in Nigeria is tilted to work against Christians and Christianity to the benefit of Islam. An agenda is being pursued to make Nigeria an all-muslim nation! It's unfortunate that the political class in the Christian south are too selfish and greedy to read the handwriting on the wall. They only care about their immediate selfish interests, not thinking about the future of their children and generations unborn. |
| Politics › Re: Who Ordered Military Withdrawal 45 Minutes Before School Attack?- Kebbi Governor by Jman06(m): 8:15am On Nov 22, 2025 |
The person who gave the order would be readily fished out if he/she happened to be of the Igbo tribe, but unfortunately the culprit can never be found because he obviously is from the untouchable tribe. That is the reality of Nigeria today! 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: When People Die. Where Do They Go. I Want To Know. by Jman06(m): 8:01am On Nov 22, 2025 |
Jazzman01:Death doesn't always come with pains , especially if the person had been sick for long. Before that final struggle, most people would have partially lost consciousness and might even be oblivious of what was happening at the time they took the last breath unless they observed from the spirit world |
| Politics › Re: Bianca Ojukwu Reacts To Nnamdi Kanu's Life Sentencing by Jman06(m): 5:19pm On Nov 21, 2025 |
I'm FreeStuffsNG:You mustn't be f^^lish all the time Mr man. There's nothing wrong in the message released by Bianca. She only called for political solution which we all know would be the end game of this whole Kanu saga. |
| Politics › Re: In Nigeria Justice Is Not For Igbos - Senator Abaribe by Jman06(m): 5:06pm On Nov 21, 2025 |
It's really unfortunate that a country where terrorists who have killed thousands of Nigerians are granted amnesty simply because they are Muslim northerners would sentence Kanu who has never been found with any weapons to life imprisonment. Honestly, as a so called Nigerian, I see no reason to be patriotic to this nation. The best thing is to leave this country! I can't birth my offsprings in a country like Nigeria. God forbid! |
| Romance › Re: Love Sweetooo, Finally!!! by Jman06(m): 11:40am On Nov 21, 2025 |
Richsteemit:Don't give all your heart ooo because anything can happen. That girl that's 'sweeting' you now can break your heart anytime sha |
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