₦airaland Forum

DrFunmisticGlow:
Pointless thread.

You can't be coercing women to carry babies ehen they are not ready to for men who are not responsibleenoughor ready for for fatherhood.

If you want women to have babies early, then most will be single mother, and grqndmother youngerthan 40 years, others will marry early, give birth early and divorce early or become a widow early. Then those who will marryned nwoko age mate because their mates are still doing yahoo yahoo and jumping from skirt to skirt.

Last last women will give birth when they are ready to and in due time, not because of your thread.

My message has been passed and I'm sure those with wisdom would grab the point I'm making. Thanks for your contribution though

Samantha125:
So you're basically encouraging the baby mama culture... You say women should get married and have children early as if by the time they turn 20, they'll find marriage with their desired spouses waiting for them.

You guys are the same people complaining of how women nowadays should have sources of income since life is generally expensive, but you still want to guilt trip them for getting married at their own desired time knowing very well that had they gotten married early, many of you guys would've tied them down as housewives... And if it happens that you meet your demise before her, your families would come and claim everything, leaving her with nothing since she'd have sacrificed her prime years for your selfish fragile egos.

And my sister started having issues with fibroids are the age of 21 when she was still in varsity, would you have suggested that she had children as a teenager? What was your mother's occupation that she started having children early? Because you can't have your cake and eat it.

I'm not implying that they should not try to improve themselves or do other stuffs. The point is that those who are desirous of having children should know that the earlier they start, the better. Also, I'm not encouraging the culture of baby mama, instead young girls should set their priorities right and marry early if a responsible man comes.

pocohantas:
I hope they listen to you.
Young girls these days no dey hear word.

The wise ones will always listen while the foolish ones continue to wallow in their delusions until time is no longer on their sides.

I remember while growing up, my mom used to have some episodes of stomach pain. It was usually so severe that it gets everyone around her tensed up. On one occasion, she was actually diagnosed of fibroid.

However, the doctor said there was no need of carrying out surgery on her since she was already bearing children. The doctor emphasized that the fact that she started bearing children early helped to suppress the growth of the fibroids. This goes to show that, against the feminists campaigns for women to delay child bearing, starting out early actually has alot of medical benefits.

Fibroids is a common problem among women in this part of the world and it is largely responsible for cases of infertility among couples. There's a trend of married ladies not conceiving after years of marriage. I can count many of such couples that I know personally. This trend is a reflection of the fact that ladies now delay marriages sometimes to their 40s!

By the time she gets married, it becomes difficult for her to conceive. Her husband is now dragged into the problem and sometimes even accused of being responsible. He's made to start gulping different medications both orthodox and herbal. This is because, the couple is usually "treated" together. Some go from one herbal treatment to the other, taking all sorts of concoctions in the name of herbal medicines. To make matters worse, many people believe that the so called herbal medicines are more effective treatments for infertility than orthodox medicines. For this reason, they rather continue taking herbal stuff than go to hospitals! These herbalists do not know how to properly diagnose the condition to know what the issue really is. It is usually based on trial and errors while the condition is given different names like "infection", "staph", spiritual problems and so on.

However, many of these cases are usually due to fibroids which have grown and taken over a huge part of the woman's reproductive system. Some of these fibroids are so terrible that even after surgery, conception is still not achieved.

So, in order to avoid all the hassles of trying to conceive, getting married on time can help ladies who are desirous of having children to avoid all the problems and emotional trauma associated with infertility.

There's also the benefit of witnessing your children's successes as they grow and thrive while you're still alive. Therefore, you'll most likely live to enjoy your children's wealth and not have others rip the fruits of your labor when you're gone.

Therefore, the next time feminists groups come to discourage you from having your kids early, pay no heed to them as many of them are frustrated bitter women who want to project their inability to marry and raise great families on unsuspecting young girls. Thank you

SpencerForbes:
Even guys too. I wonder how some men sleep with girls that aren’t physically attractive. How do they look at the girl’s face in the morning

I love physical attraction and I think average looking girls should only be recommended for one night stands

Exactly! Those average girls are meant for sex-starved boys. They are the types that guys usually cover their faces with pillow during knacking

hatchy:
The State can not do everything in the society. They will do their part, while the citizens do their own part too.

How much investment have you made in the public health sector as a citizen? You'll rather put your money into MMM that will give you quick return rather than invest in a sector that will compliment government's efforts in the provision of basic needs like Primary health care services.

Complain is part of Nigerians problems. Always complaining.

Imagine excuse!

Enugu State today is one of the states where citizens are heavily taxed in Nigeria, yet you're still talking about people doing their bits Much as I support the Peter Mbah administration, I cannot help but point out how lame your comment above is.

Besides, the question the guy you asked was right. Enugu state has not employed qualified healthcare professionals since the inception of Mbah's administration. Even the much-talked-about type 2 primary healthcare centres are still largely a mirage. The other time, they fooled many healthcare professionals by making them apply for a purported job in the type 2 primary healthcare facilities. People were made to traveling from different parts of the country to attend one useless aptitude test. Despite all the stress they were subjected to during that sham of a test, nothing has been heard from the government ever since.


The commissioner for health later released a list of his kinsmen and villagers whom he claimed were successful at the test, but even as I type this, none of them has resumed work. So, the guy you quoted clearly knows what he typed.

Leonardo4:
Lol look at what an old man is spewing with his mouth. Aren't you ashamed of what you just typed?
She was no where near an A list actor b4 she met the man. She and her family were living in rented apartment b4 they met the man.
If you believe she actually helped the man won election she would have gone for her age mate or a young guy to marry and help the guy win election since she is that popular.
Verbal diarrhea

You're the old man who has refused to grow up!

Regina Daniel was a brand before she married Ned Nwoko! Even Ned Nwoko 's social media accounts grew very high after marrying her! He gained so much from that marriage if you know how politics works.

JAOS:
This is not how family should support each other
Don't spoil someone marriage

Even when your sister is facing maltreatment in her marriage, you'll still be saying this
I love the way that guy protected his sister, I'll do same in similar situation.

Agreed that women make rubbish choices of marriage partners and still come back to family ( and all those who advised against such marriages) with teary eyes when facing maltreatments in the marriage, yet protecting my sister comes first before any other thing.

Antoeni:
Regina Daniels is proving what has always been said by wise men;

Avoid a poor girl, you will never truly know if her I love you is from the heart or hungry stomach

Billionaire Ned Nwoko married this poor wretched girl, uplifted her whole lineage, an entire generation but now he is being embarrassed in all manner & form

Imagine this same wretched girl is now asking him "what have you done for me?"

Now if a billionaire is being ridiculed like this, imagine you on your average salary, the humiliation you'll suffer

Lesson: One day the poor woman you're doing everything for, when she's elevated in life, she'll dump you & if you ask "but after all I did for you?". She'll reply "did I force you?"

And guess what, she'll be right

Stop the lies please! Regina was doing well before she married Ned Nwoko! Ned actually benefited from her popularity to win his senatorial election! His followers grew astronomically after marrying Regina Daniels!

Good that the guy has been released! I hate oppression!

1. Equatorial Guinea

2. Cameroon

3. Uganda

4. Eritrea

5. Rwanda

AllBlack:
one wicked girl don play this one like ball.

You just wrote four fat paragraphs of pain.

Lolzzzzz.... you wish? When I type here, I try to see things from other people's perspectives not mine. If you believe it's about me, then you're mistaken.

A man would see a lady he loves wholeheartedly and would want to pour all his love on her and her alone and just because he doesn't know how to love multiple women at the same time, he focuses all his attention and care on the same lady. The lady would now start thinking that the guy is focusing on her alone because he is not getting attention from other ladies. That thinking would now make her to start developing cold feet and taking the guy for granted!

She'll not reason that this guy is probably getting attentions from other ladies but is focusing on her because he doesn't know how to live the playboy lifestyle of having multiple women at the same time without genuinely loving any of them. She'll continue to stress the guy until he gets tired and start looking for other ladies and by so doing, he now learns the playboy style and start keeping multiple women.

When the other lady notices that he has stopped caring much about her, she'll now start chasing what she has lost forever ( his genuine love). She now falls for his new lifestyle and joins the other multitude of ladies to chase his attention. At last, she gets chosen by the guy as wife among the numerous girlfriends he now has. Then, the same lady would expect him to discard all the other ladies and focus attention on her alone. It'll not work! You have turned him into a playboy, so don't expect him to forget his other girlfriends!

The gist of this whole rant is that ladies should know that the fact that a guy is falling head over heels in love with you doesn't mean he has been rejected by other ladies! He's getting attention from other ladies but chose you because he genuinely loves you. You ladies should stop this attitude of falling for what other ladies are falling for! That is how you end up marrying playboys and then turn around to start crying that he cheats on you. Also, y'all should know that most guys are capable of living the Playboys' lifestyle. Some just don't want to start that kind of life because of the way they were raised or because of the nature of their jobs.

Congrats to Prof C.C Soludo for his well-deserved reelection!

How some people do evils like this and still sleep at night clearly shows that some people on earth are actually created by the devil himself! Heartlessness at its peak!

OkayDaddy:
It will do you a lot of good if you focus on improving yourself and bettering your family.

My family and I are doing great!

ChizzyBuna:
When she use her hand and count $100 bills mint and was flexing it on my face.

Did she call me to follow her and enjoy?

When she was flying out for vacation
Did she care if I existed?

Now her palliative don finish
And you expect me to give a damn

I rather watch Tom and Jerry Volume 1 to 50 than give a bloody damn about that entitled spoilt brat

It's not only about her but about confronting the high-handedness of people in positions of power in this country! If Ned is allowed to humiliate Regina and family, it'll be a win for the oppressive political class in this country. You never can tell whom the next victim would be!

Bunch of jobless things!

Good thing is that America is not a country you can easily bamboozle with senseless shenanigans like this. Once they're determined to carry out a task, you cannot stop them!

This is high-handedness on the part of Ned Nwoko. Why arrest Regina's siblings? This is condemnable in all ramifications!

Free the innocent siblings!

The media has been awash with news of the current ordeal being passed through by Regina Daniels and her family in the hands of Senator Ned Nwoko and the tyrannical Nigerian police. Some people have mocked her and her family. People have used her passed comments to mock her and gloat over her present ordeal.

Even those you expect to speak up have all gone mute. This is typical of Nigerians that fail to think through issues before taking sides and then eventually getting burnt on the long run.

Let's assume she made mistakes in the past. Let's assume she actually said she preferred to cry in a Lamborghini. Let's assume she married Ned for his money. Are all these reasons enough to just turn a blind eye while Ned Nwoko and the Nigerian police humiliates her and her family What precedent are we setting by watching as such injustice is done to her

Everyday Nigerians cry about our failed judicial system and about the high-handedness of our political office holders, yet we encourage such failures and high-handedness when those we hate are at the receiving end! We cannot tackle any issues by being partial in our approach. Like the saying goes, those who seek equity must come with clean hands! Let us learn to condemn evil and injustice regardless whom the perpetrators or victims are! That's the only way we can holistically solve such issues and protect everyone both now and in the future from falling victims to such issues.

The Nigerian police must resist being used as puppets by those who want to oppress the less powerful. The current incarceration of Regina Daniel's siblings must be resisted by all those who want to see a better Nigeria where justice, equity, peace and progress reigns.
The Nigerian police must be prevailed upon to release the Daniels who have done no wrongs to Ned Nwoko other than protecting their own.

Let's stop encouraging injustice just because those we don't like are the victims! A word is enough for the wise! #EndOfRant

ISWAP is one of the terrorist groups

Crucialgem:
Do you have evidence to back your claim that majority of the infertility cases is from female. Aside age do you u know what the male gender engage in that reduce there low sperm count

You can't go on with baseless claim, men smoke, drink, opueh up and down and all sorts of

I'm not saying that infertility does not occur in men but not to the extent feminist groups are making it appear. Also, age does not contribute significantly to male infertility, instead diseases and congenital anomalies are the major culprits and the population of men affected is small compared to the overall male population. Also, such infertility can be found in any age group of males starting from the age of puberty.

Like I and other posters on this thread have stated, we have examples around us to the effect that men reproduce healthy and smart offsprings even up to the age of seventy. In my locality, to stop older men from reproducing after certain number of children is usually a war waged by older children and caring relatives, so I have seen enough to be able to counter any fallacious claims of men not being able to have kids at their older ages. It is a blatant lie and is intended to push a nefarious agend

This is injustice and gross abuse of power! Nigerians must rise up and challenge this obvious humiliation of a family. Remember the saying that injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere! Ned Nwoko, stop harassing Regina's family members!


#FreeSammy!

HgAkpobomeEr:
We reject any form of foreign interference in our internal affairs.

We accept all forms of foreign interferences aimed at decimating all terrorists that have worsened the security situation of the country!

Thank you President of the World; Donald Trump!

Thank you, the United States of America!

God bless America!

The desperation with which these feminists movements and their apologists are trying to turn the blames of marital infertility on men calls for concerns! Last week, they circulated some purported "research" findings claiming that men can't father a child as they age!

I was shocked to read that fake report on a feminists movement page on Facebook. You needed to see the way they twisted that fake report to support their evil agenda!

Men! Anytime your family doctor or your wife's doctor claims that you have fertility issue, always try to visit other hospitals or laboratories before believing them and taking all whatnots in the name of fertility treatment! I have seen enough!

Ttalk:
Mind you, Obi like every other Southern politician have refused to admit that Christian genocide is going on the the north.

It is on record

Let Tinubu(who is the president) respond first and admit that Christian genocides are taking place in Nigeria. Let him also apologize for his inability to end terrorism and prevent Christian genocides. Stop disturbing Obi, he's not the president yet!

Crucialgem:
He spoke right and his claim are not baseless as he is in the medical Field
Secondly isn't it that marriage is the legally accepted way of getting kid( this nairaland is becoming something else/)

He didn't speak right! He lied; either deliberately or ignorantly due to the recent feminists-sponsored "research" publication. All these falsehoods are just attempts by feminists to shift the blame of infertility to men, even when we know that women are the major culprits in infertility among couples.

I have seen cases where a woman connived with her doctor to accuse her husband of being responsible for their infertility. If not that the man has a medical laboratory scientist friend who ran fertility test on him and the result showed he was very much fertile, he would have been made to live with the shame of believing he couldn't father a child.

Stop spreading this falsehood!!! Men are capable of producing smart kids even in their 70s!

These things are practical stuff we see around us! In my family, our last born was given birth when my dad was in his late 50s. Today, he's an engineer and one of the smartest guys I have ever known!

In my place, men birth children even up to their late 60s and these children are doing fantastically well! In fact, many of these men have to prevailed upon by their elderly children and inlaws (well wishers) to stop reproducing!

I don't know why you lots are hell bent on deceiving people by spreading this falsehood.

I don't want to remain single sir. I want to be married to my sweetheart. I want to have her in my arms as we sleep peacefully together. I want to make lovely kids with her. I want the both of us to grow old together while caring for each other. So help me God!

If you're a guy who desires to get married and have children to continue your lineage, I'll advise you to stay away from posts like this before they start messing with your head.

Reno Mumucry is just a brainless man who is ready to sellout even his closest family member just to be in the good books of the government of the day.

May it never be well with Reno or other Nigerians denying the fact that Nigerian Christians are currently facing existential threat occasioned by Christian genocides.

This one must be high on some cheap weed!

If America decides to invade Nigeria today, many Nigerian youths would rather fight on the side of the Americans myself inclusive.

We are tired of this contraption called Nigeria! Many of us had been shouting and trying to call government's attention to the ills that have bedevilled this country but government paid deaf ears. So, if the American government finally decides to intervene then it is a welcome development and I'm sure many Nigerians would support them.

Diamond098454:
jman you are right. But you won't blame some of us for being selective and you know guys do the same too

You shouldn't be doing what guys do because you don't have as much time as a guy before getting married. Smart ladies set their priorities right on time and don't move with the crowd

pocohantas:
You support polygamy.

2. Your reasoning is why I encourage couples to only have kids they can adequately train because people prey on the kids of the poor. See the way you said if she is not going to school. So once parents cannot afford to train their daughter in school, next thing is to marry her off to a man x2 her age for penising? Which is actually what happened in most cases. Even in the North, children of Buhari and Indimi graduate from uni and have jobs/businesses before marriage. It is the daughters of the poor being married off as minors.

3. Whether 30 or 60yrs old husband, the focus point is on the bride. Pregnancy and childbearing sometimes causes damage to the organs of these girls. In the past they died and it was tagged ogbanje or whatever. Today we know it is VVF. Please do not take us back to 1902. Because I am 100% sure you would not allow any man marry and knack your 15yo. You would only use the children of the poor for such fantasy.

Have a nice day, Jman.

Keep making up stuff and accusing me of all you want, I stand by words that I'll rather a 16years old girl gets married than hoe around hopelessly.

I don't know why you ENPs see such girls getting married as a threat to your chances of getting married! The fact that you missed the opportunity of getting married early enough shouldn't make you this agitated at the slightest show of preference to younger girls by a guy!

You can't tell me about VVF because I know more about it than you. 16years old is very matured to bear kids without VVF, those who are prone to VVF are those with delayed body maturation or genetic predisposition to small bodies. Stop following bandwagons and do your own research.