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The truth is that there are no jobs for microbiologists in Nigeria.

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Nigeria and fake or quack doctors are like 5&6



On a serious note, JOHESU needs to warn its staff. Hospital attendants, nurses and pharmacists can still be arrested for being QUACK as long as you are not a licensed medical doctor. That is a fact.

Watch bad belle,pained people try to argue foolishly with me

You are an idiot for mentioning pharmacists in your senseless post. I don't know why most of you fake nigerian doctors are always quick to vent your frustration on pharmacists who are much better than you. As if anybody forced you to choose medicine. I have noticed that pharmacists really are a big nightmare to an average nigerian doctor and i can only attribute that to laziness on the part of the med doctors.
Medicine has so many specialties that are grossly in short supply in nigeria, but your lazy assez will prefer to fight pharmacists whose jobs are clearly different from yours instead of working hard to do your jobs right.

Yeah! Marriage will be alot easier if people marry those that complement them.
Nigerians shoul learn to mind their business and allow two adults to do what works for them[quote author=Daeylar post=59142926]True, also at your first paragraph few men may think the woman is going out of bounds trying to correct them, they feel what it means to be the head is to have the final say, sad. Then when the woman tries to speak, they say she is not submissive enough

@the bolded, Exactly, I agree, you see a situation where people are always saying be submissive, be submissive to be a good wife, a good wife is always submissive, and all that and when they have or when they see a woman who isn't what their idea of submissive is, instead if trying to find their types or minding their own business they try and break the woman down and keep submissive to be a good wife.

It's tiring because the fact that you feel that a woman isn't good enough to be your.
this can alsauthoritative as they feel men should be and they

Daeylar:
@ the bolded THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH,

Some guys like dominant ladies and some ladies like dominant men, I guess there maybe some who are in between don't need dominant partners and do not want to be dominated,
Exactly everyone has a match and instead of them searching for people that match and complement them they go after people or settle with people who don't, then start complaining, I don't get it

Yeah, there are those in between{I belong here} who don't want partners who are doormats and are easily pushed around, who take whatever is thrown at them. It disgusts me when a lady is like that. That doesn't mean she should be unreasonably troublesome or heartless, but should know when to stand her ground and correct me when i am going astray.

There are also guys who would be submissive if they were born in liberal societies, but because ours is one where men are EXPECTED to be lords, they had to pretend to be dominant in order to gain acceptance.

PaperLace:
Nothing to add, you've said it all. The idea should be to complement each other, you are partners _ not competitors.

Exactly!

[quote author=PaperLace post=59138638][/quote]Lol...That's the truth! You can't have two captains in a ship, and i am enlightened enough to know that no gender has the monopoly of wanting to be in control. I also know that there are guys who desire dominant ladies.

Life is full of varieties and everybody has a match. Problem arises because people go for those who don't match them.

If you are a dominant lady, marry a submissive guy. If you are a dominant guy, marry a submissive lady. That way we will have peace!

FX:
When you marry I go c how much spice u go add to your marriage. It's not about spices my brother. When u enter, you go know far. It is not a bed of roses with all d spices, love, money and compatibility. I have said my own, I will advise my son not to get married. That marriage institution is over hyped. Your parents will never tell you the whole truth about marriage cos they want you to fall into the same trap they fell in. i'm married but I will advise my friends to stay clear from marriage. Don't short change your life by living in bondage

Life is not all about you, your freedom and you alone. Sacrifices have to be made! Unless you are implying that not getting married will guarantee my living forever on earth in great health and without any problems whatsoever again. So long as those who don't get married don't have it all rosy, your advice on this topic holds no water.

A guy like me will never have anything to do with such a doormat!
The fool is obviously a slave to the guy's money. Such ladies disgust me!

My only problem is that if this news were to be reversed, all these guys here casting aspersions on the lady would try to justify the man's infidelity.

Cheating is an unpardonable offence regardless of the gender of the cheating partner.

Op, this is the time for you to stand your ground and get things right in your marriage. Please don't listen to anyone saying that it is in the nature of every man to cheat. That is total hogwash! I have many men of sound character around me who are married and are faithful to their wives, so i know what i am typing about.
Don't sweep this matter under the carpet, else this would just be a license for him to continue cheating with reckless abandon. You know what to do!

herveze:
Hmmmm,truth is bitter and I know that some of u are still single or u are still enjoying the best part of good relationship,I pray that u will not face what this woman is facing in future,that time u will know that all men are the same,ask ur mum how she keep ur dad,she will tell u is not an easy task, and next time u don't av to call someone names (puppy) to pass ur message,that shows that u are not mature enough

All men don't cheat! Only irresponsible men do. Cheating is also not an exclusive preserve of the menfolks as women too are are capable of cheating. It is individual CHARACTER that makes the difference. Cheating is like every other vices like stealing, fraud etc because in all vices laws are being broken. Also, just like some people are responsible enough to live above those vices while others are not, there are many men and women who do not cheat and break their marital vows.

herveze:
To be sincere with you,all men are like that including me,but I will just say women cause most of it,let me ask some questions,what are the things u av stop doing to ur husband? Are u still attractive to him? My experience I av with my wife was that when she got pregnant she started refused me sex and dress anyhow she likes, and to be frank with u don't expect men to forget all the enjoyment when he was single just like that,I will advice u not to fight with him but know what he want from you and also pray to God to bring him back to u,I know he will come back to you,that was what my wife did and I av changed now and we are happy

Stop typing jargon for crying out loud! Who gives you guys the audacity to conclude that ''All men are like that'' The fact that some of you are so irresponsible that you can't keep your marriage vows doesn't mean all men are like that.

Op, it seems you married an irresponsible man who doesn't consider your feelings. Poor you!

ststyreal:
I don't think she would have refused if the cousin had told her that she would boil the water with electric stove. She just requested for hot water probably to bath and I don't think she would mind how it is been boiled. This is probably her first time of coming to visit and may not be aware of the electric stove. What I am saying is that the guys reaction is just too much, na woman dey react that way not a gentle man like him. Anyway sha, this is just my own view of his reaction, some other person may not see it that way.

So much for being a gentleman! I wonder what stops you ladies from being ''gentlewomen'' sometimes.I guess being gentleman to you means losing ones head and playing dumb all the time when dealing with women. Innit

ststyreal:
If I were to be your wife, marriage don end be that. You are too womanish, habaaaa kilode! Person no fit come your house in peace. @Op you are too stingy and a nagger at the same time, complaining of gas because of common water, na waoooooo.

Hope if it were the other way round you will respond this way And not start telling us how the man's siblings should let them be

You ladies are selfish lots. I am sure if it were the man's sib that showed up in that manner and started boiling water with gas when there's power and electric kettle,the lady would have made a whole lot of mountain out of it.

Why always Aromates!

What a pity!

Isn't it time we found a lasting solution to these incidences of fuel tankers burning people into ashes our roads Can't we create separate lanes for all the petrol tankers and other heavy-duty vehicles? Or atleast restrict their movements to nights? This is getting out of hand.

R.I.P to the dead.

chukzyfcbb:
baba na lie o, women are silent criminals. For this guy to have known whatsap, it was because he HACKED her account o. Go up ad read again, she cleared all the conversations yet he was still informed. simply because he had hacked into her phone, do u know how to hack?

How many supposed smart men can hack? Women are silent cheaters, its the men that are careless in thjer escapades

Catching a cheating woman must not necessarily be through her conversations. It could be by a combination of tactics including her psychology.

Yet some people will say women are smart cheaters. It takes a dumb man not to catch a cheating wife.

dominique:
Just read the damn OP already! He PERSUADED her! How else do you think he did so sussessfully if he didn't propose directly or indirectly? If I was given a bullet to take out one of the two, I'll take out the guy. The world will be a better place with fewer heartless people like him. I'm done arguing with you over this fake story.

I read the story and no where was it stated that the guy proposed marriage to her. what useless persuasion will make any serious person give up her dream so easily The guy now sees her as an unserious person who cannot be trusted to get any goal.

Honestly, if i am to shoot either of them, it will be the lady so that the world would be one less of dumb people.

If my woman gives me a reason to do a DNA test on my kids, i will definitely do it and in a way that she won't even know. If the result is good, then i will love her more, otherwise, my pistol will do the needful.

dominique:
Both have their fair share of blames. The girl wants a future with the guy, that's why she foolishly stayed behind. The guy should never have persuaded her not to take the scholarship. He's evil, the girl is foolish. I'd pick foolishness over wickedness anytime any day.

I maintain that the guy is blameless in this matter. You can't be wanting a future with a guy who hasn't proposed that, and then go ahead to sacrifice a golden opportunity in the name of some stupid love.

dominique:
The guy was the one that persuaded her to stay only to leave her for someone else. That's not bad abi? Why did he ask her to stay when he has no plans for her?

If ur guy asks you to jump into fire, will you?
The lady simply doesn't know her left from her right. The guy might even have told her to reject the scholarship just to test her determination to succeed, and she simply showed him how unserious she is in life.

cutechi:
Of a truth, there is no law that a guy must marry his girlfriend, but for u to say the guy did not do anything bad, it's really unfair and probably ur heart is made of stone.
Furthermore, u are entitled to ur opinion of saying the girl is stupid, but real love is ready to sacrifice everything no matter the cost!
I pray she bounces back better n stronger and meets the right man.

As far as i am concerned, the guy is blameless in this issue. I don't know when you ladies will learn to stop building your world around a guy who hasn't married you yet.

cutechi:
This kind of love dey make me wonder.....
In this days when love is no longer blind, e dey shine eyes koro koro....
I feel for her....... It is well with her
and for the guy, I pity him up to his fourth generation....

The guy didn't do anything bad! There's no law that a guy must marry his girlfriend. The girl was simply stupid!

Cladez:
I keep on asking but still havn't gotten an answer..

WHY DO MOST NOLLYWOOD ACTORS/ACTRESSES SUFFER FROM KIDNEY PROBLEMS?

ALCOHOL AND DRUGS

One thing i have come to discover among my edo/delta people is their penchant for divorce/separation. Please can anybody who understands enlighten me on why this is so because me i don't understand and i plan to marry from delta. One thing i have also come to understand is the mindless infidelity of their men and i wonder if that could be the cause or something else

I love this woman so much! She is a role model to many.

Some people will have heart attack over this news. Where is osho baboon Let him come and wail because the great amazon is soaring higher.

This life is really complicated. How some men desire to transgender to females really baffles me. Some even desire to be under the control of women or men. Makes me wonder if it is something that has to do with deficiency of the male hormones in such guys.

I agree with him!

It is not easy to maintain a FINEBOY look. You don't expect guys to keep working under the scorching sun and under the rain and still maintain a fineboy look. Lol...

I am tripping 4 this babe already. Please who has her contact

Go for civil engineering. When u are done venture into building. We need more professionals to replace the quack bricklayers parading themselves as 'engineers' in nigeria, because we don't have enough suply of professional builders. That ur civil eng guy that said he doesn't have job is not serious