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Your sis should find out if the dude is in the habit of regular masturbation. If so, then he has to stop as fast as possible. Some guys can masturbate several times daily and exhaust their genital muscles such that when it is time for the real action, the organ doesn't respond. The good news is that abstinence for some weeks with no sexual activities will help the organ come alive. He should also avoid consumption of much sugar and exercise often.

35yrs is too early to have that issue.

OP, I'll advise that you mind your business! This is how people go about breaking other peoples homes.

Times have changed and it is only natural for people to adjust in order to adapt. Gone are the days when women were seen and treated as domestic servants while the men alone worked to cater for the family. In those days, cost of living was lower as there were no expensive private schools, no exhorbitant house rent to pay, and parents didn't have to buy pampers and infant formula for their babies, so women were not expected to work but keep the homes.

This mindset of yours is why many homes are in trouble today. Some guys expect their wives to work and at the same time do house chores alone. Even some jobless guys find it demeaning to do house chores! That's very wrong as the lady might die before her time.

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cstr151:
It dosen't work like that anymore.
My sister graduated from there with a first class in physics with a CGPA of 4.63. The highest in the last five years, yet nothing for her.
She applied and they told her, they don't need more lecturers.
Fortunately, she won the Commonwealth Postgraduate scholarship and is currently in the UK studying Nuclear Physics.

Your sister's case might be an exceptional case. I know that in faculty of pharmacy the overall best graduating student gets retained.

TheBatman:
Bros, your school try o. Thank God say no be Uniben you grad from, if not na virtual 3k you go collect (money you can't cash till 2017/2018) and no automatic employment, unless you get long legs in addition to that wonderful brain of yours. Congratulations all the same.

Stop typing what you don't know!!!

The great UNIBEN is one of the fairest universities in the country. Every year, best graduating students of Uniben are retained irrespective of their tribe. However, because they usually graduate many 1st class students, the competition is usually stiff, so the guy with the highest CGPA gets the job. Mind you, i am igbo but i stand for the truth.

Congrats to the Op.

nigeriasmack:
but , why the white race pay so much attention to peniss size ? are they the only people on this planet interested in peniss size ?

it is everyone's concern . any people with a full stomach , will consider sex stuff in a delicate way. even a poor hungry man will think of it, like a flash in mind, sometimes.

black race are more timid and reserved. they dont discuss such things in a group , but they would think of it in privacy.

anyway, sex is sex, economy is economy. why should a poor man not be proud of his peniss ?

A poor man can only be proud of his peniss if it puts food on his table. If not, then he's a foool!

nigeriasmack:
this is romance land, why shoudl i care the drug problem ?

you mean , if black race are indulged in drugs and poor health care sysytem, they should feel less sexually confident ? or confident can not be split to a minor branch as called sex confident?

I think it is useless to brag about dick size when there are pressing issues begging for attention.

So you wasted 10k just to satisfy some crazy fantasies

nigeriasmack:
i know nigerian men have average peniss with normal size, among the sub sahara african countries.

but they are still bigger than the white peniss

so , nigerian men are still qualified to answer my question.

How will having big dick positively affect the Nigerian economy? Or improve healthcare delivery or get rid of fake drugs from the market?

Who big dicck epp!

Let Nigerian 'men' learn how to think properly first before bragging about size of their dicck.

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Why are black men this barbaric? why attack an innocent man for an act that is done by consenting adults

Homosexuals are sick people and what they need is care and not attacks.

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mofeoluwadassah:
dat means u dont love him...u dont av any feelings 4 him nd u're saying u love him.does it sound wel 2 u ehn!

Do u have feelings for your brothers? Don't you love them?

@poster, i think what you have for the guy might be the real love which lacks in many relationships. It is different from mere bodily attraction so many call love.

My advice, don't be too fast to quit. Give yourself time. Make sure you don't have another guy you are 'dying' for who may not even know you exist, because that might just be the reason for the way you are feeling. To help increase your feelings for him, work on your mind. Stop fantasizing about those guys who ain't worth it. See the guy as your one and only prince charming and you'll be fine.

I laugh at these doctors! Some of you think that everybody wanted medicine but were given other sciences. Fyi, many of us have passion for other health professions. I did biochem before going back to study pharmacy. My post DE result was high enough to offer me medicine but i chose pharmacy instead because I prefer it to medicine.

Well i think the problem with Nigerian doctors is that they expect so much from the society as if everything in the society revolve around them. They forget that there are other important professionals who do their jobs for the passion without expecting anybody to lick their boots.

Much as i'd loved love the government to live up to their responsibility of maintaining set standards of practice of all professions, i think people should stop expecting to be worshipped by others for doing their jobs for which they are paid. Let's learn to choose our professions for the passion, provided it is one that will keep us busy, and not expect to be treated like celebrities except when we have achieved exceptional feats in our professions.

Celebrities are specially talented people who are celebrated for using their talents to impact virtually the whole world and not just afew people in a clinic. Never mind that the word celebrity is abused here in Nigeria.

So, my doc friends, let's be real!

Safiaa:
Try and talk to her through phone calls or text. If its uncomfortable to talk to her in physically, maybe the tension will decrease on the phone. They're so many things you can talk about. Ask her questions so that you can give her the opportunity to talk more. What are your hobbies? What do you do for fun? What do you look for in guys..stuff like that. You guys will get to know each other much and at the same time be more comfortable. When you eventually see each other, it won't be as awkward

Thanks

Cutehector:
Well to me I would rather be myself to the second lady... Tryn to form good guy will only make matters worse...


Just try and be free with her.. Play with her... Girls like guys who are playful..

Ok, thanks.

dollyjoy:
If you, as a guy still ask primary questions like these, then I'm sorry to say this but you're not matured enough to date.

Read the post first...

I need to know how often a guy needs to call or text his bae to show he really loves and cares for her. Again, what sort of topics should a guy bring up that will interest her, aside the normal expression of love and asking how she is doing and all that, especially as most ladies ain't intersted in football or politics.

I had this experience which i will share with you guys so i can get to learn one or two things.

Recently i came across two girls, the first is from Akwaibom. She's very jovial and whenever we are together, the atmospher is always free for interaction, so i expressed myself freely. But i am not that inlove with her{perhaps the reason why i could say almost anything to her}. The second girl is from Delta, very intelligent, but more reserved. She totally has my heart, but whenever we are together, the atmospher is always tensed because i am always careful what to say. The probs now is that i think she maybe having the misconception that i can't converse properly. I really love her! Advise

RadiantBae:
I don't know why some females act somehow when we've all done it[b] at some point [/b].... Love is but a game we play and by the time you're at some experience level you take and sometimes you win at the game sometimes you lose. This girl tried and she lost. It's not that serious some women take the house and the kids and the half the business. This time she lost a phone because she tried to cheat at a low level. The guy was lucky she left the phone behind

It's not that serious

Love is not game. Peoples' hearts are involded. Many have died of heart breaks. Many have gone mad! If you don't like the guy, tell him from the begining.

If he isn't good enough for you, why not swerve and let those who find him attractive date him. why lead him on

hakinz87:
You have a good point although your conclusion damage it. Here in Nigeria we raise degree more higher than experience. If you are applying for a Job in any of the western countries with a degree and you don't have any experience in that field, you won't be considered. You can obtain your degree (even with first class) with malpractice or due to your connection to high profile people, does that mean you are good in the Job? In my Engineering company, they employ based on the skills you have, then your certificate is secondary. If you aren't good in practical and you are coming with a 'yeye' first class, you will be embarrassed at the end of the day.

And in that your company they employ roadside mechanics with 'experience' in place of professional mechanical engineers

kinibigdeal:
How many mechanical engineer graduate in nigeria today can successfully assemble or fixed a simple fault in a car? If a mechanical engineer degree holder cannot fix a simple fault in a car, i think such fellow should be sent back to technical colleges for training. Have you ever wondered how a man with PhD in mechanics will be visiting a roadside mechanic at the slightest fault? Do you mean all they know is to assemble?

Many Nigerian trained engineers are consultants to foreign companies. Much as i'll like the government to do more to improve standards of education in the country, i don't think we are doing too badly like some people blindly believe.

Yes, a mechanical engineer can take his car to a roadside mechanic if he feels like. That doesn't mean he is ignorant of what to do.

gemini35:
bro the poster is on point,here in nigeria can we get mechanical eng that can design and assemble,our govt did not make them available,we depend on paper work,some time,s it make the degree worthless ,no much practical, but nt same in the western world

We have many Nigerian trained engineers who are consultants to foreign companies. The fact that we have some mediocre engineers does not mean that they are all bad. Nigerians are good at denigrating their own.

Those guys only do trial and error with peoples' lives and many times they end up complicating issues for patients and even sending people to early graves.

I wish Nigerians would start reasoning properly. The country would be alot better.

I totally disagree that 'experience' should be prioritized over degree. Going by your analogy about mechanical engineer with PhD and road side mechanic, the two can't be compared for any reason. The job of a roadside mechanic is to loose and change faulty parts of a car, while a mechanical engineer is trained to design and assemble cars and other machines from scratch. Most mechanical engineers can do the work of the roadside mechanic if they want to,the thing is that many of them consider it demeaning due to the way the job is done here in Nigeria.

Nigerians have the problem of poor reasoning and that is why somebody will come up with a biased opinion such as this post and the many will just swallow it hook, line and sinker without finding out the fact.

Before i went to pharmacy school, i used to hear some people say that the patent medicine vendors know drugs more than pharmacists. However, before going to pharm school, i sold drugs and so i know that the drug dealers know nothing about drugs. NOTHING!

Good one...

Supported. People should stay faithful to their spouses. If you can't, get divorced and set the other party free.

TheSonOfMark:
Everywhere! People cheat everywhere and aren't shamed for it in most supposedly developed countries of the world.

Jhene Aiko cheated with Big Sean even though she is married to someone else. She's moved in with him even though she is still legally married..and she's not being slut-shamed.

Will and Jada Smith are reportedly in an open relationship where each is free to sleep with others.

It's not uncommon to see "In An Open Relationship" on the social media profiles of Americans and Brits. Folks act like it's normal but even I - for all of my supposed liberality- am still culturally shocked by it.

Justifying cheating isn't peculiar to Nigerians.

In all those instances you mentioned, were the cheaters praised by the public for being unfaithful to their spouses?

An open marriage is a different ball game because no one is betraying another's trust in that case. So, the issue of infidelity does not arise there.

Op, if you have the crazy fantasy of having your man pounding another lady on your matrimonial bed while you watch or are restrained, keep it in your closet with your man. Don't post craps like this on public forum and make it seem normal. It is not normal.