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JeffreyJames:
Lol

Honestly bro, i am ashamed of this op right now.

It still beats my imagination how Nigerians reason! No wonder the country is in a mess.

Where else in the world do people make excuses for cheats

Lilyqueeny:
You are right but one has to be careful in choosing a spouse

I ain't saying one shouldn't be careful in choosing a spouse, but while at it, make sure you base your choices on the right criteria and not on bigotry.Hope you understand?

You want to employ a medical rep with BSc/Hnd to market pharmaceutical products to hospitals? And you expect the company to break even?

I will not say much here, but i'll advise you to go and find out how the big guys in the industry are making it.,

Lilyqueeny:
Really but I don't think so

That's the fact! But that doesn't mean there aren't 'virgin' guys who will not cheat. The point is that any body can be that irresponsibe to cheat on their spouses. That is why it is not proper for people to insist on marrying a particular tribe, social class or religious group with the assumption that the rest are bad. Or say say i will not marry so and so person because he/she is an atheist or doesn't attend your church.

Lilyqueeny:
There is a tendency for a guy to have an extra marital affair since he is into sexual immorality right from the onset.


A man who is not into pre marital sex would find it difficult to cheat on his wife.

That a wrong assumption! A guy who has had sexual relationship can as well be faithful to one partner. Sometimes it is even the 'virgin' guys that get curious about knowing how sex with other ladies will feel and so they tend to cheat.

@tosyne2much, those celebs who cheat are irresponsible! the responsible ones like Omotola and co are faithful to their partners despite meeting many hot babes and guys both on and off camera. It is an individual thing.

tosyne2much:
You sound like someone who doesn't have what it takes to attract ladies to be hovering around you.. Cos with the way you're talking, on can doubt if you've got ladies stalking you, If you do, you wouldn't be saying all those things.

Even some married men in the remote village where I live in Ekiti still play side games despite the fact that they look ugly and unkempt much more of a man that's got what it takes to win almost every lady.

As a very handsome dude with nice swag, good dress sense, good oratory ability, and to crown it all, money still dey your pocket join ... Even if you get married, you will always fight to be completely faithful

Just imagine what a supposedly matured guy is typing. So, because you've got ladies around you you must cheat? We know that in most cases these ladies don't talk to you about their feelings first, you make the move! Now, relate that to ladies who get bugged by many guys on daily basis, yet don't cheat

Lawlahdey:
This post borders more around the sexual aspect.. as a guy, how confident are you that when you get married, you won't have sex with any other woman apart from your wife?

I am a healthcare professional in training and i understand the risks of having multiple sex partners. That aside, I have self control and can only have sex if i decide to and not because i am surrounded by many hot ladies. Just like i cannot eat shit no matter how it is garnished, i cannot have sex with any lady regardless how pretty she is when i have the lady i love and commited to at home.

Also, i am one of those who still believe in living a life of HONESTY, so i try hard to avoid putting myself in situations where i have to tell lies in order to escape. So, yes! I will be sexually commited to my wife and my wife alone when i get married.

Cutehector:
lawlahdey its alright... U are thinking every man will cheat and that's not good.. Although presently, we know that we have the tendency to cheat and we accept it but sometimes, some of us acknowledge that there comes a time in our lives where we just want to concentrate only on our wife and children..

U shouldn't be forcing all guys to key in to ur perception about them..

That's the point! Posts like this is capable of making some guys believe that infidelity is acceptable and that being faithful to one woman makes them less of men.

This thread is obviously aimed at encouraging infidelity among men. It's either the op is a guy hidding under the female handle or a lady who is currently trying to endure an unfaithful relationship. The post makes it seem as though men cannot stay faithful to one partner. Though a guy, i am allergic to lies and i must say that this post is a lie from the pit of hell.

Principled MEN do not cheat! This is because they understand that life is not about frolicking with different women. They know that cheating will expose them to health risks and also, unnecessary financial burdens to the detriment of their wives and children.

As far as i am concerned, a man that really loves his wife and family will not cheat.

So, op i don't know what you aim to achieve with this fallacious post, but what i know is that cheating is the height of irresponsibity and mr churchill is an irresponsible man.

To be sure a guy really loves, don't be too fast to accept to date him, and when you finally do, don't be fast to sleep with him. If despite all that, he still remains faithful and showers you with gifts and affection without going after everything in skirt, then he's real.

farouk0403:
what of Agriculture, industrial design, horticulture, e.t.c

Those are ok too

People should stop having this misconception that the course one studied in school does not determine ones chances of being gainfully employed. For crying out loud it does! It was that same deception that made me not to rewrite jamb while doing my 1st degree in Biochem. They'l continue to give people false hope that you can work in so and so place only for you to finish and be confronted by the reality.

Right from NYSC camp, you will discover that your friends in the medical/health profession are on camp with the cars they bought during internship and will earn higher than you during service. All my friends who were in pharmacy and medicine when i was doing BCH are gainfully employed today, while those in biochem are still wondering from one lesson center to another in name of 'hustling'.

Do you know that the number of pharmacists we have in Nigeria is not enough to serve lagos state alone let alone the various specialties in pharmacy? So there is high demand for Pharmacists likewise doctors.

I was going to reply that guy when i read the post by mercylicious234. Mech eng still pays because it has wide application i.e the need for mech engineers are high.

farouk0403:
OgA which course do you want Man pikin to study again? aside from those you listed above?

For engineering aspirants, go for Civil, EE, Mechanical,Marine,Systems, Biomedical, Building and Architecture.

For Medical/Health sciences, go for Pharmacy, Medicine, Dentistry,Nursing, Optometry, Med lab and Radiography.

If you are arts inclined, chose Law, Accountancy, journalism{atleast you'l be busy even if the pay is not much}, Performing arts{if you can perform}.

Many guys are out there who are ready to practically worship this lady if only she will agree to marry them, but they will continue to pursue fame and class instead of love and peace of mind.

It's just unfortunate that this is happening to Tonto.

When Obasanjo advised nigerian youths not to go to university and study all whatnot and expect to land great jobs thereafter, many people misunderstood him. But the truth is that Obj was right. Many students chose the wrong courses without adequate knowledge of the current prospects of such courses in the labour market. Some people don't even know that jobs are given mostly based on needs. That means, if there's no need for your services, nobody will employ you. I wish our sec schools will start informing students properly on how to make the right choices of what to study in the uni.

For those in sciences, pls don't waste your time and resources studying courses like Pet Eng, Chem Eng, Biochemistry, Microbiology, Zoology, Botany, Chemistry/ind Chemistry, Geology and the likes, UNLESS you have somebody at the top who can and is willing to give you job regardless of what you studied. OR you have passion for teaching and ready to accept the peanut u'll b paid

The difference always shows right from NYSC camps.

Lol...Many guys here have not even had sex before yet they are claiming to last 10 hours. The truth is that those who have really done it will know that most girls will practically want to push you down after they 0rgasm and you are still thrusting. And an average normal girl will reach 0rgasm in at most 20mins unless the partner is inexperienced.

There are alot of lessons to be learnt from Tonto's experience. But will girls learn? They will continue to repeat the same mistakes made by others. Ladies chose their men based on biased and mostly wrong reasons and most times they end up falling into wrong hands.
A good man/woman is a rare gem that can only be found by those who search with an open mind devoid of tribal, social and religious bigotry. I've heard many ladies say, i will not marry from so and so tribe, church, social class etc. That's how many people limit their chances of finding mr/mrs right.

As for Tonto, i am shocked because i thought her marriage was working. I used to admire her alot.

And some foolish girls will fall for this deception.

Ladies, pls don't mind this olosho. She wants you to make the same mistake she made. Some ladies are devilish,always want to mislead their 'friends' to repeat the same mistake they made.

Pls, keep your virginity if you are still one. A good man will appreciate and respect you for that.

What a cheap scam! I pity anybody that will fall 4 this.

Lmao...I can't stop laughing at the INSECURITY of the average nigerian doctors whenever the Pharmacists are around.

I think the antidote to all these egocentric attitudes is for the pharmacists to start exposing all prescription errors by the doctors and stop covering up their numerous drug errors that have sent many to their early graves. Atleast to get the people not to trust an average nigerian doctor on issues relating to drugs, because they barely know drugs and too egocentric to have the pharmacists advise them.

Imagine the level of insecurity they exhibited on this thread...

And some foolish APC supporters will be asking how the hardship is buhari's fault.

No! It is my fault because i am the one managing the nation's economy. Zombies!

I can never get sexually aroused by my sisters. They are my blood and i love them with the special kind of love that exists between siblings.

How can people be this heartless? Too bad! I suspect a case of land dispute. Those my people in Delta can do anything for land.

mykel25:
you had better start preparing for d WAEC N JAMB.it not same with promotion exam oooo

Lol..Ok

When you love someone, walk up to that person and express your feelings to him/her. The person might be interested in you but lacks the guts to open up.

Just around 2nd week of last november i approached this sweet babe in my class whom i had been dying for. Lo and behold the girl turned out to be positive. Just that she doesn't want to go into any serious relationship now, but we are friends and i know in the nearest future things will work out btw us. But b4 approachn her i had alot fears-what if she doesn't like me, what if she is taken, what if she is rude etc, but the bae turned out to be a sweet, mentally mature and lovely person that got me falln even more in love with her. I have decided to mount my survellance and follow her bomber to bomber when school resumes. God please help me get that girl cos i sincerely love her and i know i won't have problems with her, amen.
So, at Op, approach the guy in question and pour out your heart to him. You might be surprised to find out that the feeln is mutual.

This is what happens when a man marries out of necessity and not love. No man will beat a lady he loves like this no matter the level of provocation. None!

Nisi Dominus Frustra!


who no come no go know!