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k2039: If the guy is positive, you think he wouldn't aspire to be a murderer.

Princess zoe: But OP why are being very cruel with words? Why are you being very sarcastic with your postings? You had better be a virgin who has never watched porn, ever engaged in romances or self service before otherwise forever hold your peace. The bible says "be not deceived for no fornicator, adulterer, lier etc, will make it to heaven". So is not only gays and lesbians that are defiling the temple of God, the fornicators and adulterers are also in the same boat. Am so sure you are not perfect. And am sure you know what the new testament says about those who call people fools? Grow up please and learn how to love people because with this type of hatred you will equally end in same place with a gay or lesbian. Am sure you also know that. Please dwell in love. Advise the wrongdoers to change and not going about cursing them whereas you were not given that right. Is only God that has such authority. Be guided accordingly.

obua: Just search on Google and see the effects .I don't even want to talk about the spiritual issues which are not verifiable .

theency: She is beautiful but her kids are not light complexioned, wetin happened?

extraflyfineboy: The world is slowly evolving, so is our mindset. But is that a solid reason to back up the reason why girls like bad boys?
It’s not an argument, it’s a fact. If you are a typical ‘good guy’ and you are reading this post I can only conclude that you concur. The ‘bad boys’ are out there are taking all the girls; both the good and the bad ones.
But what is it that attracts girls to bad boys? Why will a girl choose to see the good guy as an old piece of furniture and accept or even go after the bad guy who might actually cause her pain and misery? Let’s take a look at the following reasons:
-BAD GUYS ARE FULL OF FUN AND EXCITEMENT.
It is true,’’’ girls just want to have fun’’ and bad guys happen to be full of fun and excitement as its their daily routine to engage in 'fun filled activities'
-FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY.
The female psychology is wired in a way that women are bound to want an anchor. Weak male cannot protect them or at least give them a sense of security. So a woman will generally want a man who exhibits dominant traits; a guy who appears capable of protecting himself and his woman.
-SEX-
Women have the feeling that arrogance is connected to sex drive. It is only natural for a woman to be sexually attracted to a more slightly radical fellow because adrenaline; the enzyme that causes the male to be more male’ also increases sex drive.Adrenaline isn''t an enzyme but a hormone.By sayn that it causes d males 2 be more male u made it seem like a male hormone whereas it is secreted in significant concentration in both males n females.It is not directly connected 2 d male sex drive,though it comes into action during d sex act proper.Carry out proper research nxt time u write. So in her mind frame, she takes the good guy as ‘the guy I’ll never Bleep’ and the bad guy as ‘yeah lets get digging’
-FAME-

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The world is slowly evolving, so is our mindset. But is that a solid reason to back up the reason why girls like bad boys?
It’s not an argument, it’s a fact. If you are a typical ‘good guy’ and you are reading this post I can only conclude that you concur. The ‘bad boys’ are out there are taking all the girls; both the good and the bad ones.
But what is it that attracts girls to bad boys? Why will a girl choose to see the good guy as an old piece of furniture and accept or even go after the bad guy who might actually cause her pain and misery? Let’s take a look at the following reasons:
-BAD GUYS ARE FULL OF FUN AND EXCITEMENT.
It is true,’’’ girls just want to have fun’’ and bad guys happen to be full of fun and excitement as its their daily routine to engage in 'fun filled activities'
-FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY.
The female psychology is wired in a way that women are bound to want an anchor. Weak male cannot protect them or at least give them a sense of security. So a woman will generally want a man who exhibits dominant traits; a guy who appears capable of protecting himself and his woman.
-SEX-
Women have the feeling that arrogance is connected to sex drive. It is only natural for a woman to be sexually attracted to a more slightly radical fellow because adrenaline; the enzyme that causes the male to be more male’ also increases sex drive. So in her mind frame, she takes the good guy as ‘the guy I’ll never Bleep’ and the bad guy as ‘yeah lets get digging’
-FAME-
In the animal kingdom,the she’s tend to be loyal to the dominant male. Don’t be deceived, its also like that among humans. Bad guys are famous, therefore exhibiting dominance. A woman will be attracted to a famous dude because he is always in the lime light, and women just like to be in the company of famous dudes.
-BAD BOYS ARE MYSTERIOUS-
Apart from the fact that bad boys are very interesting and fun to be with, they are mixed with unpredictability, confidence, indifference, mystery, intrigue and most especially; they do not abide by the books and don’t care what other people think. These traits, women find irresistible.
-THEY KNOW HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN-
When it comes to chatting up females, they give this’’ I don’t give a damn attitude’’ and are knowledgeable in almost every topic under the sun because of their adventurous lifestyle. To wrap It all, they know how to make a woman feel good with words.
We could go on, but I want to wrap it up in one sentence ‘’bad boys rock’’

CONTRAST-
However, these women who appear to like bad boys later drop such feelings as they get older because they begin to look out for long term relationships or life long partners and see the good guys as potential good husbands.
So good news
after all for the good guys; don’t worry, though she may diss and dis regard you now, she may come back for you when she reaches puberty. Lol, but just stay tuned to this blog, I might write on ‘’why bad girls like good guys’’ get it?
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nne3870: Keep decieving yourself, wait until you clock 40 as a guy and you will end up more desperate. I will advise you to take the lady's advice, stop fooling around now that you are young and take your lazy ass to the street, hustle and change your destiny for good.

vivalableue: ok i'll take a stab at what you wrote. Well it's true that most women are trained to look for men who can take care of them. And although we cease our reproductive abilities mid-aged, we also come into our sexual peak at 40-45 (compared to 18 years for men) this is a well established medical fact. (aka look it up for yourself) About economy being hard, my friend, it neva has been easy. No situation is permanent. But if you tell that mountain to move, and have the faith to see it gone it will go. The same goes for life, a lil faith and a lot of hard work goes a long way. A good woman will be drawn to a good attitude and strong spirit in a man. So maybe if you stopped concentrating on what is hindering you and focus on the propelling factors you'll find a lady who can compliment your drive. So quit making this about what breaks a man down, a not-so-secret secret is that a life-long partnership helps you live that happy long and fulfilled life. OK so just think about it, no pressure, but contemplate what a change in perspective can mean for your life now and long-term.

dmcdad: I would have loved to answer your questions, but in a secind thought, its better to leave em for the female folks to answer...

sexyseun: Not just men alone love s.ex, i also love s.ex as well too( if not even more than an average guy sef)correct babe!pls PM me let's get somethn started.

pri3stess: Please, until you provide me with some statistical and scientific data on why the groups you listed above cheat, I'm still going to go with what I said in my first comment.

dmcdad: The thing here is... What prove have you to back up this assertion of yours? Peritio principii (begging the question).

Personally, I think it varies from different location, people, gender etc. For example, in some parts of lagos, you might argue that a particular set of people are worse on that or are the worst, while in some other parts of lagos or other states as the case may be, you will get a different set of people as the worst. It also varies with people because you can ask Mr A and he will tell you that its this particular tribe and u ask Mrs B and she will tell you another set of people and so on... The question now is, with this level of variation amongst people, places, genders, and so on, which tribe do you think would be the agreed set of people who practice it the most?

So you see, its better to settle with what Pri3stess said and base it on individuals and their persons.

pri3stess: Guy please wake up from the bicycle that you have been sleeping on, you can find faithful people in every tribe, you just have to look in the right place. A persons tribe, religion, Nationality should not determine if they will cheat or not, after all even devout Muslims still cheat just because Aisha wears a burqa, does not mean that she's any better than Bukola that wears mini skirts. So please stop generalizing non-cheaters to a certain ethnic group. It's just not right.

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot