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Travel / Re: What Are The Cons Of Moving Abroad? by joetem(m): 2:50pm On Mar 29, 2022
mixmastering:


It is possible that your dog knew about an accident and just had to hide the key.

A lot of what people interpret as naughtiness in a dog is pure intelligence.

STOP hitting that animal!


hmmmn, you made sense sha, i eneded you going late to where i went to that day
Travel / Re: What Are The Cons Of Moving Abroad? by joetem(m): 1:52pm On Mar 29, 2022
Aaronsrod:


I belive this is most serious.

Forget domestic obedience.

You cannot even beat a dog talk less of your wife and children shocked shocked

lemmie expend all my dog beating before i leave naija... imagine a dog picked ur car key and ran outsite into the street with it. Spent almost two hours to locate the key
Romance / Re: Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde And Her Husband Celebrate 26th Marriage Anniversary by joetem(m): 11:07pm On Mar 28, 2022
God1000:
lol, lipsrsealed
young people should learn from them and 2face as well

i will choose 2face
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by joetem(m): 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks


shey make we tell you the truth... old habits hardly die. once she is settled with, she will resume her duty and we will await you for updates here. But if you must save yourself from trauma, japa!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Vacancies At An International School-alimosho, Lagos. by joetem(m): 4:17pm On Mar 28, 2022
Lelepeautos:

Thanks, pls let the person contact the phone number attached.


whatz the name of the school, how much is the pay?
Agriculture / Re: CBN Disburses ₦42 Billion To 15 States To Support Wheat Cultivation by joetem(m): 1:14pm On Mar 28, 2022
helinues:


Well, that's what you could have done if you were to be in the position.

Cos wondering why should that be first thoughts on this development

I've been farming for about 10 years now, i can tell you for free that the money wont get to farmers, rather it will get to political farmers, those who in politics and doesnt even know what farming is are those that will benefit....govt have been promising and failing over and over again

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Politics / Re: Pray For Nigeria, Aisha Buhari Begs Citizens Hours After APC Convention by joetem(m): 12:58pm On Mar 28, 2022
This message have a strong connotative meaning, only the wise will understand
Politics / Re: NRC To Rehabilitate Minna-Baro Rail Line With ₦80 Billion by joetem(m): 12:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
Parachoko:
There is nothing to argue about.

Amechi no worth $500,000,000

No black man is as rich as Aliko Dangote.

Tinubu is richer than Dangote
Politics / Re: NRC To Rehabilitate Minna-Baro Rail Line With ₦80 Billion by joetem(m): 11:01am On Mar 28, 2022
Parachoko:
So how much was release to him from that 12trillion and how much did he loot? Even Abacha loot no reach $7 billion dollar.

Amechi no fit worth $500,000,000 sef.


i wont argue with you... just locate the budget of these projects since 2015, you will have a clue
Politics / Re: NRC To Rehabilitate Minna-Baro Rail Line With ₦80 Billion by joetem(m): 10:57am On Mar 28, 2022
Parachoko:
Since you insist is net worth is more than that of Dangote, give me the list of the project he has been doing and the amount budgeted for the projects.

And don't forget, Dangote presently worth $14 billion.


https://guardian.ng/news/2021-budget-amaechi-canvasses-adequate-funds-to-deliver-on-railway-projects/


just one year alone oo
Politics / Re: NRC To Rehabilitate Minna-Baro Rail Line With ₦80 Billion by joetem(m): 10:29am On Mar 28, 2022
Parachoko:
I doubt he will have up to 10% of Dangote money.


Just 5% of all the project he controls is more than dangote's networth. think about it
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Do You Handle Being Shouted On At Work??? by joetem(m): 9:26pm On Mar 27, 2022
zedegit:
Please I discovered long ago that I am very temperamental and don't like being shouted on especially when I know I am in the right.

I usually flare up at my boss for shouting on me and this doesn't seem right although it is true bosses shouldn't shout at their employees.

How do you cope with this at your workplace?

i walk away anytime it happens, once i sense toxicity , i move, even if i never get another job... i hate nonsense
Politics / Re: NRC To Rehabilitate Minna-Baro Rail Line With ₦80 Billion by joetem(m): 9:23pm On Mar 27, 2022
Celebrities / Re: Chinedu Nwadike Dies In Abuja Hospital by joetem(m): 9:03pm On Mar 27, 2022
HandsomeGuyman:
How do you mean? Was he a member?

i just watched a clip of shrine from one of his post on tiktok, i doubt the guy is a gospel artist
Education / Re: OAU VC: Our Son Was Schemed Out - Ile-Ife Indigenes by joetem(m): 5:11pm On Mar 27, 2022
Concience55:

Where did you get that Statistics from that Ondo/ Ekiti has the highest number of Profs in Nigeria?
Na NUC tell you?
Can you give me your source pls?

no one is stopping you from surfing the internet
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by joetem(m): 12:13pm On Mar 27, 2022
akinsmyk:


Did you read the whole story? Man is not broke. He's the only one financing the family as the wife is jobless.

Even had a nanny for the baby and maid doing house work. Broke men don't employ those. You can read the story again

I was too annoyed to read the last part.... imagine the effontry telling the man to go sort himself outside, she doesnt want the marriage... maybe the joblessness is making her depressed sha
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by joetem(m): 12:11pm On Mar 27, 2022
Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

If u allow her affect u psychologically , your productivity at work reduces and u may end of loosing the job. If she wants to leave, let her leave and stop killing yourself

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Education / Re: OAU VC: Our Son Was Schemed Out - Ile-Ife Indigenes by joetem(m): 12:07pm On Mar 27, 2022
BlueRayDick:
OAU is owned by the federal government. Anybody from the 774 local governments in Nigeria who has met the criteria set by the University can be selected to become the VC.

If u feel Ur son qualified having met all the criteria set by the Institution but was schemed out because of his indigenship status, then u write petition to the FG or institute an action in court contesting the whole process of appointment. That is how to do things, not disrupt the peace of a citadel of learning.

Let's even say Ur "son" was appointed, what do u think is in it for u indigenes? Will he throw admission open for indigene' children who don't meet the institution's cut-off marks? Or will he promote indigeneous staff ahead of none indigenes that merit such?

Sometimes u just but wonder how educated people will just rubbish all their education with partisan bias


people of IFE have serious problems. See ehn Ondo and Ekiti account for highest number of professors in Nigeria. The VCs of the schools in those places are not from Ondo/Ekiti yet you wont hear any noise....

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Religion / Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by joetem(m): 12:02pm On Mar 27, 2022
Uprightness100:
We as Humans need to understand some Foundational Principles of Life and in our relationship with GOD ALMIGHTY, our Creator.

THE WORD of GOD is UNCHANGEABLE.
Heaven and Earth will pass away, but the Word of GOD remains. GOD will not Change because of a Changing World.

EVERYONE of us WILL STAND before GOD on a " SOLO LEVEL" to RENDER ACCOUNT to GOD.
Husband and wife will not stand together,
Twins will not stand together,
Culture, religion, belief, technology, etc will not Matter. The Word of GOD is the Standard.

No Matter what happens to you , be the one to Obey the Word of GOD.
If your Hubby or wifey decides to walk away or goes to marry someone else. As one who Fears GOD, it's your cross to carry. You go to GOD in Prayers and seek his face for your partner to return. That is the Reason why you are advised to Earnestly seek GOD'S Face for HIS Choice before you enter into Marriage.

If he/she returns , Praise GOD! If he/she does not return, Praise GOD. Marriage is not a condition to make Heaven.

Obedience to GOD and HIS Word is what is Paramount.
According to GOD'S Word, Only Death Permits a Man/ woman to remarry.


with all the plenty words you wrote here, you still havent answered the question abi you no undertsand ni....

the othet partner walks out, so the one left behind should wait make konji kill am abi?
Politics / Re: 2023: Amaechi Says He Is Not Contesting For Presidency by joetem(m): 10:46pm On Mar 26, 2022
Amaechi is the wisest man in babylon, even presidency no chop money reach am, una wan try how much this guy made from the railway hustle.... the guy don kantab dagote as he dey so.
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by joetem(m): 10:39pm On Mar 26, 2022
Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

why worry ur self over sex abi you wan collect!

truth be told , marriage is overrated and its not favourable to man. she deny u sex because u are broke, work more on your finances. If body dey bite you self-service and if that one no belleful u, get a side chick... u can still keep the marriage for the sake of ur kids. but more importantly, make more money
Education / Re: Toyin Tofade Becomes First Black Female President Of Albany College of Pharmacy by joetem(m): 11:09pm On Mar 25, 2022
when it comes to education, yorubas dey try sha

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Politics / Re: Gratitude To Alimosho Pdp Delegates, Stakeholders And Leaders by joetem(m): 11:07pm On Mar 25, 2022
I didnt see Hon Rafiu Bello there.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Biden Visits Ukraine Border Friday In Show Of Solidarity by joetem(m): 12:09pm On Mar 25, 2022
i keep saying if, if na Trump dey power, this war wouldnt have happened, what happens to negotiations and diplomacy?.

The money spent in war shoulda been used for farming and building housing estates for the homeless across America.
Religion / Re: Pope Francis Will Consecrate Russia And Ukraine To Our Lady Today. by joetem(m): 12:06pm On Mar 25, 2022
our babalawos should learn from this and make their idols clean and neat too.

Shebi all of us dey craze together abi which one be image wey dem dey worship and partial concecration abi na concentration. Northern parts of naija dey boil since 2006, no one cares, people lost to boko haram and bandits are more than what is lost in ukraine, yet dem no concentrate consecrate Nigeria. To your tenth o' Africa, let love lead , let humanity rain supreme, if we love our neighbours we wont carry sword to kill for whatever reason. Farmine is looming, farmers cant go to farm cos of bandits, food is becoming luxury, where is national orientation Agency, where is Ministry of Agric?
Family / Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by joetem(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2022
Optimistic4life:


My sexual desires have dried up (my mindset since there is no legal man to take care of it grin)

So thanks but no thanks.

let me take the legal route if u are obedient
Celebrities / Re: Man Hails Davido As He Spots Him Cruising In His Lamborghini Inside Traffic by joetem(m): 5:58pm On Mar 24, 2022
can the car move on lagos ibadan express way?

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Romance / Re: I Am Having A Problem With My Girlfriend. by joetem(m): 5:33pm On Mar 24, 2022
Videour:
Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.

I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.

Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.

Psychologically, it's affecting me.
Please what is the best way to handle this?
My Nairaland family.

dont loose a good girl when u marry, the urge will reduce
Sports / Re: President Buhari Likely To Watch Nigeria Vs Ghana Second Leg Live’ – Sunday Dare by joetem(m): 11:01am On Mar 24, 2022
damilola4162:
President Muhammadu Buhari might watch the returned leg of the 2022 World Cup play off between the Super Eagles of Nigeria and the Black stars of Ghana at the Mashood Abiola Stadium, Abuja on Tuesday, 29th of March 2022, Newspremises reports.

Minister for Youths and Sports, Sunday Dare stated this ahead of the qualifying matches. President Buhari's presence at the stadium will be form of motivation for the Super Eagles.

The minister who made the disclosure while speaking to NFF TV on Wednesday March 23, said it is not 100 per cent guaranteed that the president will attend the second leg, but he is likely going to be present.

“I was in Lagos yesterday (Tuesday) and the president (Muhammadu Buhari) ask me why was I not in Ghana and I realised that the president also knows that there is a Ghana match.

“He has not given me 100 per cent assurance but he is likely going to show up here (second leg) on the 29th as a surprise.”

Dare added;

“We know the antics of Ghana, I’ve gone to school because of the match in Ghana and when I say I’ve gone to school, I’ve researched Ghana, I’ve researched Kumasi, I’ve researched the games they’ve won, I’ve researched some of their players, every single scouting report has come to me.”

“We are lucky on two counts, the stars we have on the pitch they are very good boys and we are also lucky with the crew because of the experience you people have collectively on and off the field. We are not going to play a draw in Ghana, these guys should just go out because there’s insurance for their legs now.

“So I wish you the best, all I can do is pray and support you I had to give you a good pitch here I’m glad they (players) liked it.”

Speaking to the players, he said;

“Thank you sincerely for turning up for Nigeria. We have put Cameroon and the Cup of Nations behind us and the message after Cameroon is that if I could remember I said let us visit our anger on Ghana. We are not going to Ghana for a draw so you guys just do your thing it’s football.”

Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/president-buhari-likely-to-watch-nigeria-vs-ghana-second-leg-live-sports-minister-sunday-dare/

pls, he should not bother oooo

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