ChelseaArmy:


https://thenationonlineng.net/alleged-missing-9-5m-senate-gives-emefiele-72-hours-to-honour-invitation/

Missing! Asif its 200naira that you just misplace on the road. Can't they do forensic auditing abi shey he just disappear inside account ni.
Abi una da mad ni

If you didn't find out you will work and your life out till you die without finding out. Any explanation now is just an excuse. The wife's family are hungry set of family they are just manipulating her to get money from her and she herself didn't love you has she claimed

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

This is the height of it all. Even if she doesn't love you at first 6 years and she still get mind to do all of these to you. That's selfish of her and her family. They don't care that you exist at all. Baba you try, you are doing the best just face your children and ignore her and the family they are not worth your sincerity a bit later they will be shouting men are scum

Mordecai:
Just be consistent. Don't give in to her.

When it's mealtime, drop her food for her. After 15 minutes, pick it up and put it away till the next meal time when you re-serve it.

If it spoils, change it. Ignore her hunger-strike and make sure she always has water to drink.

Remember, she will not starve herself to death. She'll pick on and soon, when you come to remove the food you served, she'll start trying to eat it up fast so you don't remove it.

When she does that, stand by patiently and wait. As soon as she turns away from the plate, remove it without hesitation.

Be consistent.

Thank you I will try this approach

Walekennel:

ogami call ur vet

Thank you bro, I called the vet 2 weeks ago. He came around and gave dog b-co, treated the dog for thick because we saw some on her leg. The vet guy was even the one that suggested I get multivitamins that it will help her eat because he was confuse at the dogs actions self

Walekennel:

have u deworm her

Yes I have like 2 different times. The second time was last week. I even bought multivitamins which I give her every morning to help her eat but still she won't eat. She has been barking consistently for like 30mins now running after lizard and I don't know where the energy is coming from.

Another picture of Godsplan

Mordecai:
Damn!!

Looks like you got yourself a picky eater. Just know that she won't starve herself anyway.

Let us hope she isn't strong-willed enough to go on a long fast till you give her what she wants.

More grease to your elbows.

Exactly what a friend thats more experienced in dog breeding told me. Its just so sad because I go to the extent of getting her barbecue fish like 3 times a week, blood meal every weekend and cat fish almost all the time because I have a friend that does that business but she will just leak it and my neighbours dog ended eating them. Its just painful
But please is their a way around it?

Good afternoon everyone please I really need your help. My GSD ( puppy ) hasn't been eating very well since 2 weeks ago. I bought Booster 15kg she started eating it very at first but the bag is almost finished now and she has stopped eating. The only thing I noticed is that she's growing taller and longer. I mix raw egg with her meal everyday both morning and evening.
PS: she's very active and bark at every opportunity and she's just 5 month old.
Please see attached picture of her that I took yesterday.
She hasn't eaten anything today except water and even if she wants to eat she will only take like small out of all the kibbles

He be like say this your dog da smoke Igbo o. The way the dog da look self na like say them one shoot person bullet... beautiful dog

I became a father

The issue of the reversed transaction is 100%possible. I can remember i made a transfer last month and I was able to generate receipt but the recipient told me he didn't get it and to my surprise It was reversed after the third day. The person was almost tagging me a scammer too. Everything is purely a misunderstanding and I understand the situation of things in the country can make one get so angry especially when you have planned to use money and the money didn't come through. And Mr. B is just trying to be careful too... finally emabinu eyin mejeji��

theelimzy:





5k bro

This is still a HUGE amount to get that dog

Feeling free to message me, I can put you through. I am a lecturer of Computer science in Ondo state and I do web programming.

I will advice you use a belt collar for your dog to avoid injury to the neck especially when you Rottweiler is very aggressive..

Na everything people da eat for this our Nija. He tire me o. People da eat lizard again..smh

Greenarrow01:


My other dog is having wound in his face. The faced kinda peel he has been dull since.. the place kinda showing mucus mucus or something.

Vet came and said it is tick/flea infestation.
Thou karik is scratching his body, but I have always bath it with those ticks stuff and even severally poured oil (pour on) on it. I check regularly for ticks and I haven't seen one in weeks
Man told me that the ticks crawl under the skin.
I am tired.
There are no vets in Nigeria I swear.. most of them just go uni for going sake

I tell you they don't know anything, my first dog was killed by a vet. Dog was very sick and he came to give her routine shot and promised to come and treat her later. It was later I read that he wasn't suppose to give the shot when the immune system of the dog is down. To cut the long story short. The dog died after the third day. I am still pained till today. Dog was just 4month

iTroll:

Don't be an idiot.
Trump and the USA owe Nigeria nothing.
If they decide to withhold their aids to us, then I see no fault from them.
In a sane country, 1.5b dollars per year for several decades now is enough to set up a good and working nation. But Africa is still as poor as it was before the aids started.
Its not as if you're personally benefiting from the aids. 80% of Nigerians aren't.
See this black man judging another man on his own money.

God bless you

Force feed Roger with glucose and water. Don't give up, surely Roger will overcome

joeadoga:
Just when I thought my pup was recovering, she just passed, sadly.
I'm pained by this demise

Sorry about this, I understand the pain you are going through. When my German shepherd passed away too it was so heartbreaking

From what you said, it every possible its parvo. My dog had thesame issue last year I had to get a good vet. The dog was on drip for 3 days and the recovery process was slow but she made it. Eventhough she died some month later due to some other reasons but she survived parvo.

From what you said, it every possible its parvo. My dog had thesame issue last year I had to get a good vet. The dog was on drip for 3 days and the recovery process was slow but she made it. Eventhough she died some month later due to some other reasons but she survived parvo.

All this stupid public display I don't know what you stand to gain. Most of you will give 10people 10congo of rice and publicise it as if you have given 500bags.
Oga I know somebody in my street that distributed like 30bags of rice and 15bags of beans to the widows and single mothers in my street and she outrightly said nobody should snap the process. Can't you guys do something and wait for God's reward. That small bag that isn't upto 3000 naira u are using 150megapixel camera to snap to look as if you have done the world a great deal

Baba don go use style beg for favor again.. we will still know the reason later

seunmsg:


The operation of the office is fully computerized and all transactions are saved online with back up outside the office. Not a single essential data would be lost to the fire.

Are u a Nigerian? A country that snake is swallowing money. Bros wake up you are in Nigeria

OfficialJayy:
Just came across this tweet on twitter

Though its not wrong to ask for support, wouldn't it have been better if the FG sent an official letter to the individuals/institutions involved instead of begging on twitter??

If they could beg for 100 vents on twitter, can we really say we are ready for this fight?



https://mobile.twitter.com/FinMinNigeria/status/1245477375313416192

Shameless country. I will prefer to be a citizen of Ghana or SA than this useless country nigeria.

jokinexcel:
Where do you base, I have a dog I want sell at port harcourt. 1yr and some months old.

Can I see the pictures of the dog I am intrested

RYANAYO:


https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-angry-youths-burn-police-station-in-katsina/

Sincerely if I talk wetin da my mind he go be like say I be... let me sha not talk
Stupid,clueless and havoc causing set of people.

OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heel

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IG

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Drop the dirty girl now
She’s can’t stand your level of cleanliness. Na them da wear black bra cos he no da quickly show say he dirty

Trusting somebody you haven’t met online is like playing bet9ja..
I am sorry but we have scammers everywhere.
Maybe you should report him to Jiji on Instagram and Twitter with his deatils

I have personally reviewed Samsung a51. It’s a very good phone
Funny thing is it as better features than the ones you listed above.
Regards