Marvieduke: The Tiv's cultural lifestyle is polygamous right from their forefathers so his own is just like adding to list of their legends in polygamy.....
Afodot0022: Top of the morning to you my naira landers family, this year will be great for us all. Well am very sure most of you here would be familiar with my story for some time now, I have been separated from my wife for almost a year now and my two daughters have been with her since the separation, the reason for separation was the fact that i caught her cheating. It happened that my two girls have been with her cos i did not take custody of them knowing the fact they are girls by age 5 and 6yrs, I believe they will be properly cared for by their mother being same gender, all I do is send money monthly for their upkeep and also pay their school fees. The kids are the only reason i communicate with my ex wife and nothing else. Now it happened that she work with the correctional ministry and she got a memo to go for a mandatory 6months course at Enugu with immediate effect. I don't have any issue with that cos before we went our separate ways, I was aware that someday, she will be going for the course but not aware when that will be. When my ex wife got the memo, she didn't call me to inform me immediately about the new development and what she did baffles me, she took my two daughters to her parents place without carrying me along or getting my approval for that move. It was after she had taken them there and she also moved to Enugu was when she gave me a call and inform me about the development, I was really furious and angered that why will she take such action without carrying me the father of the kids along, this has always been major issue when we were married, she takes some decision without letting me know which i see as an act of disrespect, this are my kids that am footing their bills despite the fact they are not under my roof. Now after executing her action, she called and informed me and the new update and that the kids will need to be enrolled in another school and she expect me to foot the bill knowing how expensive it is to register kids newly to a school, and mind you, those kids will just be there for 6months and return back to their former school when she is back from the course after 6months. Now my decision is that I am not going to pay for any school fees neither will i send any upkeep money to her for the kids reason being that she never informed me about all this initially, though i haven't informed her about my decision yet and i have not called my in-laws concerning my kids cos am still very angry and mad at all of them. Infact i have decided for those 6month she will be away, i wont call her parent or talk to the kids. My plan is that when she gets back from her course, i will take full custody of my kids fully.. Under the law, i should be one with those kids if she is away and not her parents. Now i need experience people that have gone through such experience or people that have better insight to advice me on how to navigate about this if am decision is proper. Before i got aware of all this, whenever i want to pay my kids school fee, the person IN charge will chat me up and give me breakdown of the school fees, i was surprised that this January, the woman did not chat me up and when i chat her, it took her some time to give me the breakdown knowing fully well that the kids have stop coming to school, that was when i knew something was fishing. Thank God i didn't send the school fee money cos its well known to me that my ex wife planned with the proprietor to collect money from me. sorry for my long epistle. just need to say all so you guys will have a better clue about the situation.
Let me ask you this question:
WILL YOU ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO SUFFER BECAUSE OF YOUR WIFE ACTION?
Blakjewelry: She is right though some matured men still misbehaves. Normally I am more cooler now, like I can tolerate what I can't take during my early and mid twenties. Haba body dey hot that time na, wey babes dey rush you left and right na em one girl Wan make yanga? Lol
EreluRoz: Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;
- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.
- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).
- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.
- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.
- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.
- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.
Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own
CastingCrowns: I crushed on a guy for 11 years.. refusing to wake up and smell the coffee that the love was unrequited.. I took anything he dished because I felt If I was eager to please like a lap dog he would have mercy and look my way, he blatantly told me he delights in mind games and was playing it on me it was pathetic.. when my moment of epiphany came and I looked back at all the nonsense I took and did just to be noticed by him I just laugh.. 'love' smh.
SharingIsLife: For more than 24 hours, my internet wasn't working. If I tried to check my data balance, it would bounce back. There was no notice of data exhaustion from my network provider.
So, I decided to recharge all the same. Then, my internet kicked in, meaning that my data had finished but my network provider (MTN) failed to notify me.
This has been happening on both my Airtel and MTN lines. Plus, the incessant fake data exhaustion alerts I get while my data level is still above 5GB.
Has it been happening to others? Or, is it only me? If it's happening to many people, there's need for an outcry. So, Nlfp.mod please help.
NOTE: Any digression from the topic will be reported instantly because this is getting me really angry. These networks would frustrate me for hours before I realize what's going on.
if you see any abnormalities report your network provider to NCC.
Orionbelt: I have try writing this the first time but my phone tripped off, I don't know why. No one should make fond of me please, I am not dumb nor lazy, na me know wetin my eye don see. If you no nothing about this, please kindly pass.
I have been experiencing cobwebs for the past 8 years, ever since I was 17(the first time I gained admission into higher institution) ...since then, I have dropped out of two different schools willingly (nothing happened, I just walked out myself) ...I still can't explain that, all I can say is that I just lost interest. All this time I usually walk into cobwebs almost everywhere, it doesn't matter even if its on the highway. I was a very goofy kid, so I barely took it serious when it started, Some would say *your mind is playing tricks on you" which is same thing I would have said if it weren't me its happening to. This sh*t is real and it has made my life stagnant, at 24 I still feed from what my mom cooks, I stay with my parent. I use to be "the kid" when I was much younger but ever since the case of the cobweb started, things don't work out. If I am about to seal a deal or get paid, chances are that day I will run into cobweb, and its almost as if this force takes hold of the events and people In my life, manipulate them just so everything doesn't work in my favor. I try to be a man, I am still trying but every time I try to muster some more motivation, I get drawn back again, as the day goes by, I am believing more in the spiritual than the physical.... I have come to learn what we do in the physical have less to no impact impact, if the spiritual is against it.....I have make all kind of researchs about this and I get to understand it's witchcrafts powers... I haven't conclude yet even though all evidence seem to prove my results right, but that's why I am here, I need to hear from people that have experience similar issues or that knows someone with similar issue, I need your advice . P.s: if you can't relate, please kindly pass this post.
watch streams of Joy on YouTube everyday you'll get your miracle there.
janedonez: I did Beans farming to help sustain livelihood, unfortunately, the DD Force Chemical I applied destroyed all my Beans. I don't know what to do.
When I was offered the Chemical, I objected but the Dealer insisted that it was the appropriate Chemical to use, after going through the Label I also read that it can used plants such as Maize, beans and others.
What's the ratio of water you use in diluting the chemical?
Kokorokomaster1: Recently I meet a girl, she is 17 years of age why I'm 34 years of age, but the problem hear is that I love her, she accepted to be my girlfriend, I told her that I love her, but she's finding it difficult to tell me that she love me too, saying that what I mine going to do with it, she doesn't like to kiss or huge, saying that she has not done it before, I told her that I'm going to buy a phone for her, because she always show me that she has feeling for me, the way we're doing things is okay, I think that we love each other, should I wait for her to come of age or should I live her and look for another, or should I continue with the relationship and still be dating another girl in case of disappointment or is the age Gap too much
Dearest4: Please dear Daddy and Mommy, forgive me for bringing this here. am doing this because av run out of options and I don't have any other choice. My name is kelly, I gave birth to my boy Ayomide 2 years ago and since then it has been a rollercoaster of one event to another. My fiance abandoned us and I move in back with my parents taking care of my son all alone without any assistance even though he was always falling very sick all the time. I notice that he always feels discomfort when his trying to breath so I looked for money to take my son to the hospital. He was diagnosed with congenital heart defect, a hole in his heart, as the cause of his breathing problems. I've cried my eyes out but if only crying can solve problem. I can't stand to see my child in pain.
I've gone almost everywhere I can possibly go but no hope except for hospital. Doctors say that he will need to undergo surgery at UCH for N4.5million and my family with the help of some very kind hearted people have been able to raise part of N3 million. We have sold off almost everything valuable to us but it's not yet enough, that why I am appealing to well meaning Nigerians, if you're touched to save my son's life, please find it in your kind heart to extend a hand of help to him. Nothing is too small in the sight of God. Am calling kind hearted people, please help save my boys life. Please am also calling upon any NGO that can accept my sons condition please. May God almighty bless you immensely and wipe away sorrow from your eye. Amen.
YinkaOlusesi16: Our leaders then feared that enemies would come and bomb them in Lagos through the water, that's why they moved to Abuja which is now a bit closer to Boko Haram. 🤣🤣🤣
you are right. They thought South Africa will attack Nigeria because Nigeria was in forefront of fighting apartheid by supporting ANC then.
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