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Bitterleafsoup:
9Ja

My dear, after hearing the amount people carted away, and the number of people who died during Boko Haram insurgency, talkless of the blatant scam that happened under his nose (Immigration Job Scam) which lead to the death of some. I'm very surprise you're still shouting GEJ.

haryomikun:
And that's where you missed what I meant bro. I never said the blame shouldn't be on the presidents. I said it shouldn't be on the presidents ALONE.

You think I don't hate the way the white man behaves?? They are only trying to protect their selfish interest and the du.mabss africans are going along with them. That what's annoying me.... Africans going along with them. You can say all you want but Africans play a big part the cause of their problems. Its just like God hardening Pharaoh's heart. He ONLY HARDENED the heart. He didn't carry pharaoh to the Red sea.....

Do you want to tell me if Africa wakes up and realises he treasures, the whites will stop us?? They can only try.... The damage is done by ourselves.

In JS3 I used to be a guy who gave excuses all the time. I never took the blame and all my teachers complained about me. When I left secondary school, I resolved to change that ideology... Now, even if circumstances work against me and am not at fault at all, I'll simply say 'Am sorry" for an offence I didn't commit. It ultimately made me a more matured guy..

My point is,,, I try to even out the blame between both parties.... The root is the biggest part of the problem but that doesn't mean the branches and stem don't share in it too ......

I hope I made sense

You did.

postmann:
What a relief! Thought we have been stripped of another great woman. No doubt there are juvenile minds yet to grasp the true value of being a man. With time some of these boys will learn.

Aye! You see these minds everywhere, giving juvenile opinions about things they know not, just because they have the luxury of google.

Tell me Postmann, what can someone who is still being spoon fed by his parents know about marriage? When marriage in turn, reeks of responsibilities...

I'm amazed when someone who can not even pay his own school fees, talk less of accommodation, start spewing fancy words on marriage.

In as much as I welcome this news. I just hope this is not an attempt by the APC government to dissuade nigerians from the ongoing fuel price increase and of course, the high cost of living, currently plaguing the country.

As of today, Tomatoes and Atarodo is still very expensive...

Joavid:
you have to understand that the worst thing to ever happen to the African continent -slave trade and colonisation has fvvcked up Africans mentality and destroyed her self esteem.

the white man's religion is like a source of comfort to us.

we are still trying to figure out how to effectively implement the white man's educational system and government.

even money is new to black people.

everything we know and have is from the west (so this westernisation thing is stale news). the indigenous cultures we practice are those that are selfishly favourable to us.

anyway, the world is evolving, exchange of cultures is a natural phenomena but most times weaker cultures will be subdued by stronger ones.

So how would you suppose the black man retain his almost lost culture?

Lezz and postmann, once upon a time, I wrote this... Look at how far we've come?

Like seriously? We can't manage hydro and gas power plants, we want to now handle nuclear power plants Hmm, I hope Fashola isn't going to bite more than what he can chew, his imperialistic tendencies seem to be getting the better of him...

First and foremost, shouldn't the Boko Haram father be taken into custody, first, he was/is a Boko Haram member, second, he had sexual relation with a minor, third, he molested a minor...

Taking him everywhere his supposed wife goes, shows we play too much to sentiment in this country. Instead of this girl to be taken for serious counseling, she's busy traveling, and the media is busy making a frenzy out of it.

skarlett:
Its true most abused women aren't doing themselves good by staying but when the man is their major source of income, where can they go?

Back to their father's house. That's a good enough place to start from.

haryomikun:
I know the whites have a WHOLE lot to lose if Africa becomes liberated that's why I said we have so many stupid Africans. We are in The richest continent (resource wisely) and we are still the poorest (GDPA wisely) That's why I said Africa is a big joke

Besides, I have learnt to stop blaming people... Whites fuc.ked up by carting away africans but only a coward or misinformed person will blame them. Africans had a part in it too. It like putting the blame on only past Nigerian presidents for corruption. A lot of government officials contributed to it too

This is where you are myopic in your thinking. Yes, government officials are corrupt, not just presidents, but, if the presidents have made sure the agencies meant to fight corruption were effective and not docile, government officials, wouldn't have the nerve to steal.

As much as the white man has a history of setting the minds and characters of Africans backward, he deserve a share in the blame. His antecedents shouldn't be forgotten. Have you asked yourself why the white man fought Gaddafi so much, to the extent of sponsoring rebels, and killing him?.

We need a leader like Thomas Sankara, one who have the guts to spit in the face of the white man, and tell him to leave us be, and remind him how he has treated us so far. Ask yourself, why is the white man trying to hard to shove homosexuality down of throats, just like he did religion? Its all about control bro.

I hope this police officer's attitude is as pretty as her face, much like I could say for her colleagues, who shame themselves with attitude that even satan is afraid of.

Abdulhakeem7:
can u too tell us where was (were)the leader(s) of the christians wen wen America sent her troops to destroy Iraq,Afghanistan and Libya?

Is America a christian state? Do they have a christian leader?

postmann:
Sincerity is a very difficult road to thread for most women. Overwhelmingly most!

Never hit a woman!!! You'd make it easy for her. There are several ways to deal with her.

It's not possible to give a thousand likes to your post asking that question to that OP who posted a thread with pics of her sister being battered by her husband.

Aye. That's why most women kinda like men who lie to them and manipulate them. Funny how some women crave the truth, but after being dealt it, they never can handle it, as they usually respond with emotion.

The quoted post below was posted with emotion, instead of reason, in the aforementioned thread. All the more reason why I always tell my sisters, never to over step their bound with their husbands.

pucelle:
Even you?
What justifies a human being not a dog o,beating up his better half?

God bless the man that will flex muscles around my siblings or me, he is so dead

postmann:
You just confirmed what I know. I feel most ladies that have problems being sexually aroused during pregnancy might be those with menstrual issues and low sexual drive before pregnancy.

I've seen many women who carry their pregnancy with grace and are sexually active.

Aye!. But these women always want people to sympathize with them. They always like playing the victim.

Did you see that thread in front page? Where the OP said hiss sister was battered by her husband cos she refused him sex?

The question I asked the OP was, "is his sister pregnant?". Then I even wonder why a woman would refuse her husband sex in the first place. Funny how the OP omitted sensitive details just to gain sympathy from the unsuspecting, foolish nigerians who never ask, not just question, but the right question.

I'm not in anyway saying the husband was right for beating his wife, no!!! To me, only cowards beat their wives.

Lumpyy:
Gun blazing ke?see the beautiful post you wrote first?then go back to the thread if u have time and see how you were coming on to all the ladies that supported what you wrote yourself.
name calling?your posts assured me im a patient person,go check all d insultive words and assumptions you made. seeing what you just post to this Op makes it seem you were just in a bad mood earlier .

Excuse me lady, who started spewing the insults? Me or you and your friend BellaElla? I urge you to go back to page one and see for yourself, you started it, and I merely put you where you belong. Simple.

Your comments spurred my own comments so please stop trying to claim being the victim.

The emboldened shows you're one don't pay attention to what is being said, but jump head on and rant. Its all in the thread, I even posted the first comment I made just so you can see, but you choose to ignore.

Madam, saying I'm in a bad mood is you being sarcastic, I've been warming you, and you're edging me on. Please, don't push your luck. I won't repeat thiss again.

abeeceebee:
See How My Sister Was Bartered By Her Husband


A man did this to his wife all because she disallowed him to have intercourse with her. I don't usually post on nairaland but I enjoy reading the contents of nairaland forum, and that is why I felt it is the right place to bring this.

Why did your sister refuse her husband sex? Were they quarreling?

Lumpyy:
Ah bros....its the cause of the argument that spilled to this thread.VERY few of us feel what you read oo
Iv been pregnant 3xs :1st till 24wiks,2nd till 38 and d last till 40weeks and theres was no single day i craved IT.hubby does not even ask cos he sees how it is so i end up being the one begging cos i know say body no be wood .same with all my friends and gist from antenatal classes.
its y i told the fighter from that thread to stop generalising and telling the Op his wife is pretending.he said all the women around him are hot while pregnant and im saying i RARELY hear it so does all the ladies that came on the thread!

Ah... So much like you to mix what I said, when you quoted me half of the thread and started spewing what you don't know about.

joseph1832:
This is among the reason why I always advice couples to be free minded, and also to be proud of their sexuality.

OP. I'll advice you to sit down and speak with her, open up and tell her your mind, not in a disrespectful way, but in a gentle way. Let her know your feelings, and yearning. If you guys are the type who engage in MouthAction, then by all means, if she doesn't want penetrative sex, then may be MouthAction would be okay. And if the answer is still no, then my friend, I believe the onus falls on you. I'll advice you to _masturbate (no offense intended) its way better than even thinking of cheating on her, than cheating on her.

Don't let societal norm and religious doctrine and dogma delude you. Its your marriage, and you have it in your hands.

This is my humble advice.

Postmann, ishilove, the above was my first post on that thread, lumppy and her elk didn't see it, but decided to jump in the discourse my self and the OP were having.

As at then, I was with my friend and his wife, I showed his wife the thread and she told me its a lie, from what she herself experience, cos she was always Hot. I made that known in the thread, but hey, lumppy still decided to go on, and on.

What you and your friends feel is different from what others feel, I've asked women who were pregnant before, not just married ladies, but baby mamas as well. Some say they're Hot, some say they aren't, but most said they were. That's why I told the op, if he isn't getting sex, he should masturbate, simply. Only for lumppy to come gun blazing.

Madam lumpyy, don't call me names, after that episode, I don't remember calling you names. I'm not in the mood to start calling you names. A word is enough for the wise!!!.

Ishilove:
A woman who doesn't like MouthAction will have to submit herself, shey?

Why are you men so insensitive? A man who cheats on his wife during her vulnerable period is not a man but an animal on two legs

Have you watched a woman birth a child?? If no, I suggest you do.

Which woman wouldn't love to be given a head? That's why I'll damn well make sure I'll get married to a woman who is proud of her sexuality, and very open to way of having sex, that others who are too gaddamn righteous would frown on.

The emboldened is your opinion dear. But still, there are other ways a man can have sex with his wife is pregnant, other than cheating.

Ishilove:
Joseph, God keep us alive and well, I will ask you about your sexual status when your wife is in her 3rd trimester.

A man should disturb a woman who feels like she's carrying a truck in her tummy, enduring back aches and hot flashes for sex? Joe, you ehn

When you get there I will love to know how you handle it. Pray make you na marry person like me. I wee finish you

Okay, It might shock you to know that when that time comes, my wife will know what its like to have a very knowing man like me for as husband.

GSKing:
Shut the fück up, bloody attention seeker.

Temper temper dear. Gosh! Such words... I understand not what you meant, by calling me 'attention seeker' when I merely told you the truth LOL.

Lumpyy:
Eh oga pls ignore Mr Joe joe when he mentions me!how is this thread similar to a concerned hubby asking how pregnant women feels?his wifes preggies for the first time and cant DO but Mr joe said she must be pretending and inconsiderate cos all pregnant women are HOT .and he said he was talking from experience...hahahah!
ohh sorry postmann for bothering you with a reply as am just seing your post to the link he sent u,u call people foolish for speaking dia mind?welldone sir!

calliope:
Because you're an homophobe.... Nah they are coolest cos they didn't make a big deal from it, except my mom who obviously got over it and showed my so much love..
Believe it they r, family is everything mate.

Homophobe? Me? Nah. Calling me a homophobe mean you're a heterophobe yourself. only peeps who don't care to understand where a person is coming from jump into conclusion, like you just did.

Anyway, enjoy, just be aware that the laws of the land supersede that of family laws. Like I said, tread carefully...

calliope:
Oga Joe, if you know me real life, you won't be asking me that question....
Like I said only my family and persons close to me knows.
And since they are cool, nutin matters

Then why not let me know you real life? If your family know you're gay, and they didn't flip their lid, men, your family sure is one heck of a family.

I still find it hard to believe that a typical nigerian family will accept this, expect your parents schooled abroad and they're that very liberal minded.

calliope:
I Like, share and participate in lgbt issues on Facebook
Like I said I don't Go shoving my sexuality on people, cos it's No one's biz.... The most important thing is people close to me both online and everyday knows and accept me,
What else should I ask for?
Sing it out loud to people who don't have an idea who I am to prove been open

So you're tell me, your dad, your mum, your uncles and aunties, your nephews, nieces, and relatives, know you're a lesbian?

Well I'd have bEen surprise if she isn't a mother. One can't expect a girl to be kidnapped for so long and hope she'll come back same as she was.

lezz:
Are you really African American?

Been wanting to meet one

In person, or online? Lol. Anyway, I hope Obama's visit doesn't have anything to do with LGBT talk... I can just imagine Buhari going all emotional at him. Lmao.

haryomikun:
You're a myopic thinker and a sentimental African sir....
You think like Black Americans...
I used to be like you,,,, always blaming whites for the s.hit they caused but G, the earlier we realise africans can get their s.hit together and show the world we are independent of them, the better for us.

That's why I laugh at the Say No to racism thing I see everywhere... If blacks are as smart as we claim, we'll be the racists, not the whites....

LOL. Here you are calling me a sentimental african, and a myopic thinker, when you can't even smell your own narrow mindedness.

Tell me, if one is faced with a problem, I suppose one can solve that problem kissing the ass of the very people who caused the problem right.

I'll have you know, that in solving a problem, one must go back to its roots, and find out where one went wrong. From the era of slave trade, to that of segregation, to that of balkanization of Africa, to that of colonialism, and now, neo- colonialism, we must ask ourselves what went wrong? Not put square pegs in round holes like we use to.

Any smart man will know the whites stand a lot to loose if we Africans become liberated, both in mind and thoughts, have you asked yourself why the British handed over power to the people in Northern Nigeria?.

najib632:
Guy am damn serious. The only reason sucide bombing and terrorism has been successful its because of hatred Muslims have against the west a the terrorists think they're truly dying in for God's sake, if terrorism was not being controlled by MOSSAD atleast everyday there's going to be sucide bombing in a either America,UK or Isreal. If those terrorist truly represented Islam they would have invaded Isreal by now and all the U.S. Military barracks in Iraq and Afghanistan will be attacked everyday. Does it make sense to you now?

Nope. Will still ask you to provide me with evidence about how you came about this findings...

booqee:
as in ehhh... the thought alone disgusts not to talk about the act.. na dem sabi

LOL. Well straight peeps still have anal sex, but I'd want to believe there's a vast difference between shagging a guy's ass, and shagging a girl's ass.

The thought of imagining those hairs sticking outta a guy's ass, like a cat's whiskers, is repulsive. Yuck!.