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miblolo:
Loosing the excess weight ll definately help,it ll reduce the size of her neck circumference as such the snorring.
Besides what happened to the"for better for worst" that u re complaining of simple snorring?

So because of for beta for worse the hubby should be kept awake all nite by a snoring wife and rendered useless the next day unable to focus on his work the next day and lose a good income by making avoidable errors on the job due to bad sleep?

Parkview estate is well organised security wise and I remember a police commissioner told me as early as 2001 that it is a safe estate.

amen estate eleko is great in the leki axis as it has a full in-house ,mobile police unit living within the estate 24 7.

Nigeria will reject this criminal who luckily knows he should be everywhere but Nigeria.omo ale,omo ofo.

but why are we pretending not to know that many many married women are having extramarital sex.u have a decision to make my friend.strt sleeping with her with condom and do dna test on ur kids.dont be in a hurry to divorce her.just know she is seeing other men and take precautions.

I am a lawyer,buhari is very right.kanu and dasuki will run away but what buhari should do is to ensure they are given maximum comfort in a maximum security prison.they should be allowed acess to their wives and cooks and doctors and relatives because they are both political prisoners in a way.the judges ought to have taken inot cognisance the sensitive nature of their offence and refrain from giving an order in vain.even in the usa,the pentagon has refused to close the guatemano prison where terrorists are held.

she is a LovePeddler.they simply follow the money or the scent of money

im proud to be a lawyer.this is a very sound judgement/reasoning.

I don't like dele momodu but I support him completely on this.101percent.thumbs up for u dele.i will do more for my own cousin/niece.

since dasuki is a key suspect,why cant dss allow doctors to acess him and gave him a room to meet his wife evry now and then.no point in being cruel to him.

are they forcing anyone to pay the 1k?.if by now u are sure the church is not the church of Christ, you wont want to enter the church again.

diminished physical attributes makes me laugh.her pussy no tight again or wetin diminish,dis davido na mad boy o.let the sophie sue him for defamation if indeed the pussy no diminish and she can prove it.

this guy is omo baba olowo.why not get 10 SANS and teach your enemies a very bitter lesson. With all the flaunting, the Sophia get only 300 times 12 plus 200 and you are omo baba olowo.sophie u owe dis guy a duty to make his life very very miserable.omo ale.she took advantage of him.soro niyen.u dey Bleep the pussy meant for your fathers and now u no wan bear the burdens meant for your fathers.omo ale.

Docmann:
Have to create a New Nick for this,Just to hide My identity.Please am not begging anybody to believe this life experience i just wrote down

here, Rather for all to be careful with who ever you are having an unprotected sex with in life, either male or female...Please pardon my Use of

words and spellings.

A friend of mine Visited me in my office,we started discussing as usual, along the line he brought up his personal issues just to get some idea from

me. He told me how he was having serious issues with his Girl friend he loves so much, in the area of him Putting on a CD during Love Making. He

told me that it has been causing so much problem for the both of them in his relationship, because the Gf dont like her guy using CD to make

love to her, because she felt like she is a prostitute and she dont enjoy it, rather she prefer raw Love making..He told me that he would have

love to do it raw, But if he does it he will surely release inside her and his not ready to have a baby for now, That he can only do it raw when

she has fully becomes his wife..They have been dating for like 6months now,they have only made love about 4times, but most times it always

end up in quarreling between both because of the CD Thing, though she works and stay far from him..The pressure was becoming so much on

him from this lady he love, so i advised him to take the lady to the hospital to run blood and pregnancy test on her, that's one condition you will

only give to her before you can Make love with her raw without using protection if she agrees okay. He called me on the phone after some days

gone by, he told me that His Gf refused to follow him to the hospital, that she only brought a pregnancy test to show it to him that she is not

pregnant. He was so confused, yet still blinded by real love for the lady, but something in me kept telling me that the lady is up to something

bad, so i have to do everything to make sure he stays away for sometime from the lady before he might fall into the lady request, so that i can

be able to figure out what to do just to help him out...I Finally figured out a way for us to be fully sure that she dont have any problem inside

her, I told my friend to invite her during this xmas holiday,plead with her and tell her you are now ready to do raw love making without CD with

her, That when she comes we will drug her favorite drink she likes, when she dose off, i will now take little of her blood just to put on the Hand

made easy blood Test Device..We both agreed on that, he called the lady and invited her to his house, she was so happy coming to spend some

days with her man..She came around, she was introduce to me by my friend, her laughter was so natural,very friendly to be with,tall and very

beautiful in nature. We really discussed a lot, i distracted her from not paying attention to my friend while he was pouring drink for the 3 of us,

drink was served by him,i rushed mine pretending to be going home because it was getting late in the night,she drank hers hoping to see me off,

but after some few minute she started feeling dizzy, i knew it was the effect of the drug. She slept off, i quickly took little sample of her

blood, i tested her blood immediately, you wont believe what i find out, The result was HIV Positive showing clear for we to see, i did the test

4times in front of my friend still the same, he almost fainted. I check his, it showed Negative..This happened a day ago, I stayed with him all the

night, just to make sure he dont do anything nasty to the lady. She woke up after like 40min,she saw little stain of blood in one of her thumb,

but couldnt take it serious, she was so shock to see me, because she thought i have already gone home, she asked me wont i go home is

already late in the night. I said, am sleeping here tonight because i have a lot to discuss with your guy..She changed her mood,she went inside

the room to sleep, I and my friend were awake all through out in the parlor..Morning time, guess she faked an urgent call she parked her things

back inside her bag, demanded for some money,which my friend did gave her enough, off she went away..I Felt weak and down, for breaking

there relationship and also for treating the lady in such manner in other to find out her hidden agenda..My conscience has been disturbing

me,though my friend thanked me a lot and now sees me as a Guardian Angel.... But please Guys,Ladies be careful of who you want to have an

unprotected Sex With, HIV IS REAL and is not written on each person forehead...But lets keep showing much love and care toward all the

affected ones, hoping sooner,wishing one day there cure will come and they will bounce back healthy again.

does it ever occur to u that u have committed a crime and if caught u are certainly going to jail. Drugging her is a crime, taking a blood sample of her without her consent is a violation and assault. If you and your nairaland people knows the definition of a crime, you wont come her to say all this and this naira land people will not allow their platform to be used to aid and abet a crime.

please when and where will ur burial ceremony takes place so oshibande can represent the fed govt.

Beckybeky:
I just wanna know. Does a sacked worker have a right to be paid for that month or they forfeit it?

when sacked or dismissed you remain entitled to payment for the work already done but u will jot be entitled to gratuity unless your contract of employments specifically states you are still entitled to same in the event of a sack.

udysweet:
Toks! Toks!! Toks!!! How many times I call you sir? Nsido? Easy man and stop bashing the female folks jo,lol

if u truly have Christ,,this will not be your opinion.to say a hundred naija girls are the same even from the same tribe or family or from the same school is wrong.there are good babes.pls let the christ in you help u find one and stop troubling your life with lies of the devil.who doesn't like money and you that is testing,could u survive one single test of your Christianity should JESUS attempts to test u.marraige is beautiful ,it depends on who u go along with into it.when goat fellowship with sheep,problems must Nigerian men are very poor in communication,too large ego,ur babe cant tell u the sex is bad and if she does ur ego is bruised rather than thanked her and work on your fucking skills.

Setaje:
Nobody can tell me this guy was not dating her before his wife died. Laye laye. Op the comments you munched are not complete o. There was a comment of the late wife's cousin who said they have been seeing this guy and his new gf together long before his wife died. Na wetin my mama dey always talk. No man is what dying for and women are their own worst enemy.


Look at that actor that was caught red handed marrying another woman in lagos while still married in porthacourt. Some weeks ago I read that the man is finally married to a different lady. How can any woman marry that man after everything. Look at 2shots. Two women cannot accuse you of beating them just like that yet he is already flaunting another lady he will beat too. I wonder if this women have parents o.

unless u work on ur mindset,u are going to have a raw deal with men.uve allowed yourself to believe a lie,that no man is worth dying for and there are in fact millions of men worth dying for.this is how folks set themselves up for failure unknowingly.for every bad man there is also a good man if only u open your mind and your eyes.

this doctor,this junior doctor is an idiot.there is a time to disobey ungoldly orders and damn the consequence and im sure this idiotic syncomphant doctor goes to church regularly and read about how daniel refused the instruction to pray to a foreign god and kept on praying as before to YAWHEH.your gulity conscience that brought you to nairaland should rather take you to the creator of that lady that died,what if she is your junior sister or cousin or relative,would u not have ignored the senior dr order.uve sown an evil seed,stupid dr.

the babe do no want u to have the space to Bleep her.dont u get.its a pity u are not me.i tell u point blanc u ar coming to b bleeped so no friend comes along wit u.

407. emrain(m): Quote Post
since when has marriage become an achievement? bros just get a Yoruba baby mama instead... obo go tire you sef.



my brother,marriage could be an achievement if it is peaceful and inspires others around you.it is not just about obo.if it is all about obo for you ,then you dont even need to marry.this baby mama idea is a short cut that cuts short.if you grow up in mama papa peaceful home,u wont even take baby mama is an option.u he a son or daughter with a babe you are not married to and who freely goes about fucking other men while your son/daughter drinks fanta in the sitting room and who sees different man comes in and out of your baby mama's bedroom.The effects of all this on your baby is why we say NO TO THE BABY MAMA OPTION.

this is a simple matter.if your result is not fake and you have been expelled on a wrong premise,quickly ask your lawyer to file a suit using the fundamental human rights procedure which is quicker and cheaper and you dont even have to appear before the judge at all.once the court papers are served on the school,they will backtrack on your issue,stop wasting your time begging them.

kaeforum:

There's no such thing as the right person, u must take a leap of faith , this talk of waiting for the right person is a ploy to delay ones wedding, people who say they re waiting for the right person aren't ready for marriage.




my brother there is a wrong person.you dont desire peace in your marraige and marry a covenant,comitted prostitute who is already convinced the way out of financial need is to lie down and get bleeped and get paid and this is what is happening in most marriages today.wives Bleep other men to meet legitimate needs in their young family,usually an ex moneyed bf.

[b]obi123:
May God bless you , Marriage is a massive task , it is the biggest effort you will have to make that can last a lifetime .
so many people are married and are still lonely, are childless, are loveless, are penniless, are miserable and the worst thing some arent even getting any (if you know what i mean).
They are just living with someone with whom on a certain day they called friends and family and made elaborate declarations of which they have zero belief in .
Marrying late is not necessarily a bad thing , i married at 36 and good lord i wouldnt have coped if i had married in my 20's , i realise now that i knew nothing then, right now i am a grown WOMAN ,i deal with things differently in a more diplomatic way than i would in my 20's, more patient, i am bringing more to the table , i am accomplished in my career and in my life in general, i now know my priorities and this helps me focus only on important things ,i went into marriage knowing myself as a human being, knowing how i want to be treated .
while single it is important to educate yourself, improve yourself, read up, take time to fully understand who you really are so that you dont waste your years being someone else, dont waste your single years sleeping around and exposing yourself to all sorts .Your old age will reveal the kind of life you lived in your youth.
Ask yourself will you marry YOU? i.e will you marry your type of person if you were someone else , start there
Use your single years to actually understand your OWN personality, a lot of people dont even know who they are , they have multiple personalities which confuses even they themselves , Find out what you actually like , write it out if it helps ? this will help you determine who you are most likely to get along with , whats your type? be realistic and honest in every way
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This is most brilliant, experiential and factual.u should be a marriage counsellor.thumbs up.

[b]Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Amhappy(f):
Dear,I believe that God has a plan for every one. Some will meet their partner in their twenties,thirties,forties etc. A bad relationship today means you found another way to know better person. However there are some relationships mistakes egs;dating only your age mates,dating for long without definition,dating in secret,dating only hooked people,waiting for a man thrown down from heaven . There is also ladies who are so focused,a friend of mine refused to consider marriage till she gets a good job and 8yrs after graduation,she's yet to get to good job,I can count about 10men my younger sister for flimsy reasons turned down that are now married. I remember one the was rejected for having big lips and now we fast and pray for her. Bro,my advice is out of experience. For those who are not so lucky;pray and look out for people who are serious to settle down. Where I come from family and friends still recommend potential partners so assess those options too. No everyone will have the magnetic love story.
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This is another comment founded on wisdom.thumbs up sister.GOD INDEED HAS A PLAN FOR INDIVIDUAL & thinking it will be like the plan for the next man is to live and die frustrated.

ifeanyiLoveday:
Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. Covenant cannot be broken while contract can be broken.

only jesus marriage between two virgins is a covenant,the rest are contract.you better shine your eye and be prepared to do away with the marriage that will lands you in prison or mortuary or assylum.AND IM A LAWYER AND A BELIEVER.

Family / Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Toks2008(m): 8:30am
manie:
Same here, getting married early in other to have your grandchildren at 50 can only be determined by God. A lady in my church got married at 24 and did not not have child until 14 years after marriage while some of her friends who got married at 30 have gotten their own babies. The should not be a competition for the youngest to have children, but as responsible and informed people we should invest and build solid foundation that will give our children a good headstart in life. Some the endowment funds, trust accounts and investments made on behalf of my children should definitely by His grace give my boys a good headstart wheather I am alive or not.




[b]THIS IS THE BEST,WISEST COMMENT OF ALL .OBVIOUSLY this guy [/b]has a balanced perspective on life.u can marry at 20 & GOD gives u a child at 70.what you must do is to live/invest in such a way that your kids LIVES ON after your exit and keep on remembering you with gratitude &joy.im a lawyer.i have more than enough of divorce briefs and yet they still comes in in droves .it is not just about getting married,it is about staying married.a young married lady of 33,pregnant for a banker of 35 whom sh dated for 8 years cannot even wait to birth her present pregnancy to divorce the guy.

Zico5:
It is imperative to marry at the right time. If u see anyone still single at 37 then such person need to check his life very well cos something is missing. After marriage u ll begin to blame urself when u see how small ur kids re compare to ur age. Many don't know but this is reality.

as rev oyhakilome said,u dont compare yourself or anything about u to any other thing but the word of GOD.and whoever does compare himself with any other thing than the word of GOD is a fool.

FisifunKododada:
Marriage is NOT mandatory. I repeat marriage is NOT mandatory. Its a cultural expectation. Like believing in God or going to church or mosque. There is nothing intrinsically NEEDFUL about it. And if you enter marriage out of desperation, you will be more likely to end up with one of these very numerous one-chance marriages that will cut your lifespan by half. Be a man. Think for yourself and stop worrying too much about people's and cultural expectations. If you die now, none of these people disturbing your life will agree to join you 6 feet under. Wise up bro.

marriage is not mandatory so dat u can continue to fisi fun ko do dada.OJU E A JA

harbeedaymee:
There is no such thing as late marriage. There are different times and seasons for everyone

you are right and wrong.for a lady desirous of having kids,the right season will be anytime before she enters menopause and for her every other season after menopause may not be the right season again.

for a man ,since he procreates till death day,all seasons may be the right season.

repogirl:
This story will still blow open, I am very sure of it.

Buratai's half hazard attempt at a cover up cannot work.

He says the soldiers are to protect lives, property and curb lawlessness but they did the exact opposite.

Till date the army cannot show evidence of how they were attacked or evidence of attack or one soldier that was injured or killed when the shiites attacked them.

The Nigeria army that love to take pictures of their spoils have not one single picture to show except for the one where they shot the shiite leader and they expect us to believe their bullshit?

Buratai's thinks he is smart, soon he will outsmart himself. He thinks he is supreme and powerful and his army has to answer to no one.

Okay, we will see.

even if he is not smart ,he is still ahead of you and will always be going by your reasoning.is it smart waylaying an army convoy,i would have ordered all of them killed.

if the armoured jeeps given to buhari tallies with the ways and manners previous cars were given to him alongside other ex presidents,then I have no problem but if it is shown that buhari's cars were not due for a change when the cars were given and those cars are not duly documented by the appropriate agency and if it is shown that NSA is not the office that ordinarily gives such,then buhari should submit himself for investigation.TO fight corruption,buhari like Caesar's wife must be completely above suspicion. The law is that buhari can be investigated while he is in power but can only be prosecuted after he leaves office.

who tells u that the boyfriend doesn't know about it.u think its every son that is not also a pally to his dad. What if the bf sets her up for the dad to enjoy while pretending to love her while he is busy with an oyibo girl abroad. The bf ,the dad and d niece is not complaining ,only u has a problem, drinking Panadol for niece/ bf's headache. If the dad even marries her, and he dies, who inherit the wife and the dad's properties?