₦airaland Forum

Those who advice u not to be open wit your wife are killing u if ur wife is a tit for tat person. What is left of marriage when you are not transparent with each other.you didn't make it clear from the onset that your siblings are matter of priority and to be sincere were u not discussing your brother in despicable terms to her before. Women has a way of knowing who u don't joke wit.be careful o.if u hide something from her and she go diidcover and slaughter u while u sleep, all these advisers no go dey there o.count the devils she has and start casting them out one by one.

So let tompolo declare war on Nigeria so that our soldiers can show him.newly acquired skills.rather than show up release many billions and get to keep some.somebody should tell him about Napoleon. Even the great Napoleon was eventually caged.I admire keyamo courage.

The prosecutor belongs to government in all country and is necessarily a representative of the state and Thats why you see cases titled state vs abacha.it is the judge that must not be seen on either the side of the government or the other party to a case.if buhari.needs to be investigator a private prosecutor will be enlisted as wax done for Clinton in the Lewinsky affair.it is in our interest for all of us to support buhari in this anti corruption fight.I stand with magu on this.

das how some men die prematuredly.why woo the one that is stuuborn.why not relish the one that is willing.that will never regret dating u.

. A situation where the Ministry could invite a Management Staff to a trip abroad without informing the DG and the Staff would only inform her principal via text message, from the Airport as she is leaving the country, creates an atmosphere of indiscipline and anything goes. The Ministry should restrain itself to its spelt out function and not undermine the authority of the DG.


this reminds me of unilag when a prof and head of dept was informed by a staff under him that she is now a professor .and it is the hod that ought to first know and communicate the news to her.


and someone called nigeria a zoo and was locked up.

until she stabbed you in the neck and u are certified dead,it is only then a lawyer can say if you married a wrong wife.this is how the other idiot waited for the second stab before returning the wife from hell back to the sender.be4 it is too late,reasses your choice and either affirm your choice or dissaffirm it.

why will a man remain married to an unkind woman.the one that killed her hubby showed definite murderous instinct/traits and the idiotic hubby ignored it.

Toks2008:
All over the world,women divorce their hubbies for so many reasons but statistics have shown that infidelity tops the list especially in this part of the world where polygamy has become the norm,but the question is;does it make sense for a lady to divorce her hubby over infidelity when same man can as well decide and indeed marry more wives?

I want ladies to understand this one vital point that most and i mean MOST HUSBANDS will cheat on their wives even if they are married to angels and the fact that your husband cheats on you does not mean he does not deeply love and desire you.

Please don't get it twisted...Not all men cheat and adultery is a sin before GOD and all adulterers be a man or woman shall end up in hell but i am not here to preach any sermon but to face reality head on.

Many ladies are always quick to say they can not stand an adulterer as a husband and some will threaten to rain fire and brimstone on a philandering hubby but in case you discover your hubby cheats on you please what would you do?

1.Would you rather leave your marriage, remain single and celibate for life?

2.Would you rather leave your adulterous hubby and start sleeping about with other men who are probably randy or husbands of other women?

3.Would you keep changing the new man to start all over with another if he also cheats on you?

4.Would you prefer to stay with an adulterous hubby and also shamelessly philander about in the bid to seek a revenge?

5.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby,live a decent lifestyle and focus on your life and that of your children and just see him as a sex partner warning him to use protection if he must eat out?

6.Would you prefer a sexually decent hubby to take a new wife because he says he hates sleeping with random women?

Please don't answer with "none of the above because if you are in that position,you will certainly be faced with an option.

This is what i want many married ladies to know and i can't stress it enough..There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop a man to be polygamous either by sleeping around or taking a second wife "IF" he wants to and you can't even nag him out of it but In order to have a good stand if your hubby cheats on you,be a good wife first by being very humble,GOD fearing,Excellent cook,Financially independent,a crazy LovePeddler only to your hubby then watch and see.

Many ladies make some adulterous hubbies feel too important.Don't even think about worrying your head about your husband's fidelity but warn him to use protection if he must keep mistresses...i bet he will be so scared that he will sit up. Unfortunately many ladies just give their husband an excuse to have that Alpha ego whenever they rant and give them heat over an inconsequential emotionally vulnerable side dish.

There are more interesting things in life so please don't spoil your fun by hinging your happiness on your hubby's infidelity to you..trust me,If every married lady can care less if her husband cheats and just focus on developing her life and that of her child(ren),how happy many marriages will be. Its not difficult,,its a thing of the mind.

Hope this makes a little sense.

yes it does but the greater sense is to divorce a spouse if u cant cope rather than stab him or her to death while sleeping.a lawyer-wife just did that cos the hubby has ababy with another babe in france.

she will win if no misconduct is proven against her

is he not better off testing the prison walls and rooms and environment and routine?

Jdesilentkiller:
Don't get it twisted we have different SANs in this country.....
Follow follow SAN
Chop make I chop SAN
Corrupt SAN
Almijiri SAN
Shameless SAN
Authentic SAN
Never won a case SAN
SAN for hire SAN

Jeess they are many to mention.....

SAN is no longer respected after the show of shame they partook in during Saraki's CCT trial....If you are as good as you claim to be as a SAN...only one or two can handle any case in Nigeria......

But as usual they trooped out to support a colleague (partner in shady business) just to save their own assssss when it reach their turn, as none of them is clean, to face the real music...........

God please save the poor who can't afford 90 iddiots to intimidate justice.

LOL.something tells me,you are one of us cause your classification and categorisations sounds most knowledgeable .i will be moving for an offical adoption of these categories.u really makes me laugh today after the vexed experience i had in court this morning.

solid3:
25 SANs were disgraced at the Supreme Court, Tarfa said its not enough that more SANs need to be disgraced at a lower court he showed up with 90 SANs. OK.

this is new on us,when and where were 25 SANS disgraced at the SUPREME COURT.?

naphcoco:
You guys don't get it, do you? EFCC, ICPC are now machineries BUHARI uses to perpetrate his crude, lawless means of fighting corruption. The 90 SANs are there to give solidarity to one their own, because, it could have been anyone of the 90. The procurement of Tarfa's bail ahead of time, is a clear indication that, Tarfa and his 90 SANs are well ahead not just a step. The fact of the matter is, Mr President allows his emotion and feelings precedes his common-sense. So many presidential statement. Saying on national dailies that the Judiciary are his problem, is quite an embarrassing statement from a President. Buhari has educational challenge. Democracy is no miltary.

it may interest you to know it is only on ceremonial occasions like the burial of a colleague that you get to see QUEENS COUNSEL in this large number.SAN is not conferred to create yet another labour union within the Nigeria bar association and it is the NBA that ought to apply to the court as interested party in this matter if indeed the putting of a lawyer on trial will do more harm than good.it may interest you to know this is not the first time and coincidentally ,the last time was also in respect of the same person.i have said it before ,those of us who live in glass houses need be more cautious than the rest living in stoneshouses.i have opined that the lawyer involved need to downscale and downplay the entire drama,obviously my advice must have been considered very very unworthy and hence the escalation.

let no one be left in doubt against my dislike for impunity and gestapo style of dss/efcc as i have openly with millions of viewers hearing and seeing condemn in strong terms the way and manner dasuki was being handled.let everyone researched the ways and manners our colonial masters went about arresting people or dismissing civil servant.They do so using real beautiful words to get you arrested ,handcuffed and dismissed and that is the change i want to see in Nigerian,i want civility.i pray this matter gets to the supreme court so that the sc can pronounce on the propriety or otherwise of 92 SANS crowding the court,crowding out other court users.

989900:
Growing up, we rarely heard or see SANs, we knew of the Ganis (even Gani was not a SAN until recently), Afe, Rotimi Williams, and a few reputable and respected others -- what the fxck happened?

this is the pain.well intentioned things lands in nigeria and they become another thing.the other day,we heard a lady lawyer was seriously assaulted by a SAN in court reducing the female counsel to the level of his housewife in speech and in court and these are the things you never get to experience from a QUEEN'S COUNSEL in UK where the idea of SANSHIP was borrowed from.like father mbaka said when goodluck met naira or anything ,that naira or thing becomes badluck.may everything we nigerians touch not become badluck to us in the mighty name of jesus.

The conferment of SAN was meant to epitomise and to symbolise the best that could ever come out of lawyering,in speech,in silence and in conduct.
1 would rather have it remain the way it used to be,you get a chance to meet a SAN and that single experience kept you in awe for a very longtime after the meeting.


we are getting real scared,sometimes ago,we felt being a professor is worth attaining until we are exposed to the made in nigeria professors and every appetite to be a professor was taken away from us right in the middle of the attempt,now are our apetites to be SAN going to be negatively affected again,yet again ,in the very middle of the pursuit? .

i am not happy.

The judge was quoted to have said it and if true,i also align with the opinion of the judge!

The trial judge bemoaned the number of counsel who were in court for the defendant. She noted that there was no need for such magnitude of support as it amounts to harassment and intimidation of the court.

I predict,very soon those involved will convince themselves there is a better way for someone on trial to be stoutly defended than this type of scenarios we dont get to see in other part of the world .When we do things meant to arm twist and force people to go in the direction we urged,even against their will,we are unwittingly involved in witchcraft and when we give the impression that should some person be wrongly or rightly put on trial,woe betides the law,we do more harm than good by attempting to overwhelm the process.!

The end result of all these may unwittingly bring to the fore,questions that are better left unraised.

FLAKARIBE:
please be warned of the dangerous effect of alcohol intoxication and swimming pool don't mix well. if you want to indulge in one stay away from the other. I have certified a few like that. Rip oga popo.

correct.life guards and notice bpards at pool should warn folks not to swim if tired or drunk ,

Being a northerner she knows the university is a glorified secondary school and will not be the same as chairman of council unilag.

IF HE TRULY SAID THAT,it means yet another fool has been made a minister.the okonjo iwealla who said that,let her give us her account balance as at today and tells us if she would have that much in her account,if she had remained with world bank without ever being in government as a minister.

http://eprints.covenantuniversity.edu.ng/3249/1/Folarin%202.pdf

Corruption, Politics and Governance in Nigeria
By
Sheriff Folarin, PhD
Senior Lecturer and Head of Department
Political Science and International Relations
Covenant University, Canaanland, Ota.

babyfaceafrica:
lawyers and judges are part of the problem in this country..no morals at all,all what is the way forward?

the way forward is for the laws of Nigeria,like any other law of any other country to be an ass and a respecter of no person.once you runs foul of the law,the law should take its course not caring even if heavens will fall.how i wish GOd gave me the calling of JUDGE,3200 SANS in my court on a matter will make me determined and makes me strictly determined to apply the law.like someone said here "won ti po to".

anybody should come here and show us where in other country you put a senator on trial and scores of senators follow him to court and where you put a lawyer on trial and scores of SENIOR LAWYERS follow him to court.why not help him by forming a strong defence team.we cant run a progressive country like this.

The SAN or any other person is entitled to have their day in court when suspected of a crime and charged and that should be it,strictly it,no more ,no less.

i warned SARAKI not to think by outsmarting APC etc to emerge senate president,he can now enjoy the seat and i warned him not to embark on the journey to the supreme court because an affirmation of his trial at cct will definitely emboldened the cct.The executive and those who wants him out.i specifically warned saraki not to hijack the seat that was not meant for him.
You dont take what belongs to vulturistic personalities(who can wait all lifelong for a rematch ) & not expect a backlash.
Now i warn SARAKI AGAIN,he should now do the most honorable thing in the circumstance,he should resign the seat and leave the rest to political solutions/solutors.if saraki insist on going ahead with the trials,he and his household will be given more than enough trials to defend.
friends of saraki,please extend my advise to him.Its my val gift to Saraki.

TheAdvocate:
It still doesn't prove ANYTHING against Rickey and Yunusa.

I am a lawyer and I know that yu MUST established beyond reasonable doubt that the phone calls indeed influenced Justice Yunusa's descrition. This I tell yu is an impossibility.

There is ABSOLUTELY NO RULES of professional conduct that says a lawyer cannot call a judge on phone. Yu are only to prove that the judge was influenced. Mere call records don't suffice.

yes u are a lawyer and that is why u should know how uncomfortable the lawyer on the other side will feel by the revelation that while he and another lawyer are handling a case before a judge,the judge and the other lawyer are engaged in an ongoing conversation behind him.my friend ,im a far senior lawyer and i tell you it is unprofessional and unethical. An umpire that a judge is must,like Caesar's wife be beyond suspicion.we dont make progress when we are respecter of persons at all cost and when we cant tell some folks that some actions are grossly inappropriate.

i have examined all shades of view on this matter.and i conclude,prince eweka the first king of benin was actually a son of oranmiyan and an eko princess and the present OBA OF LAGOS confirmed that and that was why he is known as OMO NOBA meaning a prince.


but it is clear oduduwa himself came from somewhere and that place he comes from is benin so it is not a suprise that he sent oranmiyan back to benin and when oranmiyan coudnt achieve the desired goal,renamed the town ile ibinu and on his sojourn through eko gave birth to eweka who later become the first of oba of benin.

benin is yoruba and yoruba is benin and the cultures and the dresses and the religion attests to this as yorubas and binis are on the same level when it comes to juju.

like the ex cbn governor lamido said when rubbishing olaniwun's ajayi book during the launch of the same book"Until about about 200 years ago, there was nothing like a united Yorubaland. You were Egba, Ijebu, Oyo, Ife, Awori, etc."

the name yoruba was used to identify the tribes by hausas.

very smart woman,she knows u are an idiot and wont mind if you eventually find your way out of her lifefor GOD'S sake,when a woman is not working in a bank or =resuming work at 7,why will she not sleep well well.or u give her pikin,she no breasfeed them or she no bath them,feed them before they go to school.u beta be careful be4 u get stabbed,killer wives dey town o.

how many will still die because of this phenomenon called marriage and really im now resolved to quickly help put asunder what GOD has not joined together.

this guy's fate saddens me and to think this wife is a lawyer and again to think the husband so much trust she will make no more trouble.

guys please plan a getaway home whn u marry so rather than engage in quarells ,move over to your camp and babes too,maintain your room in your aunty's home if your parent wont hear of it.

stabbed to death cus of pussy,dick mata.shameful?

armed and yet shot by roobers without firing back a single shot cus his mind was not on security but on buying recharge.we told them being seeing with gun makes u a first line target for robbers cus they see u as a clear and present threat.

let me help dakuku out.the supreme court of nigeria like the house of lords in britain is not strictly a court of law like the high court of justice By now all should have note that it is only the high court that is labelled the high court of justice,the court of appeal or the supreme court are never labelled as supreme court of justice or court of appeal of justice.

the court of appeal deals strictly with the law and not necessarily with the justice of the case while the supreme court is a court of policy .Even though the letters of the law may say morning in nigeria starts from 6am to 7pm .the supreme court may DISCERN THE SPIRIT OF THE LAW and still go ahead to interpret morning as commencing from the time the morning light is out ,when everyone can clearly see without the use of torchlight .

yes there may be electoral violence and irregularities in those elections affirmed ,the supreme court as a policy arm of government upon whom the safety of the realm lies may well decide that Nigeria cannot afford to have a one party state therefore the opposition will have to be given a foothold and therefore decides to leave those states in the hands of the opposition.

The supreme court has done this several times and has in times past says governors consent even when obtained after deed of mortgage was executed is still valid consent though the land use act actually says consent must be first had and obtained.

the house of lords in england too many times especially the 3rivers case also refused to give heed to the strict letters of the law seeking to encroach on legal practice privilege attaching to the attorney client communication and also held that whatever the client tells his lawyer ,even the admission of guilt cannot be expected to be disclosed to law enforcement agencies as doing so will make legal practice almost impossible.

dakuku should go and rest.supreme court has the final say.whether bribe or not,they are the interpreter of the laws in nigeria and if they say from today daytime starts from 8pm in Nigeria to end at 11 midnight,it will take effect and anytime thereafter u greet me good morning when you see me at 8.30pm.

what Nigerians can do is to ensure charlatans never make the supreme court because it will cause untold hardship.in uk the supreme court is called HOUSE OF LORDS.L O R D meaning final as in JESUS IS LORD.


PLEASE GET IT NOW AND FOREVER,SUPREME COURT IS A BALANCER OF THE POLITY.MAKING SURE THE NATION IS NOT TILTED TOO MUCH TO ONE SIDE,PDP SIDE OR APC SIDE OR NATIONAL ASSEMBLY SIDE OR THE PRESIDENT SIDE OR THE MASSES SIDE.

I congratulate the supreme court for yet effecting another delicate balance in the polity.

be factual .most dads will fuel their car and put it back on the road before you eaat or u are enrolled in a university.so no big deal i love my range more than my gf

She forgets husband ns Master and she has been fully reminded. Let them go on to have makeup sex.Thas my judgement.

johnmartus:
32 SANS? oh truly the man is silly

where on earth has anybody seen this kind of scenario giving the impression that some persons are above the law and if the law dares to attempt to moderate their conduct,woe betides the law.Who is really meant to be intimidated by 3200 SANS if they are even that huge number?
This move grossly underestimates efcc/govt and deny the fact that efcc also has a great clout and the wherewithall to enlist 64 SANS and remunerate them with at least 5 million Naira each plus plenty briefs IN THESE ERA OF TOO MANY CORRUPTION TRIAL BRIEFS rather than concedes defeat and pay 2.5 billion Naira.

However ,if a man is arrested for a simple offence such as obstruction of justice ,is the offence not a bailable offence?.seeing that he is a senior lawyer,he should have been granted bail and thereafter charged to court to defend himself.why do you have to detain him for fri to Sunday and why do you have to impound his vehicle and mobile sets ,if that is really true as alleged.


The present scenario of leading many SANS to court is fast becoming the tarfa's trademark response whenever he has a brush with the law as this was also the same scenario that the court was faced with when tafa was docked over a decade ago by nuhu ribadu led effc during obasanjo's regime.This style borne out of belief that one can with one's stature dwarf the law itself can unleash far reaching unitending consequences,should those on the receiving end strongly feels enough is enough.

i will caution TARFA to eat the humble pie and refuse to allow this matter to be unduly escalated.there is a point where the crowd that urges a man unto battle begin to disperse.Those of us who lives in glass Housed are not free to throw stones anyhow like our neighbors with mud houses.

Events like this ,unintentionally,,bring to the fore once again ,the issue and essence of SANship itself which jurisdictions like america ,though of the same common law origin,like nigeria has since done away with .

since the money has been put to good use and employee heath workers,shouldn't a receiver or an administrator being appointed by the efcc to keep the place running and earn income and preserve jobs just in case it is found innocent by the court.dont we have common sense in this Nigeria?.In the realm of company jurisprudence,you dont kill a company for infractions ,you fine it and you dont fine it the way mtn is being fined which in essence amounts to killing the company.

Ayauche:
U wasted time nah, as u noticed he wasn't doing the right thing u shud ve gotten up, u even saw him smiling, I swear I will give him a very resounding slap, that way no1 loose and I will get home and tell my hubby straight.

why dont u from the start insist on a male dr.the guy did his job,next time get a female dr. you can and should tell your husband so both of you can eventually be told the whole truth and nothing but the truth.how do a dr do mamogram without asking u to remove ur bra and thats really the pint u start feeling uncomfortable.the fact is most women do enjoy being attended to by male dr.it is her confusion,not the dr examination of her breast that makes u feel defiled.
what will u have done if the dr says htere is a nerve connecting ur boobs with pussy and u will need to remove ur pant for him to massage the connecting nerve?

nairaland should exercise some discretion,how does putting this lady picture here helps her career.sooner or later this nairaland will get into troubles she cant afford if they continue like this.