kovie2693:


ASI 2 is 121k, I don't know of others

dhameelare:

Na true talk oo

Na u go turn atm for her younger sibilings

Abalado:
The wife no even fine self

MusaKalhan:


Does she practice Islam,or will be open to practicing Islam?

edoman2016:

Has your elder sister been married before? Does she have kids?

FORWARDEVERLY:

Just pray you don’t meet a woman like me....I will show you how you came into this world �

Lol..
Funny enough my Dad was a devout christian, married and wedded my mom.. and we are just four children both of them gave birth to..
My Gee, many Africans are raised not to question the status quo they met in the society, so I am not surprised at your own surprise on my choice and opinion, as for me.. I can't tie myself down with only one woman.. I must have girlfriends outside (preferably younger and fresher ones) anyday she tries to even think of having another man, I drive her out of my home and life..
I am a traditionally reserved man not a westernized effeminate fellow..
Cheers..

ABANGWABOI:


Thanks Bro... Am blushing @compliments �


I read your comments thrice..
Gosh, any man that marries you is a lucky Chap..
All female contributors here were just saying balderdash without offering a balanced advice without sentiments and emotions but your contribution stood out..
other contributors here including the males were shouting that he should cut off the 10k he sends to his mom, but you never said so.. (I read that line thrice to be sure of it) it shows how considerate you are, and you brought up an idea of him sitting his ass down and planning how to diligently spend the remaining 45k on the family, even suggesting the maize, dawa options..
Everything you said was just on point..
can't start listing them all..
Rounding it up by telling him to ignore her Rants and he should remain positive..
I am totally overwhelmed, I doff my hats to your sensible contribution..
OP, this is the best advice you could get here.. Not the one been dished out by some confused boys and some bitter Feminist wannabes..

Jossy, Your kind is so Rare. ..
#Respect.

sandygechy:
I want to understand something.Which wife should prepare breakfast and lunch? Same wife taking care of triplets without a housemaid? Odiegwu....

chinonyinye:
Somebody that has told her that he will always cheat. It's suprising that no one is slamming the man compared to if it was a woman. Op, the only thing i will tell you is to go ahead if you're not afraid of STDs, him having children outside or him bringing the women home or even threat afterall he has justified his cheating and isnt remorseful. As for those advising her to stay, can you take a cheating partner or advise your sister to stay in such a r/ship? Afterall, whats good for the gander is good for the goose.