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uckennety:
Ok I kinda lyk ur pErson!i'll send u a mail now!or dz z my pin 2AFCC314

Hehehehhe! Thanks buh I'm not sure I like ur person judging 4rm ur comments on here. Hope its jst a wrong impression

johnson232:
stop ranting on here and go ask God why he created u inferior to man

when he mandated man to rule over your senseless soul, why didn't u stop him?

worthless thing...

Why don't u first ask God why he created u an slowpoke. Like I said, u are beneath me. Go make meaning of ur life and stop trying to intimidate women to feel good about ur worthless life. I smell inferiority complex on u all d way over here. I'll say a prayer 4 u this night.

johnson232:
my brother no need, she(Joy1706) is cursed already...

Lol... I'm blessed beyond measures my dear. You sef no go fit understand am

oloyede252:
from your posts one can see you're not married..cos you dont have that wisdom a real woman should have.you are always angry,always insulting people.then one can blame you cos it seems you came from an abusive home..

Hehehehehehe! Real woman eh! To a nigerian man, a real woman is one who is willing to tolerate all u guys crap without complaining. So I'm very proud to say I'm not a real woman. I have low tolerance for dunces. If abusive words will give u sense, y shouldn't I employ such means?
Why don't u men give urself that wisdom a real man should have and learn to honour ur vows

jrerico1:
stup up.

Make me

jrerico1:
I need to see you, and slap the hell out of you face. Nonsense. If he divorce her ain't there numerous women ready to take her place. Why is she not in her father's house?? Is her husband the first man that cheat, most men cheat soo she better remain in her father's house. The man in question is a weakling. Nonsense

Slap me and watch me break ur head. Who do u think u are. slowpoke! If she divorce him, there are other fishes in d sea too. You are a weakling. Ur dick controls u and u call urself a man? Ur a boy, a weak boy for that matter

jrerico1:
am just angry with you. But there's no probs because you sound like a teenager, And still dont want to learn from an experienced woman

Experienced in handling her cheating husband? Nothing to learn abeg

oloyede252:
madam joy.are you married?NO.later u will abuse mr toks of giving advice while single....na play o.

Sorry o. U know I'm not married how? Toks2008 is a fool. He shouldn't be spreading his foolish opinions online

oloyede252:
madam joy.are you married?NO.later u will abuse mr toks of giving advice while single....na play o.

Sorry o. U know I'm not married how?

thelish:
Joy abeg u don try. Just free these men.
Primitive is an understatement.

Babe I just tire. I think I'm becoming # teamforeignmen. Can't stand cave men

HaneefahRN:
Lolz, I tire for these men o, such warped thinking and he actually thinks he is making sense talking like a child. I'm sure he is a teenager anyway, just pitying the poor ladies that'll marry such men thinking they've found husbands.


Upbringing really matters alot

That is eh. They are the types that can't keep a family. Animals

johnson232:
no, the husband is beneath the wife?

senseless animal...

The bitcch that raised you is the senseless animal. Get lost. Bastard! You are definitely beneath me. Man 4 mouth

uckennety:
Does ur dad do d chores

Lol. Do ur parents have MouthAction? But u'd want blow jobs right?

Kaycee625:
i think you have a problem with reading and comprehending simple English . Let me make it understandable for you.
I said i am the one paying my own bills not you, so you don't have the right nor impetus to call me a small boy, nevertheless am Not here to trade words with you, if you dont agree with my opinion state yours without insulting anybody.

I think u have a problem with expressing urself. Next time make urself clear

Adasun:
haba joy why all dis

Do u want me to use an axe and break my heart bfor u knw dat it's da first and last tym i did those shamful act?

Listen i was somehw polluted in da heart dats what lead me to da heart.

Even right at it i was regreting okay.hw i wish u knw me wel

am nt dat bad as u thing.am nt even egocentric

all i want is to get confidence and controlled of my hwz again

Ok. I will cut you some slack. It's just that I greatly despise cheating husbands. What u should be striving 4 is not getting control of ur house but getting ur wife back. Work towards that. Don't underestimate the power of prayer. Never again cheat on ur wife. I hope it works out for u guys

Kaycee625:
You are in no position to call me a small boy, i pay my bills, u don't.
Back to the matter, the lady is his wife not gf. She should know the extent to which she acts, all in the name of revenge.
I for one dont support men to beat their wives. But theres a limit to everything.

Cos I'm a woman, it automatically means I don't pay bills? Are u ok at all? Paying bills doesn't equate to being a big boy. Ur a small boy in maturity and in the way u reason

obstead200:
My dear, u are in Africa. In this society, the men are superior. We did not form the rules. We just came into this world to meet it like that.
Cheating is bad. But our society, being polygamous by nature, will be more forgiving of a cheating man than a cheating woman. That is Africa for u.

To answer ur question. Of course I won't easily forgive my wife for cheating. That is why we are Africans. We expect our wives to respect us by remaining loyal in all circumstances. But we should all try not to use that fact as an excuse to make her unhappy.

I'm sick of all u primitive men. U people should just die already and let us see the better ones

uckennety:
I Have been dia and back!i see ur so emotional!wt u did was wrong!but c'mon dts not enough to stoop so low to doing chores!call Her to order!d mistake you did was to call family members 4 her

Stoop so low to doing chores? In his house? What's wrong with u Nigerian men? The wife that does chores is beneath him? A maid or what? What kind of people raised these kind of men up?

bebe2:
Tnk u jare,

I sorry for young men of these days,

Have u seen Wat some young girls are saying here.

Shey here na India wey woman dey pay man bride price

And to think I have 3boys, so na did type dem go marry?

My poor babies

If you like don't train them well. If u like teach them that a man that is not weak is one who cheats on his wife and she dares not complain. Their wives may not be like you who will sit down as a tenant in her husband's house and chop poo. Their wives may be worse than this one o. Better train them well. Don't just run ur mouth here

egobetatoday:
Joy1706, u have my respect! I actually puked at her comments.

Thanks dear

njiasi30:
U re right, even if she wants to revenge nt by bringing in a stranger ...op is d soft type, some men will fight d man and injure d wife 2 nt minding dat he was at fault. 2 wrongs don't make a right, since she's still interested in d marriage. Unless she came back 4 revenge but she will end up hurting herself and destroying her marriage with her own hands.
I once had a neighbor,with d same issue. In her own case she so much luv d man and wants to keep d marriage by all means. I advised her to pretend dat nothing happened, live her normal life ,b more loving to him and never deny him anything. It wasn't easy 4 her, but she never brought up d issue.
D hubby was surprised and scared at d same time BC d wife didn't react. He was so worried and restless. He called a meeting, his family, d wife's family and his pastor. Told dem to beg his wife, confessed everything to dem and swore never to cheat on her again.
Till 2day,d man worship's d feet d wife steps on. People are envying her, some are saying she used juju on him.
Back to d topic, op ur wife luvs u but u Ve broken d trust. Maybe,she over reacted but u need to build d trust back. It won't b easy, only God can help u. I wish u d best.

Advice like this, show him more love, ignore bla bla bla is the reason why men won't stop cheating on their wives. Cos there are no consequences whatsoever for their action. Check well, that man is still cheating on his wife. He just learnt to cover his tracks better

Adasun:
dis one u are quoting and bashing my every comment is nt fair.even tho she is a woman like u


did u look at it frm another pespertive.did knw hw i had beg

Yes I'm a woman like her. So I feel her pain. The sooner u men learn to put ur selves in our shoes, the more successful marriages will be. You have a lot of work to do. Pride will worsen matters. Buckle up it might not get better anytime soon. You have no right to be angry. She does

bebe2:
Tnk u jare,

I sorry for young men of these days,

Have u seen Wat some young girls are saying here.

Shey here na India wey woman dey pay man bride price

And to think I have 3boys, so na did type dem go marry?

My poor babies

Oh! So ur husband bought you via bride price? I get

bebe2:
for some reason I find ur post quiet funny.

Nollywood no be real life ooo,

U just dey talk theory, experience go teach u .

Oya me and my low self esteem gat to sleep now,.

Gud night.

For some reason I find u quite pitiful. Which one be nollywood here? Something that happens real life. I guess u have tons of experience on cheating husbands. Good 4 u. Not every woman will. Good night to u and ur low self esteem

lexiconkabir:
I guess you could also starve your kids, just to get back at your husband.

Doesn't answer my question. Is it not her house too?

Tolatutu:
i don't know how that is a loss, he married and so? if and when the woman is ready to remarry she'll find a correct bobo old or young which ever she likes. women are remarrying better than ever so what's the noise

U dey mind that mumu woman?

Kaycee625:
she dey craze ni? To bring a man to your house, thats abomination, if i were you, i would give her a dirty slap in front of the so called man.
If she is tired of being married ahe should go back to her father's house. Rubbish

I love how u small boys come online to form strong man. Be careful how u go slapping people. U could end up with a knife in ur neck while asleep #justsaying

Kaycee625:
she dey craze ni? To bring a man to your house, thats abomination, if i were you, i would give her a dirty slap in front of the so called man.
If she is tired of being married ahe should go back to her father's house. Rubbish

I love how u small boys come online to form strong man.

Adasun:
dis is someone dat think like a man.exatly what is happening to me.

Da more i beg da more i am being underated

She shouldn't have come back to u. Ur not worth it. Ur pride will be the death of u

Adasun:
who is after ur grammer?u just pass a message to me.


Have u ever being in a situation where it seems u are stranded.



Listen many of them are saying i have pride,i did not tried enough.am foolish and whatever


bt da truth is,i can beat my chest dat i have tried enough.i beg sooteeee i don tire.


What is more worse dan me da man of da hwz



behaving as if am da wife.doing hwz chores to pleas her.

Da fact is dat da more i tried to beg and pleas her da worse it becomes.


Once upon a tym ,i control my hwz bt now am like a puppet.i acepted it just to win my wife back.

Bt to no avail,it's even pissing me off whenever i flash back to c all i have done to make this marriage work.

Look i don't give a cheat anymore is time i get my mojo back.


Almost every sin can be forgiven,and she wouln't because of one sin turn me anyhow.am ready to stand now because i have suffered enough


she should stil knw am da man dis hwz not her. period!!!

Ur d man ba? That's y u felt u could cheat and she should just forgive and move on. Answer honestly, if she was the one who cheated, what would u do man of the house?

Adasun:
why are being like this?

Am trying as a man should,am not perfect ok.bt listen i regreted everything down to da core.


Bt why is she strangling me with harsh words,bad eyesight,unecessary chart and most of all malice,malice!!!!! dat one is even da worse.


Do u knw she can't even tell me orally dat fud is ready?


Do u knw what she usually do
Hahahaha o GOD.


Dis lady i called my wife would write a written not and drop where i may or not possibly c it,and then tell me dat fud is ready


listen i cherish her somuch,ur words are not even helping matters.u ar 2 judgemental.

Why i just thought of divorce stuff is dat her bad behavior look so real and ambivalent sometimes.

Please they are many things i can't say right now,infact u just worse my day.and don't tell me dats da truth.

She even cooks for u. You married a good woman I swear. Yeye boy

uckennety:
And so Hw many men r successFul!99.9% girls are into runs!love is 4 d highest bidder!

Okay. It's been confirmed. This guy na confam dunce. Can't even come up with sound arguments