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Most of the submissive women I know are being beaten n and cheated on by their husbands. So all this one these guys are saying that if u submit ur husband will go out of his way to please u. NA LIE O. He will just build a mansion on top of ur head. That being said, its only a crazy woman won't submit to a man who truly loves her

johnson232:
read Yieldings post...

evil woman....

Devilish man

Bigmarx:
let me illuminate your comprehension. If your husband is rich or well to do....you are just talking trash. Even if you get half of "The" ..not his "His"...asset. remember if he is well to he will frustrate you in court who will pay your legal bills? Finally the supposed share you will get is part of the share both of you made when you legal got married and onwards. Don't think you will get part of the money he has made before he marries you. Damages is only paid if you had a legal agreement to that effect or if there is evidence of his brutality on you. By the time you leave him and say "jack".....younger and more pretty ladies are already queuing at his door post...everyone wants a cool life.....This is nigeria, he will only get to pay child support. Also open marriage will be heaven on earth for him. Na you go tire. How long can you keep up with the pace. At 45 a woman is already expired....Well if your husband is clinging on you for survival....then you can say those trash up there. Welcome to the World.....tread with caution....

First and foremost my dear, I plan on being filthy rich, so I most definitely would have contributed to purchasing our assets. Secondly, there are 2 lawyers in my family so paying legal fees won't be a problem. You don't need a prior agreement b4 one can sue for damages for adultery esp. When u can prove the damage(mentally, psychologically, socially) his infidelity has caused u.
Thirdly, 'at 45 a woman is expired'? I don't know why u guys like deceiving ur selves. How old are all those sugar mummies then? You've not heard a woman's libido increases around 45 years.? U guys are just in denial sha.
I'm in a women's group on a social network. If u hear what these women say and how sexually active they are, u go shock!

judedwriter:
let me not lie-i will find it difficult to forgive and may even seek for a dirvorce BUT if my love for her is VERY STRONG-i will easily forgive and move on. So you see my dear, love is the GREATEST!

But it's easy to for u to say that a woman should forgive as if it easy. Love or no love u know u won't forgive. Women are human beings too u know

diva90:
Thank you. This is the only realistic comment on this post. I would have absolutely done the same.

Thanks dear. Women are human beings too

PUSIDRILA:
Hmmm I deh suspect you ooo.

Suspect away my dear

johnson232:
and who say's someone like u can't concoct screenshot?

always creating spiteful threads agaisnt men...

u better repent for your own good!

Maybe you men should stop giving us reasons to be spiteful

judedwriter:
is this supposed to be a rhetorical question

No. I want an answer

Fongido:
As if it's easy. the fact that it worked for someone else doesn't mean it'll work for you

My dear, if I have my kids and my career and my God, what else do I need? My life is not hung on a man. I can never be the loser in a situation like that

talktonase:
he did not deny the fact that he slept with maid...for all we know she may have been denying the husband sex all the while,not taking care of her self,adding weight,etc been so laid back and playing a recorded clause in her head."after all I am married".probably she became complacent.

Y are u guys so stupid? So this BS actually makes sense to u. Hope u can also justify a woman sleeping with men outside because her husband has grown fat, has a pot belly, is a one minute man or denies her sex sef. If you can't, just Bleep off abeg

talktonase:
some women amaze me oh.an ordinary fling that brings an illegimate child into your home and your willing to destroy everything you have built over the years.think again!

In future WHEN your wife gets pregnant for your gateman, remember it is just an ordinary fling. Make sure u take the child as urs and don't throw ur marriage away cos of a fling

Fatherson:
In Naija you won't get half of anything. You will only get custody of the small children until they are past childhood.

You will even be lucky to get child support.

She will definitely get child support and damages for adultery sef if she makes it part of her claims

judedwriter:
If u aint ready to forgive, forget marriage. Dat's why its good to marry solely for love so when the offences starts raining, forgiveness is non-negotiable. Not justifying cheating husbands-but for heaven's sake-no one is perfect! Dirvorce is a quick and selfish way to end a loveless marriage.

Quick question would you forgive your wife if she got pregnant for another man?

PUSIDRILA:
Its a Mans world.If she leaves,the man will have complete access to younger, fresher,tighter nag-free pvssy.

It goes both ways my dear. She will as well have access to a richer man with a stronger, longer and bigger deek

Fongido:
if you quit who'll suffer you're the one to lose. your husband will marry the maid and life goes on. as for you, you are now second hand and won't be easy to see husband. be wise

Its like NL guys live in another planet cos I see divorcees get married all the time...to better men sef.
And why does the woman have to lose or suffer? Una mentality tire me o. He marries the maid. I marry a better man

If my husband cheated on me, It'd be extremely difficult to forgive him. If he impregnate a woman outside, there would be no forgiveness not to talk of him sleeping and impregnating my maid in our house. Hahahahaha! Fogerrit o. No coming back from that. I would divorce him, we'd divide our assets and I'd claim damages for adultery sef and move on. OR I'd remain married to him, kick the maid out but we'd definitely have an open marriage and he won't say jack about it. We'd be strictly room mates, do your things by yourself and vice versa. If he doesn't like it, he can as well move out.

Those women who are saying they'd collect the child, una try sha

johnson232:
this is how u evil women go about destroying homes...

u think the rubbish u just wrote is the best way to go about it?

What's the best way to handle it oga?

johnson232:
how are we even sure u didn't fabricate this urself?

always looking for ways to spite men..

evil woman....

Lmao! If u say so.
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But if u had sense, you'd see this was a screenshot

dytbabe:
May God bless ur union


Seriously, if a single mum don't get attention and serious guys then she shld check herself and me of these our men sef, bt we ladies can go for single dad abi
Smh

Speak for urself my darling! I can't go for a single dad for anything in this world abeg. My choice! Can't deal with their baggage

sickstars:
I gats to hype it to intimidate d guys na

Lolz. Abi o

sickstars:
U don kno wat u sayin mac products d ruby woo d burgundi nd all

dere are fake products babe

If u av frnds dat spends heavily on make up nd dey buy d correct ones u will kno it last longer dan u tink

My dear I bought mine 4500 from an authentic seller and it's def not fake. It lasts long alright but to say na everlasting lipstick na exaggeration sha

Divepen1:
Enter a man shoes, then decide if you want to call him names.

Now u dey find excuse. If the thread was about women, you'd have let out a dozen expletives in castigation. Mstchewwww

Al this naija culture no follow for my side o. I set my own rules. As a couple we decide what is allowed and what is not. If any of us goes against it, he or she shall face the consequences. Culture or no culture.

sickstars:
My brother as a girl i wonder i av roomates who uses it

Its a mac product ruby woo i guess i no too kno d name

Its red my guy na everlasting lipstick kiss o pour water o e go dey intact

There is also a paint for eyebrows after girls draw deir eyebrows dey apply d paint to their eyebrows my guy let rain nd storm baff d girl make electric shock hook d girl d eyebrow no go clean

i stayed in d room with fashion freaks so i get to kno all dis

Its not true o. The mac lipstick lasts but not to that extent abeg

Agrika:
See me, I can deliver good and hygienic soups and stews of different varieties.

Where should I see you? You didn't drop a contact no.

okirewaju:
Seems you are expecting?

Congrats

Thanks

donbenedict:
When your wife doesn't knw how to cook, things like this happen!

My friend keep quiet. Don't display your ignorance

I'd starve his ass until he regains his senses. He must be high on cheap drugs

Ofatfoed:
Sure, that's exactly what i'm saying. neither of them should be lazy. who wants to marry a lazy man before? when i get married i should be able to cook food for myself, whenever my wife isn't around. at least she can cook, but i'm just let me prepare something for my wifey before she arrives. that's the joy of it.

Eh heh! U be better person

poweredcom:


look you are a LovePeddler...ok not me..am a man..ok....i can bang any babe i want.....hey eat a dick n die slow

Hehehehehe! So u still dey alive. I thought maybe STDS from ur numerous customers would have finished u by now. MALE WHORRE. Community preek.

Ofatfoed:
In as much as i'm not getting crippled after marriage, i'm never gonna marry a lazy girl. if u don't know how to cook, u are out of the game. what about u, do u know how to cook?

Well I see a man who doesn't know how to cook, wash or clean up his house as lazy. And such a man can't be my portion. Yea I can cook and my man must be able to cook too

vickylala239:
From all these it shows that ur are a type that depend solely on men...


Then u Hv to look for such men...

There is nothing as indomie men n such word as indomie men don't exist in dictionary...

I Dnt knw abt ur side though Bt my side men pay d price to marry n move their wife to their house...I have Neva seen where a woman carry is Ppl to a man's house pay the rites, perform the traditional marriage in the man's place then move him to her house....

Be known that Evn if u gv ur husband all the money to run the marriage, he married you... and as such ur under himmm.... That's y u Hv no choose than to answer his name....

As for providing 100% need for ur wife..is a pity that very few girl Hv time for this.... as most of them don't want to be house wife as u wish to be....

It Is Evn impossible to provide 100%, of Wat anybody needs,,as u cnt provide the air she breathe, nobody can be 100%, satisfied......

I guess you are pissed Cuz I believe you find it difficult to see such men....I will advice you to go to school and pursue ur dream...as men are not job opportunity.....

Biko are you stuck somewhere in the 17th century? And don't tell me that rubbish again 'he married me'. We married each other abi didn't I say 'I DO'? And what's that crap about me having no CHOICE but to bear his name? My dear I can choose not to bear his name if I feel. What I'm saying is women contribute to their wedding too, so the whole 'I married her" thing is crap.

Indomie man doesn't exist in the dictionary eh. Well, wife material doesn't exist in the dictionary either but I'm sure u say it. When I say a man must provide 100 percent, I mean financially. Take it or leave it.