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donmarshia:
I perceive, that u lack wisdom, Joy1706

I perceive u are a dunce

oloriooko:
Who she think go lose if the home finally scartter?
She has become so angry that the anger clouded her sense of reasoning to the extent of starving her own kids
Bros wetin u do bad well well but that no mean say ur wife go boss you for ur house
So i advise you put ur foot down, tell her say na mistake u do and ask urself why u goofed then tell her to help u overcome it
Make she solo jo and stop all the yeye things she dey do to hurt u in return cuz na she go lose on the long run, na true bitter talk be dat madam!

Is it not her house too?

bebe2:
U can sun teeth all u want.

Pls define a gud marriage for me.

I won't argue with u. I Dont have a slave master relationship.

My point remains on no grounds should a married woman bring another mam in to her home. It's not done. It's a no no.

Instead of running ur mouth just learn, u don't know it all.

Curse him, fight him, starve him of food and sex, seize his fone BUT Pls Never bring another man to ur home.

Its Friends like u that advised her lady to the kids and leave her husband of 15yrs because he slept wit a girl while he was on holiday in Africa.

The man begged and begged for over a year the woman refused to come back home.

Next thing we know the man cuts divorce papers for the woman, went home and married a 24yr old.

Two months ago the 24yr old arrived and now lives in the ladies matrimonial home. We sometimes see her and the man kids running up and down in the park.
Who lose??

But those frds dat were advising her and feeding her information are still with their husband and we all know way they get upto but they keep a blind eye but can advise rubbish.

Infidelity is wrong on both sides, but revenge cheating is even worse.

Girl grow up and learn.

Did he say he caught a man on top of her? On no grounds should a husband cheat, but he did, didn't he?
Why does a woman have to lose cos she's divorced. Sounds like these small NL boys have brainwashed u. Madam abeg I don't have energy this night to deliver u from low self esteem. Carry am dey go like that

uckennety:
Yes naaa!husband hard to get!

My point is you marry the side chick. She marries you as well

uckennety:
I'll marry d side chick n mk my main chick my side chick

The side chick still has to say YES abi. She would still marry you

uckennety:
Am d architect of d marriagE!

But if she didn't say yes, would u have a marriage? Ur both architects of d marriage

bebe2:


OK. Until u stay in ur husband house for 20yrs, don't bother to call me names.

And the day ur husband has an affair, u too go out and spread it wide. Na u sabi.

The fact that I don't run to the nearest dic-k makes me a glorified house maid. Try glorified wife, glorified mum, glorified land lady, glorified business woman.

Madam it's not about being married for 20 years. Doesn't mean u have a good marriage. More like 20 years a slave. Hahahahahaha! See ur comment below

"Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things."

You sound like ur in master - house girl relationship. Seems u have a husband who keeps u under control by beating u like a horse. You can take it but other women, I mean other normal women won't. His wife has every right to act out. She's angry and she's been hurt.
I know ur the type of woman whose husband will bring his girlfriends home and you'll serve them food and even excuse urself from ur matrimonial room. Lmao! I pity you o. That one no be marriage abeg.
And the fact that you keep saying HIS HOUSE, HIS LIVING ROOM shows the kind of master -servant marriage ur operating. I guess ur just a tenant. Choi! I pity for some women o. And this one will open her mouth and say she's married. Hahahahahaha! Say hi to your task master aka strong man when he gets back. Lmao! Glorified house geh

uckennety:
Nooo dts nt wt am saying!exactly but He who plays d piper dictates d tune!i married her,she didn't marry me!marriage is not relationship!let her gt matured and deal wid it

What the Fucck do u people even mean by 'I married her, she didn't marry me'? Was it a ghost that said I DO to you on ur wedding day? Did u we'd urself? Didn't ur wife say vows? If yes, dude she married you too. You pple should upgrade ur reasoning abeg

bebe2:
Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things.

And all those saying she won't sleep with this or dat,
Pleassssseeee , take several sits. U don't know if she is or not.

Its obvious ur just a glorified maid who thinks herself to be a wife. Your husband must have really done a number on ur self esteem. Your comments disgust me

iamrealdeji:
madam,whats your business with my comment? So,you said I'm insane because I made a joke right there? Was I talking to you? Or you're trying to mention someone else? I won't argue much with you,you can call me whatever you like

Honey, are you insane is different from you are insane

AfroKnight:
If she wanted to remain angry she should have stayed away. Not come back and be playing childish games like a foolish teenager.

You've not answered my question. What would ur reaction to a cheating wife be?

Armanee:
U shuld ask Toks2008 for an advice. He goes around encouraging Adulterous men. Im sure he has a backup plan for all situations concerning men who cheat.

Hahahahha! Oh my! What does that foolish divorced self acclaimed marriage counsellor toks2008 know about marriage? When he couldn't even keep his wife. Babe beg don't make me laugh

iamrealdeji:
Mr,with due respect,admit it that you're an animal for cheating on the mother of your kids. Just try to show much love to her,try to explain to her that we men are naturally polygamous,let her know that she's much better than the concubine you cheated on her with. Let her know that konji in men is just uncontrollable at times and let her know that a lot of men are he-goats,you inclusive. Ask for her forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Make sure she forgives you wholeheartedly

If I'm ur wife and u tell me this bull sheet, I swear I'll pour hot water on u. Are u freaking insane or sth?

AfroKnight:
Look, this woman is taking things too far. After your apology she's now behaving like she doesn't need the marriage. You married a very foolish woman who thinks like a teenager. Her game will backfire and nobody will console her. What stupidity!

She is lucky she has a man that wants her. If she knew she didn't want the marriage any longer why did she come back? Why couldn't she stay in her father's to play her childish games. Rubbish.

At some point, revenge becomes senseless. Some women don't have sense.

Pls tell me what would ur reaction be if ur wife cheated? Women don't have a right to be angry ba?

Personally I don't think I can forgive a cheating husband. If I decide to stay, be rest assured o will lose every respect,trust and love I had for you. I would probably do what ur wife is doing except id give my kids food and leave u to fend for yourself.
Honestly you don't come across as repentant to me. So u expected her to forget everything just like that. And u even have the nerve to consider divorce. Why did u beg her in the first place? Just get out a beg. If u like allow these single NL boys control u. Just get out pls

Cutehector:
dat doesn't nw give u the right to call me unemployed alright. Not evryone in nalraland is jobless so u should change ur mentality.

You this boy are you ok? Who called u unemployed? Ur the one who went on about how ur not dependent on anyone.

iykedare:
" or even people we just met."

Sis,abeg go do aristo work.

Oga get off ur high horse abeg. Yes you may need help even from people you just met.
I entered a taxi one day without knowing my money was missing. It was a total stranger who saved me from being embarrassed. If that makes me an aristo to you, then my dear your problem is not of this world. Nobody is an island. We all need somebody even a stranger

Cutehector:
i"m currently employed darling.

Do I look like someone dats dependent?

Its not about being employed 'darling'. We all have days where things are not just going smoothly and we need others help be it friends, family or even people we just met.

Cutehector:
well u need to stop depending on men... if u need smth, u ask ur father or work for d money, so all these would stop.

Can u honestly say you've never asked anyone for help apart from ur parents?

freshvine:
... and you think with my education I would believe Op story hook, line and sinker?

A guy touch a woman ass provocatively, she complains and the man land gbooosa!!! on her cheek. TRY AGAIN.

There's more to this story.

Oya provide the missing details na since you know it all

freshvine:
If the law system is involved, her case become non issue and physical assault takes the centre stage.

Had it been in a secluded place, the outcome would've been disastrous for the lady or she pretends the touch never happened to save her life.

Imagine what will happen to this lady's husband if he really provoke her temperament.

Did you read the part that said he slapped her first after molesting her?

tolastikha:
That dude is a coward. He ought to have removed two of her front teeth before crying for help. The body of women is for men touching and pleasure. So what the dude have simply done is normal except for his lazy and cowardly action.

Just keep calm and watch how your daughter's body will be violated, raped and assaulted in future. And bet me, it will come to pass.

Toks2008:
You just did the most reasonable thing..Asking them to prove their m and b stories.

I will advice you in your best interest to distant yourself from these ladies of dirty personailities.

I am neither married nor divorced and i have told them to apply decently so i can consider them for sidechicks cos these crop of ladies are too morally bankrupt to bear my name...if you dont believe me then check thei history of their posts and you will be amazed to discover how dirty their personality is.

My threads are my opinion which i have the right to and only a deeply mentally unstable person will reign curses on another because the person expressed a pertsonal opinion and i will advice you once again to dstant yourself from such people.

Have a great weekend.

Just so you know I wouldn't even let my dog marry you. You're not fit to leave among sane human beings

Toks2008:
You just did the most reasonable thing..Asking them to prove their m and b stories.

I will advice you in your best interest to distant yourself from these ladies of dirty personailities.

I am neither married nor divorced and i have told them to apply decently so i can consider them for sidechicks cos these crop of ladies are too morally bankrupt to bear my name...if you dont believe me then check thei history of their posts and you will be amazed to discover how dirty their personality is.

My threads are my opinion which i have the right to and only a deeply mentally unstable person will reign curses on another because the person expressed a pertsonal opinion and i will advice you once again to dstant yourself from such people.

Have a great weekend.

Chai! You're a FUCKING LIAR! Now you're claiming you've never been married or divorced? See ur comment below

Toks2008:
Hello daddy how you doing
Hope mama is doing kay
It's been 4 years and eleven months now
Mo gbo pe Aduke ti dagba
Olorun it was true what you said to me
That life in the city is unbelievable
Had to struggle just to get bye evryday
And I could barely find my way
Sugbon mo mo pe mi o le shina,
o da mi loju
Mo ri pe aye le, araye soro
Forgive me father
but I gat to take a chance
Oh am already gone so just...
Pray for meee
.....singing pray for me by darey...

Less i forget ...if you are a day short of 30years then i am over 10yrs older than you...

***And yes i have been in the marital union for years so im not naive as you think...puma*****

....continues my song...
Gbadura fun mi
Pray I find my way
, ki ori ba mi shey
Oh, forgive me
father but I gat
to take a chance
Oh am already gone
so just... Pray
for me...
Pray for meee...
Pray for meee...
Oh am already gone
so just... Pray
for meee...
Pray for meee....
Ki ori ba mi shey
Oh am already gone
so just... Pray
for me ...
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You see where you wrote you've been in the marital union for years? GOD PUNISH YOUR LYING MOUTH.
You're a disgrace. Couldn't even keep ur home and ur coming to advise married women. Swerve abeg you swine

Toks2008:
I had to call you ladies out to give you a brotherly advice.

You guys may feel you are catching fun but trust me,it is an unhealthy way of interacting and even if this is a faceless forum,it is indeed the best place to show your true nature and i am very embarrassed and disappointed that rather than focus and discuss on the matter on ground,you started attacking the personal life of the writer...This is a crass nature and very very appalling and demeaning.

Please learn to be poised and seasoned in the way you relate with people and you will be better off.

For the purpose of clarity,please stop writing unfounded storied about whether i am or was married,whether i am divorced or whether i was dumped..that is my personal life and the last time i checked,it has nada to do with what i wrote so apparently there is somthing fundamentally wrong with the mental state of you ladies.

I wrote an article which is my opinion and it is only normal for a mentally balanced person to discuss that without direct insults or reference to the personal life of the writer.

Honey you're not mentally balanced. You have no business writing articles for anybody, least of all sane women. Haba na! Respect urself

Toks2008:
Lmao...walahi you ladies don craze finish..which divorce and wat marriage?

Im enjoying this walahi..oya fire on in your utter confusion and cluelessness.

Now ur asking what marriage? Lmao! Thought you said you've been in the marriage business for long. You don dey change mouth?

Rocktation:
No wonder...mscheww. So he was asking questions he already had answers to. Coming here to put a monopoly on shag-ging, when his wife had banged her way out of their marriage. Very funny.
It's why I love women. They are smoother. They could be getting their groove on and massaging your ego by pretending to enjoy your foaming at the mouth, about why cheating is your God given right.

Hahahahaha! I dey tell u

Toks2008:
Oshogbo weed and brazil substance mixed together is dangerous for the brain...

Chai..ladies and their inbuilt madness...only you be judge and jury...

You wan hear story abi? sorry i no go tell you so conclude whatever you like.

But please stop your abusive nature cos it will only bring you terrible consequence.

Oya deny it na. Toks 2008 and his inbuilt stupidity.Hahahahahahaha! Physician heal thyself

Toks2008:
lwkmd...

Now i know why some men beat the pooh outta some ladies..lol

Oya fire on...

Lwkmd....

Now I know why some women stab their husbands in their sleep...lol

I'll keep firing on. Best believe it

Dheartless:
you never know nothing lol
suffer from attention at 40
Chai !! you still be learner

Yimu! That's how u men deceive yourselves in order to feel better. When u have everything going for u, good job, independence, body in shape, u have no idea how many men will rush 4 u.
Speaking from experiences of women I know personally