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dearestaramide:
My colleague came to the office complaining this mornnig of a man that she can't stand but yet he has being doing everything to get her including prayers and seeing mallams to pray (which he later denied).

He went ahead to trace where she works as well as lives and drove after her one night after close of work till she managed to escape him. She says that he isn't even educated to university level, he can't speak English well and her family is well off better than his. She has done everything possible to dissuade him but all to no avail. People including his relative have spoken to him to let her go as clearly he can't force her but he has refused.

She strongly believes that he has a hidden motive and is scared for herself and family due to his obsession and reluctance to let go even after 4 years. And guess what, SHE HAS SEEN HIM PHYSICALLY JUST ONCE IN HER LIFE.



If na me i for take style kill am before e kill me

[b]PLEASE ADVISE AS SHE HAS BEEN DEPRESSED SINCE MORNING [/b]Dont even mention policeas you know our police and stupid demands with no results

Come. Let me take u to one baba. That baba na ogbonge. Within 24hrs he go run mad.

SUPOL:
Na lie

Na VGC u dey live? Na airconditioned range rover u dey take ply road abi. Enter public danfo for AJ city and see what N100 can do.

KHAYGOLD:
Once you give them N100 and also buy them a crate of trophy beer, you are innocent.

Naija police yeye pass shiiit.

Jarizod:
in Patrick's voice "to avoid any catastrophe that can lead to a calamitious end"

Na like this bros;

To eludate any catastrophe that is capable of metamorphosing to a calamitious disma-pisma

Op. 1st of all knw that its not always a man who should initiate sex. Its not always so in all marriage...Its d womans duty in fact.

U didn't tell d nature of ur man if he's d emotional type or has been thru some hardships in d past

3rdly, there may be somethings abt u dats pissing him off. Try convince him to know. 4get abt d wonderful woman he says. Many couples say that in public.

If there's nothing then he's probably responding to familiarity. Then d solution would be to spice up and renew ur love

God won't even give me such a wife ijn

adesegun121:
To reply this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2656648/ladies-respect-these-kind-men

i feel like creating this today.. And i want to know the mind of my guys on nairaland..

For me ooo i dislike anybody that smokes.. Either man or woman..

So my question now do you respect ladies that smoke??

Note: the federal ministry of health warns that smokers are liable to die young...
cc.

Op. I wanna ask; this vulcanizer's gas they inhale, what does it do? Is it to widen their lungs or what?

Who's looking for an independent woman when d bible says its not good for a man to be alone. A woman originally is created to complement a man if not for d civilization orisirisi we have these days that it is now the men complementing the women. There's nothing wrong in a woman showing dependency as far as her man is loving. The problem is showing dependency and adding stubbornness to it.

Me I like women who give the sensation that they can't do things on their own but need me to do it with her. I like being there for such a woman. A woman who can disturb me pleasantly yet will melt when I make her knw my displeasure. A lively talk-talk woman but is not hard at all and may even cry on a little threat from me (not the rigid ones). A felicitious but emotional person who's touchy, expressive and loves kids.

Life's simple

Op I agree o. To force a girl into a relationship is sucuidal to d man himself if he doesn't know

Besides a man who knows what it means to be a man and who a woman should be wouldn't even do that. That's d last thing I would do.

My own opinion is NO but I'll say;

Anyhow weh e go pay both of dem make dem do am. If the man has to leave his job as their final decision then so be it. It doesn't depend on their understanding of each other but on their understanding of what marriage should be as ordained by the creator. Cuz 4 d woman taking d role of d man she will gradually start ruling the man and she won't be able to hide it on little quarrels and u'll wonder what happened to their understanding. Influences here and there..ppl making the woman feel foolish to provide 4 d home and still submit to a house husband. Even if she blocks her ears to such influences and still submits, her husband would become extra-sensitive to pride and may not feel secure for the respect he gets which is d most important thing 4 a man in any relationship. How do they even answer d question -"who provides for d welfare of this home among you two?" without quarrel?

This girl must be a pampered pet

Greyworld:
That man must be righteous, otherwise this would have been another "story that touch"

Bros no be righteousness dey do am o. Na grace of God o. He may even be a womanizer sef. God just had mercy on him because he's God.

I just dey wonder too say boko haram never blow independence bomb. Last year independence, dem use bomb celebrate am. Hw come dem never blow this year own. I no knw say na after independence dem dey plan

Na 4 lagos person dey always see orisirisi. So funny

Lol. Ooop. Hw many of these rules ur own wife get?

They're true though but dat 12 and 13 is more of what a man should do to a woman. They need it more than we do.

This lady is well behaved.

Is d bridge tarmac as low as that? Hope there isn't a demon that bridge

Apart from being a white culture to hug each other, popes have always shown d great ability to love beyond the norm. John paul in his days paid visits to d assassin who shot him twice close to his heart

Ojestas:
if he did it whole heartedly . . he will definitely be rewarded.

Sure!

A person does this and gets blessed with so much wealth to d point of owning a jet and ppl will say again that he's flamboyant. As if its a crime to get reward for sacrificial offerings.

I suspect ritual money here. Perhaps he's saving himself from embarassment and quickly disposing the ritual possesions in style b4 nemesis finish catching up with him

But if its from his heart and not ritual, he'll definitely be blessed. He's just sowed a seed

Its high Bp dat killed him not sex

nmaihat:
Anyone who truly loved and followed the show would not be surprised at Arewa's defeat/loss.

I personally did not want her to win the show. My personal favourites were jeff and Anderson. Those guys were working their butts off. And Arewa kept getting the praise.

How would any of you have felt if were in a competition you worked so hard and your colleague keeps getting exceptional praise.

Imagine ty mix saying he wished he had a daughter as hardworking as Arewa as if d others didnt work as hard. Jeff a Ghanaian sang in Yoruba and Igbo what more depicts hardwork.

I said if for any reason Arewa won this show i would stop following PF cos the judges by their comments n at times design by almost always featuring last or after jeff n anderson had performed gave her the victory.

Thank God it did not happen. I would have preferred Anderson is second but third isnt so bad.

To Arewa and the other contestants,well believe that knowledge is power. Use the knowledge you acquired in the pf academy.

Arewa do not let anyone deceive you that you were the best in the competition. You were not. The best won. Anderson was the the second best.

My dear tell them o. People don't knw that music judgement is not majorly extroversial.

At a stage she got musics that will make her shine and shake assets to win 'likes'. That politics was ignored by the judges and studio audience or perhaps d audience didn't even notice it.

That's why I always say u can't tell how ppl see u unless u come out of where u are to where ppl outside are, then view where u left from where they are.

silvermania:
you might have me to contest with

Oya na. Let's go there.

OrlandoOwoh:
But Deinde is loved by the audience, could it be that he is not that loved by those that sent SMS?

Audience is 0.5% of the population of west africa. Even in that 0.5% its d majority that loves and hails him. There'll definitely be a minority that don't like him but they couldn't surface since they're not many.

OrlandoOwoh:
Project Fame, like most reality shows, is a crap. The determining factors as to whether contestants stay or leave the house are not the judges, but MTN customers who vote for them. A customer could vote for a contestants not because they are a good musician but because of their sex, nationality or beauty. In the first season, people had thought that Nii from Ghana would win it, but it went to Iyanya of Nigeria.

U and I know that arewa is beautiful n performed well. In the last Nigerian Idols, brenda was so liked by the judges, yet evicted. My dear what fans want is humility and not going extramile to impress just for votes

2face got to his level 2day not cuz is a superperformer but 4 his humility. Mayb arewa's victory would have being complete if she had a lovely tender/teasing smile with her beauty. Jeff had it inspite of the pressure..that's what makes a likeable character. To be frank, fans want to see u subdued to them, then they'll raise you.

Eiihyaa. Not even his dead body would be seen for confirmation in case of record mix up.

God has given, God has taken. God give in Nigeria, God take in Saudi arabia. God give in the house in the presence of midwives, God take by stampede under the foot of religious zealots.

But wait a minute I suspect Erubebe is d juju mastermind behind his death.

Why I like project fame so much is dat they keep suprising oversabi contestants and fans with unexpected winners

Last year everyone thought emekus would win. This year deinde the 'ibinu nation' and arewa who gat all d swag did not end up winning

Its always the solo contestants that comes out best at last stage. Kudos jeff!

Goeffery last year. Jeffery dis year. Next year will be me.

Jesuspistol:
Chai. God have mercy o.

Lolz. Wetin man go do bros

Me na fart.

I blasted the thing in an empty classroom where I teach during holidays. I forgot completely that there was someone behind me. Na after lowering my bombom from the farting position and started inhaling the sweet smell that I now saw a lady walked out carrying her bag and books.

The funny thing is she doesn't even work in d sch so I could have apologized later. She was a visitor and I never saw her again since then

AllNaijaBlogger:
All these epistles you have been typing since day one won't change the facts!

Only billionaires (not millionaires) can truly afford private jets. The only way to be a billionaire is to run a business that sells a lot of its goods or services.

What business are these pastors doing that make them rich? HMMM? What services or products are they selling?




That aside, private jet is an unnecessary luxury. You can achieve the same thing with commercial flights at a cheaper and more effective rate.

Nigerian someone tells u d truth that u should learn from and u say is epistle. So what's all this long spaces in ur own called..epispace?

U just showed ur ignorance again. Like u said religion is not ur way. When it becomes ur way u will understand. U don't even knw what anointing is or what it can do for you. Someone reads a life changing prayer manual, applies it to his life and vows b4 d almighty that if the prayers work for him, he'll bless the writer(whom he hasn't seen b4) with an extra 10% apart from his huge tithe in millions paid to d church. What an effortless success anointing brings for you. But I'm sure u don't even know what's so-called so don't bother using human brain to fathom what God can do. A pastor builds 2 private universities well run with ease and provides job for the masses. How many politicians have business or are worth billions yet own jets.

U knw what. I won't even view ur next quote talkless of replying it. Ure not doing God's or human bidding. U just wanna prime ur ego. You know that within urself. I was 1ce like u. God has helped me now. The scripture below is 4 ppl like u.

AllNaijaBlogger:
You keep mentioning corrupt politicians in order to deflect from your flamboyant pastor.

Two wrongs dont make a right

Lolz. Actually I don't think its 2 wrongs, I think its 3 wrongs now

1)Greedy leaders who loof out our money, own jets and become 10times richer than a civil servant should be and aren't criticised for it.

2)Failing to acknowledge that not all jet-owning pastors acquired ther jets through dirty means and have made contributions into humanity which is supposed to be ur govt's responsibility.

3)AllNaijaBlogger who does not even have a cognitive knowledge abt what's going on in the religion area, hence has empty judgemental scheme and has non-constructive criticism let alone knowing where to channel his criticism to yield results