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Thanks to every one who contributed.. This is the first time I'm really talking about my condition and its a bit overwhelming.. I don't really have anybody I can talk to.. This is really overwhelming being more aware of it now.. I'll seek help and share my progress with those who really reached out to me here on nairaland.. And to those who think its a Joke, hope when u're in a situation people don't think its a joke.. Cos its really not funny from the other end

Uhm.. I think I've been depressed since 2007.. The thing is I don't know if its depression. I mean, can someone be depressed without knowing it for such a long time? I'm really lazy to type right now.. All I can say is I went into a deep sadness in 2007/2008 when my parents divorced. Then I had self esteem probs in through out secondary school.. I enjoy being alone.. Sometimes I wish I was alone in the whole world. This morning I woke up having suicidal thoughts (to me I just think its me messing with my imagination, nothing serious), inflicting pain on myself emotionally and it feels good.. I don't know.. Maybe it isn't depression, maybe I'm having a bad morning, maybe its my period messing with my head. I just think its one of those sad days.. I don't know

Jamb is supposed to be scrapped instead of post utme.. The way our leaders impose policies on us tho.. They would have carried out a referendum on Nigerians before scrapping post utme... Our views doesn't count.

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Skales is my guy o... But him no try na.. The girl looks shaff

This is kylie jenner's pal na.. She's not wizkid girlfriend.. She's a musician, they're probably working on a collabo..

Abeg, the stretch marks is not looking bad, atleast its not looking like the worm-like ones i see

claremont:
The man didn't say he did not have a licence, he said he didn't have the licence on him. You talk about Europe, it's not a requirement to have a licence on your person when driving in Europe, you can tender it at a later date.

My brother this is not Europe! This Nigeria, our procedures are different!

FLStudioGuy:
You called that "doing their work?" That's harassment for Fuçk sake. That hemp stuff is enough for me to take the police to court. Stupid black mentality

on what ground would you take him to court?

1. Do I think about him throughout the day? – If you find yourself daydreaming about how cute he is while you should be concentrating on your email, laughing at a joke he told you while you are driving, or reminiscing about your latest date while you shower, it’s time to ask yourself, “Do I love him?” When you love someone, they invade your thoughts, even when they aren’t around. You may notice yourself focused on that special guy so much that it distracts you from work, school and all the other things going on in your life.


2. Do I compare other guys to him? – The man you love will set a new standard for everyone else. If you love him, you might find yourself thinking that your ex-boyfriends weren’t nearly as patient, kind, funny, or sexy as your current sweetie. You’ll also compare any new guys you meet to him, but the bar will be set so high that they will never live up to him — even if he’s just someone you love from afar.


3. Can I see a future with this guy? – When you are single, or even casually dating, everything can center on yourself. From your career choices and how you spend money to where you live and how often you travel, your choices are yours to make, alone. But, when you fall in love, there is someone else to consider. Your future doesn’t belong to you alone, but to the two of you together. If that thought makes you feel hopeful and happy, you may be in love with him.


4. Would I be willing to compromise with this guy? – Even deep, true love isn’t always easy. In fact, sometimes it may seem like you can’t agree on anything. But, when you ask yourself if you love him, consider whether you can move past little differences through compromise. Meeting in the middle by giving up a little of what you desire so that your partner can have some of what they need shows a commitment to making a relationship work, long term. But, if you need to cling to your own desires, while they give, your feeling for him may not be that deep.


5. Do I tell my friends how much I like this guy? – If you can’t stop gushing about your amazing man, you are right to wonder if you love him. Not only are you so enamored that you want to talk about him all the time, you also really want your friends to love him as much as you do. It’s normal to want your pals to rally around you and support you as you explore your new love, and bragging about him nonstop is sure to get their attention. Plus, falling in love is exciting, which will probably lead to even more blabbering. You might find yourself talking about him so much that even your friends will start asking, “Do you love him?”

6. Is he the best part of my day? – When you are in love, it’s hard to top the time you spend together. Whether you are out shopping for the perfect new outfit or enjoying happy hour together, you might find yourself wishing you were with him instead. Even just talking to him on the phone may turn out to be the bright spot in your day, and when you are together, there is nowhere else you would rather be.

7. Do I want to be a better person for him? – Even if you are perfectly content with your life and who you are, falling in love often has the magical ability to make us want to improve and perfect things. Perhaps you are suddenly focused on raising your credit score or you are hitting the gym more often. It may be because you want to impress him, or because you want to make things easier for him and improve the future you can have together. Either way, a sudden urge for self-improvement may be a sign that you are in love with him.


8. Is this the kind of guy I could marry? – You probably have a mental list of the qualities your future husband should have. These are the things that you believe will pave the way to your happily-ever-after. If you think you might be falling in love, consider if you can really see yourself exchanging vows and spending a lifetime together. If the answer is no, what you are feeling might be lust or infatuation. But, if you can see marriage, babies, shared dreams, mortgages and growing old together, then it might be the real deal.

9.Do I prioritize his needs? – When you were a single girl, you only needed to worry about caring for yourself. You could arrange your own schedule, cook the meals you like and go to bed whenever you wanted. But, as you fall in love, you may find yourself worrying about his needs as well, sometimes even more than your own. Maybe you are willing to go out of your way to run an errand for him, or to skip the late-night party because he needs to get up early for work. Prioritizing his needs might even spill over into the bedroom, where you may find yourself willing to try something different just to make him feel good.

http://badgirlsbible.com/do-i-love-him

wordbank:
JuicyGee u get the original na n urs is very juicy
Or u want to get for someone else

Lol.. Have u seen mine b4?

I was just checking to see hw it looks like

I felt crying for Kiss, why was Steph hard on him, calling him a one-hit-wonder. Why insult his career nd personality in name of prank.

Gaily04:
@JuicyGee, you can walk into any Health center close to you, they have family planning clinic or you can go to BMSH

Thanks alot

Hello ladies.. Who knows any family planning clinic in port Harcourt, or can i get that service at any hospital here in ph.

Thanks alot guys.. I was skeptical about sharing this on NL cos of hw judgemental some NLers can be.. Your advise were totally helpful.. I mean, this was actually relieving to talk about it and get good response.. Thanks henrygale Sexxkillz Smileprince Purpletee

Ok, I've gat to start from somewhere... Um.. After a horrible breakup two years ago, i dreaded relationships, i wanted to be alone and didn't want to feel vulnerable anymore. I fear break-ups most of all.

So i've been on this or should i say i was #teamsingle for 2years. Not until i met this really cool guy, he is a really nice person, fortunately we have wayyyy soooo much in common (i had to stress that. Lol). He didn't really ask me out, when we became friends. infact, he dreads relationship like i do.. I remember telling him i didnt want to care about him, and he said the feeling was mutual. I wasn't looking forward to a relationship either, in short we weren't looking forward to one. We were just having a feel-good moment. We've been together for 3months now and we've really gotten close and attached to each other. People think we're a couple but we aren't really dating. My friends wonder wat the hell i'm doing, i dont kw either. But Am now at a point where i'm certain i'm ready for a relationship but i'm not sure he is, i feel talking about it with him would force him to enter into a relationship... On the other i feel ''to hell with watever! I should just continue with the flow... I want something definite, but i dont kw if he's on the same page..

I don't know guys, i just felt like sharing this with someone and didn't know who to... ? ?

This hair reigned in ph nau. But it looked better than this

kulobyno:
Castillan 90 is for muscle building especially recommended for athletes. The simplest way to increase your weight if you so desire it is to eat regularly the eat between meals you will see a great difference within a few days. But watch it o, everyone is running from over weight o.
I used to be a bonga fish all through my teen years but now I'm being careful not to be overweight. I currently weight 89/90

Ok, thanks. thought as much

I'm trying to add about 5kg. Is casilan a good protein supplement?

Adekorya:
It seems some people stake their common sense and sense of good reasoning on Jonathan to win last year general election, because aftermath the election some certain fellows have been unable to reason logically.

I tell you!! Its shocking the way some people reason. Common sense is not always common

Nice post.. OP just arrange your write-up, put paragraphs

In case you dont know, there's another thread on this with pictures

I was hurt wen i saw the way they butchered that animal. What a country!

Lol.. How do you guys even come up with these stuff

Apple always kills it!!! Woww

Nairaland be upgrading my knowledge these days
The other day, guys were talking bout laptop and one said 'its wrong to off your laptop from the power button'. I was like, ''so true! Its totally wrong''. He was surprised, so u kw bout laptop ish? I said Hell Yea!
Omor tbh i dnt kw shit, i only read it on nairaland

Atleast it looking original.. Have bought sardine twice from a well known supermarket, nd i saw locally fried fish and black oil