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make dem no execute am o.
I hope she learns her lessons and that other learn from her experience

hmmmm I smell a rat

The girl wanted to get rich quick by involving herself in illegal activities.

If she had not been caught, maybe Ovation magazine would have her pics splashed all over their pages as another successful Nigerian woman.

stephanie7:
I have sorted out my life - wow people can be so jealous - if you cant say something nice then dont say anything at all. HA people funny as if i force em to read this

Did I read you say jealous

Jealous of what? your fat body or the fact that you are incapable of keeping any man happy?

Instead of this girl to sort her life out, she's posting pictures on the internet.

I dont know what will happen after the new guy leaves. . .

Maybe another pic

congratulations. I pray things work out well for you

This is obvoiusly an abnormal pair of women

tinuade001:
Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 yrs. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.

Sensible

ifyalways:
How old is the poster sef
Your dad said u guys are not compatible and u are saying that ur dad is 80% right,methinks u are a kid.

So if a guy knows that his dad is right about some things, he has become a kid?

wonder wonder wonder

[quote author=white`Nkem link=topic=23478.msg991611#msg991611 date=1174854997]"You're not compatible" is not a reason. Did he read that in the stars or guessed it in cards? Come on, he should really come up with strong relevant arguments![/quote]This is one of the kind of women who come back to cry and complain about their husbands.

What could have pushed the girl into wanting to make instant money in that way? Greed is not a particularly good thing. . . especially when you have to contravene the law to achieve greedy ambitions.

That girl should have been brought up to be, at that age, in the university; studying to make something good out of her life.

If there are no users, there will be no traders.

Homophobia

homophobia ko, homogenous ni

They use terminologies to describe anything/anyone that does not bow to their own ways but they dont coin up terminologies for their own horrible devices.

Even if there was homosexuality in Black Africa (which no one has been able to prove with evidence), it was not prevalent as it was in Europe and America where people are allowed to do whatever they want in the name of human rights.

Its interesting how peopl will come up with some funny article written by some individual to justify his/her position and try to make such article absolutely authoritative.

Absolute madness.

I think Nigeria is approaching the time when God will rain fire and brimstones upon her for these kinds of evil.

Ikomi:
Just one question for the three of you.

Why do you think a leader is called the head of State?

If you give an answer to that, then tell me how you hope the limbs should function properly when the head is sick?

It takes a good supply from other parts of the body for the head to finction properly.

What was the yardstick for determining poor people?

poster's brother is a goat

people can be funny sha.

you want formal proposal when a man is already making plans with you for a wedding? what is the world turning into sef?

Anyway, if proposal is what is important to you in life, then please tell him you wont marry unless he proposes

I dont even remember if I ever proposed to my wife.

These women never learn. I'm sure if anyone tried to advise them, they'd give the person a lecture on the meaning of love etc.

You guys never sabi

I absolutely love the write up.

Its so true of what has become of Nigeria. Some years ago, I was in Nigeria and I went in search of a good tailor to make me a few suits because the suits I had in Nigeria were much better compared to the stuff I buy now (just name brands with no real fitting). However, some people showed suprise that I could come from abroad to come and buy materials and get tailors to sew suits for me.

They had the attitude which says that everything abroad has to be better than anything Nigerian. . . how wrong they are! But they dont realise what they have.

Its also very easy to blame 'leaders'. However, the leaders are not the ones who do everything wrong in Nigeria: the ordinary Nigerian has his/her own faults and until we start realising that we are ALL responsible for the way things are, we are unlikely to make any progress.

Constantly blaming the leaders means that we dont need to change anything about the way we do things and the things we do! We have to change ourselves and this will prompt us to change the kind of leadership we get.

sexyLeamon:
I'm not opposed to traditions, or anything but it truly get to my head the way Africans take tradition so seriously.There are obviously good traditions, but some tradition like are so ridiculous that I WONDER WHY PEOPLE FOLLOW IT. like for example some stupid tradition demands the women to do everything the husband says whether she like it or not. I brought up this topic because my father is "tradition is tradition' sort of person. my dad have a very good understanding of tradition, and he is a sincere followers of traditions. But must we always bow down to tradition ? I am not saying that traditions should not have any place in our lives. But I believe that traditions are products of people's needs. They should bring us happiness and harmony rather than bondage. We love our country because it is our motherland rather than because it is a tradition. By the same token, we love our parents because they brought us up not because it is a tradition. Similarly, we get married because of love rather than tradition.

i sense that your major problem with tradition is with the boldened. Marry a man who doesn't mind you not doing what he wants. There's really no problem in life except for the ones we try to create when we want others to do what are doing or to be like us.

RichyBlacK:
Most Republicans believe it is.

Hopefully most republicans also believe that it was alright for Saddam Hussein to torture his enemies. AND that its okay for Mugabe to torture his enemies

@Justgood,

You mean those techniques are too harsh for people complicit in the killing of over 3,000 americans on 911? You guys are simply unbelievable.

@Tayo, you mean it is alright to torture people to get information out of them?

I am shocked at the extent some people will go to defend the indefensible.

THE US HAS TORTURED PEOPLE!

Torture is supposed to be barbaric and should not be used the way its been used especially by a country which claims to be the police of the world.
The same people trying to justify this torture will be up in arms if it was done by Zimbabwe or the Nigerian police. Anyone trying to occupy a moral high ground has to present himself as being clean.

A Nigerian in diaspora

http://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/scotsol/homepage/news/article2389276.ece

A TOP eye surgeon was duped by an internet fraudster — and handed him a staggering £350,000.
Consultant Fawzia Ashkanani gave the massive sum to Nigerian Chinaenye Mokelu after he promised her a slice of his “$300million fortune”.

Dr Ashkanani, of Dumfries, even met Mokelu in London, where the conman showed her a suitcase full of FAKE cash.

Kuwaiti-born Dr Ashkanani — a consultant at Dumfries and Galloway Royal Infirmary — fell for a phishing spam email Mokelu sent to UK bank account holders asking for help in transfering the nine-figure sum from Nigeria to Britain.

Prosecutor Andrew Jackson told a court: “He said he needed someone who had a bank account in the UK to facilitate a bank-to-bank transfer.


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“Unfortunately for her, she replied to the email.

“During the course of a number of subsequent emails and telephone calls the victim was asked to transfer money into two accounts controlled by the defendant.”

Mokelu, 44, of Grays, Essex, swindled £350,000 from Dr Ashkanani, of which only £30,000 has been traced by cops.

He had used that to to pay off his mortgage and splash out on luxuries.

The dad-of-two was yesterday told at Basildon Crown Court that he faces a lengthy prison sentence after pleading guilty to conspiracy to defraud and having a fake passport.

Karl Volz, defending, said: “He says he was a very trusted lieutenant in this conspiracy.

“There are various other names involved in this case who have not been tracked down by the prosecution.”

Recorder Jeffrey Yearwood told Mokelu: “Clearly he is a very serious player as far as this is concerned. This defendant is plainly in no doubt that a significant custodial sentence is the only option.”

Mokelu was remanded in custody until June for the preparation of pre-sentencing reports

@poster,
it appears you are forcing the man to visit the child. I dont thinkt he guy ever wanted a child from you in the first place so you may need to re-consider what you expect from him.

Assuming he changed his mind and wanted to really be a good dad, some things such as the child's surname could play on his mind. I dont think I'd be happy to have a child who does not have my surname. . . when shall it become? i'm not saying this is what is making the guy the way he is but perhaps there are some things that are playing on his mind as well because what you described there is not normal.