₦airaland Forum

islandmoon:
atiku should just give me a job, that's all I want, I'm tired of this dullard who has refused to go back to his cow.

Go and great job for yourself, and by doing so, you're also creating jobs for others, stop waiting on the government.

utenwuson:
How are u going to create the job...... That's the question, everyday, we will do this, we will do that but will never tell u how, ATIKU is a big scam, we better stick to our npower before this criminal come and destroy the little we are earning,

Abi na industry were go employ all of us him wan build I no know, at least 500,000 graduates are earning 30k monthly under pmb and that's grossly 15 billion....

ATIKU get out

Shatap before thunder visit you there.

NwaAmaikpe:



D'banj does not look like someone who lost a child, neither does he look like someone who misses the son he lost.
I just pity Daniel III for being born to endtime parents.

But I never knew wearing an undersized bra makes a fallen brezz stand again?

Shatap there, he shouldn't carry on with his life because he lost a son? Or because he accepted the things he cant change about life means he's no longer grieving? Funny you. What makes faith strong is living through heartbreak.

sarrki:
Sharap women leader of pdp

You spend most of your time online

Your boyfriend if you have one must be a patient dude

Do you know nothing good will ever come out of pdp online miscreants?pdp

Hide your face, Ole oni jekuje.

Trapnews:
You people pushed Fayose to his ruin and moved on to ruin Adeleke and Ambode. You supported Saraki too and he was humiliated at the primaries.

Now, you have your evil claws on Atiku and you are now dragging him like generator rope.

Yes I supported Saraki because I strongly believes he has good things to offer. He's an intelligent man with lot of visions. Losing the primary election doesn't change his destiny. When his time comes, he will surely be there. Since it was Atiku that won, I have nothing against him, anything to remove bubu out of office is what I'm after. And if Atiku disappoint us just as your lifeless one did, we will do the same to him in 2023. But for now, I'm Atikuted.

#istandwithatiku

Trapnews:
A presidential aspirant fighting for alleged looters instead of giving us his manifesto and low IQ Nigerians are still Atikulating Let it be known that Atiku engage in Anal sex. There was a rumor about Atiku having boyfriends and giving them Bora cars when he was the vice-president.
I disbelieved it until the entertainment gist came out that he anally screwed Genevieve Nnaj. What a country!

Say whatever you like about Atiku, it won't stop us from sending bubu back to where he belongs.

#istandwithatiku

adioolayi:


some people are always after bad news about this country... any good news will give them heart attacks and they will resort to all forms of criticisms towards the media outlet publishing such good news...no matter how reputable they are. Fools.

Either good or bad, bubu must go. He has failed, woefully.


#istandwithatiku

myettiallah:
In buhari, we trust!!!

How many of you? Stop living in the past.

Get Atikulated.

Let's kick bubu out. He doesn't deserve to rule this big black nation. A dully who doesn't understand the system.

#istandwithatiku.

Balyz:
This turncoat is already campaigning for Atiku, they shall wail together next year

Sharap there, what has he thief? Just mention one.

Balyz:
This turncoat is already campaigning for Atiku, they shall wail together next year

Sharap there, what has he thief? Just mention one.

hateme777:
Am surprised at how Nigerians think. Its an open secret that Atiku bought delegates with $ 5000. Is that the right thing to be done ?. This double standard stinks to high heaven.

Ta, sharaap there.

justtoodark:
i dont know anything about politics......but i hear the cries of the common people on the streets.....

Good. Now listen, politics is a dirty game. Most of those people were paid to do so. That's politics my friend.

justtoodark:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b09Lxb6V6dg

ole...!!!!!!!!!

Sharaap there, ignorant Ode. What do you know about politics.

justtoodark:
dont mind them...lets see how they wan convince people to abandon buhari and vote saraki................................

Are you still talking about Buhari? Danm!!! This country will never go forward with this kind of people.

J2381:
I see no reason why any sane nigerian should vote saraki.

All we need is someone who can push bubu out, and this man got what it takes to do it. If he emerged as the PDP presidential candidate, I will give him my vote.

I have been married to a wonderful man for the past 5yrs.

We have a 6-year-old son together but after then I have not been able to conceive, we have been to almost all the churches in Africa for deliverance and we have also been to hospitals and I have taken all sorts of medications, yet we didn’t get the result we expected.

My husband’s family wants him to take another woman and he has agreed to it, but he is still denying it to me. I can’t have kids again that’s what the doctors said and my husband wants as many kids as possible, I can’t stand seeing my husband with another woman not to mention him marrying another woman. I don’t know if I am being self-centered but I am a Christian my faith does not support polygamy.

I know my husband loves and respects me but if I allow him to take another woman, I know one thing for sure and it’s that I am going to loose my home because right now we are having some financial crisis and he is suggesting me to go stay with my parents which they have agreed upon, and I know that will hasten his steps in picking a second wife, honestly I don’t know what to do because I am close to 40 already.

Please Advice Me.

big7:
It very sadden... This issue has made many young men look away from education and venture into things that can not be relied upon in the long run... How long can your strength carry you while you labour out your energy on daily basis... We need to encourage our community about the significance of education In our environment and let the government make education worth the effort... What the essence of going to the University or poly only to graduate and someone who hasn't even learnt a trade will still compare himself or herself to you... It highly regrettable...

Oga...calm down, what makes you think they ain't educated? The present situation of the country has forced many graduates into it. I've seen so many of them.

alexistaiwo:
Easy with the lie abeg.

15k per day bawo
Is he plying Lagos to London route

Very true dear, I know of a guy in my area that use to earn up to that amount daily. He lives in a good apartment, and his children attends one the best schools. Besides, he just bought a car for his wife and he has almost complete his house. This guy told me he makes up to 250,000 per month. He said the problem most of the riders have is money management.

foreshore:
Its your unbelief that killed your father. Do you know how many people that had being healed through the man of God because they believed!!!

Unbelief? Okay o....continue going to his Church. Oponu ode

ebenholer:
We have heard such blackmail over time and it has been far from being real for those who knows the truth. Many South Africans are not happy about the man success and have been planning to send him parking back to Nigeria. South Africa the world full of hatred

About ten years ago, my dad was at the point of death and I thought of taking him to Christ embassy so I could admit him into Oyakhilome's healing school. When I got there to make inquiries on how to admit my dad, it was a different story. They were giving me different excuses. I tried but I was left no with choice than to go home. I lost my dad few days later.

Oyakhilome's healing school is scam.

Oyakhilome is a fake man of God.

Jesus has a lot to do on judgement day.

The day Oyakhilome collected one thousand naira gate fee before entering his Church on a year's eve, that was the day I knew him as a fake pastor, the bible says by their fruit you shall know them. Many reasons why Anita divorced him. That man is an evil man.

I met him in church one Sunday morning. He sat next to me and I couldn’t help it but recognize the kind of gentleman he was. He was soft spoken and had this shyness on her face anytime he tried to talk to me. During the service, I realized he was finding it uneasy to sing along with the church because he didn’t come along with a hymn book. I shared mine. We both sang from the same hymn book and got closer as the service progressed.

After the last grace was said by the priest and the church dispersed, he turned to me and said thank you. I smiled and asked his name. “I’m Martin,” he said.

“Nice meeting you Martin” I responded. But before I could turn around and leave, he told me;

"Actually, this is my first time being here.” Amid smiles he continued. “and it’s great finding a friend at my first time in church. Do you mind if I called you sometimes?”

We exchanged contacts and left each other’s presence. Truth be told, I was going through the hardest times of my life. The man I’ve dated for about two years just called it quit and I was very devastated. I was nursing my wounds when Martin came along. He kept crossing my mind all week but I resolved not to call him until he does.

He never called until we met in church again the next Sunday. Inwardly, I felt guilty for thinking about him the way I did all week. That’s girlish. But we had another good service together, singing from the same hymn book and making fun under our breath.

After the service, he called when he got home. We started chatting on Whatsapp and grew closer together as the days pass. I shared my story of broken relationships with him and he was kind enough to offer soothing words. He didn’t judge me. He didn’t condemn my actions or sought to give directions as to how I should have handled things. He gained my trust that way and I opened up more.

He told me a little bit about himself. Nothing of note though, but I was happy he was overcoming his shyness. We grew closer and closer until finally, after about six months later, he made it obvious that he wanted us to date.

He didn’t propose to me. I don’t remember him telling me he loved me or wanted to be with me. He loved to act than to use words. We spoke more about it and decided to be in a relationship. He already knew my fears and easily accepted the conditions I laid down for the relationship. I told him; “I don’t want sex now. At least, if it should happen, it should happen after marriage, that is if you have any intention to marry me.” He only nodded and smiled. That day in his room, I remember we had our first kiss.

It was awesome! A lot of things started running through my head. Hey, I wasn’t a nun. I’ve had sex before and kisses this intense usually lead to sex. I remember grabbing him intensely like my whole life depended on him. I was shaking. I wanted something more than the kiss but I held on. He was gentle. The farthest he could go was to hold my head in between his palms, look me in the eyes and kissed intensely. I couldn’t breathe. I gathered the little strength in me and pulled away. I was panting like I’ve been running around for hours. The next words that came out were; “No more kisses until marriage. I mean it.”

For the next two years, we didn’t kiss and we never had sex. The farthest we went was to hold hands, lean on each other and occasionally cuddle. Martin was a good boy and I loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together. When we started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had sex before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no. I don’t know if he believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.

Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have sex became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having sex? In my mind, I wanted our first sex to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first sex and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going. Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But sex had a way of creeping into our minds.

I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream. What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.

Days to the traditional wedding was tough. We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on.

Finally, we did the traditional wedding. The pastor was there to pray and bless the union. During his sermon, he complimented us for staying chaste all this while and told us to still be strong and keep it till after the church wedding. I could see my husband restless and with a subtle frown.

The night after the traditional wedding we had a fight. Our first fight as husband and wife happened on a night we ought to be happy together. What brought the fight? SEX! Not That I didn’t want to have sex, I wanted to but the time wasn’t right. So I told him; “Didn’t you hear what the pastor said? This is not the real marriage so we can’t have sex. Hold it together. We are only six months away.”

After saying this, my new name was launched; “Madam-We-Can’t-Have-Sex, I hear you but tomorrow, I’ll have s*x somewhere else.” Did you hear what he just called me? Madam-We-Can’t-Have-S*x? At this point, I didn’t care who he would have sex with if only that would make him stay off me till our honeymoon.

For a week, we lived in the same room but talked less to each other. He was always angry with me. What a way to start a married life. I was determined. To me, that was the right thing to do. The church frowns on sex before marriage, not that I also frown on it, I had a different motivation. I wanted the first sex to be unforgettable. I was saving my best for last and for no one but him. So why was he rushing?

Then one night things got worse. Martin came home with a friend. He was too drunk he couldn’t have made it home without the help of his friend. We had spent two arduous months together. I was sad for him. “Is he going through all that because of sex?” I asked myself.

I left him in the coach till he woke up at dawn and came to sleep next to me. He was smelling like a rotten fish. I couldn’t stand it so I woke up, picked a pillow and started walking away to sleep in the coach. He pulled me over and tried forcing himself on me. We’ve been through this tussle over and over again and I always won. I was used to it. This time, something was different. He was stronger and determined.

We struggled and fought for about fifteen minutes. He seemed to get stronger by the minutes while I was losing steam. He managed to tear off my pant and held my two hands apart with his two hands. We were both left with our legs to struggle with. I got tired and realized I couldn’t fight any longer. I kept my calm. He sensed the victory and quickly dashed over to have me. That was when I raised my right knee and unfortunately, my knee caught him in the balls. He fell over and screamed out loud. He suddenly got frozen. I’ve never been scared in my life. I thought I had killed him.

I tried calming him down but he kept whining in pains. Neighbors who heard him screaming started knocking on our door. I rushed to put on a dress and opened up the door. It was very embarrassing seeing neighbors in my room trying to help him regain his calm. After a lot of going up and down, he regained his calm. We were left alone.

The next morning, he packed what he had in the house and left. I didn’t ask him any question. I feared he might hit me. I left to my parent. I kept playing out the incidence in my mind over and over again. I kept asking myself; “Did I take this no sex thing too far.” I believe I did. He never picked my calls for three days. My parent and I went to meet him and his parent to try and resolve the issue but he didn’t listen to a word of what we had to say. All he said was he wanted a divorce. Two weeks later, his parent and other family members came over to dissolve the marriage.

That was it. My marriage lasted for only two and half months. What breaks my heart is the fact that I gave sex to those who didn’t deserve it. They had sex and left anyway. This one—Martin did everything right but I allowed fear to take over my senses. Recently, I heard from another pastor saying that traditional marriage is also marriage and sex is allowed after traditional marriage. If that was true, how stupid could I be? I was married and I didn’t even know it?

Three and half years after our break-up, I attended a wedding—Martin’s wedding with another lady I knew so well. I’m here, still single after six years of our breakup. Guess what, I had a boyfriend. We had sex but the relationship didn’t go well so we broke up. Back to single again.



http://silentbeads.com/not-sex-marriage-destroyed-marriage/#.W5RCDGko80M

Very true, olosho everywhere. They're like poo

Kenfil:
Nezianu Ewu can beer. Just ur comment has shown me the kind of person u are. Uncivilized and razz

Take panado

OboOlora:
Dude is so broke, he’s even thinking of selling his belongings to his daughter. No wonder he has been doing boy o boy for Aliko, he was even serving jollof rice at Alikos daughters wedding

Sharap ode

Kenfil:
Bla bla bla blA, those that haven't crossed murtala Mohammed airport always telling us how the white women are better. Please oga, u only attract people like urself. So if u think all Nigerian women are boring, then u r d same.. Y'all should stop all these ridiculous comparison with oyinbo women, go and date them and leave us then.. u better not run back when they really show u ( lol African men become domestic once they marry oyinbo haha)

Sharap there. I dislike naija ladies, they're like poo

beetown:
What manner of fuckery.

So a president who also doubles as the minister of petroleum will say he doesn't have N55million for form abi?
This staged integrity show is stale.
Name Checkers association of Nigeria bought form for Bubu

But wait o...oh! Maybe it was a kind of ritual to expand his church... If he had succeeded his church would have turned a big one. Just guessing.

#Jesusislord.

Leun:
He was only using the title pastor, he's nowhere near being a child of God.
He needs repentance and correction not forgetting serving a jail time.

That's one of the rewards of using the name of our lord God in vain.

Still counting...

[quote author=LuciferKristi post=70307947]I keep winning


[/whish] You keep winning because Jesus gave you the chance to prove yourself. But wait untill the final whistle, only then will tell the winner.

#TeamJesus For live..

Bash3911:
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Sharap there. OLEEEEEEE!!

How can a man send his child away because of one useless toto If it was the man, I strongly believe the woman will not accept the child just as the child's father new wife did. So, oga Fayose follow your mind. You and your wife did not have agreement that she would bring in the child after marriage.

But to say my mind, your wife is playing games with you. Her mother rejecting the child is a lie from the pit of hell, she just want the child to stay with her. Forget what nairalanders are saying. Don't force yourself to do what is against your mind, the earlier the better.