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ghettokid1:
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This guy head don suffer. If say dem dey pay for meme ehn, this guy head for don fetch am money.

chigoziri2403:
I first met her in Jos, I asked her for a fling, she refused, after much persuasion, she agreed, when she came to my apartment, she met one of my friends with benefits, she left and bluntly refused my advances after, I gave up.

Fast forward, met her in Abuja, we exchanged contacts. She was still extra sexy, she is built the way I like women: slim, small breast, flat tummy and huge ass.

She asked me for financial favour via whatsapp, I gave her. Her Whatsapp status are her videos dancing seductively without bra.

I stopped viewing them, one day she sent them directly to me, but later claimed it was meant for another person, I am greatly tempted to ask her for sex just once to get her out of my thoughts
But here is the problem, she was once friends with my wife before I got married, and they had a big misunderstanding that's before I met my wife, they have mutual friends, lots of them, I don't want to ask her for a fling, and she ends up telling her friends who might tell my wife, her seduction is too much.

WHAT DO I DO?

You are a FOOL.

So you are married and you are here asking us what you should do.

Don't you know that adultery is evil.

Hell fire awaits you for even contemplating this...

Do not think of EVER CHEATING on your wife...

PlayerMeji:
Thanks for the heads up..

Make una try acclimatize to that condition, Abuja is almost also the same but the government rolled out some busses to ease the situation.

Abuja has a poor transport system. The buses in Abuja are very few. I doubt if the El Rufai buses on Abuja roads are up to 50. Abuja will collapse the day private cars stop to carry passengers.

OP I take God beg you abeg stop wetin you dey do. No trespass enter another man territory.

It is better you begin to treat her like someone else's wife o.

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Tomide007:
So you haven't noticed that he did everything you wrote there in less than a year? he started projects and completed them in six months. Just google them biko.....

That one makes sense. Not this rubbish about sitting under a tree. Let us wake up. Governance is not a joke.

How does a governor sitting under a tree make news?

Haba! We should be seeing serious things like reconstruction of roads, schools and bridges that were destroyed by BH.

Not this nonsense...

Please let us stop celebrating mediocrity...

Oga the Bible says "spare the rod and spoil the child"... You can see it in the book of Proverbs.
There is nothing that beating cannot RESET. It is just that you need to counsel her and draw her close after beating her.

Then shower her with love after beating her.

Leave the other guy for now and deal with your sister...

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

OP
I wish I could see you and talk to you

The thing is this, God leads everyone in different ways. Some see visions, others hear audible voices, some get Angelic visitations while others are led by impressions and a still small voice.

The truth is man naturally wants something dramatic like hearing an audible voice accompanied with thunder or getting an angelic visitation.

However, none supercedes the other.

God spoke to Elijah (a mighty prophet in the Bible through a still small voice. That's after earthquake and fire). See the excerpt below from 1Kings 19:11-13

1 Kings 19:11-13 (KJV) And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake:
And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice.
And it was so, when Elijah heard it, that he wrapped his face in his mantle, and went out, and stood in the entering in of the cave. And, behold, there came a voice unto him, and said, What doest thou here, Elijah?

OP my advice to you is this go on a retreat and just pray to God.

Do you even read the Bible self?

OP by now, you are supposed to know how God relates with you. This is the reason you are having issues concerning this and you are tossed by the words of people.

OP, there is no scriptural evidence for a destined wife or husband.
It is one of the erroneous doctrines that have crept into Christianity and many people magnify it.

I hope you are born again and you and the lady in question are not into any sexual relationship yet?

Now, I will address you as a Christian which I am and these are what I will advice

1. Is she a genuine born again
2. Is she godly
3. Does she have good characters
4. Do you love her
5. Are you at peace being around her
6. Is she someone you will want to spend the rest of your life with

Do not allow anybody prophesy your wife to you.
I believe in prophecy and I am a son of a Prophet but there is no place in the Bible that someone's wife or husband was prophesied to him or her.

Mind you, both of you must be compatible in belief and spirituality

And pray to God

Once you have peace with her, my brother proceed.

As for those that say only one person is destined for you ask them this question

What if the destined person dies before you marry her?

Juliearth:
How can I get this stone please?

I don't know o. My uncle only told me it was brought from Israel.

adakoleagbenu:
Was actually waiting for someone to mention Black Stone.

when I was in boarding school which was of course surrounded by bushes as is d case in Nigeria, snake bites and scorpion sting were quite common . all these anti venom no dey available. A friend brought out the black stone in our presence when snake bit a hostel mate he told the guy not to move, he put the black stone on it and told us it was from Jerusalem. the black stone stuck on the guys leg, drawing the poison. it refused to remove until it drew all poison and fell down itself. the guy gradually felt better. the other guy now dipped the black stone in liquid milk to wash it. we saw the poison come out of the black stone, discolouring the milk water. that because the remedy for us

Everything you said is true. My uncle told me the stone got stuck to his leg while draining the poison out.

God really created things.

My uncle got bitten by a snake some time ago (I think 2008) in Abuja. Mind you, the snake bit him in front of a hospital here in Abuja. The snake was from a heap of death very close to the hospital.

He killed the snake and got to the hospital and called another relation of ours that he (my uncle) had been bitten by a snake.

This our relation told my uncle to come over to his place which is just a stone throw from the hospital. That the hospital will waste time as it was in the night.

My uncle was given lots of onions at our relations place and a black stone was placed where he was bitten. I was told the black stone was imported from Israel.

My uncle told me that he felt the poison leaving his body as the black stone was placed there.

My uncle is still alive till today. I'm not advertising the black stone but my uncle is in the sitting room as I am typing now.

I have not seen the black stone but this is a true life story.

dannyla:
Hmmmm,
My mom was deflowered by a rapist and all she ever asked of me was to get married as a virgin. Till today, she doesn't know that I was raped too. She once told me she will die a sad woman if I don't keep her request. My father died when I was a girl. My mother sold her clothes to raise us.
If I leave, he'll tell her I'm not a virgin anymore and she will never have that peace she has now. I can't watch my mum suffer for something she didn't do. My mum once used to be hypertensive. What if it comes back due to shock? My aunt used to mock my mom over the rape before our very eyes and my mum simply told her that one wasn't her fault but her children will marry honourably. My mother's pride is the reason I let the rapist walk free. This man knows and will tell everyone.

I'm not yet strong enough to relocate us very far away or foot any drastic bill. That's a major reason I've been tolerating. The advise from those around me doesn't help either. That's why I seek public opinion

This is not enough reason to stay with the man. Na you dey marry no be your mum.

OP, you deserve aan who will love and cherish you for who you are.

There are things you don't tell a fiancee. And the number of time you have had sex prior to the relationship is one of them. Only few people can stand it.

All you need is to be faithful to the person and not go about SAYING such things about your past. I believe in no sex before marriage and I won't ask the lady I want to marry if she has had sex before.

Let me tell you this, leave that guy. Several people have married repentant prostitutes and they are happy with life.

Abeg think am o...

I just pity you.

This guy has beaten you and insulted you in public. Madam, he is insecure and it is better you quit now that you are not married.

As for all those people begging you to give him a second chance, tell them to matchmake the man with one of their daughters or sisters.

It is better you quit now or you will die in the marriage.

mumumugu:
have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

That is not true please...

Let no body deceive you. The Army is far more advanced in training and resources than the DSS.

However, the DSS commands respect because it is controlled by the President ad their operations are shrouded in secrecy.

But in terms of training, resources and man power, DSS no near Army.

I pity you OP. Can't you see the signs? She will be worse in the marriage.

Person dey show you her true colour and you dey form blind...

Even your mother in her wisdom has seen that the girl is bad.

Anyway, no come Nairaland for advise if she beat you after marriage.

Good luck.

By the way, my best advise is to terminate the relationship with the lady now.

Your mother is a real mother. Greet her for me...

OP there are no more Osus in Igbo land. All the monarchs in Igboland had a meeting in Anambra and banned the practice.

Besides do you know that the "Osus" are the richest and most educated in Igboland?

athaboi:
And who are those jubilating? Choosing between two thieves and they are jubilating as if anything good will come out of kalu

Kalu is better than Send Mao Ohabunwa. FYI Abia North is my senatorial district...

Both of them na palasa but one better pass...

hush15:
Is that were the logo should have been on the car? Then they should go and sit down....

They can't win these one. He bought it, he flaunted it. Ain't crime in that.

He is using it for an advert without permission or acknowledgement.

Why do you think movies have "appreciation" written at the end? Nobody jokes with branding and copyright in business...

It is Philip Plein's car alright but he made a mistake by using another company's brand and copyright without their permission.

Ferrari's group is not about putting the shoe on the bonnet but displaying their logo and name alongside the image of the shoe.

It is totally wrong to use another company's copyright without their permission. Mind you, this is an advert and not an ordinary picture (the grouse is the advert).

IamCharles123:
Dangote's apartment in abuja, the one he wanted to sell recently was one billion naira. Thats more than a million dollar.

I know a building in Maitama that someone priced for $15m but the sellers placed it at $18m. It is very close to Transcorp Hilton.

Politicians have made the value of houses to skyrocket in Abuja. It is used as a front to launder money.

globemoney:
Fake news. I'm not even sure theres a house that sells for $5m in Nigeria

There are buildings here in Abuja worth over $5m bro. So many of them.

Racism happens because Africa (the home of blacks) is the most backward of all continents; backward in the sense of economic and technological advancements.

Racism will surely stop only when African countries have better economies which will inturn lead to rich citizens.

It will surprise you to know that the Europeans cannot be racist to a Saudi or an Emirati (UAE) simply because the citizens of these countries are rich. The countries have vibrant economies.

So, the easiest way to end racism is to have citizens that are rich, educated and technologically advanced. But the reverse is the case in Africa.

Olivegreen:
You're missing the point!!!
Being gay is not just about gay sex just as love is not just about sex.
You just quote the Bible from beginning to end but you can't interprete it with wisdom.
I don't care how you have sex with your wife or husband ( by the way are you male or female?) To me, as long as you both love each other, you both can use whatever positions or methods to give yourselves pleasure during sex.

Being gay is not the same thing as loving yourself.
You are twisting love by saying you love

Some people just like acting blind and intentionally ignore the main point of certain issues. Sex is not the main point of the lgbtq+ community. The main point is that love is love regardless of one's gender. We fall in love with other people's souls and not their body.
My body was given to me so it should not define me but my soul is who I am therefore, it defines me.
If my soul loves the soul of another female then how is that wrong? I love her personality and not just her body.

Please let us stop this unreasonable spread of hate and intolerance.

Love is love.

Going by your definition, then Necrophilia and bestiality is love and not perversion.
Read the Bible well oga.

This is very wrong.
Ideally, NOK of employees are paid three years salaries by the employers in the event of the demise of an employee.
This is done via a group life insurance plan.
I wonder why the company is saying the insurance company will pay three months salary?

Anybody that can escalate this should do so...

munarule:
I am a kind of person that don't believe in voodoo or jazz but with what is happening in my family now, jazz dey o. my only sibling (we were 3 in family though but our last born of 15yrs died last year) that was doing well in minna suddenly returned to village in Enugu and don't want to go back again.

My mum and some kindred took him to federal neuropsychiatric hospital Enugu where he spent one week and ran back to village. Though I spent over 60,000 during the period he was admitted there. We were thinking he will get better but he wasn't. A lot told us it is something spiritual. my parent visited some prayer house and they told them my brother is afflicted because they want to inherit my father's lands.

They went to a church today at Enugu and the pastor told them to bring 100,000 before he can do anything. is salvation not free again? my daddy has no amount of money and he already called me to send it which I won't send because that pastor sound so dubious. Giving him the money is not even the problem but what if he just collect the money and nothing changes?

If you know anywhere I can take my brother to in Enugu or Enugu axis please do let me know. He's my only sibling and I love him so much

Bro, that pastor na scam. Don't send any money to them. I know good men of God in Abuja or Lagos.

CrownFemi:
Dont get it twisted. He is only looking for attention. You know u are going end up in hell if you have yourself killed. Why dont you turn to God? Why dont you just repent now and become a practising Muslim or Christian... See if tou like make you kill yourself, nah another man will Bleep ur gf

Don't say that o. He might be serious. I know someone very very close to me that committed suicide. It was like a joke at first.

afoife:
Guess this should be his number

Emmanuel 08164629434. Got it from his profile

Please let us call him

I just tried his number but it is not going through.

Albinoflash:
Today is my last day on nairaland and my last day on earth,this life is truely unfair to some people,i can't continue to dwell in misery.am gonna miss nairaland and football when am gone.11pm tonight the gate of hell will be opened to me.i have been the worst creature since birth and i curse that day i was born 25th december 1992.what a wasted life

Brother please don't try what you are contemplating...I beg you.

O Lord, help Albinoflash. Please deliver him from whatever he is going through.

Suicide is never an option.

Seen abeg help us na...
Look for a way to stop this guy's posting pornographic pictures here...
It is making me lose interest in Nairaland...
Abeg help us...


The idiots posting pornographic here should know it is inappropriate. It is even foolish because you gain nothing. Even money self Dem no gain. Smh