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So you left your wife in Nigeria, lie say you are going for a business to go meet your corner corner girlfriend?

^^Shut up jare, how would you know? Abi, you sef don try his impotent pee pee

OAM4J:
You be 1st class liar jor. Bring the evidence of any of my wives or girlfriends telling you that am impotent.

I am going to write a letter to the government to carry your old body go na them old porsin home. .we don taya for your shakara

Those who are saying the guy should have kept the hand on or around her waist should look again. Where is the waist? The butt has taken over everything. . . I bet the guy thought he held the waist!
So what would you have him do? Put his hand on her shoulders? Nah! Old school! Put it on her head? Is he blessing her? Keep it beside him? I think not!
Blame the butt, not the dude!

Gbam!! Thank you

Oya, you are married and you are on N/L at this time of the morning? Should you not be in bed teaching you wife about romanthetics and bedamatics?

OAM4J:
Why do you keep talking about me being impotent? How you go take know? Are you my wife or girlfriend?

talk true jor, you wan make I come prove to you say I am not impotent so you go take style enjoy my pee pee.

I spoke to your wives, girlfriends and concubines and they told me that you are impotent. . Abeg, nor fool you sef with that enjoy pee pee business. .You need to retire sef, don't know why they government has not taken you to an old people's home. .

^^Like I said before your understanding of polygamy is limited. .I have nothing else to say to you. .You can say I lack common sense, hell, you can even say I am illiterate as long as we have come to the conclusion that you have never been in a polygamous relationship, you are not from a polygamous family and you know nowt about polygamy and you are now starting to sound like a whinny little four year old. .

Now gerrout!!!

I literally wept. . .

Uneducated illiterates, bastardised baboons. .They will rot were they are. .They shall never prosper, their children, children's children shall never prosper, their families and future generations shall suffer for what they did to this man. .May they suffer and suffer after death. .

Bast[i]ar[/i]ds, illiterates, I hope they get sodomised by goats and hope when it is time for them to die they die a very long and painful death. All those involved.


That was someones son. They took a life just for a mere necklace. .Ahhhh, they will suffer and rot for it one day at a time. .Basta[i]r[/i]ds. .

OAM4J:
e be like say you sef dey for your season

Even if them they na them season your impotency is of no use to them. .

Ok, you are 25 still doing your masters, don't you have a job?

^^You make no sense, you understanding of polygamy is limited, you know nowt about polygamy. A man who associates polygamy and cheating aka adultery? Should have just ignored. .

Good day to you Mr.

coogar:
[s]for fuc[i]k[/i]s sake, stop arguing because you like the colour of your prints. the moment a married man starts chasing after another woman, he has cheated. whether he eventually marries her is irrelevant. he has cheated on his first wife by going after the second one. that is my point. so men who marry more than a wife are as bad as the ones who bust their nuts secretly. they have all betrayed their first wives!!![/s]

Sounds like something my 4 year old would say. Ke ke ke ke

BTW, coogar "thunk" is what unintelligent people use aka hillbillies instead of "thought"

coogar:
so while he was sleeping around before marrying the second wife. . . has he cheated on the first wife or not?  i actually thunk you are a bit intelligent, i thunk wrong!!

I have told you I was using what you wrote, now you see how stupid it sounds. .If a man wants to marry a second wife, why would he bother cheating with her when he is going to marry her anyway? It does not make sense.

Men in monogamous relationships cheat more the men in polygamous relationships. .I even doubt they cheat because I have never heard of one case where a man with 2 wives will cheat when he can just go ask for her hand in marriage. I don't want to sound naive to say polygynous men don't cheat but you just cannot compare Polygamy to cheating it just don't work out. .

@OP, so are you saying your father's cheating is whats affecting you or the way your parents treat you(like a child)?

^^This is why men don't know how to not get caught,, they don't know how to deal with all those listed. .They think they are all game aka players when the women are the ones letting them think they are whilst they are doing their own thing.

^^so you are married?

Did the man not taste the first wife too before marrying? I am going by your logic since you say men sleep with the second wife before marrying. .

Coogar, speak what you know  .Women in polygamous relationships do know what they are getting themsleves in and only a few are forced into it.

Many women accept it because it is part of their culture. It is stup[i]i[/i]d to compare cheating aka adultery to polygamy.

I am sure if you ask anyone on here if they have been affected by the polygamous family they will tell you "no" because it has not affected them physically or psychologically. Fine, there are fights and arguments between the women and children but in the end they are all one family because they are bound by the laws of marriage.

coogar:
the fact is their father has cheated or kept an extramarital affair before having the chutzpah to bring the lady in question home. men don't just meet women on the street and marry them on the spot. a whole lot of intimate activities must have happened before the man brings his concubine home to marry her. did i even say marriage? in nigeria, there's no marriage after the first wife. . . . .it's just a simple issue of the man bringing his family members to cajole the wife to chill out and create a little space for the new woman to perch.

You do not make sense, abeg if you believe that men sleep with the second wife first before marrying na yor own. In the end, is he not going to marry the second wife?

I can assure you that children who see their parents or grandparents jumping from one room to another do not find it grotesque because it is non of their business. Comparing polygamy and cheating is not the right route to go because the children do know that their Father or in some cases mother is married to these women/men and they do not grow up thinking they can sleep with any woman. They very well know the father married these women and as 2mch wrote is an arrangement with understandings between the 2 to 4 wives or how many wives are included and children.

ronkebp:
Talking about the women'.

'Course you will never see a woman leaving phone numbers in their shoes trousers, condoms in cars etc etc etc.


Dayo, you are not my debo at all at all. . .

[quote author=ainaabbey link=topic=710353.msg8711144#msg8711144 date=1310580006][/quote]Who banned you?

[quote author=bashy_demy link=topic=710353.msg8711070#msg8711070 date=1310579441]Nice said jare i do cheat make una carry me go court[/quote]Just pray to not come across a crazed woman as a girlfriend or wife.

ronkebp:
Most men do not want to believe that women are good cheats' they will hide it and you will never know.

Are you talking about the women hiding it or the men?

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8711048#msg8711048 date=1310579312]^^thread title is will all married men cheat.


not which gender cheats more.[/quote]I posted a long as[i]s[/i] post in regards to [b]will all married men cheat [/b]and I got banned. So now don't really care about the title just the statistics of cheats in general.

On Average women cheat more than men just that men do not know how to hide. .A woman can cheat and never get caught but a man will always get caught one way or the other.

I guess the lawyer has asked him to use the plea of insanity. . . Soon, he will be saying he is a madman aka schizo since the "my wife killed herself did not work."

Dayo, you have no respect, sha. . .Chim lakat

Humans are naturally polygamous
The history of western civilization aside, humans are naturally polygamous. Polyandry (a marriage of one woman to many men) is very rare, but polygyny (the marriage of one man to many women) is widely practiced in human societies, even though Judeo-Christian traditions hold that monogamy is the only natural form of marriage. We know that humans have been polygynous throughout most of history because men are taller than women.
Among primate and nonprimate species, the degree of polygyny highly correlates with the degree to which males of a species are larger than females. The more polygynous the species, the greater the size disparity between the sexes. Typically, human males are 10 percent taller and 20 percent heavier than females. This suggests that, throughout history, humans have been mildly polygynous.

Relative to monogamy, polygyny creates greater fitness variance (the distance between the "winners" and the "losers" in the reproductive game) among males than among females because it allows a few males to monopolize all the females in the group. The greater fitness variance among males creates greater pressure for men to compete with each other for mates. Only big and tall males can win mating opportunities. Among pair-bonding species like humans, in which males and females stay together to raise their children, females also prefer to mate with big and tall males because they can provide better physical protection against predators and other males.

In societies where rich men are much richer than poor men, women (and their children) are better off sharing the few wealthy men; one-half, one-quarter, or even one-tenth of a wealthy man is still better than an entire poor man. As George Bernard Shaw puts it, "The maternal instinct leads a woman to prefer a tenth share in a first-rate man to the exclusive possession of a third-rate one." Despite the fact that humans are naturally polygynous, most industrial societies are monogamous because men tend to be more or less equal in their resources compared with their ancestors in medieval times. (Inequality tends to increase as society advances in complexity from hunter-gatherer to advanced agrarian societies. Industrialization tends to decrease the level of inequality.)

Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy
When there is resource inequality among men—the case in every human society—most women benefit from polygyny: women can share a wealthy man. Under monogamy, they are stuck with marrying a poorer man.

The only exceptions are extremely desirable women. Under monogamy, they can monopolize the wealthiest men; under polygyny, they must share the men with other, less desirable women. However, the situation is exactly opposite for men. Monogamy guarantees that every man can find a wife. True, less desirable men can marry only less desirable women, but that's much better than not marrying anyone at all.
Men in monogamous societies imagine they would be better off under polygyny. What they don't realize is that, for most men who are not extremely desirable, polygyny means no wife at all, or, if they are lucky, a wife who is much less desirable than one they could get under monogamy.

Most suicide bombers are Muslim
According to the Oxford University sociologist Diego Gambetta, editor of Making Sense of Suicide Missions, a comprehensive history of this troubling yet topical phenomenon, while suicide missions are not always religiously motivated, when religion is involved, it is always Muslim. Why is this? Why is Islam the only religion that motivates its followers to commit suicide missions
The surprising answer from the evolutionary psychological perspective is that Muslim suicide bombing may have nothing to do with Islam or the Koran (except for two lines in it). It may have nothing to do with the religion, politics, the culture, the race, the ethnicity, the language, or the region. As with everything else from this perspective, it may have a lot to do with sex, or, in this case, the absence of sex.
What distinguishes Islam from other major religions is that it tolerates polygyny. By allowing some men to monopolize all women and altogether excluding many men from reproductive opportunities, polygyny creates shortages of available women. If 50 percent of men have two wives each, then the other 50 percent don't get any wives at all.

So polygyny increases competitive pressure on men, especially young men of low status. It therefore increases the likelihood that young men resort to violent means to gain access to mates. By doing so, they have little to lose and much to gain compared with men who already have wives. Across all societies, polygyny makes men violent, increasing crimes such as murder and rape, even after controlling for such obvious factors as economic development, economic inequality, population density, the level of democracy, and political factors in the region.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200706/ten-politically-incorrect-truths-about-human-nature?page=2

OAM4J:
You too dey use style wan taste my pee pee? Nothing for you, i no want a cheap bride

I know say you no sabi cook and read otherwise you for don read for my post wey you quote say i don do DNA test already.  

I read that DNA test and they gave you the wrong results betta go get your own wer you are proven not to be the father. .Take style taste your pee pee? Abeg, we need to feed it to the fishes because its of no use cannot even fertilise egg. . You cannot afford my bride prices sef. .wait, wait ke ke ke ke

OAM4J:
dey dia dey deceive yourself, You no know say i don do dna test since cos i no too trust you. The babies are mine.

besides nobody else fit impregnate you, cos you get magun  

naaa, am not afraid of the dark, I just dont trust you in the dark. So we have to do it under a broad day light  

Abeg, stop fooling yourself. .We all know you have been suffering from impotency. .You better go do DNA test for those children

mukina2:
mandinga na salone dem food ,  dry res (contri res or wite  res) with jakato,pepper,maggi, okra, n sardine, you nor sabi am?

u nor sabi cook fos?  na u man dey cook bo nor to yu

Abi don si me nebor cook res wit all  wey yu say part foe di jakato but ar nor eva try am. .Na poor man food, wait wait. . .ke ke ke ke

Ar sabi cook nor mean say ar foe sabi lafidi, na poor man food, ar noe dey deal with poor man food

Ar jus yherie say me granny na salone don be chief so una need foe reyalise say ar comot frm royalty, ar nor foe cook sef but just kin do am cos ar lek for eat.

No, thanks. . No fecal lips for me