₦airaland Forum

santos247:


Guy, you funny no be small. Anyway, i am on the southern hemisphere within this continent. Financing their living with me isnt a problem and i already got them 3 years visa. Well, it may sound stupid that i didnt figure it out. one may not have all things figured out in many stages of life. but with guidance, progress can still be made.

ifyalways:
Mbok, what do you mean ? I mean who are you to dictate when and when not to reproduce to a couple you don't feed? Haaa, NLD sef. What won't one hear

@OP,lovely. God bless your home.

Acidosis:
1. You haven't gotten any decent job since 2008. It doesn't necessarily mean you haven't gotten any job at all. What is your definition of a decent job?

2. You don't have to pursue another career in Canada. You have to be sincere here, what's your final cummulative grade? I think it's easier, better and more reasonable to continue your search (job) in Canada (further studies, (postgraduate) will aid the available).

3. I noticed you're already preparing for unforseen contigencies between you and your hubby (nice move). My advice here can only be directed at your hubby.

4. Lastly, your kids aren't the number 1 priority; your husband is... Is your husband "okay" with your plan? Aside the "what people will say", is he in agreement with your plans?
You're going into another country with a wedding ring which can be thrown away at the slightest temptation (and ofcourse provocation). You should be concerned about your FAMILY at this point in time.

sweetgala:
Why her head big pass her body in proportion.

Fxwarrior:
I doubt you have crossed beyond your state boundary talkless of country.
So your advice was borne out of ill will, to punish him. Who told you the decision was selfish.If he finishes and secures a higher paying job, who will benefit?

Do yourself a favour and read your posts well and thoroughly before submitting.

Fxwarrior:
Did you type this part in your sleep. Did you read this part to yourself before posting or did you post in a hurry?

'Especially when she can visit you....' Like seriously. So visit once or twice a year is enough abi? Besides do you know what is involved in those visits? The cost implications plus securing visa or you don't know she may apply for visa and it gets denied.

You didn't even consider if the girl can be faithful to him. I know what op is afraid of and I think is genuine. He may come back after that 3 years and find out his wife is a stranger to him. No connection again.

chaplin4u:
I bet he had all these characters in him before you married him. Anyway, you are now married.

My 2 cents:
1. Be very patient
2. Communicate your observations to him in a mature manner
3. Don't nag.
4. If you see no changes after communicating, seek out those he respects such as his pastor or parents.
5. Pray, Pray and Pray more.
6. God help you.

MissMeiya:
Then you were lucky. I've seen terrible fights between wives and their children that last until adulthood. To this day, my father can't trust his siblings enough to let them serve him food. How fúcked up is that?

My aunt was held down by the other wife and her children and... And that's just one of the things that I know of. Your case is rare.

April07:
Haba .. this geh looks anorexic na

Vivly:
Post your house address on this thread and we'll come down to search for it.
We specialize in Gold Finding, Money recovery and what have you. Post the address today.

onila:
obviously he cheated too in the marriage

but its a mans world in Nigeria

DukeNija:
Kandii, this ur post almost made me lose my appetite this morning, but thank goodness the food was too inviting.
Its just a pen!s? Fucckking another man for 14years and its just a pen!s?
I need water.

braine:
Huh? He should "manage"? See who's talking 'shyt'

Odilafta:
Sad memories
It was Feb 14 this year,my darling sis was taken to the hospital cos she was critically ill.
She couldn't sleep,she only did when she layed her head on me
She couldn't eat,she only did when I fed her
and at dawn,the doc confirmed there's nothing much he can do medically,he actually suggested we take her home for traditional care...We took the advise,on the 15th,while my mum was taking her to the village at about 3pm,I called mum to know how far they've gone and she broke the news,"look Odinaka,she's dead".
At that moment,my phone fell into the stew I was using to eat bread,I started seeing her in my clothes,I started hearing her call me,she was there with me eating and smiling.
I wanted to cry but no tears came..and then I began to realise how much I love her..

The memories began to replay.,our days together,everything.

Enough.

freecocoa:
Inspire fire

It would have had me, if he stayed through to her as well, then again, whatever rocks 'your' boat.



P.S, she makes her own money too.

braine:
Ehn? 14 years?! Abeg inform me if the man needs a divorce attorney. Thats wicked of the woman. He should go do paternity tests on the kids. Women who cheat are the worst no matter what! They have no excuses.

Code213:
Today's Hero!!! Bros thank you o!!! I hear he just turned 22!!!
I can see some of his mates roaming Nairaland with their pants sagged to their ankle!! Smh.

khiaa:
LMAO....You wear weaves amd wigs on your nappy head, you can stop the denial. It's a true fact.

khiaa:
African women wear weeves and blond ones at that AZZHOLE. Why don't you take that weave out of your hair and wear your nappy hair.

HARDDON:
Isn't it just anonyingly amazing ?

some dudes go chasing for months n can't get a game, yet others just meet same gurl and under an hour be smacking it real good.

This one thing I tell guys: get ur shytes together n get them dough ...... money ain't never wrong.

Then instead of pinging , u call em with a sleek hunk
Instead staying up all night hoping she returns ur call, u be changing 9ners like a piece of apparel . n don't hv to visit same forest twice if it ain't worth it.
U were created da boss, stop selling short n take d role gallantly !

Made For More

MrKnowitall:
They all look like regular azz niggaz. The only thing they have in common is poverty Abbs.

They all have poverty Abbs due to starvation. Damnn!!! Nigerian girls are thirsty and local

calling these poverty infested niggaz hot. They can't even compete with my local gas station

attendant. Bitchh-azz looking-azz niggaz. That iyanya looks like a midget on steroids.

Lol look at him trying to do fine boy face lol.

Joy83:
You just talked like a complete novice in life matters and a SLAVE of Life through sex thinking it is a huge opportunity to have sex. For the fact that there is moral decadence in the society doesn't mean morality is bad or as a result of lack of opportunity . Having sex with a woman is one of the cheapest things and readily available things we have in our environment today, due to the kind of unashamed ladies and peer pressure that pervade our environment.
Our ladies of today will even cajole men, even married men to have sex with them due to their poor mentality.
If a man want to have sex with 3 ladies in a day, it is quite possible, because it is very cheap and almost free commodity. But it takes only a great and self control man to stay without sex till marriage due to enormous temptation these so called today's ladies put men.
Personally, I have passed through university and other organization in a very active capacity where I had many encounter with females that admired me and even tempted me to have sex with them, yet I overcame such challenges without having sex and still remain undefiled. Will you call my virginity LACK OF OPPORTUNITY
I implore you, do not term your non-virginity as an achievement, while saying Virginity is lack of opportunity.

I can't imagine the kind of youth that Nigeria has which will take over leadership position tomorrow if people like you are allowed to advice more younger people on moral decadence, telling people virginity is a lack of opportunity.

For the fact that majority are going through the wrong road doesn't mean a right road doesn't exist somewhere.

GOD BLESS NIGERIA!!!