₦airaland Forum

Hyperchi:
U dry pass sahara

e pain am

Hyperchi:
So what makes the British who exile him King of gods

E pain am

SLAP44:
Yinka, are you saying that Tinubu and osibanjo are going to be used and dumped too?

Yes, both have been dumped already. That is usually the faith of afonjas

Azmanaty:
Educated illiterate

e pain am

moscobabs:
Oba Ovonramweh Nogbaisi was dethroned in 1897

Dasuki Sultan of Sokoto was dethroned in 1995

No. He fought the British. Mo one replaced him on while in Calabar. The throne was empty till he died. The throne was taken by his son after he died. The oba of Bini are usually not human, they are gods.

nero2face:
those days we respect the palace of the Emir of Kano, today it's a mere political office giving answers to office of the Governor.

...and for the dethroned, disgraced and banished FORMER EMIR SANUSI, today is one of my happiest day for karma finally revisited him, and for those other few yet to taste from their own grape, its just a matter of time...GEJ is now happier and more respected than all of you.

Waiting for AMAECHI TO BE SERVED. HE IS THE LAST OF THE BETRAYERS THAT KARMA HAS NOT VISITED

manGODDED:
what are you yapping about He won the league back to back and has the record of highest point ever in an epl league season, 2 carabao cups 2 community shields and one fa cup and you claim he hasn't survived in epl?. What else do you want him to do??

after spending over a billion pounds mtchewee

Witcher:
well well tell that to the Chatham house and the Americans who are ur slave masters. They literally find u people naked while the northerners are fully clothed with our own government. Civilized they handed over Nigeria's leadership to us because leadership is not about University certificate. Look at what GEJ did to Nigeria... We will never allow people who are under the influence to rule US. Is not wise to give leadership to people who drink al-khul or abuse drugs. Nigeria is too complicated and powerful to be ruled by drunkards

hmmm enjoy it while it last. It is not your fault I blame all the stupid southerners for their greediness

Perfecttouchade:
you can contact me on 08153665659 WhatsApp.. thanks

Hello. I tried to reach you now but you are offline. Come online lets chat

Bimpsyyyyy:
07051805606

thank you. But the last time he was online was 12th December

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Shibaraba:
Where will the devil end eventually? Hell. How do you look at a person who is destined for hell? Without hope of salvation. With pity.

Mr garri dey your dey. Don't use me to score cheap points. I made my comments without quoting make yours. I'm entitled to my opinion. So are you. You say all sort of bullshit I read and ignore. Because it's what's expected of an odd toed ungulate. You can do likewise and stop behaving like a microcephalic baboon.
Have a nice day

okooooh

game over

References:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/02/anxiety-in-edo-over-coronavirus-detection-as-screening-begins-at-benin-airport/

Such a fool

delugajackson:
Keep decieving yourself.

did you not catch the sarcasm in the last sentence?

The supreme court should be ashamed of themselves if this judgement stands with all these damning evidences

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abdulaz:
I have been on Windows 10 for almost a month now and I have enjoyed a great bit of it, new update came recently and after updating, some features that were present in Windows 7 but absent in 8 and 8.1 came back to 10, and such feature is the sleep mode which I usually use as power bank to charge my phone.
Thanks for the insight on update setting and Cortana search location.

please is there any to download free windows 7 or 10 please

Mzflexydeeva:
Over the weekend I had the privilege to attend a couple’s wedding anniversary. It was over 40 years of marriage. While the couple and kids danced and had merry I kept an observant eye trying to figure out within me how 2 strangers managed to live that long together looking all happy and equally having their kids all around them looking like this one big family.

Then something happened. This in itself helped me conclude that indeed for a marriage to be successful a woman had 99% of the hard work to do and this is also guiding my conclusion in this write up.

It was time for dance, dance, dance and lots of people came out to spray the couple just to appreciate them. Since I was close to the family, I was part of the money picking committee. In fact I was the coordinator. At the end of it all I counted the total money realized and was about to hand over to the daughter of the celebrant when she whispered.

“Who do I hand over the money to? My mum or my dad”?

I quickly answered your mum of course. The men don’t know how to manage money more so women are better at financial matters. She laughed and looked at me saying “I would have given my mum but I know she will give it to my dad who may just keep it all to himself so I have decided to share it into 2 half and give them both their share. I was amazed at such wisdom as I walked away to my seat thinking how fair that decision their daughter had made was. Later that day I called my friend to congratulate her again and praise her for being so wise but to my surprise she had something else to say.

Just as I finished praising her she said, I did as I thought was just for my parents but to my greatest surprise as I handed over the money to my mum and explained to her she rejected it. I heard myself shout “what” over the phone. Just then my friend said, my mum refused half the money and asked me to hand everything over to my dad at this point my voice could be heard by others around me. See me see wahala, what’s my own? Na me get money?

Then my friend continued, my mum said she wasn’t going to be a part if that sharing. Give it to your dad she said, what ever he gives me I would take and if he gives me nothing so be it. He is my husband after all. On hearing this I told my girl I would call her back as I need to check on somethings.

This really got me thinking... what is happening to marriages today?

Now I am summarizing some of the things destroying our marriages inspired by the woman in this encounter.

Love is not enough to take that life decision called marriage. Marriage should be a decision carefully thought out. Not something rushed into out of peer pressure or social intimidation. Not a decision made by friends or family but one for which one has carefully sat down to weigh the cons and pros. Having said that, it is still scary to see the level of broken homes arising each day.
Divorce is not a solution to marital problems but in itself can cause more harm than good. Although I am not a fan of divorce but when sanity and safety is at stake I fully Stan.

1. Finance: most times the issues caused by finances in a home is out of greed, social validation and peer pressure. A woman should understand her husband’s financial capability and live within such. Do not be tempted to live like your mates are living resulting in unhealthy pressure of your spouse. Men should be hard working and proactive. Do not be the type that believes I own my wife and all she owns. The easiest way to loose a woman’s respect is to misuse her finances.

2. Patience: This is by far the life one of marriages. Patience from either man or woman. Patience is what will keep you when she is nagging, what will keep you when he starts keeping late nights

3. Understanding: To be able to live together,there has to be a certain level of understanding of which once the understanding is compromised the marriage can as well be over.

4. Love: what exactly is Ione? Love isn’t what keeps 2 people together. Love is what brings them together

5. Forgiveness: once you have the spirit of forgiveness,your marriage is bound to sail with less friction. Forgiveness is so important in marriage that if partners can’t forgive each other they can not be cohabiting. Infidelity, disrespect,lack of control and all what may become irrelevant once the spirit of forgiveness visits you.

6. Interpersonal relationships : this involves the level of friendship. Once you consider your partner a friend you will never feel cheated rather you will see you both as equals not also neglecting the place of each one.

7. Sensitivity to the feelings of your partner: the ability to tell what your partner is feeling is a special gift. A gift that allows you to leave in harmony with everyone. The feelings of your partner should never be taken for granted. Women like it when you can tell at every point how emotionally stable they are. Men love to be seen and treated like babies. Do it and when it’s time to be happy, your home will know no bounds for love and happiness.

Let’s help save marriages and teach people to remain married unless in cases of domestic violence by either party.

All these are stories. The only way a marriage works is when both parties are ready to make it work. When one party does not care, that is game over. One party may even capitalize on the resolve if the second party to make the marriage work. He/She may just continue misbehaving because they understand that the other party is dying to make the marriage the work.

Sokosuji:
Ugly creatures...







I found an unfortunate one with a broken spine,judging from its crooked movement (must have wrestled a cat or sth)..



Happily,I heaved a 2by 2 and let it drop on its ugly triangular head

During Jonathan's time, they fought him to a standstill for this money

AfroBeatDiary:
Amen. Thanks so much, I really appreciate.

Hod bless man, never give up

WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

Don't get me wrong. Imagine the father of the boy is somewhere focused and making money, you are busy with his child who is disturbing your sanity and your business which needs a quiet environment. Tomorrow your wife's ex becomes mega richer than you, I am sure your wife will be the one to first be making you feel lazy. Moreover, the boy will pack his load and go to his father. Women should stop being superwomen, children will ever go and look for their father

ludd2018:
Good . I 'll travel from Australia to Washington with my family. It is going to be an explosive .Washington 'll.be shot down

you mean shut down

Jceeee:
Hello everybody , I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short. I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job , my parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed , I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her , I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well , I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people , finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too. Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen , I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you , please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do

lies

RisenPhoenix:
Ad hominem attacks are the weapon of the despairing. Surely it does not become one who holds that he is cloaked in scientific garb.

I will be charitable and assume that this is your unique way of bidding me goodnight. I wish you an equally peaceful night's sleep.

This is the epitome of maturity. You write good English. You behave with decorum. I greet you

0m0nnakoda:
How much is your weekly cannabis budget?

I think you are the one that neeed the claro

Okooooh

Tocheagle:
I still support Donald Trump and the Republican party . All of this is nothing but election strategy. Remember lots of Nigerians host fund raising events for democratic party. But Nigerians should note that : Obama's Democrats is the reason why boko haram expanded in Nigeria. Democrats are toxic to Africans but most blacks have been brainwashed into loving the dems. Don't let CNN sing sweet songs to you. They work for the evil democrats

I wish only 30% of Nigerians can see things this way. We as Nigerians are just silly people. They left Obama and keeps blaming trump

As in PhD in what.

Racoon:
What a senseless, callous and grossly irresponsible statement by a dullard Nigeria have as a president.Guess these are the same bandits Buhari said he is surprised @ their atrocities?

Was bandits supposed to be allowed to operate in the first place if not for your support, clueless-ness, incompetency & ineptitude?

you are fool to say you are sorry. Buhari is a fool full stop