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KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Teach him the hard lesson that you can't always get what you want in life.

When next he comes, tell him there's nothing on ground.

Richy4:

K, Biko abort the vawulence... I repeat stand down.. abort the mission

Baba just dey hyperventilate over nothing.

They both honestly owe the dude an apology.

But if it was your so called wife that needed help, I'm sure she would happily get the guy's number and knock at his door at ungodly hour and you wouldn't see anything wrong with that.

The worse he could have done would be to ask her out and she'll tell him no. I don't think there's a crime in that. He haven't even done that sef.

Do you know how funny it is that I wanted to talk to my neighbor and the next is I'm getting a call from her fiancé that I have never met, I would have shouted fantastic 10x because wtf is that? You even challenged him on the phone?

If we find out, your girl fit no reach girls wey him dey date.

ikeno:
Before I even start dishing out advice,how old are you🤔

That's the question.

You are a political illiterate if you think Tinubu is not in this race.

Even when Buhari won Goodluck, Goodluck still had a lot of votes. Same goes for Atiku in 2019.

Tinubu is still very much in in this election. He is going to get a lot of votes too. Forget all the balablu.

This one enter.

One million followers is an investment. I'd go for that.

Otilo. If you return the money, it won't get past the accountant.

Persephone1:
You don't accuse me of seeing this topic as an attack on women when it really is and even more. If a female had created a thread where the scenario is reversed and still goes on to blame the victim, I believe you won't be this calm. I have read threads where women are blamed for everything. And here is just the digital representation of what is going on offline. Women are blamed for their decisions, indecisions, actions and inactions.
If the judges are saint with no flaws it would have been better but men are not flawless.

So because women have no time like you claimed, they should be blame for men's undoings and shouldn't be given breathing space? They are not allowed to make mistakes? Are they perfect? Please this is not a Woman/Men thing for me don't make it so. My point is Op shouldn't have been myopic with his observation and even generalized what is not!

Make everybody raise standard make we come see who go cry more on Nl nah

No problem brotherly. We go dey alright last last.

One love! ❤️

Persephone1:
Oh really? Now you categorizing the standard? So this one is first hand broke guy or second hand? You really do not have a point here. Her crime is chosing to be with someone she has feelings for?

I find it very sad that you can neglect a never do well who can't provide, protect and direct for his family and still causes trouble but you clearly see a poor lady who is a victim of her feelings as the only one with issues. Do you hold same standard for men who choose boobs and bum over good virtues in women when their marriages go down the drain?

You are really not being fair right now!

Why do you have this us against them mindset?

Men and women suffer from terrible choices, but women have a lot to lose and they don't have the luxury of time men do, so they have to be smart with their partner choices.

A man can decide to not do his duties, even abscond or start a new life at 45, women can't.

It's just like with career, a woman can decide to stick to a low paying job for life, infact, a lot of women do and they are still considered successful but a man is never successful until he does something great with his life.

thesicilian:
Are the women themselves different from deadbeats? Birds of a feather flock together

Exactly! Some women are exactly like the deadbeats and irresponsible guys they follow.

There are women who till tomorrow will tell you, if a man doesn't beat a girl, he does not love her.

2. With a very wide gap. A boy and a girl.

Richy4:
I also hope that he wins man..But K, think about it.. he can't do it by himself...

If he wins for example, all the corrupt legislators that are present in this Buhari's administration and are probably looking to retain their positions, are they going to round them up and cast them into the lake of fire?

They will still be there... In the civil service, all the bad workers, all the corrupt commissioners in this present administration, are they going to go with Buhari's administration if Peter happens to win? Won't they still be there?

Honestly, corrupt practices have eaten deep into Nigerian system... He ( Peter) can't be everywhere even if he wins... Many present senators that have never said or done anything good in Nigeria apart from their selfish interest will still be there.. Can u now see my fear buddy?

It's going to be hard but he can at least do better than Buhari. Way better!

I personally believe Ministers are the back bone of the country, if he can choose his ministers carefully and not use it as a reward for stewardship. It will go a long way.

Also, if there are clear terms on ground where a minister risks getting sacked for underperforming or a senator getting impeached for embezzlement. Infact, all he need do is make one or two examples and the rest will fall in line.

The president still wields a lot of power, as long as he won't be a passive president who just yes and sign anything brought to his table, the nation will do better, at least, I dare say, way better than its doing presently.


Let's just see as the reality will unfold.

Happy for you man! I thought people said getting American visa is near impossible and you left the country 2 months ago.

What do they mean by him meeting his waterloo? That's cold.

Even though he's trans, that should never be used to describe his death.

Richy4:
many of us like Peter Obi.. but this response is just like a lady meeting the would be mother-in-law for the first... All of una know how it goes now and the aftermath when she's eventually in
I really wish him the best of luck though

I am really hoping PO will not disappoint. He is like the last life line for good governance in Nigeria.


If he should emerge and fail to deliver for whatever reasons, a lot of young adults will lose interest in politics for life.

77star:
this got me laughing

You sef reason am.

I have billions in my account.
I have at least a company making me steady money.
I can employ people to do the littlest tasks.
I answer to no one.

Why the heck would I be waking up by 4 am on a daily?

That's a fact lie.

Billionaires wake up whenever they want.

Binancian:
Did yahoo boys also increase dollar and fuel prices. Or we wan leave government go dey blame some random guys. You don hear price of apts in new York and the rise in the last few years?

Are you minding them.

The economy is ravaging all sectors and they are blaming yahoo boys. How much does fraud contribute to the economy.

Is fraud the reason atm do not have cash anymore? Abegi!

Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. Or something like that.

Richy4:
Is he still there? U can take him back biko... Because we the fans can feel his impact... His contributions week in week out is making us shade tears of joy everytime
Even in this game that he is there , can't you see that we are winning?

The boy is really unlucky that united never took his transfer seriously.

He is good but the current Liverpool losing trend is having a toll on his form. I really pity him.

Oluwadare316:
Goodluck bro, that is life. Hate or not will never make any difference to liverpool misery 🤣ManU is not destined to have him seriously. How many goals has he scored for us. These our current team will even struggle in championship.

You people are wasting that boys talent. He is really unlucky to have signed for Liverpool at this time. He is really good and I like him.

Oluwadare316:
Eth doesn't wanted him or the club did not back him. I don't understand why it looks like stealing. ManU is performing well and they have options. Gakpo was interested in manU even before the world cup.

As far as I'm concerned, Liverpool stole him and I hate them for it.

Richy4:

You are starting Abi?

I can't forgive Liverpool for stealing Gakpo. I am just getting started.

Richy4:
One of the worst season to be a Liverpool fan..
We dey no shaking

I'm sending e hugs.

Jovialjune1:
No where have I seen anyone blame doctors for IVF failure, instead they say "God knows best" or "it's for a reason". If people choose not to acknowledge doctors it doesn't affect anyone, people also acknowledge God in normal delivery and C.S without mentioning doctors, what makes that of IVF different?

You think Nigeria is so special that tragedies like that can't happen? Your question should be, can people die in that door or not?

You know what? Have a nice day.

Jovialjune1:
Get enlightened or go watch YouTube videos and see stories like the Op, it is possible for him to be locked permanently, suffocate and die

And yes, IVF fails, it has failed countless times, the ability of micro organisms to form another living breathing human cannot be explained by scientists, you think egg and semen has a mind of its own to form only humans? even researchers, all they've successfully proven are assumptions and permutations, never 100% facts, so yes, a supernatural spiritual being made it possible, ours is God, so we choose to credit and honor him, and it doesn't affect your existence.

You are an ungrateful person.

You easily blame doctors for IVF failure but can't acknowledge them when it succeed. I am not even saying you shouldn't glorify God but at least, acknowledge your doctors just like we do in project acknowledgement.

You even call the sex gametes mico-organisms. You honestly have no idea how the process works.

Quick question, how many people have died in that door in Nigeria?

Says people who brag about dating married men.

Gmajor:
I'm almost done watching first?

Why do you feel the need to drop spoilers?

The movie also isn't feminist in any way.

dulux07:
Murder. That gun was planted in her hands. If it was suicide, the gun would have fallen off her hands or the grip won't be that firm.

Best answer.

If you like be forming James Bond because you have PVC. It is only those that died during #endsars that can tell the story.