₦airaland Forum

ChybuzzDD:
Finally when it seems like live was also leaving me the door suddenly open half way behind m.....the way i pushed the door and jump out wasn't funny. I just bless God for today.

You use this phrase "the door suddenly opened" just to make it look like a miracle.

What happens to the concerted efforts of the security men, who left everything else they were doing to make sure the door opened

We shouldn't let religion kill us; we need to start giving credit to whoever it's due.

May those security guys who saved you live long and get rewards for their hard work.

Same way they don't credit doctors when they do IVF. Was he expecting that he would get locked in the door permanently?

Post the pastor phone number and the church address. Let's teach him a lesson.

Klass99:
Honestly, I mean no offence but you and your wife are annoying! Sending money to your folks shouldn't be a bone of contention, where one or both of you start lying or hiding to send money home.

I feel like slapping two of them, so annoying people.

I wonder why you people make life difficult for yourselves intentionally.

Why would you both agree to tell each other about when you send money to your parents.

That's some bullshits. So long you are doing your duties to her and you send to your in-laws sometimes too, you will do no wrong by not telling her how much you send to your family or know how much she sends to hers.

Marriage go just easy finish but una go dey find ways to make am hard.

Even though the igbos get their own for body too. This is rubbish. Nonsense.



Sometimes I pity the igbos too. Imagine some of these people were born in Lagos. Schooled and marry in Lagos. Some of them have not been to their villages in the past 5 years. Some don't understand that igbo but speak Yoruba with Yoruba accent. Lagos even feels more homely than anywhere to them but every time, they get reminded that they are not Yoruba because their mother did not have them for a Yoruba man.

Why is it that it's only women that have destiny helpers and these helpers are always men.

Didn't you think he would eventually ask for that? You just want to keep getting help for free? Were you born yesterday?

Ayra Star is 20?

We have heard. So what should women do so we won't forget them?

I think you guys should just move on and try to live a good life. That's what really matters.

We've been scammed by religion but if care isn't taken, a Christian or Muslim will enjoy life better than you a non-theist.

Quit crying over spilt milk.


To answer your question. It's the fact that people get sent to eternity of flame and fire for committing a sin in less than 100 years.

Funny thing is, the sin could be as small as stealing meat from your own mother's pot of soup.

You people are that rich guy that's getting all the chicks.

I have one villa mate like that in school. This girl can talk for 3 hours non stop and she'll be the only one talking.

I'm not even making this shit up or exaggerating.

Go and collect work in a radio station.

Thunder fire them!

DonOG:
Bro I handled it the way I did with her best interest at heart, if you read it well I mentioned that my guys reported it to the security department that night. It was the same security guys the guy was bragging about in the recording that they were begging him to forgive her. How are you certain that the CSO in the school is not his frat member??, It took that guy just few hours to get the location that her mom lives and does her business in another town that he hasnt even been to before

Since the school security is compromised.

I think you did your best.

You didn't handle the matter well.

There is a security/military unit in every school. You should have reported the case there.

Trust me, these guys would have been the one begging by now.

I know this because I was involved in a case like this and the cultists ended up buying for everything they damaged and apologizing.

You cheated that girl by making her apologizing. Honestly!

DearGorgeous:
Go to their different houses and ask them. Or do so through phone calls and WhatsApp messages.

Are you such a slowpoke that you can't make use of your brain? Must I spell out everything for you? Or did I tell you they must be on Nairaland before you could ask them.

Because we're in a faceless forum you prolly think you're talking to a fool like yourself, right? You think it's every woman you would abuse? Since you lack home training, don't worry, I'll teach you some manners.

Who is this idiot?

You must think you have scored some cheap points with your well punctuated and paragraphed nonsense.

You still haven't made any iota of sense because you are a shameless fool.

It's obvious you don't have respect for your family.

So why don't you reach them in an email to tell them about how you have been embarrassing them on Nairaland for some couple of days now?

Let me ask the question that brought out your lack of home training again: how many women that's not your relative have you helped in your life?


Go on, embarrass your family on NL again. I'm waiting.

DropsMic:
Lol.. He still curses and tells unnecessary lies in his stand up sha.

Someone that was talking about having sex with younger generations in one of his recent comedy.

DearGorgeous:
Ask your female relatives the same question.

You do not have sense.

My female relatives are not on Nairaland cursing guys for not helping women.

Raalsalghul:
True!

A lot of women out there have money and connections but they would rather die than give it to another strange woman in need.

Look at our female musicians, they hardly feature themselves, they don't raise female talents.

Yet one idiot have the gut to curse guys who refuse to help women for free.

DearGorgeous:
Ode gidi!
I help people even though I am a woman. I'm not narrow minded like you.

How many women that's not your relative have you helped.

Mumu like you. If women actually help other women, there won't be guys trying to sleep with you people before they assist.

Setting goals in Nigeria is like asking a girl for her body count.

If she says 4, add 10 to it.

You should have added 10 to your 23.

Nigeria will shatter you and your dreams, does not matter the money or influence you have.

It's even worse when you are average and worst when you are poor.

Oracleee:
On the flip side of things, some ladies can be senseless. Let me share my experience with one.



So i met this damsel years back and i lust after her asap. Lust soon unfolded to like bla bla. Aunty didnt give me a boomerang of emotions as a fact, she can go months without checking up herself and days without replying test. With this aunty sabi post all this G-guys, hailing them and all on her statuses. I just allowed the sleeping dog lie. After a while, i saw aunty message, i replied an next thing is Oracle please i need your help are you home. Aunty come start dey cap how she collect loan from her school fees from app, those ones are already threatening her and making her loose it. She needed 57k urgently. I asked aunty if she could not ask those boys she posted, aunty be like they all want something in return. Cut the chase.... I allow God use me heal her pain and next thing, aunty went back to posting rhem odogwu and stopped the messages. I felt like a fool but las las i just did mine for God. Last time she messaged me i blocked her and aunty came crying for help. I just told her to go back to her bobos.



This days shes my side lady and a call away from good sex.

It's not my money but it hurts that you cleared her debt tho.

Glad you don wise up.

DearGorgeous:
Karma awaits you for not helping that girl. She didn't come to beg that you buy her wears or wig. She came pleading for assistance in her education and you boldly turned her down because she refused to sleep with you, thereby truncating her future?

May posterity be fast in judging you! May help be far away from you in times of dire need.
And whosoever that will quote me to utter rubbish, may same fate befall them!

You be idiot.

How many girls have you helped in your life?

Brendaniel:
After finding out the method used for the judgement on the election tribunal that gave victory to Oyetola over Adeleke, I would say it is a recipe for disaster, the method applied was cancelling all the votes of a polling unit because of over voting in that particular polling unit.


The questions I ask are:

1. As it happened that there were over voting in various polling units in the Osun election, what if each opposition connives to perpetrate over voting in polling units in each opposition strong holds?

2. What then is the use for BVAS in over voting if after the BVAS is able to identify the number of over votes only to end up cancelling all votes(valid) and over votes(invalid) ? That is like throwing away a baby with the bath water.

3. If there is an election tribunal like this and a rerun takes place, what if the same over voting keeps occurring over and over, would they keep repeating the election tribunal process and back to rerun again?

In my opinion, the law is just an error or a purposeful scheme to rig an election using what I call reverse voting
Just simply tamper with your opposition strong holds and invalidate their votes, So we might be having a case where a carefully selected and protected minority will determine winners of an election instead of the majority carrying the votes.


Implications:

1. It will make elections become very dirty because politicians will be all about scheming to invalidate votes in opposition strong holds.

2. It will make the voters lose confidence in the electoral process, because a voter will not be sure if his vote will be invalidated or not by someone else scheming with a politician in his/her polling unit.

3. It will make voters wear out easily and may cause voter apathy when you have reruns after stressful elections, thereby reducing voters turn-up in reruns.

4. It may not reflect the true will of the people and also reduce the total number of voter participation, just like the Osun election tribunal, the total number of votes cast for both PDP and APC after the cancellation doesn't reflect the true will of the people to declare Oyetola the winner.

5. Elections will cost more because of Tribunal, reruns and time wasting.

6. It could lead to anarchy and total chaos, like in some volatile states in the north where they riot over political results, just imagine after election and INEC says they have cancelled over 20,000 polling units across the north which were all stronghold of a particular candidate, because of over voting of less than 2000 voters, imagine what will happen in the aftermath of such news.

Solution:

In situations of over voting, Why not just deduct the invalid votes(over votes) and count the rest, the BVAS already identifies the number of over votes(invalid votes), doing so, INEC will avoid a lot of election tribunals, scheming by politicians, reduce cost of doing reruns, make more accurate results, increase voters confidence, reduce time wasting, reflect the true will of the people and avoid anarchy.

If a common Nigeria can think like this, one would expect the judge that passed the judgment to have better thinking.

But then, we know why they gave victory to APC, unless of course we want to deceive ourselves.

This reminded me of how they postponed election by a week in 2015. Another general election is in few days time, I'm expecting another shocker even though nothing dey shock me again.

They should not bring this nonsense rule to other states o.

Imagine trekking to the ATM to withdraw your money.

This country has failed.

To print notes you have crying about for some months now is an issue.

Is it money that CBN and FG does not have to print money again.

Nonsense!

Another lonely UK aunty.

I hope you find solution to your loneliness.

How many people can actually be disciplined?
How long would you lose to become disciplined?

If people get addicted to things like food, soft drinks, prostitutes, prostitution and masturbation that have no serious effect on the finances, then we shouldn't advice them to gamble.

Just one loss can send you to kirikiri.

HardMirror:
yorubas? You mean tinubu supporters? Be warned not all of us like tinubu. Stop generalizing. I hate it.
So afenifere that is supporting obi are also urchins in your dictionary? Must you insult the whole tribe?

It's easier for all ibo to conclude all Yoruba support Tinubu, because almost all ibo support Obi.

The fact that I need to go to the the ward I registered to vote should be abolished.

As long as I am a Nigerian and in Nigeria, I should be able to vote anywhere.

MITCHELL96:
I know and I understand your point.

But when people (Nigerians) don't want to coperate, it gives birth to orders like this.

It's absolutely wrong.

Best way to go about it is to do business with them and then encourage them to get their PVCs and tell them to vote wisely or vote for your candidate.

The best you can do is encourage people to collect their PVCs and vote for, not Obi, Tinubu or Atiku. But the candidate of their choice.


It's why we call it democracy.

Nazgul:
In as much as immorality is wrong, the blame of rapid degeneration of morals in our society shouldn't be on the girl alone, men should be blamed as well.

Sometimes what this girls need is just care, proper guidance and protection, but men who they look up to end up molesting them.

I heard a story about a girl. Her mom who was a single mother, died, so she moved in to stay with her pastor. The said pastor who was supposed to protect her, began having sex with her and at 16 she had already done 3 abortions for him.

The pastor's wife got to know about the affair she was having with her husband after the 3 abortion and threw her out.

Unfortunately, the girl prostitutes for survival. Sadly guys who come across her would call her all sorts of unprintable names forgetting that it was a man like them that changed the course of her life.

I think we should cut men some slacks here.

Why didn't a woman take her in?
Why did the wife of a pastor chase her out?

Women have done worse to women than men have ever done, especially through their inactions and negative actions.