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Mrshape:
Felt bad today when my sss1 students jokingly accused me of being an internet fraudster using teaching and corporate dressing as cover up.
I have to sit them down and school them there are teachers doing very well and show them some evidence that all my money is from teaching.
I don't really blame them some of their elder once might have told them you can only make it big with yahoo.

Have you being falsely accused to be an internet fraudster (yahoo) ?
How did you handle it?

That's the songs my neighbours sing about me all day long till date because none of them really know the nature of my job.
And about heavy handled them?
I just ignore them all.
I owe none of them any explanation.
They have been reporting me to our community chairman who came to know when he was told about the nature of my job by dad. And GOD so good, about two to three of the community executives are into similar work.
So they enlightened him more.

Sixfeetbelle:
Help me understand the psychology behind marrying a good girl but then turning around to cheat on her with a bad girl if they would only remain in relationship after sex with a woman of character?

The dual nature of men in this regard bamboozles me greatly.

The problem is, the same men who have been living a carefree lifestyle would never settle for a bad girl, but rather a good girl but still go back to their previous lifestyle. So the circle continues.

A good man, who marries a good woman has nothing to look out for in other bad/naughty women.

Sixfeetbelle:
Do I look like a good girl who wants to be married to a cheat? Cheating on me with a fellow lady for that matter?

Not all men cheats...
Only those who have been used to the cheating lifestyle does.
Well, I value decency and honesty though…
And there ain't anyway I'll know how you look just by your words…

Sixfeetbelle:
The summary is: Men want a good woman by their side, yes, but they don't want her in their bed. You can debate it all you want but with the number of married men who have side chics nowadays, you know I'm telling the truth.

As a woman, I'd rather be with a man who wants me in his bed in all styles and position than one who wants me just to boost his image. Most ladies will want this too.

Are you for real?

9jaRealist:
It’s made up, that’s why! >

No… You won't understand.

This story….sounds very familiar…. But I can't tell….

godliman:
Only unwise people ignore such warnings. Didn't mailafia say they are planning to start a civil war next year? Danjuma once said that if he reveals what he knows Nigerians won't sleep. may God turn the evil agenda of our enemies on their own head.

Amen.
Truly, only the unwise will ignore such warnings.
Now it's coming too often.
May GOD save us.

A man after sex will dash at a bitch to give him always. Hence they clamour for big ass, big boobs, tiny waist, bleached skin, artificial eye lashes, artificial nails and every other things they need to turn them on, which they'd only love to see on a sex doll, a slut to satisfy their lusts, and not on a wife.

So never let any man/guy/boy/lad/child/pikin out there, who is only after your body deceive you with that I love 'em bitches slang/statement. Because if they succeed in getting you to that realm of fantasy, you're done.

Any serious man would prefer a virgin to a sex expert as a wife. Believe me. All those men/guys/boys/lads/children/lads/pikins who run to you are just eating their possible share off your destiny.

Be wise.
Be a woman with dignity;
Not a bitch.

EzeNri:
Is she the Ooni PA?

Bros… I have no idea, but she is really good about these stuffs. I smell royalty about her/him. I really do smell royalty.

Queenslander:
Please oh, we aren't ready for war!!

Nigeria is already at war.
Mercenaries have already spread across the nation.
Lagos and most Southern States are already under siege.
I just pity the people with the kind of party•defending, people denying leaders elected into offices of government.

edoairways:
They wouldn't pray now but when it becomes a reality, they accuse the seer of been fake. That is more reason why Christians in Nigeria continue to receive persistent attracts.

That is just it coming from you!
They'd never take it serious unless it's coming from the likes of TB Joshua.

Balogunodua:
You kept exposing this Edo miscreants and their lies.....I salut aunty mi.....

Honestly bro, I just wish I could meet her one on one.

TAO11 please come in here. Your attention is needed.

pozehnani:
Men are despicable. Huh!

Point of correction, not all men. Some men are, so don't generalize.

superjab247:
I was in a dream when I saw a vision,whereby Nigeria was thrown into complete chaos,everywhere was burning I saw people in chains and been burnt with iron by masked men,itas a painful and shocking site,as I look further I saw so many people from Nigeria migrating through boats and trekking long kilometres with legs carrying loads on their head and where crying.

I saw 7 bokoharam flag raised in Aso rock villa and one placed on the gates and a man from asorock handed the staff of rulership to the terrorists and a voice said to me this is what must occur in nigeria in the future.

Maiduguri would soon be overrun by bokoharam and Nigeria would experience worsen bandit attacks before and in 2022.

I had similar dream weeks ago.
It was very terrible and horrible as I saw Islamists killing people with sporadic and aimed firings. I saw the nation burning and people running helter skelter, trying to escape to a neighboring country through its land borders.
It was a total chaos.
I didn't bother sharing it here on this platform because I know that most comments will be very much unreasonable because they will not regard it nor take it serious.
I know it is a warning from GOD to us in this country.
GOD bless you for sharing.
We need to start praying against it.

Mermaiid:
Exactly why i want an apartment on the island. Close to water!

Mmm…. I see….

TAO11:
No I don’t know about it brother. I’m so sorry. I may get someone’s number for you who should know. If he doesn’t know he would happy to research it.

Thanks for the compliment.

Alright then.
Thanks in advance.
Waiting for it.

ersonleads:
I had an experience, was about dating a girl, she did not post my picture for my birthday on WhatsApp that day. she posted a guys picture wishing him happy birthday & when we talked later, she said she forgot....lol she nor know say I done delete am from my mind since. The thing wen make me vex na say she con talk say e done late that she will post my pics & wish me a birthday d next day...I just told her never she call my line again.she called & pleaded. uptil now she still dey beg. I nor get time for rubbish oo

As much as I don't mind what women does because I know them much too well, this what you commented just made me reply.
There was this lady which I once happened to meet online. We were cool friends for years and even planned to meet some day but which always happen to fail. Though I can say I love her and she claims to love me too and even says she'll love to be the mother of my children. Well, I kind of believed.

But one thing is, whenever it's some other guys' birthday, she'll post their pictures and wish them. But once it's mine, she'll never wish nor even post. This had been going for some time and one day I asked her why she hardly wish me on my birthday or ever post my picture as she does to others, and the reply I got was that she can't post mine because I'm too handsome and it will generate a lot of reactions and questions from any of her contacts who viewed it.

I was like, what did you say? And she gallantly repeated same sentence. Since then, I know I'm still alone. And I just forget about the relationship stuff.
I know there are still good and serious ladies out there, but I'm not in a hurry despite being pressured to get into one. When it's time, love will find me if I can't find it.

TAO11:
I have discussed this at length in one of my comments on Lagos history while citing the relevant early accounts.

The earliest relevant available sources all point to the fact that the name Èkó is purely of Yoruba origin, from the word Eréko — also called Ìgbèríko.

Eréko is the Yoruba term for a settlement which is used mainly for agriculture, and under the ownership and control of another (neighboring) settlement.

The background to the name Èkó (contraction of Eréko) based on the earliest received traditions of Lagos history is that this has been the island’s name even before it was populated.

The island of Èkó and the adjacent islands (of Ìddó, et al.), as well as all the surrounding lands are — clearly expressed in the traditions — to be the aboriginal asset of the Awori-Yorubas.

While they built town settlements on these lands all the way from Ìṣẹri to Ìddó island and elsewhere; the Awori kingdom of Ọ̀ttọ̀/Ìddó reserved the adjacent island (i.e. Èkó) for agricultural purposes — fishing and pepper farming to be precise.

As such, this adjacent island became an erèko of the Awori kingdom of Ọ̀ttọ̀/Ìddó. The name Èkó (viz. Erèko) therefore resulted from the initial purpose for which this adjacent island was originally set aside.

A certain Awori prince (from Ìddó) by the name Arómirẹ́ is said, in the accounts of Lagos history, to have been responsible for pioneering the usage of this island for agriculture purposes.

One of the several names by which this island is known till date comes from the personal name of this Awori prince (viz. Chief Arómirẹ́) due to his pioneering feat.

Besides the names Ereko and Eko by which this island is remembered till date, it is also still remembered by the name Èkó-Arómirẹ́ (from: Eréko-Arómirẹ́, i.e. Arómirẹ́’s agro-colony).

This island is also sometimes called Eko-Arómisá. The word Arómi-sá (lit: ‘the one who flees on sighting water’) is a wordplay (or pun) on the actual name Arómi-rẹ́ (lit: ‘the one who is in friendly tune with water on sighting it).

The seemingly strange name Korame or Kuramo which is often found in early European accounts of Lagos is not strange at all.

It is no more than the typical early Europeans’ sloppy rendering of the name Èkó-Arómi-rẹ́ — which is an early name of this island.

Lagos island is still alternatively known locally till date as Èkó-Arómi-rẹ́.

Also, the name Eréko also still survives till date on the island. It is well known and unhidden.

In the light of the foregoing accounts of Lagos history, it is only expected that one or more of all these Yoruba names of this island (i.e. “Ereko,” “Eko,” “Eko-Aromi-re,” etc.) would have naturally found its way into the lexicon of the Ijaws, the Binis, etc. — since each of these group had settled on this very island at some later point.

Don’t be bothered or persuaded by the propaganda of the ‘lesser tribes of Nigeria’. Yoruba is their dream and standard. Deep down, they actually want to be nothing but Yoruba.

Cheers!

Cc: googi, AlphaSoul

Your history comments are just tickling me.
Please mention me in any others.
Wanna know more.
Do you know or have any idea of the history of the Magbon Alade people?

Casalindal:
Amen sis thanks. I have moved to a friends place at katampe for now will go back home tomorrow

Is it possible to have a one•on•one talk with your husband?
It's about his health.

But… Mermaids live underwater…
Just thinking loud though…

What I hate most about accusation is generalizing it.
How many nairaland guys/men have been harassing, disturbing, stalking, messaging, poking, calling, mailing you that you just had to combine everyone together with Nairaland Men like everymale here does?

Please edit your header to Some Nairaland Men…. and add whatever else you want to include in the sentence.
I hate generalizing, and condemnation of the innocent with the guilty.
For the fact they some e•goats cannot control themselves does not mean every men here are.
Please edit your header.

What if they were to construct a new building? ₦42Tn?

MightySparrow:
Biafra: their women beautiful, committed, hardworking. Culture, hmmm.

Eerrmm…. I think you should read the question again…

GOD saved me day before yesterday at the office about 07:15 PM it was raining when a lightning struck through and hit on a shelf which was just about 4 feet away from me, breaking off its formica overlay.

I was the only one left.

Lastpharoah33:
Funny enough, you are one of us....introverts!.


This is how I handle my younger brothers. They are coolheaded like me though,buh things can go south atimes....smh

Mmmm…..

I can't deny anything in the quoted because it's all true.
Though, not like I became one overnight, but heat made the crayfish curve.
Been trying to beat it but it's been difficult, hereby making me lose out on so many things.
Read books, none seem to work.
I must admit I need help.
If you know what I can do next.

She made a mistake following wrong advice. Now it's dawned on her. They're already feeling the guilty conscience, but I'll suggest you don't let her go.
Please keep your marriage working.
Don't get too hard on her that she'll start seeking solace in the arms of another man.
You know what to do.
Just try and save your marriage now….

GOFRONT:
Jet wey Bokoharam go soon seize from our Airforce hand...

Lolz!
Chei!!
Bros, you no gun joy o!!!
See wetin you don dey predict for your country military.

I'm having a little difficulty accessing that number 5.
Those of you seeing number 29 and above, how one take do am? Because that number 6 get as e be…. the number 6 and 7 nor free load.