Tired of them already. Not new. Make GOD bless man pikin hustle naim sure pass. If your head is raised, you'd just laugh at these legal thieves knowing you acquired yours with GOD'S blessings and won't stand trial on how you acquired your wealth on judgment day. That's why I believe that Nigeria can never be better nor change nor improve as long as Nigerians keep reinstalling their presidents and leaders from the National Recycle Bin of Ex-Servicemen.
Adebami895: Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please
Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.
I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.
Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.
The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.
I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.
Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.
Deflowering her does not guarantee her waiting for you. I've met over 10 virgins who claims to love me and will wait till we are legally married before we both deflower on our wedding night. But once they get behind that immorality lecture walls called the University, they sleep with as many guys as possible, and still blame me for not doing it first.
If you truly want to marry her as you claim, discuss it with her. If she can wait till you both are through, good. If she can't, fine, take your division, but don't open her up for all flies to perch on and fly away.
EzeNri: Believe whatever you want but the truth remains.
Awori Ijebu Egun Ilaje idumota
ARE NOT YORUBAS.
South West? YES
But Yorubas? NEVER
Now I am convinced you were misinformed. Your list up there is trash. Yes, I mean trash. Who told you Ijebus are not Yoruba? Do you even know the origin of the Ijebus? Even if they adopt a common dialect, Yoruba, do you think they're separated by tribe? If thou say Ijebus are not Yorubas, then what was Oduduwa? Come on….
TAO11: The aboriginal owners of all of Lagos (including its length and its breadth, its islands and its mainlands, its villages and its towns) are the Aworis.
Aworis are one of the over thirty (30) major Yoruba subgroups who admit in their traditional narrative to have sprung from the center of Yoruba civilization — Ile-Ife.
In the embedded video below, Awori monarchs from both Lagos state and Ogun state can be heard affirming this fact very loudly and very clearly.
Furthermore, contrary to the misrepresentation (falsely attributed to Oba Akiolu) by certain quack print-media sources some years back; Oba Akiolu (who is the king of Èkó (i.e. one of the islands in Lagos) declared emphatically in a video (interview with Channels TV) that:
Lagos does not belong to Benin kingdom.
Having said that, an independent and sovereign Yoruba nation is becoming increasingly inevitable as each day goes by. The processes have hit top gear lately. I won’t say much.
Interesting. But I don't understand why Benin is trying to separate itself from Oduduwa, while Sabe and Popo recognizes Oduduwa. It's not the first time I'll be hearing/reading these from them. Do they happen to forget their history/source or what?
EzeNri: [s]According to Colonial records, Igbos were even in Lagos before Yorubas. The records didn't recognize Yorubas as been indigenous to Lagos.[/s]
aloma007: same way I was condemned by my biological mother over things I knew nothing about and she had to take it upon me and openly saying it she doesn't see me succeeding in the future and left me with inner pains and condemning me within all her family and relatives but left with myself and my family alone battling to survive hypertension after having a cardiac surgery in Wolfson hospital in Tel Aviv years back. Only pastors consoled me and only to realize my step brother and sisters are the one fuelling it all with their father. Life on my experience has being though and I hardly have a confidant except my wife. Even my so called Muslim friends have all shamed me because of what my mother told them about me all in the name of gain saying. Some mothers dont deserve honor. I'm battling with hypertension and several other heart ailments for isolation over uncommitted crime caused by emotional destruction. I had to convert to Christianity because I found peace and love within them and get to know Christ better before dieing anytime soon. Life's a mystery. I hope to overcome it if chanced though and if miracle truly exists.
Some people do not know that words are powerful and has an impact on who you're saying it to. I'll just say, be strong bro. We can beat this.
I know if this was built by Ducati, Lamborghini, Bugatti, Ferrari amongst others, people will call it vintage sport car. I wonder when Nigerians will ever begin to support their own innovations…. I wonder when.
Patrioticbreed9: pikin cant fit come after 2 weeks past na? that pikin it is not mine i knew it since! she no grees with me? she talken say na me have it, what i does now am just 27 age old,i dosint has a job as we speak,thanks for ur advances sha, thank you #brodacode
I personally don’t feel safe divulging ‘deep personal sensitive information’ on the internet — except when I must do so.
I can imagine someone (who knows me) connecting all the detailed dots from my comments to specifically pinpoint who I am. I don’t feel comfortable with that. Apologies!
The most I may say is that I have a mixed ancestry of Awori and Ijebu-Remo (among others of course).
Good to know sir.
Coming from Magbon-Alade (in the Ibeju-Lekki area), I would guess you also have the same Awori-Ijebu mixed ancestry as I.
Oh, I was at the Iberekodo some 13 years ago. I love the serene environment. I mostly enjoyed the beach and the fresh fish.
I also visited a neighboring town in the area (can’t recall the name now) where Chief Awolowo was said to have been incarcerated.
I sure do understand. Thinking…. if you know Solu Alade/Magbon Alade, we might be related then! Goodness!! Wow!!!
Do you know or do go to participate in Olowu Day? You must be an elderly or mid to know these things….
Patrioticbreed9: ok guys.. i met a girl on supa market a days pass,she kinda be like a person i knew many years past,so i was like hey i am bernard and she wasnt answer so i explianed my mind,that she looks person i knows years past,she answer no is not me! we talked more and more and i kolekted her nombar i called her many later past! to avoid distorbing her. long story shut! we started friends and she visited me, we wogoro wogoro with out protektion! but i asked her to buy for merecine and drank,and she axcept!.. now she talking that she gotten belle for me how ? she thinks am a simp! belle cant fit show after two weeks na, e no correct! i need help for what to do, i dont get money for me wife and pikin am just 27 age old, please what do i does? am konfused i need advance frow u all.. note:am not a simp! i hate simp! i join u guys alpha male! i followiog redpeal jist like mad so help me please.
You're in love with Fati2001, and luckily for her, you're an expectant father. Congratulations brother. May it be twins or triplets. A boy and a girl or two boys one girl or two girls one boy. Just make sure you don't mistakenly name the child Wogoro due to any circumstance.
You know what? Neither the Simpleton nor Redpill lifestyle makes any senses. All you need in relationship is love your woman, honour and respect her. That doesn't make you any less of a man, it makes you a lovely husband and a great dad.
And once again, congratulations on your bab(y, ies).
TAO11: I am proudly Yoruba, obviously. [No offence to non-Yorubas].
Awori descendants of Lagos (and Ogun) love to fondly remind ourselves that we’re Omo Olofin.
A Brief Historical Note: Oduduwa was the first Olofin of the Ife country; and his base was in the country’s capital city — Ile-Ife.
His earliest descendants established kingdoms at far and near places within and outside the Ife country —e.g. Lagos.
Some of these kingdoms founded by his earliest descendants adopted and have retained the same title — Olofin.
The first and principal kingdom of all Aworis (which is based in Lagos till date) adopted this title and have retained it till date.
The word “Alaafin” is a dialectal variation of the word “Olofin”. They mean exactly one and the same thing.
Some Yoruba kingdoms (in parts of present-day Kogi state) use the dialectal variation “Alaofin” which are all the same.
In sum then, all kingdoms descended from Oduduwa are ruled and inhabited by persons who identify as Omo Olofin.
However, some persons have identified as such more loudly than others. However, the Aworis appear to be the loudest in this specific regard.
Some honorable mentions who have loudly identified as Omo Olofin are, in no particular order, as follows:
The Olofin of Isheri-Olofin (the principal monarch of all Aworis); the Olu-Mushin of Mushin; the Osolo of Isolo; the Elegbe of Egbe; the Oni-Iba of Iba; the Oloto of Oto-Awori; the Oni-Ijanikin of Ijanikin; the Oni-Igbesa of Igbesa; the Oni-Itire of Itire-Awori; the Olubeshe of Ibeshe (Ikorodu); the Elegushi of Ikate; the Olota of Ota; the Ajalaye of Ipetu-Ijesha; the Deji of Akure; and the Ooni of Ife among several other to innumerable for me to recall.
Which of the Olofin is you? Mine is from Magbon Alade/Solu Alade. I'll like to hear/read more from you. I love to know more of the history of our people.
bmdmix1 Queenslander you both are still mad at each other. But all these insults and aspersions will not yield anything good. One can just at least ignore the other and end this once and for all. You guys might be best of paddies later on anyway…. From your comments, you seem to know each other too well….
bmdmix1: well if she stops I will always else am. riding on
But all these over a mobile device manufactured by who ain't even aware you guys are lashing out at each other because of their battery capacity…. It ain't cool bro. The words used ain't in order. Please try. You can stop it.
waleadeagb: You will by the grace of God KAY. Please be strong and keep keeping on and stay hopeful and determined. You will come out eventually fulfilled. Life is a race and we all are participants. Take care my friend and stay strong for tomorrow comes with more energy to face next tomorrow.
Sapeletotheworl: With this kind of positive vibes you will overcome it and be completed happy. I wish you all the best in life. You are very honest and open minded. God bless
bmdmix1 and Queenslander I know you guys can be more considerate, moderate and matured than this…. This shouldn't continue further. And moreso these insults ain't cool.
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