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DeathStroke007:Morality has only a few supporters nowadays. You will be seriously castigated for espousing morality. Real Muslims and Christians would definitely fear for this Jumoke woman. Do you realise the kinds of this these people would be requiring her to do in the coming days. The seductive photo shoots, the sexually provocative catwalk dance. Haba, just becos she is rich now, all is well? So everything is money? What a pity. |
Empiree:Are u sure? Well, I'm flattered. Impressive sense of humour and IT skill. Kudos |
abuaisha360:I thinks its more proper for you to bring an evidence that he refrained from trailing his Izaar after then. The burden of proof should naturally be on you. That said, this issue is much ado about nothing. Not allowing your trousers to fall below the ankles is not a big deal and is not something burdensome. In fact, its the style in vogue now eg like the common pencil trousers and other styles. Im also planning to adapt my wardrobe accordingly. As for doing Nisfu saak with trousers now, I have my reservations but im not condemning it. So pls lets move on. Ankle level is very normal. |
Empiree:. Wallaahi thats also my view. This hadiith of Abubakr throws up some questions. Firsy, why couldnt Abubakr just shorten his Izar. I see from the Hadiith, he purposely came to the prophet to seek an exemption and he was granted. The prophet assured him he was not AMONG THOSE DOING IT OUT OF PRIDE. Could it be that not everybody doing 'Isbaal' is doing it out of pride? Also 'Izaar' that is mentioned in those Ahadiith is a wrapper and not like the present day trousers. I believe both trousers and 'izaar' existed then because I came across and hadiith of ibn Abbaass where he said anybody that cant find an 'izaar' should pray in a trousers. Why was the holy prophet mentioning izaar? Or did he also mention trousers? Perhaps because of the trailing nature of 'Izaar' if its too long. That's clearly wasteful and full of pride. Maybe that's what the holy prophet was warning against and exonerating Abubakr from and not as we understand it today. Wallaahu a'lam. My view anyway. |
DeathStroke007:If there is a reason, you tell us and also tell us why that cant apply to any other muslim. |
Rilwayne001: |
The brother can go to her 'abode'. But let him make sure they don't stay in seclusion. I mean the meeting place has to be open. Also I believe it is closer to piety for you to make the meeting brief by going straight to your point ( your proposal). Don't allow her to lead u into temptation through her stalling tactics. Gifts? I think its too early for that. |
Well, hunger results from inability to get what to eat. Maybe because one lacks the financial ability to get food. Hunger can also be wilfully caused. Maybe towards a spiritual goal. My experience with hunger shows that, while naturally feared, it has so many physical and spiritual benefits. |
Saum means fasting while juu'i is hunger. Well, fasting may be described as a spiritual exercise while hunger is a kind of trial from Allaah. |
Bro albaqir, pls refrain from finding faults with our fore bearers. Instead, you should be seeking forgiveness for them, just as is mentioned in suurah Hashr verse 10. Even if it was not a Sahabah, focusing a brother's misdeeds after his death is not good. To what end, I ask bro albaqir. Why not also write about the virtues of Umar(RA) that can also be found in those 'sunni' sources you are citing? |
That's why the prophet(SAW) warned against anger. I checked islamqa.info for the answer and it is that it is permissible, (all other things being equal) for the brother to go back but he has to make expiation (kaffaarah) for his vow. Narrated by Imam Muslim in Hadiith 1650 from Abu Hurayrah that the holy Prophet (SAW) said 'whoever swears an oath and sees something better than it, let him do that which is better and let him offer expiation (kaffaarah) for the oath. The kaffaarah is for him to feed ten needy people or cloth then or free a believing slave. if he can't do these,then he should fast for three days Q5:89 |
Empiree:lol. funny. well, na him bizness be that.. Make the brother just no mind him. in fact should be laughing over it. the man would soon realise his folly |
The Sahabahs are not perfect. Perfection belongs only to Allaah. May Allaah forgive our predecessors for their shortcomings. Running away from the battle field, whilst a great sin, is not something we can use to jest them. Those battles are real testers of men's faith. I doubt we wouldnt have fared worse. So, with due respect sir, there isn't any need for this thread if not malice. |
AlBaqir:If indeed, Uthmaan ran away from all these fronts, then what conclusion are we to make about his personality? That he was a munaafiq, kaafir,faasiq, dhaalim, mukhallif or what? For Allaah sake, it was nothing more than a mistake. Have u imagined hundreds of enemies with brandished swords charging at you on a hot afternoon when you few in number? I doubt u would have waited. I an not challenging the accuracy of your reports, though they still need to be investigated and Siirah scholars expllanatns on them sought, but ur motive is what I question. |
BETATRON:The person that made this comment should fear Allaah. Pls check Suura Hashr, verse 10 to see why I say so. Are you/we better than Uthmaan? Pls repent now so Allaah may not visit you with a chastisement soon. You don't mess with Allaah's friends. |
Crap. |
alabosian:Strange but still a dream anyway. Scholars with direct experience (ma'rifah) have said so many things about dreams and how to identify those dreams from Allaah whereby direct messages are passed. These teachings are beyond what I can delve in here due to time constraints. However, I will humbly submit that if it was a single occurence, I mean the dream, then you should read no meaning to it. Infact I strongly advise you forget it. Have you also checked if the problem is from u? |
and continue praying. |
Pls be very patient. I know u are in a difficult situation, with the associated stigma and pressurizations. I'm not very sure how ur friend arrived about that 'spiritual husband' conclusion but I am very skeptical. What did he then advise you do? Do some funny charity or sacrifice or bodily incisions on ur wife? Pls let us know. But I advise u be very careful treading that path. Brings about so many problems. Instead consult fertility experts, orthodox and herbal. Should also learn a lot from fertility threads nairaland. May Allaah make your feet ( u and ur wife ) firm. Aamiin |
usermane:You have a point there. But pls re-expkain your views about about suuratu ghaafir, verses 11 and 46. That dream analogy you used doesn't sound convincing enough. Are u through with your research? Suuratu ghaafir verse 46 states, using your interpretation "the soul of the disbelievers will be exposes to hell morning and night". This would be no dream. But a reality after death and BEFORE day of resurrection as stated in the latter part if the verse. |
Having read all prior comments, I think there is actually no contradiction. My PERSONAL OPINION, based on all evidences provided are listed thus: 1. We shall all experience 2 deaths. The first is the earthly death and the second is the death in Barzakh. 2. After the earthly death, there is punishment for the body for it sins as described by Hadith's. May Allaah save us from it. There is also good tiedings for those that do good. This will continue till the second death. 3. PEHARPS, the second death is the sleeping or rest before the day of judgement when we shall be woken up by the trumpet. So it will be as if everybody was woken from sleep. Wallaaahu A'laam |
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He should be steadfast in his morning and evening adhkaars. He should be adhkaar concious before all actions. He should consult hisnul Muslim for help. |
Good question. Am also interested in finding out. |
@empiree, I would strongly advise the brother not to start a fire he cant quench. He should just walk away quietly and keep the man at arms length. As for the mans curiousity, that can be tackled by an halal disinformation strategy. I strongly believe the man will live just long enough to regret his actions. |
Empiree:I also know of a similar case. In this case, both father and mother seems not to want their first born, a male to marry. And they have been playing all sorts of antics to that effect. The most annoying thing is how most Islamic preachers(alfas) will readily castigate this brother as not pleasing his parents quoting aayaats and hadiiths on kindness to parents. And not a word on his parents' unkindness. My advise is for the children to put their trust in Allaah and perhaps forget he (their father) exists, except to continue to show him the mandatory kindness Allaah has ordained. If Allaah sees any good in their father, perhaps he would realise his error before he dies. |
AlBaqir:Alhamdulillah. We are all fine.Welcome back. |
AlBaqir:Word. Long time bro albaqir. |
Nothing can be said, with certainty at this point. But she has to be mindful of the Adhkaars and etiquettes of sleeping. Inshaa Allaah, she would be fine. |
Assalaamu alaykum, brother. Just to chip in my thought. From my own experience, I think the solution is just to learn to be patient with your trials. Also, there is a good reason Allaah is doing this to you. This your affliction(s) has its own huge benefit(s) which I believe you know. Then seek comfort in the benefits. Your problem is/was similar to mine because i can see from your write up that you are most concerned about your financial situation and lack of spouse. Lol. And I know you must have done all sort of things to rid urself of these problems like nakalis, perharps iso oru (church night vigil), Sihr etc. I was great helped by reading books of Sheikh AbdulQadir Jilani and Imam Ghazali. These people are scholars that specialize in guiding the heart to its happiness and contentment by putting this worthless duniya in its proper perspective. pls call 08091277083, if you can for further discussion. And pls forget that dream. I also spent years speculating about the source of my problems referring back to incidences in my childhood. Bro, its an endless, futile pursuit. If u see all as Qul kullun min indi llaah (you can understand this I reckon), then you are on a sure road to peace in this life and next. |
? that even seyidinna umar @ the point of death was telling a man doing isbaal to drag up his trousers